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Topic: For Older People with Sense

Forum: Older than 60 Years with Breast Cancer — Meet other women who are similar in age and dealing with age-appropriate issues.

Posted on: Mar 23, 2011 02:03 AM, edited Sep 5, 2012 11:52 PM by chrissyb

chrissyb wrote:

I have decided to start a new topic.  I invite all those who are looking for friendship and support in a place of peace and tranquility to join me.

I found my peace which gave me strength.
Diagnosis: 12/8/2003, IDC, 4cm, Stage IV, Grade 2, 0/12 nodes, mets, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Jun 6, 2012 05:34 AM 3jaysmom wrote:

i can't imagine what sas couldv'e written.. i think there's too much stuff being said in other threads, and they carry over, sometimes...

  searched on you tube all night tonight, so missed the whole hing.. oh well..

   sas, hope you're ok, that's all that atters!

  marybe will be here , this weekend.. and she wants, we have a resteraunt here, that ships those yummy fried clams here, daily (well, they're not fried, till they get here) they come from bourne, right on the cape.. yummy...

  sorry your winters' here, chrissy, but we're broiling here! in the aft.. rains, then hot hot hot...3jays

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Dx DCIS, 2cm, Stage IIb, 1/27 nodes, ER-/PR+, HER2-Chemotherapy 04/21/2009
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Jun 6, 2012 08:41 AM macatacmv wrote:

I saw sas's post. From what I understood. It was inviting women to join a discussion on the web about whether one company should hold the patents for bc gene testing or should it be opened up for  research. I haven't looked to see if it has it's own thread. 

3jays, have fun with marybe. we both know the best clams come from the cape and have bellies. How great to be able to get a taste of "home" down south.

I know one of the reasons I moved north was to enjoy the different seasons. So now that I am getting "older" I am rethinking this reasoning, but having the cold winters helps me to appreciate the warmth of summer. So wherever each of you are in what ever season, enjoy the day!

Nancy 

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Dx 12/8/2011, IDC, <1cm, Stage I, Grade 2, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Jun 6, 2012 08:52 AM Kaara wrote:

Very foggy here in the mountains today!  Yesterday turned out to be beautiful and I was able to get a good start on my herb bed and flower planting.  I love working outdoors in the cooler weather, as the bees don't come around as much.  Late yesterday, we played 9 holes of golf and had dinner at our favorite thai restaurant.  All our little problems we found upon arrival have been solved...broken window...plugged toilet.....leaking hot water heater...overgrown lawn...it only takes labor and $$!  Now I can relax and enjoy!

Kaara
Dx 11/14/2011, IDC, <1cm, Stage I, Grade 1, 0/1 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Jun 7, 2012 11:47 PM macatacmv wrote:

Lots of daisies here, in June. My joyful moment for the day!
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Dx 12/8/2011, IDC, <1cm, Stage I, Grade 2, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Jun 8, 2012 01:50 AM chrissyb wrote:

Nancy they are stunning! I love to see flowers planted en masse. Thanks for the pic!

Well by tonight I will have my new comfy chair ...... Yay!!! DH has gone to the city to pick it up and I can't wait till he gets back so I can plant my behind and lift my legs and just do the Ahhhhhh!

Hope every one is well and enjoying the beginning of summer!


Love n hugs. Chrissy

I found my peace which gave me strength.
Dx 12/8/2003, IDC, 4cm, Stage IV, Grade 2, 0/12 nodes, mets, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Jun 8, 2012 02:06 AM Alyson wrote:

Hi all,

Have been out of range of internet and cell phones.

Do hope everyone is well and having fun. It has been cold and/or wet here since nephew's wedding. Will post pictures when we get home. 

I went around cousin's farm on the back of a quad bike and now am paying for it as I can hardly move today. Must explain it ids a high country run that goes right up to one of our mountain ranges, we got up to 2000ft. (And it was cold) Some people never learn to be sensible.

Must go and think about tea (dinner for you lot) soon, our friends are out tonight at an official function and so we will enjoy a light meal tonight have had far too much to eat the last week.

