Topic: Australian Sisters

Aug 25, 2012 11:35 PM midnight1327 wrote:

hope you girls are all having a good weekend,  i have become a grandmother again,  but to the four legged kind, Lucy the goat has just about half an hour ago had a little girl kid, she is black and white,  Lucy is white and so is Trevor the dad, so where the black got in i dont know, hubby just got there when she was born, there was twins, little white girl, but she is still born, so more  flaming kids lol .  Lucy sister Amy is about to have hers too, she due anyday, she is white too, only way i tell them apart is that  lUCY  has a pink collar and amy has the black collar, othetwise you would  not know who is who. lucy has a little beard, which is a help,  but other than that they very alike. Hubby says the kid is soooo cute. Trevor will geta gold star, smelly old thing.  he pongs, the male goats do. needs a water blaster, i smell him b4 i get to them. shame really that they smell like that.  enjoy ye rest of day.

Aug 26, 2012 02:36 AM Linda1966 wrote:

lol Kylie. I personally dont believe in nocebo as Im the supreme optimist and every time Ive had a crap s/e it has been a complete shock and Ive had to google to see if in fact it is a s/e. I really didnt do a lot of research heading into BC, just did what I was told from the BS and then the onc. Had no knowledge whatsoever of zometa when they gave it to me last year out of the blue and I swear that stuff tried to kill me plus broke 2 teeth of mine.

I had no expectation of throwing up for days after every single chemo cause all the med prof's said it wouldnt happen thanks to todays wonderful anti nausea drugs . Had no idea I would spend 5 days each treatment of taxotere in complete physical agony and certainly didnt expect to get blood clots. Not to mention Ive never read that anyone else spent the first few days after their first arimidex in worse pain than the taxotere caused. Have I ever said how greatful I am to have made it thru that period of time lmao.

So I vote no to nocebo .

Aug 26, 2012 03:24 AM Jennt28 wrote:

Linda, you are an exact example of how to avoid the nocebo effect, which has been researched and proven to exist. By not researching your treatments too deeply ahead of time you avoided knowing the "potential" and the side effects you experienced were definitely not as a result of the nocebo effect but were truly side effects of the actual treatment you were given.

Essentially, it has been proven that giving a patient a list of all the possible side effects of treatment, which most doctors are required to do in our society of "full disclosure", will cause some patients to develop some or all of those side effects where they may not have if they had not been told the list.

Really a bit tired today. We had Melissa's 21st last night. This is my Herceptin weekend (infusion on Friday afternoon) and where I would normally have had a quiet weekend it has been very busy. It was nice but I am feeling quite emotionally shattered today.

I was also disappointed to see from the photos taken at the event that my face remains quite chubby looking and my stomach now seems to protrude further than my breasts despite me eating very healthy and exercising regularly for a few months now.

Up until 4-5yrs ago I was a slim and fit woman, capable of jogging 5kms/day. Slowly since then a few health issues (anaemia, gallbladder failed, ripped a major ligament in my ankle) and my part-time study schedule not allowing for much activity had seen me put on 25-30kgs. I now believe that the BC had something to do with it too... I really would like to see my bones emerging out of the "chub" again...

Jenn

Aug 26, 2012 03:51 AM, edited Aug 26, 2012 03:54 AM by Linda1966

Thanks for explaining Jenn. At the time I was just trying to get thru everything as best I could and not kill my poor mum with anxiety. I did get the lists of s/e's I just didnt pay them much attention as I was sure I was gonna breeze thru cause why would I be the one in however many thousand to cop this or that. Man I should have known better haha.  In one way it may have helped that I didnt know about this forum, but on the other hand, I would have loved to have the support and answers we can get here.

 I thought you looked lovely in those photos Jenn. What an amazingly good looking family you have too. Those photos are keepers I reckon.

 I know Ive said this before and I hope you arent sick of hearing it, BUT you need to give yourself some breaks hun. Your not long finished chemo, you had the lung issues and the aborted rads and are now on herceptin. Your body has had everything but the kitchen sink thrown at it this last year and its tired, bruised and doing its best to recover. Sleep well, eat well and exercise in moderation and within a year I think your body will realise its been thru the worst and your metabolism should recover its equilibrum.

 Are you now considered to be post menopausal? I know the whole experience forced menopause on me so I went thru in a year what most women take many years to get through. My menopause was violent but its all in the past now. I do remember feeling and looking bloated specially in the face from the steroids which seemed to take forever to get out of my system, but then my metabolism settled down and reverted to normal. Im sure the same will happen to you, but please dont try to force it and get down on yourself for not meeting your expectations. 

