I arrived this afternoon at an RV park in Houston 2 miles from the MD Anderson and the Nellie B. Connally Breast Cancer Clinic. I want to post a bit each day about the experience here. We went to look for the address as soon as we got set up, just to find the building. Wow it's a huge, multi level, multi building campus. There is a tunnel of sorts that you drive up into for patient drop off, self or valet parking. Parking is $15 a day,(ouch) there is a weekly discounted parking ticket for $77. I was told that my first day the valet parking would be comped so we'll probably drive down just the first day. The RV park runs a shuttle all day so we'll use that. Most RV folks here are visiting one medical facility or another. I met another lady walking her two fur babies who told me she was given less than 2% survival chance 8 years ago which prompted her to come to MD Anderson. She participated in a clinical trial and fortunately the trial med worked. She's in remission but comes for routine follow ups. She raved about her care and the wonderful people here. Very reassuring.
The health system that diagnosed me is fine but did not have a cancer focus or team approach. Living only 4 hours away it was a no brainer. My intake counselor told me to gather all my reports including the Dr's notes from the my most recent visit, hand carry my mammo films and have the pathology slides overnighted to MD Anderson's path department. I've made myself a notebook with copies of everything and a journal for taking notes.
More impressions tomorrow.
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one-L Joined: Jul 2009 Posts: 327 |
Sep 14, 2009 10:30 pm
one-L wrote:
Liane, It will be good to hear about your experience at MDA. I am very satisfied with my treatment so far, I am going to Huguley in Burleson. I went to the Med Onc today for the first time and I liked her a lot. She spent a lot of time with me and answered all my questions. She will guide my treatment from here out. With this dx, you never know what is around the corner. There is always that pause waiting for the shoe to drop, until the test results are in. I have always heard good things about MDA and I do know that other cancer centers consult with them all the time. Keep up the good spirit and keep posting. Your Texas Sister, Juannelle Diagnosis: 7/21/2009, IDC, <1cm, Stage Ib, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2- |
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OmahaGirl Joined: Jul 2008 Posts: 348 |
Sep 14, 2009 10:37 pm
OmahaGirl wrote:
Liane you are fortunate to be treated at MD, I know people (non BC) that have went there for their Tx and all were very happy with their care. I am going to Sloan Kettering in NYC and parking for 2 hours is $35 so of course I am thinking $15 sounds good for a whole day! It is great that you have a shuttle though to take you there and back. Keep us posted to how things are going. Keeping you wrapped up in + thoughts. Linda ( add bilateral LCIS to my diagnosis)
Diagnosis: 5/30/2008, IDC, <1cm, Stage Ia, Grade 1, 0/4 nodes, ER+/PR-, HER2- |
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Liane Joined: Aug 2009 Posts: 114 |
Sep 15, 2009 07:40 pm, edited Sep 15, 2009 07:41 PM
by Liane
Liane wrote:
Today my first appointment at noon. We made use of the free valet parking. You get a complementary sticker from the intake counselor. Building is huge but there are signs and even a digital kiosk where you can help map out your path. Beautiful interior and seating everywhere including recliners. There are a couple outside areas with plentiful seating. Large aquariums are common and wonderful All in all the impression of walking through is that everything is well maintained and adds to a relaxing atmosphere. The cafe is nice but closes after lunch. Since we had a noon appt. we ended up a bit on the hungry side. There is a coffee shop with snacks and drinks. There were numerous places to sit quietly and away from everyone if you would like privacy. The intake easily consumed almost 45 minutes. I had downloaded and fill out everything ahead of time. Surprising number of additional documents releasing this and agreeing to that.....almost felt like settling on a house. Iris was very pleasant and efficient though. Then she checked me in over at the medical side of the floor. All your team use email, including the Dr., and you can set up an account to communicate with them that way. I really like that. There was a wait for the oncologist they were running behind......but only about 30 minutes. The Dr. has a nurse and scheduler assigned to him. The next process is not any different from most Dr's offices, check your vitals, weigh you and get you to an examining room with additional wait time. Took another 20 minutes or so. I like him and he communicated very well, answered questions and helped me understand what little we know at this point. We