Big hugs to all 

If you are sent down a stony path God will give you strong shoes
Dx 12/19/2006, IDC, 3cm, Stage IIIc, Grade 2, 23/24 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-Surgery 01/19/2007 Mastectomy (Left); Lymph Node Removal: Axillary Lymph Node Dissection (Left)Chemotherapy 02/23/2007 Cytoxan, Ellence, fluorouracil, TaxolRadiation Therapy 08/10/2007 ExternalHormonal Therapy 08/10/2007 Femara
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Jun 8, 2012 10:44 AM Gingerbrew wrote:

Hi Alyson, I am from the US midwest, my family from the Mid South. In the Midwest we eat Breakfast, Lunch and Dinner, in the Midsouth we ate Breakfast, Dinner and then Supper. How does this compare to your tea?  I went to a tea once in Victoria on Vancouver Island in Canada and found it so filling that  there was no question of needing dinner.

Morning West Coasters. 

Ginger

Dx 5/27/2010, IDC, 2cm, Stage IIb, Grade 3, 1/20 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Jun 8, 2012 11:07 AM chrissyb wrote:

Ginger, down under we call your dinner tea. I know the New Zealanders also call your dinner, tea. That term is used as everyday language but if we are going to dine at a restaurant we call it dinner. I know, confusing but refer to it as you normally would because we use both........lol

I found my peace which gave me strength.
Dx 12/8/2003, IDC, 4cm, Stage IV, Grade 2, 0/12 nodes, mets, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Jun 8, 2012 12:08 PM chabba wrote:

Ginger, I was seven when we moved to WA from North Dakota but I still eat supper, I don't know why since I now eat lunch.  Dinner is for Holidays, company, eating out in a good restaurants etc.

Dx 5/25/2010, IDC, 1cm, Stage I, Grade 3, 0/3 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Jun 8, 2012 12:22 PM Gingerbrew wrote:

My mom and dad always ate supper at night. I adapted growing up in CHicago to my friends customs of B, L & Dinner.   I remember well on my grandma's farm that supper was always waiting under the table cloth from Dinner (Lunch).  I have some of those old table cloths.

 If any of you have old Grandmas sti8ll alive please be sure to sit down and ask them lots and lots of questions about their lives. You will be glad you did. :) 

 Laters Ginger

Dx 5/27/2010, IDC, 2cm, Stage IIb, Grade 3, 1/20 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Jun 8, 2012 12:44 PM FilterLady wrote:

Ginger that's a good suggestion about sitting the older relatives down and ask questions.

Momma had my Mamaw (her Momma) sit down in front of the camcorder years ago (Mamaw died in 1995) and just talk from what the earliest memories she had.   She told us about her childhood (10 brothers and sisters), about her brothers that were killed in the war and about the day they were notified of each of their deaths, etc.  It is priceless and now on a CD for all of us to enjoy and learn.

I did the same with my Momma, she passed away on 12/31/06 so only our 8 year old grandson has a faint memory of her.  But thanks to her great idea, they can get to "know" her!  The 8 year old was surprised to learn that there was no Pizza Hut in the little town where I was born (Magee, MS) and that to get money to spend at the store, we walked around town picking up "coke bottles" and sold them to the store for 2 cents each.  Of course, we got lots of treats for a few cents back then.

We have our 2 oldest grands here today. Davis (8 yrs) and his sister, Alaura (5 yrs) spending today and tonite with us.  We getting ready to have dinner (lunch) and later today we are going to a local waterpark then to see Madagascar 3.  DH and I love those Madagascar movies as much as the kids.  The waterpark is small but big enough for our grands.  We'll be worn out by the time we leave there, lol.

I hope y'all have a great weekend!

Dx 9/16/2011, IDC, <1cm, Stage I, Grade 1, 0/4 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-Surgery 10/05/2011 Lumpectomy (Left); Lymph Node Removal: Sentinel Lymph Node Dissection (Left)Radiation Therapy 11/30/2011 ExternalHormonal Therapy 01/20/2012 Femara
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Jun 8, 2012 09:37 PM QCA wrote:

Ginger, I remember at my grandmother's we had dinner right after church, and the leftovers put on the table under a tablecloth.  I didn't start saying lunch until I was in school, and still say supper.  Unless we're going out, then it's dinner. 

FL, that's such a good idea your mother had.  I wish I'd thought of it long before all our older relatives passed away.  Glad you're having such a good time with your grands.

Anybody ever had a spray tan?  I'm thinking of getting a very light one for DD's wedding, just on these lily-white legs of mine.  All is vanity, you know.  One week from tomorrow, so the countdown's really begun now.

