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  • Posted on: May 18, 2009 03:08 pm
San Antonio, Tx
Joined: Apr 2009
Posts: 36
Lorena wrote:

About my 3rd cycle of chemo (TCH), I noticed pain when having sex.  I did break out with a mouth sore and upon explaining such to my onc, she prescribed Valtrex.  She said I should take it while on chemo and I did. 

I refrained from having sex since but now 6 weeks out from my last (6th cycle) chemo and 2 weeks out since my mastectomy, I'm wondering if it's safe to try.  Should I try the over the counter warming gels?  I'm just afraid that I may irritate that of what was obvisiouly affected with chemo.

I was having sex just fine with no pain, up until the end of my 3rd cycle.  And now having been off of chemo for 6 weeks I'm wondering if it's safe to try??

Lorena L. Monreal
Dx 12/17/2008, 6cm+, Stage IIIa, Grade 3, ER-/PR-, HER2+
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REKoz
Long Island, NY
Joined: Jan 2009
Posts: 402
May 18, 2009 03:32 pm REKoz wrote:

My gyno recommended the KY "intimate" beads which you can get at Target. Seems chemo takes all the natural fluid from that area and leaves us quite dry!  I just picked it up. She said to use it not just for sex but to keep the entire inside area lubricated.

Good luck!

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Dx 10/16/2008, IDC, 1cm, Stage I, Grade 2, 0/5 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2+
Lorena
San Antonio, Tx
Joined: Apr 2009
Posts: 36
May 18, 2009 03:52 pm Lorena wrote:

Thank you REKoz... will try :)

Lorena L. Monreal
Dx 12/17/2008, 6cm+, Stage IIIa, Grade 3, ER-/PR-, HER2+
She
Joined: Aug 2005
Posts: 145
May 19, 2009 05:03 am She wrote:

Lorena,

I found "Astro Glide" better than KY products.  If you're sensitive, be careful with any 'warming' product.  Also, doctors recommend "Replens" until natural lubrication returns.  All the best, Blu

Lorena
San Antonio, Tx
Joined: Apr 2009
Posts: 36
May 20, 2009 11:43 am Lorena wrote:

Blu... appreciate it.  :)

Lorena L. Monreal
Dx 12/17/2008, 6cm+, Stage IIIa, Grade 3, ER-/PR-, HER2+

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