talked about potential options(some I hadn't thought about) but with the caution that there was more to be learned yet especially the HER2 result which is in contention. The path report first says it's FISH pending but in the conclusion indicates they believe it to be positive. He is going to follow up on that. Next I met with the scheduler and was given a handful of papers with 3 days of tests starting NOW. Though they said to plan on being here a week I can go home Thursday afternoon and then drive back down next Tuesday to meet with the Dr. again to review their results. We did a blood test and Chest x-ray today. Diagnostics was very quick, maybe because it was the end of the day and we missed the rush. Only took about 30 minutest from check in to finish. We were out just before 5pm and rush hour wasn't too bad. Tomorrow it's all day starting at 7:20am (ewww) for another Mammo, then "UltraSound, Breast with FNA".......Does that mean Fine Needle Aspiration ?????? Ouch. Noon for Bone Scan-Dose and then for Bone Scan-Exam. Thursday check in early again to prep for CT Scan - Abdomen. No breakfast. It's an impressive facility with impressive people. I feel good about this choice. Parking does have some additional options. $15 is only for the valet parking. There is another self parking option that is less expensive. Since we are only here two days we'll probably self park. My DH is my rock..I'm so glad he is right there every step of the way. My anxiety went up and down.....because now this is it and today made it very real. Thanks my Tx. Sister and Omaha Girl...back at ya.....keep those positive thoughts flowing and I'll work at doing the same. Diagnosis: 9/1/2009, IDC, 2cm, ER+/PR+ |
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slforbes Joined: Aug 2009 Posts: 5 |
Sep 15, 2009 09:18 pm
slforbes wrote:
I am also being treated at MD Anderson. Do you mind telling me who your doctor is? |
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Liane Joined: Aug 2009 Posts: 114 |
Sep 15, 2009 09:29 pm
Liane wrote:
slforbes, sent you a PM. Diagnosis: 9/1/2009, IDC, 2cm, ER+/PR+ |
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OmahaGirl Joined: Jul 2008 Posts: 348 |
Sep 15, 2009 09:54 pm
OmahaGirl wrote:
Good luck tomorrow hope all goes smoothly and FNB is a fine needle aspiration ( it won't hurt (: ) Linda ( add bilateral LCIS to my diagnosis)
Diagnosis: 5/30/2008, IDC, <1cm, Stage Ia, Grade 1, 0/4 nodes, ER+/PR-, HER2- |
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Liane Joined: Aug 2009 Posts: 114 |
Sep 15, 2009 10:09 pm
Liane wrote:
Are you sure it won't hurt???? I'm being a big baby. Fine needle has to be better than core! Diagnosis: 9/1/2009, IDC, 2cm, ER+/PR+ |
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one-L Joined: Jul 2009 Posts: 327 |
Sep 15, 2009 10:12 pm
one-L wrote:
Wow, what a day you had. You can't beat treatment like that, not much waiting and everything done in a couple of days. I hope all goes well tomorrow, you will remain in my thoughts. Juannelle Diagnosis: 7/21/2009, IDC, <1cm, Stage Ib, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2- |
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TXGrama Joined: Sep 2009 Posts: 16 |
Sep 15, 2009 11:59 pm
TXGrama wrote:
Liane, Just want to know you're in my thoughts and prayers. I am a 19 year BC survivor, no recurrence. I went to MD Anderson to be tested for the BRAC1 & BRAC2 mutation as my mother had ovarian ca and I breast ca before menopause at 47 (I had 6 mos of chemo because high risk of recurrence). The BRAC tests were negative. But the genetic counselor said it may just be a mutation not recognized yet. Just tonight I had call from my daughter and they've call her back for another mammo, so am anxious to hear later this week or early next the results. I am heading to MD Anderson or my annual check up at the Gyn Onc Clinic (in the Mays Building), since I am at high risk of ovarian ca. My Mom's sister just died of ovarian recently, too. My appt is Thursday (Sep 17). I have nothing but praise for MD Anderson. We were there in June as my husband developed a large mass on arm and the local people were worried about a sarcoma - it appeared to be intramuscular hemangioma, thank goodness. But MD Anderson is going to follow up again in 6 mos wth another scan. I will be staying at Rotary House till Sat. am. I'll be thinking of you. Diagnosis: 1990, IDC, <1cm, Stage I, 0/12 nodes, ER-/PR- |
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Liane Joined: Aug 2009 Posts: 114 |
Sep 16, 2009 08:05 pm, edited Sep 16, 2009 08:33 PM
by Liane
Liane wrote:
Today was tiring but it's over. I was in the Mammo/Ultrasound rooms so long my husband got worried and asked them to check on me. It took longer because they didn't feel they got what they wanted from the needle aspiration. There was an experienced doctor and his protege'. Both were exceedingly caring and checked on my comfort every step of the way as did the technologist. I got another one of those surprised look and comments re: the fading bruised area on my breast from the Core Needle Biopsy. Today's FNB didn't hurt necessarily, other than my shoulder kind of got frozen in the up position. Achey breaky old lady stuff. They were after a suspicious lymph node but didn't reach it satisfactorily. Dr. said the SNB will be the best confirmation of the node status. So I left there with another nagging "oh no" in the back of my mind. Since I was in there for 3 hours that left time for a quick lunch from the Waterfall Cafe, which was packed with lunchers but we found a seat. We chose one of the pre wrapped sandwiches and it was quite good. My husband has a cochlear implant processor (new to him) so we went back where it's quiet. Back up to check in with the nuclear folks for the bone dose. No waiting, went right in. Then you go back out and drink lots of water and sit for 2 hours waiting for the "glow". Just kidding. Takes that long for the stuff to work it's way in. We found a quieter waiting area as the one at Nuclear was packed to the gills. Just down the hall in Internal Med area was wide open with dozens of comfy seats. There are a few magazines here and there but if you have favorite reading material you should bring it. Jigsaw puzzles abound. I found one unoccupied and fooled with it for about an hour. 3 dogs playing poker. Then I made an idiot of myself standing over at the aquarium when I discovered that the big orange fish would follow me around the glass.....no I didn't make that stupid fish mouth at them. LOL. Just killing time. Had to promise to drink a liter of water after the injection. There's a nice water dispenser and cups over in the corner. I finally tried one of the computers, it does have internet access so you can check your email or surf. Response time was slow on some webpages so I checked email and hopped off. They called me for the Bone scan right on the dot. Leave your jewelry at home and your stuff with whoever brung ya! Then you hit the Loo, waiting room for a moment and then the nurse comes to escort you into the room with the space age donut machine. 20 minutes for the full scan, no moving, you and the slab slowly move between the two flat panels! I made it, got up to wait for the release......nah, not yet. We want to look at a shoulder area again. ACK. This time 30 minutes for the panels to rotate around me increment at a time. Then I felt myself moving into the donut, then out, then back in, then something whirred around me as I hesitated inside the donut. Very weird experience. The nurse told me that was a CAT scan.....I said where's the kitty cat. Got a chuckle out of that one. And left hoping that again they just think they see something. Won't know until next Tuesday. Arrived at 7am, departing at 4. It felt good to get out and go. $10 in the self park since it was all day. We got a bite to eat out and then I started feeling the slow tired "I want a nap" feeling. Took one then got up for email and this. Think I'll take another one. To a person, employees and professionals are caring and focused on you. Then again you can't help be tempted when they ask "How are you today" .....to let loose, boo hoo and say TERRIBLE, I DON'T WANNA BE HERE DOING THIS. WHY ME?......and so on and so on. But of course we don't, we say, "I'm fine and how are you?" More tomorrow night after we drive the 3-4 hours home. And this is only the beginning. Diagnosis: 9/1/2009, IDC, 2cm, ER+/PR+ |
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one-L Joined: Jul 2009 Posts: 327 |
Sep 16, 2009 08:34 pm
one-L wrote:
Liane, you are really having an experience. You are right this is only the beginning and this will probably not be the best journey you have ever been on. I am going on a cruise this weekend, so I plan on just relaxing and having a few drinks. I will be gone for 5 days and I really need this trip. Its a girl trip and you just can't miss with those. You will stay in my thoughts and I hope they don't find anything else. Your TX Sis, Juannelle Diagnosis: 7/21/2009, IDC, <1cm, Stage Ib, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2- |
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Liane Joined: Aug 2009 Posts: 114 |
Sep 16, 2009 08:37 pm
Liane wrote:
CRUISE???!!??? WAHHHHHHH. I wanna go......pwease. The ship I'm on is stopping at strange ports. ![]() Diagnosis: 9/1/2009, IDC, 2cm, ER+/PR+ |
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one-L Joined: Jul 2009 Posts: 327 |
Sep 16, 2009 08:54 pm
one-L wrote:
I wish you could go, I sure we would have a great time. It would be way fun!!! I am also on the ship you are on and it would have never been my choice, but here we are. I am glad that I will be able to go one week without a doctors appointment or some kind of treatment. I am gearing up for my radiation, waiting on my PET scan and Oncotype DX test. Just some things to look forward to -- HA HA When I met with my Med Onc Monday, she said she would see me for the next 10 years. I told her we would become really good friends. Pictures of the kids and the grandkids and all that. She said OK. How this has changed my life. I just hope that I come out better on the other side. I will think of you as I sip my umbrella drink and hope you are doing OK. Juannelle Diagnosis: 7/21/2009, IDC, <1cm, Stage Ib, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2- |
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TexasRose Joined: Mar 2009 Posts: 536 |
Sep 17, 2009 12:34 am
TexasRose wrote:
Hi Liane- Another fellow Texan that read your post and wanted to wish you well. I think the hardest part of the whole thing is where you are right now. The beginning. All the tests and decisions. I'm sure you will get excellent care at MD Anderson. I'm actually not too far up the road from you in Temple. I am getting my treatments at Scott & White and I'm very pleased with the care I have received. You'll be cruising again before you know it! I have a Southern Caribbean cruise booked for December. I finish chemo in three weeks on October 6th, so that will give me a few months to rest up and recover. And then baby, get out of my way when I get on that ship!! It's kind of full circle for me. I was diagnosed on 3/4/2009 and had a cruise out of Galveston booked for two days after that. We went despite the diagnosis and even managed to have a pretty good time. This next one, I plan on having a GREAT time! Good luck to you! You're in my thoughts. Mary~~ Left mastectomy/ no recon, SNB and port placement- 4/3/2009; Starting DD AC x 4 and Taxol x 12 plus Clinical Trial E5103 on 5/26/2009
Diagnosis: 3/4/2009, IDC, 2cm, Stage IIa, Grade 3, 0/5 nodes, ER-/PR-, HER2- |
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Liane Joined: Aug 2009 Posts: 114 |
Sep 18, 2009 01:16 pm
Liane wrote:
Good morning all. Mary, good to hear you are pleased with S&W. I use that system down here in Georgetown as well and have found my primary care to be very good. Your report may help me to see whether I can arrange for chemo, if ordered to be done closer to home while still having MD Anderson treat my case. Hopefully my GP can help me find an onc. willing to collaborate so I don't have to drive 180 miles one way weekly. We'll see. Yesterday I finished up testing and we were able to get on the road home before noon. When I got home I zonked out early. I set up my MD Anderson homepage. I've been exploring it this morning. Very impressive and comprehensive. There is even a journal page that I can make notes on for myself. The tabs include medical records, billing info, calendar of appointments, secure email within MDA....there is a place for radiology and medical reports. The Dr's notes from Tuesday have been uploaded and I have copied them out for myself. This is a very helpful tool. All in all our time at MDA was well organized and efficient. Staff was professional and caring as I've mentioned before. The size of the place can be overwhelming for a first timer but we really had little trouble finding our way around with just a little help from the Access system and signage. Parking was reasonable for a big city. The Houston metro rail has a stop two blocks away and there were numerous shuttles running from lodging sites. The cafe' had tasty food. Typical of many hospitals now it's an open set up that can be very confusing when the lunch rush hits.....and it would be nice, if it would stay open later than 2. I guess the evening shift has to brown bag it, because there isn't anything out on the street nearby but more massive medical facilities. I busied myself this morning unloading the RV to try to stop the obsessive thoughts running through my head.....wondering what the Dr. will say on Tuesday at our appointment. I'm trying to stay positive but at times I wallow in the pity pool and get very frightened of how this will all play out. I'm not going to read too much on other threads for now because I found myself getting ahead of the game and trying to second guess this and that. It has only added to my fears playing the "What if" game. I'm a planner with project management training from my days at the phone company and some habits die hard. While they will help ultimately, right now I need to stop trying to plan without the rest of the data. This is going to be a frustrating and anxious weekend. We will drive back down on Monday evening without the RV since we will only be there for the one day that I know of. I'm going to email the scheduler just to be sure. I'm trying to leave open the possibility that there may be decision Tuesday to go forward with something or perhaps add a test that will require us to stay over. Gotta be flexible. Diagnosis: 9/1/2009, IDC, 2cm, ER+/PR+ |
