All Topics → Forum: Just Diagnosed → Topic: 32, Diagnosed with IDC grade III last week, & now this!!!
Posted on: May 26, 2012 05:53 PM
Sparkysbrat wrote:
I am 32, have 4 kids ages 13 and under. diagnosed with IDC grade 3 last week, and am at my top stress level. We have been having major finacial difficlties, family problems, ect, you can see my other threads. Now my hubby is in the ER, had major headache for 3 days, chest pain, and could barely move. They did ekg, bloodwork, xrays. thinking heart attack. He went by himself because had to find someone to get kids. Now they are transfering him to another hospital, and im stuck at home because our only.vehicle is at the er and nobody will give me a ride. Im crying my eyes out. When will all this stop?
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May 26, 2012 06:29 PM itsjustme10 wrote:
OMG, I so wish I lived close enough to help you.
Can you call your Church and see if there's a member there who could give you a ride to the ER? Or call the hospital and see if they have a volunteer who would be willing to get you? Those are the only 2 suggestions I can come up with.
Hope your husband will be OK.
May 26, 2012 06:45 PM pamelahope wrote:
I feel for you. Ask to speak to the hospital social worker. The previous poster mentioned calling a church. I hope your husband is okay. I want you to be okay too! Pam
May 26, 2012 07:00 PM lostinmo wrote:
Sending you ((hugs)). Wish I could help, I agree with the others maybe try the hospital or your church. Hope everything works out for your husband.
May 26, 2012 07:03 PM Denise-G wrote:
Thoughts and prayers your way immediately......
May 26, 2012 07:19 PM Mooleen wrote:
OMG, you go from bad to worse. I am so sorry. You seriously need some support there. Do you have any family that could come to help you?
May 26, 2012 07:31 PM momof3boys wrote:
Any neighbors?? Relatives that can come help?
May 26, 2012 07:38 PM Sparkysbrat wrote:
Landlord brought me to get van. Now in hospital with hubby. Did have heart attack. Worry about gas to get home and my bc later. Thank you for well wishes and prsyers
May 26, 2012 07:42 PM Sparkysbrat wrote:
No family or friends to help. Im just beyond myself right noe
May 26, 2012 10:52 PM nitakay wrote:
Try not to worry or stress out....you have lots going on with just trying to be a mom on top of it all. One day at a time & remember to ask for help....others want to help just ask sometimes our pride gets in the way but it is okay to need help. You have to take care of you....your surgery is right around the corner just focus on healthy thoughts. Will say a extra prayer for you tonight & your hubby & your kiddos.....God is with you always! It must seem your world is caving in right now but you got this!!!
May 27, 2012 02:10 PM Sparkysbrat wrote:
Thank you ladies. Heart.attack just.mild, and bp through the roof but under control now. Still 150/98 on meds, but better than it was. Grrr. Lol. And I thought I was stubborn. All this going on, and he.complains about the heart healthy diet they put him on hahaha. I left my meds at home.I was such in a hurry to get there, but made a trip to the ER. Feeling better now. Ive decided to give up. And I mean that in a good way. Im too syressed out and its doing me or my family no good. Im just leaving it in the hands of the lord.
May 27, 2012 04:12 PM raffomimi wrote:
Sparkysbrat,
Sorry to hear everything that's going on but you are right, best leave it in the hands of the Lord. " Come to me those who are weary and heavy burdened, for I will give you rest" " Cast your cares and worries upon me".................Step out in trust that he will and know you are not on this journey alone.That's what I do and 99% of the time I don't have a care in the world, let go and let God...........
Blessings and hugs
Maria
May 29, 2012 05:34 PM carpediem1965 wrote:
Ladies - please see my thread of support for a "card shower" for Lisa. Thanks for being there for her!
community.breastcancer.org/for...
May 29, 2012 05:38 PM MiniMacsMom wrote:
Big Hugs!
May 30, 2012 04:49 PM omg333 wrote:
omgoodness Lisa, yes, you need to a lot of help! Can't believe what I'm reading.
My prayers are with you and your family! xoxoo
May 30, 2012 05:07 PM, edited May 30, 2012 05:08 PM by julz4
((((((((((((((SPARKY))))))))))))))))) feel my squeeze Sistah! Oh how I feel where you are at! I too wish I was close....it just feels like....couldn't something "NORMAL" happen for a change! Why does it have to be this Crazy Si Fi insane things that keep happening! "Is THIS ALL really happening"!!!! Kinda feeling....then you pinch yourself & think yep it's me I'm here! This IS really happening! Some days I want to go to sleep & wake up to the year "2013" hoping it was ALL a horrible dream! With You Girl! In Spirit for sure!
May 30, 2012 05:14 PM mclark55 wrote:
Hi there - I'm really concerned about your stress levels! It's amazing what we get sent to deal with sometimes, isn't it? So sorry you're going through all of this right now. I write a daily blog to help others get through this journey and I wrote one on anxiety which I hope will help you: marnieclark.com/10-anxiety-bus... Hoping that life gets better for you SOON! xoxox
May 30, 2012 08:57 PM Sparkysbrat wrote:
Thanks girls. I havent been on much, as I have been hurting alot, and been trying to finish job, and take care of hubby, who, on his meds, is doing much better. Thank you for all the prayers and cards. They changed my surgery date today to the 13th at 9 am, have to go in the 12th for preop testing. And patty is doing better. I just wish that leg would heal. I am trying to work with landlord to work out deal on rent, which is due friday. Grrrrrrr. Lol
May 30, 2012 09:21 PM pamelahope wrote:
Lisa,
I am thinking of you. I am sorry you are going through so much at once. Pam
May 30, 2012 09:31 PM christina0001 wrote:
So sorry you are going through all this. Way too much, no one deserves all that. I hope and pray it gets better for you from here.