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Topic: Middle Aged Memories

Forum: "Middle Age" 40-60(ish) Years with Breast Cancer — Meet others in this age-range who share similar life issues.

Posted on: Nov 9, 2009 06:18 PM

NativeMainer wrote:

Let's see, so far we've reminisced about dittos, drive in theaters, lick-a-stick candy, five-and-dime stores, Donny Osmond, Dark Shadows, what have I missed? 

dx 3/07, Stage 2, Grade 2 IDC, 2.8cm, ER+PR+, Her2(-), SN-, lumpectomy & rads, mastectomy 8/15/08
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Jul 28, 2011 07:29 PM dutchgirl6 wrote:

Even to this day, just the mention of the term pixie cut makes me shiver.  My mother also MADE me get this style for years, she said it was because it suited my "small face" but I believe that since I was the youngest of six, she was just tired of looking after hair!  The thing that I hated the most was the razor, which alway seemed to be dull because the hairdresser tugged so hard!  I also hated having my neck shaved.  I have a very low hairline in the back that I attribute to having had that area shaved so often.  I toyed with the idea of a Dorothy Hamill when I was in high school, but I was going through my "I'm keeping my hair long just to spite my mother" stage.  Aren't teenagers wonderful?

Diagnosis: 12/18/2009, IDC, 2cm, Stage IIb, Grade 2, 2/23 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Jul 28, 2011 08:21 PM NativeMainer wrote:

I, too, HAD to have a Pixie cut for years and years and years, until I could pay for my own haircuts.  So, as a teen I grew my hair long and to this day it is never shorter than waist length, usually hip length or longer.  And yes, that was one element in my choice to "refuse" chemo.  The fact that the research shows chemo generally isn't helpful for early stage bc doesn't seem to stop the docs from "recommending" ("ordering" would be a better term) it. 

dx 3/07, Stage 2, Grade 2 IDC, 2.8cm, ER+PR+, Her2(-), SN-, lumpectomy & rads, mastectomy 8/15/08, right prophy mast and bilateral DIEP recon 6/21/10
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Jul 30, 2011 10:37 AM Meece wrote:

My mother made me have a pixie from about 3 to 5.  Must have been the same thing about being able to take care of my own hair.

In eighth grade my mother felt my hair was too heavy and was giving me the bad headaches I was having, so she took me to the highest priced salon in town (I am sure it was to bribe me to go through with it) and the stylist cut my waistlength hait into a Toni Tenille!  Yuck!  I hated it.


Diagnosis: 11/27/2003, IDC, 1cm, Stage I, Grade 3, 0/16 nodes, ER-/PR-, HER2-
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Jul 30, 2011 01:04 PM Stanzie wrote:

Oh NM - very cool you have long hair!!!! Oh, I did NOT know that about early stage and chemo!!! Wow! That is kind of huge isn't it.....


Diagnosis: 2/1/2010, DCIS, <1cm, Grade 3, 0/1 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Jul 30, 2011 07:39 PM BernieEllen wrote:

Hi stanzie, i loved the peter tork  think.  You are welcome to my place in ireland anytime.  I live rural. Very rural. Six miles for a pint of milk. 15 miles to town.  you can scream and no one will hear.  Love it.  You all talk about things i have never heard of - makes me laugh.

 I used to love Roy Rodgers

BernieEllen
Diagnosis: 2/16/2011, IDC, 3cm, Stage I, Grade 3, 0/3 nodes, ER-/PR-, HER2-
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Aug 6, 2011 04:20 PM, edited Aug 6, 2011 04:21 PM by elimar

I used to love Honey West.  She had a pet ocelot.

                                             


Diagnosis: 6/24/2009, IDC, <1cm, Stage I, Grade 2, 0/2 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Aug 15, 2011 11:38 AM elimar wrote:

I'm sure some of us are old enough to not only remember, but actually have gotten, the vaccination for Smallpox.  Girls got theirs slightly higher up on the arm so it would be covered if you wore a short sleeve shirt.  All the kids in my class had the scar on their arm.

The widescale vaccination was discontinued in 1972.


Diagnosis: 6/24/2009, IDC, <1cm, Stage I, Grade 2, 0/2 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Aug 15, 2011 12:01 PM NativeMainer wrote:

I remember, and still have the scar, but I have to look for it to find it now. 

dx 3/07, Stage 2, Grade 2 IDC, 2.8cm, ER+PR+, Her2(-), SN-, lumpectomy & rads, mastectomy 8/15/08, right prophy mast and bilateral DIEP recon 6/21/10
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Aug 15, 2011 12:52 PM dutchgirl6 wrote:

I have a giant scar, it's over one inch in diameter.  When I was a teenager, I was embarrassed to wear sleeveless tops because of it.  I'm over that now.