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threeteens Joined: Jul 2009 Posts: 18 |
Sep 20, 2009 02:50 pm
threeteens wrote:
Thanks for detailing your visit. It is comforting to know how well it has gone and to know the quality of care you are getting. I am going to them on Oct 5th to meet with a breast surgeon and a reconstruction surgeon. This is they only facility that has requested to look at all of my info including path slides, their main concern is eliminating the cancer and then making you feel and look great. I have spoken to many plastic recon facilities and MD Anderson was a wake up call, but a very good one. Thanks again for journaling your experience, I look forward to reading more. Threeteens Diagnosis: 12/24/2008, IDC, 5cm, Stage IIa, Grade 2, 1/2 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2+ |
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hmm Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 217 |
Sep 20, 2009 04:23 pm
hmm wrote:
Liane................ Just wanted to add that I am also finding your posts very interesting as my care is also at MD Anderson but in Orlando, Florida. Have found that they are very much about the patient and as a rule things run quite smoothly with them. Wishing you the best and if you have any questions that I may be of help with feel free to ask. I know it is all so much to "digest" but things will settle down. It is good that you have someone with you as often when they are giving you so much info it is so hard at times to have it all register......... plus I think there is still a certain amount of shock that we deal with when we find out we have bc. My husband was with me also for every appointment which was a big help Wishing you well. Pat.
Diagnosis: 9/2008, IDC, 2cm, Stage I, Grade 1, 0/2 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2- |
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bjsvaughn Joined: Sep 2009 Posts: 6 |
Sep 20, 2009 06:08 pm
bjsvaughn wrote:
I just had my first chemo treatment friday a week ago. I felt awful for a week. The shot made me ache for three days and then it went away. I am being given TC and getting a port for herceptin this friday. I was dehydrated and super dizzy and light headed most of the week. Got fluids twice. I need to get back to teaching this week but still have a rapid pulse rate... Since I am doing this just for prevention I am not sure if the rapid heart beat will be permanent or not???? Did a lumpectomy for a less than 1 cm tumor of mucinous cancer, but had DCIS in one margin. Did a resection and it STILL had some in there so went for the mastectomy in August.. The oncotype said I was 22 ( cut off 18) so there is the reason for chemo... They said it was HER2 positive, then oncotype said not and a third test said yes.... I am wondering if the chemo is worth the lack of being able to work and if the dizzines and rapid heartbeat will ever go away.. does anyone else have this dizziness and rapid heartbeat??? i am scared... Diagnosis: 4/29/2009, DCIS, <1cm, Stage I, Grade 1, 0/2 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2+ |
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Liane Joined: Aug 2009 Posts: 114 |
Sep 20, 2009 07:10 pm
Liane wrote:
bjsvaughn, I know about the being scared part, I can't answer your questions because I'm still at the beginning of my journey. You should definitely post on one of the other threads to get a more experienced gal to answer. I'm sure someone will be able to ease your mind. We will drive back down to Houston tomorrow and meet with onc. bright and early Tues. morning to put the puzzle together and make a plan. This is one of those roller coaster hills........I can hear the crank, crank, crank as the car pulls to the top of the hill just before it rolls off, you throw your hands up and scream as loud as you can!!!!! Diagnosis: 9/1/2009, IDC, 2cm, ER+/PR+ |
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Liane Joined: Aug 2009 Posts: 114 |
Sep 22, 2009 05:28 pm
Liane wrote:
The roller coaster is still stuck at the top of the hill!!!! We arrived on time, the Dr. took us right on the dot. Good news first. No liver/lung involvement and the pesky HER2 test was finally resolved in my favor. FISH test concluded HER2-neg. Not so good news. The onc. suggested again that he would like me to consider doing chemo first, then surgery, etc. I find myself wanting to avoid that if I can.........wishful thinking that I could get an oncotype dx that would say I don't need it. In order to do that I have to consent to do surgery first......I find myself wanting to avoid that if I can........you sensing a pattern here. On the 3 hour drive home, I over analyzed everything and at one point realized that I can't bring myself to accept this diagnosis and that's why I can't s**t or get off the pot! I never felt the lump, .....I don't feel sick, there are no symptoms that I feel........the