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Topic: Thinking Out Loud.....

Forum: Humor and Games — Breast cancer is no laughing matter, but sometimes a good joke or a game is the best medicine.

Posted on: Feb 6, 2009 02:44 PM, edited Nov 8, 2012 06:16 PM by rumoret

rumoret wrote:

So you worry then what?

The day is here...LIVE!
Smile, cry, laugh, scream, mourn, exercise and breathe.....then what?


Pick one foot up and move forward...
Pamper yourself and don't waste one precious moment!
Play with little children, become one again, go swing...on a swing...baby!


Enjoy family and friends, enjoy good food and drinks with them.
Inhale the fresh air and give all of them a big bear hug from you!


Never say Never....
Explore the idea of doing something you're fearful of.


Say...I LOVE you and mean it, otherwise it is just another Four-Letter-Word.


When one door closes........open another.........life continues.......don't miss the train.
ALL ABOARD....

Hugs,
Terry


Dx 4/13/2006, IDC, 2cm, Stage II, Grade 3, 0/15 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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May 23, 2012 10:17 PM Makratz wrote:

(((Deb)))  Scary!! 

I just found out my sons classmate died.  So sad.  She was only 13.  She was born with a heart defect and had many, many surgeries over the course of her life.  I'm so sad for her.

My friend, the one  I mentioned before does have liver cancer, ontop of ovarian.  SHe had BC a year before me.  They are still looking for the priimary for her liver cancer.  I am just so sad for her and her kids.  Her Mom died of cancer in her 40's when we were kids.  

Computer is still not working.  DH brought his home foe me.

Miss you all and wish you all the best. 

Linda...♥♥♥ Never, never, never give up ~ Winston Churchill
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May 23, 2012 10:27 PM sheila888-♥ wrote:

Oh Linda....that is so sad...So sorry....

(♥Linda♥)

Sheila♥
Dx 4/8/2005, IDC, 1cm, Stage I, Grade 2, 0/1 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2+
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May 23, 2012 10:30 PM deborye wrote:

My DD was not too happy that she had to find out about me on FB.  WHATEVER!!!! Temps 100.2 gonna take some asprin.

~~~Deb~~~NEVER GIVE UP/NEVER SURRENDER**IDC 6mm & DCIS 7mm
Dx 3/27/2007, IDC, <1cm, Stage Ib, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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May 23, 2012 10:33 PM raincitygirl wrote:

Deb - that would scare the shit out of me.  I would be reassured that your doc didn't order anything extra for tests.  Drugs just have to work!  And this is crappy timing for you too.

Linda - so sad when someone so young dies and sadly that leaves you to fight for those living.  Terrible news about your friend.  I almost don't want to know if the primary was BC.

((((Deb))))  ((((Linda))))

Chris - these "lasts" you are experiencing only lead to many, many more firsts.  Hang in there.

Sheila, Meece, and Sandy - just hugs for you for no particular reason other than we all need them.

Driving with the top down every day that I can....
Dx 8/3/2010, IDC, 1cm, Stage Ib, Grade 2, 0/2 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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May 24, 2012 08:16 AM Meece wrote:

I can only imagine how scared you've been. ((Deb))

Dx 11/27/2003, IDC, 1cm, Stage I, Grade 3, 0/16 nodes, ER-/PR-, HER2-
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May 24, 2012 08:44 AM, edited May 24, 2012 08:45 AM by chrisct

(((((((Deb)))))))  Hope the antibiotics clear it up fast!

Concert was good. 

Ugh - what a night afterward though.  DD has orientation at college today.  She had to take a calculus readiness test. She could take it two times max.  Ironically, she is taking calculus now, but I had a feeling she wasn't going to remember the old stuff that would be on the test.  If she passed the test with a high enough score, she could take calculus, otherwise, she would need to take an extra calculus course - which would put her behind for physics - unless she doesn't take the physics with calculus course and takes the lower level sequence.  Ugh.  So she took it Monday night and got the minimum score required for the lower level 3-course Calculus sequence.  Great.  So I quickly went over the problems with her so she could understand how to do them.  When she went to take it again, it had similar, but different problems. She was going along nicely, when all of a sudden it didn't accept her answer.  Then she couldn't access the test anymore.  She was in tears.  I tried to go on another computer and I could access other websites, but not any of the school's websites.  Perhaps they took them down for maintenance? It was shortly before midnight.  When she went back on this morning, all her time had run out and she couldn't finish the test.  I told her it isn't that big a deal.  Perhaps she should take the slower-paced class so that she learns the material well - unlike how well she was able to learn it from her crappy teacher last year.  But it might put her behind for physics.  This sucks.  It also sucks that the 3 course sequence spilts the first course of the two course sequence into 2 courses and then the third course of the 3-course sequence is the same class as the 2nd course of the 2-course sequence - and that course is much harder.  It's like they make the easier class easier and then dump you into the same hard 2nd class.  Yeah, that's helpful.  Duh.

Can't put things off 'til the last minute - I so informed her thusly.  Maybe she should have spent a little less time texting her bf and thinking about prom and spent more time preparing for college.  Oh - and if she wasn't spending time making up work that she never handed in on time for THIS semester, she would have had more time to take the test.  Do you see a pattern here?

So this morning I was giving her a crash course in what the general education requirements are so she might have some familiarity with what her choices are when she picks her classes today.  I've been looking at this stuff for months.  Did she pay any attention?  Of course not.  I was even up til 1:30 am the other night copying and pasting courses in the different content areas into an Excel spreadsheet and sorting and grouping them so I could see which ones satisfied multiple requirements - to kill as many birds with as few stones as possible.  She has a lot of courses she wants to take that aren't even on those lists, so she can't be cluttering up her schedule too much with courses she's not interested in.  So much work - wasted.  Why do I bother?

Oh - and that's all on top of spending most of my days at the hospital taking FIL to visit MIL who had a stroke last week.  She is getting better, but needs speech therapy.  She has word finding difficulties and sometimes doesn't seem to understand what we're saying.  She is also weak, but I haven't seen a noticeable difference in her strength on one side vs the other as is typical with strokes.  FIL was pretty out of it after his stroke last year and improved a lot, so I am hopeful that she will improve also.  Time will tell.

((((((TOL))))))) 

Dx 2/5/2009, IDC, 1cm, Stage I, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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May 24, 2012 09:30 AM Makratz wrote:

Hope your feeling better today, Deb.

Chris, so sorry to hear about the test.  Computers are so difficult when soemthing like that happens.  They are convenient, but don't always do what they're supposed to.  Hope your MIL is doing better.

Still waiting for test results, and more tests on my friend.  Her mom died in her 40s of cancer, I don't want to see that happen again.  Please keep her in your thoughts and prayers.

Linda...♥♥♥ Never, never, never give up ~ Winston Churchill
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May 24, 2012 09:53 AM chrisct wrote:

So sorry about your son's classmate and your friend.   (((((((Linda)))))))

Dx 2/5/2009, IDC, 1cm, Stage I, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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May 24, 2012 01:10 PM sheila888-♥ wrote:

Deb...how are you today/

Chris...sorry things went wrong

Linda...I'm just wishing peace to you and the ones are suffering ♥

Good Afternoon All♥

Sheila♥
Dx 4/8/2005, IDC, 1cm, Stage I, Grade 2, 0/1 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2+
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May 24, 2012 05:27 PM duckyb1 wrote:

Headed for the shore tonight.......opening up the  house and the pool..............Everyone have a nice Memorial Day.   hugs.............

Ducky
Dx 2/15/2011, IDC, 1cm, Grade 1, 0/10 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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May 24, 2012 07:30 PM blondiex46 wrote:

good for you ducky wondering if I will go this weekend also, have to work monday....

Linda sorry about your sons friend

Deb whatever.....you are right

love you all....

Original 8/96 - 1cm, chemo, rads.recurr..10/09..Mets to lungs, lymph nodes, bones in neck , ribs & liver, Femera then Falsodex, zometa & Xeloda, now Zometa and Gemzar!!
Dx 10/15/2009, 3cm, Stage IV, ER+/PR-, HER2-
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May 24, 2012 07:40 PM chrisct wrote:

Deb - hope you are feeling better today and the antibiotic is helping already.((((((Deb))))))

Have fun at the shore, Ducky.  Hope you get to the shore, Sandy.

Thought I was going to have the house to myself this weekend - Scout family campout - but DD decided not to go.  I'm glad though- she has a lot to do.  And she needs to rest- not sure she'd get the rest she needs camping... 

Ordered the flowers.  Now to work on the hair and a necklace. 

Somehow, they decided DD could take regular calculus.  After all that. 

I'm a zombie tonight.  Went to sleep at 2 -got up at 6.  Been going to sleep late all week - think it's catching up with me.  zzzzzzzzz

MIL seemed better today.  She was talking quite a bit this afternoon, though she still has trouble finding the right words and loses her train of thought.  Hope the trend continues.

(((((((TOL))))))))

Dx 2/5/2009, IDC, 1cm, Stage I, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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May 24, 2012 07:42 PM deborye wrote:

Looks like I will be going in tomorrow for the 48 hour IV antibiotic treatment, my tata is on fire, worse that the rads burn and it is so sore and itchy and redish ping and swollen.Yell
~~~Deb~~~NEVER GIVE UP/NEVER SURRENDER**IDC 6mm & DCIS 7mm
Dx 3/27/2007, IDC, <1cm, Stage Ib, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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May 24, 2012 09:34 PM deborye wrote:

I'm bringing my DH's laptop into the hospital, I will be sooooo bored without it.

~~~Deb~~~NEVER GIVE UP/NEVER SURRENDER**IDC 6mm & DCIS 7mm
Dx 3/27/2007, IDC, <1cm, Stage Ib, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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May 24, 2012 09:36 PM sheila888-♥ wrote:

Deb...Feel better soon....♥♥♥

Will be thinking of you ....

LOVE....♥

Sheila♥
Dx 4/8/2005, IDC, 1cm, Stage I, Grade 2, 0/1 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2+
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May 24, 2012 11:45 PM ptdreamers wrote:

deborye, hope you feel better soon.

ptdreamers
Dx 8/26/2011, IDC, 1cm, Stage I, Grade 2, 0/5 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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May 25, 2012 07:34 AM chrisct wrote:

Hope the IV starts working right away and gives you relief ((((((Deb)))))))

Dx 2/5/2009, IDC, 1cm, Stage I, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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May 25, 2012 08:27 AM Meece wrote:

Just try to relax, Deb.  Hopefully you can rest and post...and post...and post.Wink
Dx 11/27/2003, IDC, 1cm, Stage I, Grade 3, 0/16 nodes, ER-/PR-, HER2-Chemotherapy 02/05/2004 Adriamycin, Cytoxan, TaxolRadiation Therapy 08/01/2004 External
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May 25, 2012 10:44 AM sheila888-♥ wrote:

((((((((((((((♥TOL♥))))))))))))))))

Good Morning ♥

Sheila♥
Dx 4/8/2005, IDC, 1cm, Stage I, Grade 2, 0/1 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2+
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May 25, 2012 10:58 AM Makratz wrote:

Hope you are feeling better Deb.

Heading to Boston to visit my friend. It is not good.  She has cancer everywhere. They wont even operate on her.  One week ago she was fine and today, they are hoping she will be able to go home next week and have hospice.  So freaking unfair!  Her poor kids, shes a single mom. They are 14, 10 and 8. Please keep her in your prayers.

Linda...♥♥♥ Never, never, never give up ~ Winston Churchill
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May 25, 2012 11:37 AM sheila888-♥ wrote:

Linda...My heart goes out for your friend.....life is not fair....

Does she have any family....Prayers are said for her and the children........

Hugs♥

Sheila♥
Dx 4/8/2005, IDC, 1cm, Stage I, Grade 2, 0/1 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2+
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May 25, 2012 11:49 AM sheila888-♥ wrote:

♥                ♥                ♥

Sheila♥
Dx 4/8/2005, IDC, 1cm, Stage I, Grade 2, 0/1 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2+
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May 25, 2012 03:45 PM deborye wrote:

Prayers coming from Winchester Hospital for your friend.

Guess were I am.  I have DH's Laptop. IV is hooked up but they have to come in yet to administer the antibiotic.  Damn I wish they would hurry up.  My temp was 101.3 when they took it at the breast care center but it is down to 99.9 when I arrived at the hospital.  I just squawked at the nurse to check when they are going to start the antibiotics. 

