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  • Posted on: Nov 4, 2009 01:35 pm
Joined: Nov 2009
Posts: 4
drunkown wrote:
my mam had a breast cancer grade 2 since two years
she was treated by radical mastectomy and postoperative chemotherpy
then we thought that her story with cancer come to its end
10 days ago she feel that she can not move her right leg
we do ct brain and found that there is multiple nodules in the left and right frontal lobe
and diagnosed as cerebral metastases
i just need to know what is the sutible ttt for this case ?
and how far the ttt may success?
and what is the percent of   survival rate to this case ?
please answer my Q becouse i am so worried
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thenewme
Joined: Jan 2009
Posts: 126
Nov 4, 2009 01:39 pm thenewme wrote:

Everything depends so much on individual circumstances!  So sorry your mom is going through this!  What have her doctors said regarding her treatment?  The doctors are your best source of information for her specific diagnosis, treatments, prognosis, etc.  Unfortunately there are no easy answers we can give you for these questions, but we can offer our support!  Best of luck!


Diagnosis: 11/2008, IDC, 5cm, Stage IIb, Grade 3, 0/9 nodes, ER-/PR-, HER2-
drunkown
Joined: Nov 2009
Posts: 4
Nov 5, 2009 05:39 am drunkown wrote:
thx thenewme for reply
the doctors said that her ttt is combination of radiotherpy & corticosteroids
but no one want to tell me how far the ttt will sucess & survival rate for the case
AnneW
Boulder, CO
Joined: Oct 2002
Posts: 3,009
Nov 5, 2009 10:29 am AnneW wrote:

I know it's easy for me to say, but try not to get bogged down in numbers and percentages. Survival time, remission possibility, etc are so subjective. The won't tell you her survival rate because they don't really know. Will knowing change any of what treatment you do or how you support your dear mom? I agree someone should perhaps give you an "estimate", but know that's just an average...I'm so sorry you're going through this. I went through a similar situation with my mom.

Anne

2002 IDC stage 1, grade 1, rads & AI
Diagnosis: 9/18/2007, ILC, <1cm, Stage I, Grade 1, 0/1 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
drunkown
Joined: Nov 2009
Posts: 4
Nov 5, 2009 11:35 am drunkown wrote:
thx anne
the problem is i am getting down & depressed and i have exams next week and i dont study at all
i am so afraid about my mam and just need any thing to relieve her pain and my worry
dreamwriter…
Toronto , ON
Joined: Feb 2008
Posts: 1,587
Nov 5, 2009 12:24 pm dreamwriter wrote:

Perhaps you could get your exams delayed - have you asked.  Tell them the stress you are under. 

You need only continue to love your mam the way you always have done.  Dont change who you are or who she is.  Let her cope too.

I dont understand some of what you are saying.  All I can say is that you take one day at a time and be as strong as you can be.

Laugh until it really IS funny.
Diagnosis: 12/20/2005, 6cm+, Stage IV, Grade 3, 18/18 nodes, mets, ER+/PR+, HER2-
drunkown
Joined: Nov 2009
Posts: 4
Nov 6, 2009 04:23 am drunkown wrote:
thx dreamwriter
yes i just need to be more stronger
i will try
thx all for support

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