last several years kept getting called back for ultrasounds only to be told I was ok, they just needed to be sure. Someone kick me in my ample behind and push me off the cliff, will ya? I've told myself that the bone test and discussion with the surgeon is it.....I WILL pick my options and get going Opinions on doing chemo first appreciated... Help. PS: We were driving out very congested 290 in Houston when this piece of junk old Ford Bronco with rusted everything came up on the fast lane side, we were in the middle lane......all of a sudden there is this awful bang and he starts wildly weaving, a wheel went flying up in the air into the HOV lane and I'm driving like I never drove before. By centimeters this guy missed slamming into our drivers side which would have thrown us into the next lane full of traffic. I give him props for controlling the thing without his left front wheel. The wheel fortunately stayed in the HOV lanes which were not open. I saw it a half mile further down the road coming to a spinning halt. I had my Good Luck Bear on the dash! Phew. Next time I'm taking the toll road around. Diagnosis: 9/1/2009, IDC, 2cm, Grade 2, ER+/PR+, HER2- |
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TXGrama Joined: Sep 2009 Posts: 16 |
Sep 22, 2009 07:06 pm
TXGrama wrote:
Liane, I've been thinking you. Wow, some day. Glad you were able to dodge the wheel. Keep that lucky bear with you!! I always worry about the other cars as I had that happen to me once, too. Glad to hear the liver/lung scans were clear. I hope all goes well with tests for the bone issue. Hopefully, you will get more answers later this week. More barium, yuck, but at least it's not as bad as it use to be. It use to be as thick as mud I can't help with pre-surgery chemo, other than I know that in some cases they do recommend chemo first. I always thought it was to preshrink the tumor. Is that why the Onc was suggesting chemo before surgery? I think you're wise to wait until you have the bone issue resolved, before making your final decision. But that's just my personal opinion, and will let other input on the chemo issue pre-surgery. If you do decide to do the chemo first, maybe they can co-ordinate it with local Onc so you wouldn't have to drive to MD Anderson. They will work with the local doctors. And then have your surgery at MD Anderson. Hugs Diagnosis: 1990, IDC, <1cm, Stage I, 0/12 nodes, ER-/PR- |
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TexasRose Joined: Mar 2009 Posts: 536 |
Sep 22, 2009 07:43 pm
TexasRose wrote:
Hi Liane, Let me apologize in advance because I had chemo today which means I'm in a fog. Earlier you asked me about the S&W Cancer Center in case you can work out a plan to do chemo closer to home. The Cancer Center is very nice. They just redid the whole thing and it is awesome. Private treatment areas and the BEST nurses ever! They are just amazing all of them. They do a team approach, so I have had all of them care for me at some point and they are all just the greatest! If I were you, I would rather drive from Georgetown to Temple than Georgetown to Houston, but I do understand that you are happy with MD Anderson. I am also very pleased with my oncologist. LOVED my breast surgeon She was awesome and just the best!! I couldn't have asked for better care from anybody on the team. I'm in a clinical trial and I have a clinical trial nurse who takes amazing care of me and is always there for me. It's been such a positive experience. And of course they have the Cancer Research Center here that is doing amazing work. I feel very blessed to have it all right here at home. I had surgery first, so I can't help you with neoadjuvant chemo. Is that what they call it? I'm telling you- I'm in a fog. Great news on the liver/lung tests! I'm hoping for great news on the bone biopsy also. I did feel the lump, but I never felt sick either. It was hard to accept. I felt great. How could I possibly have cancer? It's very hard to accept at first. But you are in the hardest part. Once the decisions are made and you start the journey, it gets easier. It's putting a plan in place and making those decisions that sucks. Yeah for the good luck bear!! Glad you were able to avoid an accident. One last thought- S&W won't do reconstruction until you are finished with treatment, so I haven't even given it much thought yet. I like it like that. I have enough to deal with right now just getting through the surgery and chemo. I don't need radiation because I had a mastectomy, clear nodes and clear margins. When I am done with chemo in two weeks (yeah!!!), I will have the genetic testing. If positive, I will have my right breast and ovaries removed. If negative, then I'm done and will then have to consider reconstruction. I am also most likely taking part in another clinical trial for bone health. Definitely keeping up with you neighbor and wishing you well as you make these difficult decisions. (((hugs))) Mary~~ Left mastectomy/ no recon, SNB and port placement- 4/3/2009; Starting DD AC x 4 and Taxol x 12 plus Clinical Trial E5103 on 5/26/2009
