Topic: Where Are The "Oldbies"?

HI, Laura,

I'm still here! I had a second primary recently (Stage 1 again!) and am going through reconstruction, but I feel great.

There are only a few of us oldies here any more. Some just pop in from time to time. I was just thinking about Sprite the other day, as the almond trees are probably in bloom in central CA. I miss her.

Good to see you here. I hope you are well.

Anne

Laura,

Shirlann is still here.  She posts regularly all over the boards.  Pm her at Shirlann - I'm sure she would love to hear from you.

Good Luck!!

Valerie 

Hi Laura,

I remember your posts.  That was back in the days when there were are lot less sections to post under.  It was also easier to remember everyone!  It seems like once Marci Beth went on the Today Show with Sunshine and Shirlann, the boards went crazy.  Which really was a good thing because this board has been a lifesaver for many!

We have lost a lot of sisters but I think losing Stacey has been the toughest.  For me, she was breastcancer.org.  She was the first one to reach to any newbie.  And Sprite...I still think about Kathy as well.

I'm 6.5 years NED now.  But in May 2007 at the age of 51 I was dx'd with congestive heart failure and cardiomyopathy.  It appears the Adriamycin I had in 2001 damaged my heart!  That was quite a shock.  I'm on a bunch of heart meds now but otherwise doing good!

Hope your tests and visit with the onc turn out great!

Debbie

Hey Laura!  Saw your post on the other board and wanted to let you know that oldbies are still here.

I'm 5.5 years out and grooving, sort of, I even still hang around here.(maybe too much, but then, I'm retired)

So glad to see you -- the boards Were more simple in the day.  I'll never forger everyone being so supportive, and wow, could we cuss!

Remember the beach bag parties?

I was diagnosed in jan 2003 and although don't post very often I am still here and NED.Mrs B

DebbieB, I took Adriamyacin too, but my oncol. had me take it home in a fanny pack, attached to me, where it would go into me very slowly, during a weekend, starting on Friday, and I'd go back and they'd take it out Monday morning.  Did they do this to you, or did they give it to you "full force" with your treatments?  My oncol. felt it would be less damage done if it was infused slowly.  I am curious to know how you had yours done.

I hope that the damage is minimal and that med's will be able to keep it in check.  Cure one thing, damage another!

I'm sorry your oncol. didn't know to do the procedure like mine did....wow, ventricle damage?  You poor thing!  Thank God the med's keep it at bay.

I go for my battery of tests tomorrow, results on Fri. w/the oncol.  Not nervous, for some strange reason,guess my mind is on my youngest son, who's been fighting a resistant pneumonia since Xmas...he feels great, his chest x rays show congestion still.  We've got another appt. for him April17th, and if it still shows infiltration, they're gonna have to do a bronchoscopy.  I hate to think what's in his lungs.  He's Down's, and my sweetest boy.

That's about it.

Lilia here, present and accounted for... now known as NaughtybyNature. 

Came aboard Oct. 2003 and met you on 2004 at the NYC Get Together.  Almost 5 years here and overall still NED ().

How is your family, kids? 

Good to have you back.  Hope you stick around and don't go into any dry spell...

Hi Laura and Everyone,

I was also diagnosed in '02 and remember all of you. It was my second primary; my first was in '86. I'm doing okay, but lost my job a year-and-a-half ago, which means I also lost my health insurance. I had to skip my last few follow-up appointments with my oncologist. It's terrifying to live in the U.S. today without health insurance. All I can do is hope and pray I don't develop mets.

I check in about once a week or so. Wow, how the boards have changed since '02! Everyone seemed more innocent then because the site was relatively new and so few members had mets. I vividly remember what a shock it was when Kathy (Sprite) died. Now we've lost so many...

Anne, I'm glad to hear your second primary was also Stage 1 and that you're doing well. Hope your reconstruction goes well.

Laura, I'll check back to see how your checkup and tests went. I certainly hope you're fine and dancing with NED. Your poor son. At least he feels good; hopefully by the time his next appointment comes around his lungs will be clear. It's always harder to deal with our kids' health issues, isn't it?