I bet in a years time you dont remember feeling this way and that your back to being fit and healthy again. Also think of Kate and how she felt not long ago. It seems we are all bound to sink into a bit of a hole within a few months of finishing chemo and I think its because we expect to start feeling like we did pre BC and it just doesnt happen that fast. Personally I think that the fact we have chemo 3 weeks apart makes us think that 3 weeks after our last treatment we should start recovering rapidly and Im here to say that just doesnt happen. But if the dr's and oncs told us going in that we would feel like crap for ages after our last chemo it would make a lot of people think twice before agreeing to treatment.

Sorry for yet another long post sigh. I just cant seem to ever be succinct no matter how I try.

Editted to add to the second last paragraph. Theres a reason it took me around 6 months to be able to get back to working at my shop for more than an hour here or there hun. My body just couldnt do it and needed the time to recover.

Aug 26, 2012 04:52 AM Jennt28 wrote:

WOW. Thanks Linda :-) I needed that pep talk...

Jenn

Aug 26, 2012 06:30 AM suzieq60 wrote:

Plucking is good every few days :)

Aug 26, 2012 07:39 AM suzieq60 wrote:

Go the All Blacks!!!

Aug 26, 2012 08:45 AM Linda1966 wrote:

Hope Kerry_Anne is lurking on BCO to get access to all the info and support the rest of us get. This site really is the best support and for me the only support I have needed. BCO makes one feel so much less alone when going through all that we have and do every day/week/year if you know what I mean

Aug 26, 2012 05:30 PM, edited Aug 26, 2012 05:51 PM by midnight1327

Good morning ladies,  today i am 15 and if you turn it around, you will know my real age. hubby got me a seven week old baby bunny, blue and cream, he is sort of a motled blue all over. very cute, i love bunnies. another kid to feed, four legged one,  i have always wanted a royal blue, but this is the closest he could get, had along ride back in truck. i am trying to find a name for him, am thinking of a name Yogi, if anybody got any ideas, tell me. its a boy.  we going out for tea, unless things go  to s--t, with the truck bussiness, somethimg is bound to hold us up. had a MCDonalds brecky, he brought to me in bed. nice but not very warm, by the time he got home, but still yummy. so been so far a lovely start. have a good day to all of you.

Aug 26, 2012 06:34 PM, edited Aug 26, 2012 06:36 PM by midnight1327

they sure are destructive  for veges gardens. ours are in hutches.  but yea, they would be a pain in the A, all in the wild and detroying things. well will go and do some work now,  afew dishes to do. also thank you trish.  yes we are special people, us august lot lol, xoxo

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Aug 26, 2012 06:53 PM suzieq60 wrote:

I agree Kate - mine's next month too

Aug 26, 2012 07:33 PM Kate60 wrote:

I'm due to see him before my next Herceptin in 2.5 weeks, but he comes down here every Thursday and Friday so I might ring and see if I can see him this week. It could also only be as a result from our car accident, as that is where my seat belt went across and I've felt it since then. But it's not getting any less sore over time (3 weeks ago). Hopeing that's what it is of course and not a recurrance. I tell you if it is I'd be so p***** off because that would mean that the chemo and rads didn't work for me and I would have lost my hair and all the other associated wear and tear on my body for no good reason at all.

Aug 26, 2012 08:47 PM kyliet wrote:

Happy birthday Midnight. I love maccas brekky but haven't ever got one in bed, plus a rabbit. It's wonderful hubby is so thoughtful.

Kate, sorry to hear you are worried, it is better to know than wonder. Big hug. x

Aug 26, 2012 09:08 PM Linda1966 wrote:

Could be a bit of internal bruising on preexisting scar material Kate. Get it checked out but try not to worry in the meantime. It makes sense that having some impact on scar tissue could inflame the area, or could make nerves that are regenerating act up.

Bout time you had some good luck so am hoping you can see the dr within a day or two and get the all clear

xxxooo

Aug 26, 2012 10:37 PM Kate60 wrote:

Thanks Girls. Yes I'm in to see him on Thursday.... I'm not going to mention it to the family and cause undue worry - it probably is that it got hurt from the seatbelt - it was a sudden stop from 80kms an hour so that does makes sense. I'll definitely let you know when I know.  But geez it's made me realise that you never ever stop worrying once you are dx'd. xxxxxx