Diagnosis: 3/4/2009, IDC, 2cm, Stage IIa, Grade 3, 0/5 nodes, ER-/PR-, HER2- |
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Liane Joined: Aug 2009 Posts: 114 |
Sep 22, 2009 07:43 pm, edited Sep 22, 2009 07:48 PM
by Liane
Liane wrote:
Well, I think I just got the best help MD Anderson could provide. The surgeon's nurse contacted me to explore my abivalent status. She had all the Dr notes and reports in front of her because she related chapter and verse everything about my tumor and testing. She wanted to know if I was leaning towards surgery and to talk about my thoughts because the Dr's notes indicated I was unsure. Maybe it's a woman thing but she took my uncertainty and helped me explore it and drew me out about the situation. She helped me find some clarity I just couldn't access myself. We spoke for nearly 45 minutes. What a bonus she is. I told her that my onc. is just great but everytime I get in there I just can't concentrate to ask what I need to ask or explore what he is saying very far. I've always been that way, I learn better reading and don't ask as many questions as perhaps I should. Fortunately she did most of the talking as she always seemed to be able to connect my statements to a greater understanding of what everything in all these tests means. She said that the oncs and surgeons would recommend chemo first given my test results and demographics but of course would follow my wishes. She helped me pull my head out of my a$$ and give voice to my fears about chemo....(watching two siblings battle neuroblastoma 40 years ago, the chemo was horrific, they did not survive) I know, I know, it's much better now, but those memories are searing. She checked my schedule too and gave me the update. The additional bone test is scheduled for Friday 6pm. They had to squeeze me in and I guess someone is doing overtime on a Friday night! Guess I'll be looking at really short haircuts soon. Just saw your post Tx Rose. It's funny that the Round Rock people didn't mention anything about a Cancer Center in Temple. There is a disconnect there. The general surgeon was going to hand me off to a contract radiation place here in Georgetown. Oh well. Water under the bridge but I'll keep that in mind as I get this going. Apparently my 2cm tumor based on the Round Rock exam became 2.4-3cm with the MDA mammo/ultrasound and the onc said they consider that large, not huge, but large. Diagnosis: 9/1/2009, IDC, 2cm, Stage II, Grade 2, ER+/PR+, HER2- |
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Marybe Joined: Apr 2009 Posts: 403 |
Sep 22, 2009 07:46 pm
Marybe wrote:
..Couldn't an onco closer to home do the chemo and you could go back to MDA for followup up scans and tests and review of the treatment. I am going to MDA on Monday for a consultation which will actually be sort of a tiebreaker for me....do the chemo my onco wants to continue with even though I had terrible SEs or try IMRT or radiofrequency ablation which another rad/ onco said I would work for me? I am not expecting a miracle by any means, but am hoping that perhaps the onco there can at least give me another option. I am sorry I cannot help you with your decision re chemo first or surgery since that was never part of my dealings with the big C. I do know several people who had chemo first and the reasoning was that then the tumor would be smaller and surgery not as invasive. When you come right down to it others can give you opinions, but in the end it is your decision and only you know what is right for you. I think it is wonderful the way you are sharing this experience with us. I am saying my prayers for you. Marybe
Diagnosis: 4/1998, IDC, Stage IV, 0/19 nodes, mets, ER+/PR+, HER2- |
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Liane Joined: Aug 2009 Posts: 114 |
Sep 22, 2009 07:52 pm
Liane wrote:
Hi Marybe, hope you get sunny weather on Monday. Rainy now down there. I go back and forth on exploring the option of receiving the chemo here vs. doing 100% of my treatment in Houston. I really like them and feel safe there. But I sure would like to shorten the drive too. ack. Maybe I better find that clarity nurse lady and have her straighten me out again..........gee, I used to be so damn decisive....and I can't blame it on chemo brain yet either. Diagnosis: 9/1/2009, IDC, 2cm, Stage II, Grade 2, ER+/PR+, HER2- |
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Marybe Joined: Apr 2009 Posts: 403 |
Sep 22, 2009 07:52 pm
Marybe wrote:
ooops, took me so long to write the above that you have talked to a nurse in the meantime and it sounds as if she helped you by talking things over. Sometimes doctors are intimidating without meaning to be and may be the best onco in the world, but if they aren't good communicators that is a problem. Marybe