Diagnosis: 12/18/2009, IDC, 2cm, Stage IIb, Grade 2, 2/23 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Aug 25, 2011 02:36 PM Meece wrote:

Yep, I have the scar and it was the topic of discussion a couple weeks ago.  DS came back from overseas and showed me his.  It is manditory to have if you serve overseas, or so he said.  DH, DS and I all compared the scars.  I noticed mine a lot more when I was young, but never gave it a thought.


Diagnosis: 11/27/2003, IDC, 1cm, Stage I, Grade 3, 0/16 nodes, ER-/PR-, HER2-
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Sep 1, 2011 10:31 AM elimar wrote:

In grade school, we always said The Pledge Of Allegiance first thing each morning.  I can't remember exactly when we stopped.  I don't know if it was when we got to a certain grade, or if they stopped having it in public schools all over at the time. 


Diagnosis: 6/24/2009, IDC, <1cm, Stage I, Grade 2, 0/2 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Sep 2, 2011 08:32 AM NativeMainer wrote:

I remember saying the Pledge every school day, too.  I don't remember if we did it in High School or not, though. 

dx 3/07, Stage 2, Grade 2 IDC, 2.8cm, ER+PR+, Her2(-), SN-, lumpectomy & rads, mastectomy 8/15/08, right prophy mast and bilateral DIEP recon 6/21/10
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Sep 2, 2011 08:42 AM Meece wrote:

We had an intercom system in high school and the pledge was lead from the main office every day.  In grades K-4, maybe through 6, we also sang one patriotic song after the pledge.  Pledge, song, roll call and lunch money collection, first thing EVERY day.  Then we got to do "sharing" aka show and tell.


Diagnosis: 11/27/2003, IDC, 1cm, Stage I, Grade 3, 0/16 nodes, ER-/PR-, HER2-
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Sep 2, 2011 11:20 AM elimar wrote:

Also in the grade school years, if we went to a friends house to play, we didn't ring the doorbell.  Instead, we went to their porch or door and "called them out" by name.  I look back and find it totally charming now.  Somehow, this practice did not carry on to the generation after us.


Diagnosis: 6/24/2009, IDC, <1cm, Stage I, Grade 2, 0/2 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Sep 5, 2011 11:33 AM Meece wrote:

I was shopping in the fashion district on Saturday and saw that they were selling "clackers" all over the place.

I remember the calling out of your friends.  And waiting for everyone to come out after dinner...  We always ate dinner at 6:00 and when the dishes were done, we had at least an hour to play hide and seek, mother may I, red light green light or other games.


Diagnosis: 11/27/2003, IDC, 1cm, Stage I, Grade 3, 0/16 nodes, ER-/PR-, HER2-
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Sep 5, 2011 11:54 AM Stanzie wrote:

Bernie ellen- how interesting you have not heard of so many of these things... but then I'm sure we wouldn't have heard of many of your childhood toys. I do one day so want to go back to Ireland - it is one of my favorite places on earth and everyone was so nice - just a lovely country.

I didn't grow up in a neighborhood with a lot of kids which I missed that kind of interaction. I had hoped it would work for my kids but even though there are children around - somehow the ages and personalities don't mix. I love hearing stories like that though. 

We had one family across a busy street who had kids (well they were raising the kids- their parents were killed in the Orley Plane Crash) anyway, there was a big field and we would meet them there and make up stories and play. Besides the big field there was a fish pond, tennis courts and then along closer to the beautiful old home( which was torn down - termites) which was build early 1900 it had an old swimming pool and statures and there was an overgrown shrubbery maze with a stature in the center. The couple who lived in the home were elderly and had let things fall into disrepair but they were always so sweet to us as Trick or Treaters on Halloween. I wish I had taken pictures but I was pretty young and never thought about it.... maybe the pictures in my mind are more magical than reality.


Diagnosis: 2/1/2010, DCIS, <1cm, Grade 3, 0/1 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Sep 16, 2011 10:17 AM elimar wrote:

This thread is sort of languishing lately, sorry to see that.

Well, today I'm thinking of the Soap Opera that I began watching during the summers home from college, and continued to keep up with until about 10 years ago.  I heard the network is doing away with it next week, so I have to give a shout out to...

                                          

If anyone else was a fan, I loved the character Brooke, and the Tad character too.  Also, way back when they had the romance of Cliff & Nina.  


Diagnosis: 6/24/2009, IDC, <1cm, Stage I, Grade 2, 0/2 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Sep 18, 2011 06:16 AM Stanzie wrote:

elimar- I loved this show. I remember one summer when traveling with my Mom and sister we planned the whole trip so we were near a tv for this show - LOL! I hadn't seen it in years but heard Carol Burnette was going back on as a tribute - it was a couple of weeks ago I think. Anyway, I could still keep up! Very sad it is being cancelled. At least Erika finally won her emmy a few years back. But loved Tad when he was younger and funny!

Don't want this thread to disappear either!