My 29-year-old daughter had an unusual lump removed from the back of her neck a few weeks ago. Her doctor said it was probably nothing, but... The pathology report should have been back last week, but it's still not back. Sara asked the doctor's office to check on it last Friday and the receptionist was told they're holding it up for consultation. The receptionist said she didn't know what that meant. My daughter, who's a registered nurse, said she did. So scary. Sara should hear something any day now. Gosh, I hope this is a false alarm and everything is okay!

My daughter has two young daughters, ages 6 1/2 and 3. I babysit for them four days a week. They brighten my life.

It's so good to see so many familiar names from the past!

Hugs to all,

Sandy

Hi my dear, precious sisters! I am still here, 72 and 9 & 1/2 years post treatment, and Marci Beth is just fine, she is 5 years plus out, and Lori too. We lost Sunshine from that group that did the show on CBS, but the rest of us are fine.

I don't post as often as I used to. My info, believe it or not, is getting old and out of date. For instance, I am a Triple Negative, and when they told me back in 1998, I thought okay, so what? Now, it is a big deal. It was really a big deal even then, but no one knew much, tests were not completed, so ignorance in that case, for me, was bliss.

There are thousands upon thousands of women world-wide who are well and moving on. I heard from a lady from the UK who is a doctor, she went through treatment about 6 years ago and had a real hard time mentally, but she is okay now and doing well.

I think often, the mental end of this is the worst. OH MY Lilia and Sierra! My old friends! How are you?

So good to hear from a lot of the "Oldies", God bless us all.

Hugs, Shirlann

I guess I'm an oldie too. Diagnosed in '01 and joined here after treatment. I joined first as Binney1 but promptly (and accidentally) signed myself out, forgot my password and had to re-register as Binney2. That time I smartened up and wrote down the password on a piece of paper and taped it to my computer. So when I again accidentally signed out I went looking for the piece of paper and couldn't find it. Moved right on to Binney3, and then...

I've been Binney4 for a long time now, but I live always with the awful knowledge that at any moment I may be forced to become Binney5.

Other than that, I'm well. I'm of course a lymphomaniac, which will be no news to any of you. I still hang out here every day hoping to catch any Sisters who fall through the lymphedema-shaped hole in our current medical care system.

Hoping for only good news from those of you waiting on (ugh!) test results, and especially for your precious son, Laura. SO GLAD he's feeling well!

Be well! And don't anybody swell!

Binney 

jellydonut,

I know Ruth Evans died, but I don't remember when. She didn't post for a long time and after searching for a while, I found a post with a link to her obituary. I'm sure this was at least a couple of years ago.

Ruth really was a dear. Her story was just heartbreaking. Something kept showing up on her mammograms, but the techs insisted it was nothing and by the time it was finally followed up on, she was Stage 4 with bone mets.

I also miss Fighter Lu and of course our dear Sunshine.

Sandy

Laura: Denisa is still Denisa. She is fine, just very busy.  And yes, I used to be tall and skinny... LOL

Shirlann: my sweet beautiful young lady... how are you? 

Sierra:... how's Canada?  I was just there for Easter.

So happy to see many of the "faces" from my time still around, even those that I personally did not talk too but "know" them from seeing them around... and yes... the Boards have been quite different for some time now... even causing me to leave for a good time...

Nevertheless, good to see you all.

Guess what just happened to me?!  I lost my big toenail....again!  Goddamnit, I've had this happen several times since chemo, and damned if it doesn't always happen around the warm weather, when I get pedicures and wear sandals!!!  My manicurist says they can't put on a fake toe nail, so I am down to painting my Goddamned skin until the nail regrows...again!

So glad to hear from everyone!  This thread is growing yarn!  I will let everyone know how the results from my tests went yesterday, as I see my oncol. tomorrow.  Wish me luck!

Laura:

I just wanted to wish you
all the best on your tests
Sorry, I forgot to mention on my post

Shirlann, Lillia, Binney, and others
so nice to see you in here
I remember Binney helping me out
with info on lympha, and Shirlann, have you
still got your lovely dog, Lillia of course
had me in stitches, when I first joined up here
some of the threads, truly, we had lots of good
chuckles back then. Hope you enjoyed a good trip
Lillia. :) Did someone mention an Yvonne here? I do recall a lady from South Africa, Yvonne.

I'm up early today, been up since 4..
have to head out soon

Be well all
and thanks for starting this
thread :))


Hugs, Sierra

Maybe more will post