Diagnosis: 4/1998, IDC, Stage IV, 0/19 nodes, mets, ER+/PR+, HER2- |
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hollyann Joined: Nov 2007 Posts: 2,391 |
Sep 22, 2009 08:16 pm
hollyann wrote:
liane, I have been reading your posts and just had to add my two cents' worth to the mix...My sister Fran was dx 5 months before I was with stage 3 breast cancer...her tumor was over 5 cm.....She did surgery first instead of chemo first and she is happily over 3 years out and still NED.....Also regarding doing all your treatment in georgetown or Houston, Do the treatmetn where you are most comfortable......As for your indecisiveness, that hails from the fear of the unknown.....I usually am a very decisive person, but after my dx I had to let others decide alot for me.....I had the last say of course but the initial things I had my DH decide for me.........I wish you a speedy recovery no matter what you decide and i hope to see you here in a few years saying "do you remember when?.".......and laughing about it.....I laugh about my experiences now....Or rather my reactions to them......It is good to get to a point where you feel normal again and it will come.......You are so new to this journey that it doesn't feel that way right now, but I promise you will have a new normal and you will wonder how you ever coped with the old normal....My experiences have made me stronger as a person and more compassionate for others.....I feel the need to reach out and help others like me who have or are going through this awful cancer experience.....please feel free to PM me if you like....... Hugs and love, Lucy also dx with DCIS grade 2 er/pr + her2 neg
Diagnosis: 1/15/2007, IDC, 1cm, Stage Ib, Grade 1, 0/6 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2- |
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TexasRose Joined: Mar 2009 Posts: 536 |
Sep 22, 2009 08:29 pm
TexasRose wrote:
Liane- I understand the change in tumor size. I was told mine was 1.5 cm after mammogram and ultrasound. After the MRI, the size was changed to 2.5 cm and confirmed after it was removed during surgery. My breast surgeon told me that was common. Glad you found a nurse to help you. It's all so overwhelming. I agree that you need to go where you feel most comfortable. I can't believe Round Rock didn't mention the Cancer Treatment Center. It's very large and newly redone. So odd that they wouldn't tell you about it. Especially with the Cancer Research Center here. You aren't indecisive...you are just overwhelmed. We've all been there. It's scary and there is so much information and so many decisions to be made. It will get easier. I swear! Mary~~ Left mastectomy/ no recon, SNB and port placement- 4/3/2009; Starting DD AC x 4 and Taxol x 12 plus Clinical Trial E5103 on 5/26/2009
Diagnosis: 3/4/2009, IDC, 2cm, Stage IIa, Grade 3, 0/5 nodes, ER-/PR-, HER2- |
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TXGrama Joined: Sep 2009 Posts: 16 |
Sep 22, 2009 10:02 pm
TXGrama wrote:
Liane, Glad the nurse called to clarify everything. It's often hard to absorb it all at once. Making the beginning decision is the hardest part of the journey and you're getting there. I'll be thinking of you Friday. Hugs Diagnosis: 1990, IDC, <1cm, Stage I, 0/12 nodes, ER-/PR- |
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Liane Joined: Aug 2009 Posts: 114 |
Sep 22, 2009 10:21 pm
Liane wrote:
hollyann, thanks so much for the encouragement. You are on target. I'll be such a different person after this and I'm sure a better one. For the last 20 years I've been focused on my disabled son and my husbands heart surgeries. I have been the facilitator and controller of our schedules and so much more. I was thinking on the drive home that I have often at my lowest points wondered how it would be to surrender to dependence on someone else......I'm finding that out and it's really been sweet to see my DH step up to the plate. I have to let go and it won't be easy but I'm sure ready to do it. TXRose: I got another dose of Round Rock and Temple miscommunicating the other day. Getting path reports sent.......Round Rock told me one thing and Temple another. Turns out Temple had already sent the slides to MDA but RR didn't know it. RR radiology kept trying to contact me to give me the results in the beginning and apparently did not realize that my GP at the Georgetown clinic had already made a next day appt. to get me on board with the results. I like Scot & White for a lot of reasons but this disorganization sealed my determination to go to Houston. If they had referred me to Temple I would have given them a look see for sure. I may still look at coordinating the chemo closer...........decisions, decisions. Diagnosis: 9/1/2009, IDC, 2cm, Stage II, Grade 2, ER+/PR+, HER2- |
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