Diagnosis: 2/1/2010, DCIS, <1cm, Grade 3, 0/1 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Sep 18, 2011 04:54 PM dutchgirl6 wrote:

I watched this show for a while during the Tad and Dixie romance days, I thought that she was one of the prettiest actresses on tv at the time.


Diagnosis: 12/18/2009, IDC, 2cm, Stage IIb, Grade 2, 2/23 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Sep 18, 2011 05:36 PM elimar wrote:

Dixie got better looking as her hair and nose changed.

Diagnosis: 6/24/2009, IDC, <1cm, Stage I, Grade 2, 0/2 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Sep 19, 2011 12:09 AM Stanzie wrote:

Oh really??? She changed her nose? Oh shoot wonder if I can see if before it goes away or is it already gone....


Diagnosis: 2/1/2010, DCIS, <1cm, Grade 3, 0/1 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Sep 19, 2011 09:02 AM Meece wrote:

I can stil remember the word "As sands through the hourglas.." as I was lying in my room supposedly taking a nap.  That was my Mother's soap.  When my kids were little we recieved 3 stations because we lived out of town.  The wind down time during their naps was limited to soaps so I chose Guiding Light,  & The Young & The Restless.  I'll bet I could catch up on them now as well, if they are still on.


Diagnosis: 11/27/2003, IDC, 1cm, Stage I, Grade 3, 0/16 nodes, ER-/PR-, HER2-
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Sep 19, 2011 11:29 PM dutchgirl6 wrote:

I'm pretty sure that The Young and The Restless is still on, I was channel surfing one day this summer and sure enough, there was Nikki, Viktor and the whole Genoa City gang. 


Diagnosis: 12/18/2009, IDC, 2cm, Stage IIb, Grade 2, 2/23 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Sep 23, 2011 06:09 PM OG56 wrote:

I love reminicing and I had forgot about the "calling out" I was thinking too about how I used to spend the night with my GF's they were sisters and I fell right between them in age. We would play until the street lights came on Mother May I and reinacting the Wizard of Oz and they always tried to make me ToTo! I remember when the oldest of us stayed outside during the Wizard of Oz because she wanted to talk to a boy!!! I was disgusted LOL

Remember Creature Feature and Saturday nights Sci Fi?

(5-09 Bilateral Pleomorphic LCIS)
Diagnosis: 5/30/2008, IDC, <1cm, Stage Ia, Grade 1, 0/1 nodes, ER+/PR-, HER2-
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Sep 23, 2011 11:13 PM duckyb1 wrote:

Wax lips.........candy buttons on paper..................string licorice.............roller skates with keys...............wax bottles................candy cigarettes..................when the newspaper was 5cents.....................when yo could sleep with your downstairs windows open.............no a/c................a coal furnace that you had to shovel the coal into................wringer washers..................clothes lines...................ugly gym suits................wow, those were the days

Ducky
Diagnosis: 2/15/2011, IDC, 1cm, Grade 1, 0/10 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Sep 23, 2011 11:24 PM SharonMH wrote:

Hi  duckyb1, oh those were the days.    Sure do miss them.  But looking forward to new memories. SharonH


Diagnosis: 8/10/2009, ILC, 5cm, Stage IIIa, 14/15 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Sep 24, 2011 09:04 AM Paula66 wrote:

Wax lips were always my favorite!

Fight Like a Girl!!!
Diagnosis: 10/24/2010, IDC, 2cm, Stage II, Grade 3, 0/3 nodes, ER+/PR-, HER2-
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Sep 26, 2011 12:12 PM duckyb1 wrote:

Sharon and Paula...........I'm long passed middle age.........If my age right now was considered "middle", I would be living to be 152..............now we all know that isn't happening, but it gives you a good idea how old I am.................truely don't qualify for "middle age status", but thought a trip down memory lane would be fun...............hugs, and have a gread day.............

Ducky
Diagnosis: 2/15/2011, IDC, 1cm, Grade 1, 0/10 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Sep 30, 2011 08:04 AM Meece wrote:

Ducky, you can always relive our middle aged memories from the standpoint of a different age.  It's all in your mind.  I am just now wrapping mine around being middle aged and I have been in the middle many years!


Diagnosis: 11/27/2003, IDC, 1cm, Stage I, Grade 3, 0/16 nodes, ER-/PR-, HER2-
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Oct 2, 2011 11:24 AM Meece wrote:

I was walking down memory lane with my new hair stylist yesterday.  We were talking about home perms.  My mother used to perm hair for our neighbor, my grandmother, and us girls.  She used Lilt foaming perms.  I remember the ammonia smell that filled the kitchen... and the rest of the house.  I loved to watch her spray the foam on the rollers and watch it dissipate.  I also used to take the little sponges and make shirts for my troll doll.


Diagnosis: 11/27/2003, IDC, 1cm, Stage I, Grade 3, 0/16 nodes, ER-/PR-, HER2-

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