Hugs to you all,

Kathy

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Dx 7/7/2010, ILC, 2cm, Stage II, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Jun 9, 2012 10:12 AM Kaara wrote:

Kathy:  I got a spray tan for my DS's wedding...don't think I'll do it again though.  Make sure you stand very still and don't move or bend anything or the creases will show up white:)  I think it's for younger women who don't have too much sagging skin or wrinkles...lol!  I now use a self tanning cream...one from Victoria's Secret.  It even has a good smell to it, and it works quickly.

Kaara
Dx 11/14/2011, IDC, <1cm, Stage I, Grade 1, 0/1 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Jun 9, 2012 09:44 PM QCA wrote:

Thanks for the info, Kaara.  I suspected spray tans might not be good on, shall we say, "mature" skin!  Think I'll just go with the tanning lotion I've used before and use it post-shower every day until the wedding.  I'd like to try the VS one, but there's not a close enough store.

Made more bows today, then tonight we went to a 40th anniversary party for some friends.  Always good to get a night out with friends!

Hope everyone had a good Saturday, and hugs to all.

Kathy

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Dx 7/7/2010, ILC, 2cm, Stage II, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Jun 10, 2012 12:27 AM Elisimo wrote:

Chrissy - so gladtheclot is gone and you by now have gotten your new Ahhhhhh chair. I have been busy and had too many pages to read tonigh so after this post I am off to bed as tomorrow will be busy at church all day.

I did finally get DH to take me to the beach last Friday and had a very nice relaxing day. And today I have been so busy I did not even get dressed! Guess that makes getting ready for bed quicker.

HUGSTo all. Catch you later, Amy Jo

4 Fs for living with cancer: Faith, Forgiveness, Family, Friends
Dx 7/20/2010, ILC, 5cm, Stage IV, Grade 2, 5/6 nodes, mets, ER+/PR-, HER2-
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Jun 10, 2012 12:42 AM chrissyb wrote:

AJ the chair is still in the van......boohoo!.......it's so heavy that DH can't lift it on his own and our friend from across the road is away for the weekend.  I just have to wait until Tuesday when another friend is coming to see DH so we will be able to finally get it inside!.....yay!!!

Glad you enjoyed your day at the beach!  I'm with you on being in the jamies all day...lol.....I oftren have those relaxing days, particularly when it's cold.

Kathy I have never used those self tanning lotions or spray tans.  My eldest DD has in the past but everytime she had it done, she turned orange!  She finally gave up and now believes, like I do that white is nice.......lol.  Hope the wedding goes well!

Filterlady what a wonderful idea about getting the olds to be recorded.  I wonder if my mother would do that?  I have asked her many times to write down what she knows about the famiy history but so far nada.........she says she forgets......lol.  I think I'll ask her.

Today is a clear cold day, sun is out but there is no warmth to it.  Just as well I have the fire going.......mmmmm

Love n hugs to all!     Chrissy 

I found my peace which gave me strength.
Dx 12/8/2003, IDC, 4cm, Stage IV, Grade 2, 0/12 nodes, mets, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Jun 10, 2012 01:26 AM chabba wrote:

Chrissy, why not do a recording session and make it a  nice afternoon or evening together with you interviewing her?

Dx 5/25/2010, IDC, 1cm, Stage I, Grade 3, 0/3 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Jun 10, 2012 01:41 AM chrissyb wrote:

Chaba that sound like a good idea. I don't even have to get a recorder as I have a voice app on my iPhone! I never thought of that..... Lol.

I found my peace which gave me strength.
Dx 12/8/2003, IDC, 4cm, Stage IV, Grade 2, 0/12 nodes, mets, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Jun 10, 2012 08:40 PM macatacmv wrote:

Hey everyone, 

I'm still not feeling great, but trying to get out and have some joyful moments everyday. I was taking a drive the other day and saw a sign at a restaurant that said "serving supper" that confused me ('re conversation about tea vs dinner above).  Maybe it meant all afternoon they served food. I never know what is going to remind me of you, ladies.

I am turning into one of those drivers that tootles along at 30mph and has a long line of irate drivers behind her in a hurry to get somewhere. LOL Not too long ago I was the one in a big hurry!

Ahhh, chrissy, I had you in the chair with your feet up already.

Kathy, hope you continue to enjoy the excitment leading up to the wedding.  

Kaara, enjoy the view off your deck. 