~~~Deb~~~NEVER GIVE UP/NEVER SURRENDER**IDC 6mm & DCIS 7mm
Dx 3/27/2007, IDC, <1cm, Stage Ib, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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May 25, 2012 04:35 PM blondiex46 wrote:

Wow Linda I am so sorry!!

Deb again what is the antibiotic for, infection I get but I don't like it....hang in there!!

Original 8/96 - 1cm, chemo, rads.recurr..10/09..Mets to lungs, lymph nodes, bones in neck , ribs & liver, Femera then Falsodex, zometa & Xeloda, now Zometa and Gemzar!!
Dx 10/15/2009, 3cm, Stage IV, ER+/PR-, HER2-
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May 25, 2012 06:02 PM deborye wrote:

Sandy~Vancomycin, the next dose is in 24 hours, so I just stay here and twiddle my thumbs.  I thought I was getting different types. This stinks big time.

~~~Deb~~~NEVER GIVE UP/NEVER SURRENDER**IDC 6mm & DCIS 7mm
Dx 3/27/2007, IDC, <1cm, Stage Ib, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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May 25, 2012 07:26 PM chrisct wrote:

Can you watch dvd's on your computer?  I used to watch Big Bang Theory to keep myself entertained during chemo...

How are you feeling, Sandy? 

So sorry about your friend, Linda.  Single mom...it's beyond unfair. 

I'm doing MIL's laundry tonight so she has fresh clothes at rehab.  She had a bunch of clothes in her room that I think were clean, but the cat likes to sleep on them, so just in case, I'm washing them.  I don't know how I'm going to get them all back to her house and rehab without smushing them. 

(((((((TOL)))))))

Dx 2/5/2009, IDC, 1cm, Stage I, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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May 25, 2012 07:27 PM chrisct wrote:

When I come on this thread, I'm at the bottom of the page instead of where I left off.  Is it the same for you or is it just me?

Dx 2/5/2009, IDC, 1cm, Stage I, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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May 25, 2012 08:19 PM deborye wrote:

I have the computer and TV, I'll just have to tolorate this, the IV killing me they have it on the top of my hand next to my wrist. OUCH I can't even bend it.Frown
~~~Deb~~~NEVER GIVE UP/NEVER SURRENDER**IDC 6mm & DCIS 7mm
Dx 3/27/2007, IDC, <1cm, Stage Ib, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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May 25, 2012 09:23 PM chrisct wrote:

(((((((Deb)))))))

Dx 2/5/2009, IDC, 1cm, Stage I, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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May 25, 2012 11:40 PM deborye wrote:

IV is out, feel much better now, next tx is at 2 in the afternoon, I would rather be poked that have the IV stay in my arm.

~~~Deb~~~NEVER GIVE UP/NEVER SURRENDER**IDC 6mm & DCIS 7mm
Dx 3/27/2007, IDC, <1cm, Stage Ib, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-

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