Hope you all have a good nights rest! 

macatacmv
Dx 12/8/2011, IDC, <1cm, Stage I, Grade 2, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Jun 11, 2012 08:39 AM Kaara wrote:

maca:  No view this morning...foggy and misty...but that in itself is beautiful.  I'm hoping it clears off because I wanted to play golf this afternoon; however, it is showing no signs of doing anything but the slow rain that we had all day yesterday.  Enough already!

We took a drive yesterday out to an area that we love, and drove by a home that I saw online that I would love to buy...can't though because we already have the one we're in and things aren't an easy sell these days.  Oh well....I can dream!

Today I clean house...I hate it, but it must be done.  My BF will help by vacuming the stairs and the lower level.  Once we get started it doesn't take very long...it's just the getting started.  I think of a million excuses to put it off.

Happy Monday everyone! 

Kaara
Dx 11/14/2011, IDC, <1cm, Stage I, Grade 1, 0/1 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Jun 12, 2012 01:48 AM 3jaysmom wrote:

hi ladies, i thought i'd check in.. having a wonderful visit with marybe; at least, from my end..

   i feel bad, cause im sleeping really late in the day; but she's enjoying sitting out on the patio, reading, and getting some rays.. she's gotten a nice little tan going!

 we went to the boarwalk sat night, had dinner, and there was a band.. unfortunately, we can't get the pics to work on my comouter, yet, but im working on t.. i have one or two, so i'll post them.. one is funny: i have such hot flash issues, and she doesn't; so, i got a hat, and a shawl for her to sit up with me, and watch tv.. late at night.

  the weather has cooperated, and except for my time scheduale, its been wonderful!!!!   i'll post pics as i can.. we had her famous stromboli sunday night at the oldest Jays' and the grands put on a dance show for her.. fun!!! more to come..3jays

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Dx DCIS, 2cm, Stage IIb, 1/27 nodes, ER-/PR+, HER2-Chemotherapy 04/21/2009
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Jun 12, 2012 01:50 AM 3jaysmom wrote:

arriving at ft lauderdale..
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Dx DCIS, 2cm, Stage IIb, 1/27 nodes, ER-/PR+, HER2-Chemotherapy 04/21/2009
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Jun 12, 2012 01:51 AM 3jaysmom wrote:

heres marybe freezing at nite..and one more of the stromboli..
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Jun 12, 2012 01:51 AM 3jaysmom wrote:

it was delish!!
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Jun 12, 2012 01:52 AM 3jaysmom wrote:

finley was giving her a "high ten" for the stromboli...3jays
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Jun 12, 2012 08:34 AM Kaara wrote:

3jays:  Looks like you and Marybe are having an awesome time!  That's what it's all about...friendship!  Keep it up.  Grands are adorable!

Kaara
Dx 11/14/2011, IDC, <1cm, Stage I, Grade 1, 0/1 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Jun 12, 2012 09:57 AM Isabella4 wrote:

3jays....you look like you're having a ball...so pleased for you both.

Isabella.

Dx 5/14/2003, IDC, 1cm, Stage I, Grade 1, 0/26 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Jun 12, 2012 10:18 AM chrissyb wrote:

Nancy one foot on front of the other will always propell you forward bet it slow or fast. I prefer slow as then I can really see everything. Hope things get better for you.

3jays and Marybe, sure sounds like you are having fun! Wish I was there with you.

Have been a little quiet but my hands have been very busy........lol. I have almost completed both the back and front of the new sweater I am knitting for DH.
Gosh I wish I was still as strong as I used to be because I would be sitting in my new chair already. Oh well, another couple of days so I'm told and I will have it out of the van and into my lounge....... lol

Love n hugs. Chrissy

I found my peace which gave me strength.
Dx 12/8/2003, IDC, 4cm, Stage IV, Grade 2, 0/12 nodes, mets, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Jun 12, 2012 12:49 PM Gingerbrew wrote:

Marybe, 3Jays, wow you are having a super time there!  Shows put on by the Grands are simply the best!  Sitting up watching late night TV, with a girl friend to kibbitz with, also rates high on my hit parade.   Enjoy! 

Hugs Ginger       

Dx 5/27/2010, IDC, 2cm, Stage IIb, Grade 3, 1/20 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Jun 12, 2012 06:02 PM QCA wrote:

Yay 3jays!  I've been wanting to see pictures and you and Marybe both look great--the good time you're having just shows!  Thanks for posting these.

Kathy

Kathy
Dx 7/7/2010, ILC, 2cm, Stage II, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-

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