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  • Posted on: Aug 9, 2009 08:27 pm
beloit, wi
Joined: Mar 2005
Posts: 1,839
saint wrote:

For those of you who frequented the chat room 5 years ago, you couldn't help but remember our own inimitable mena! Boards sisters can't help but know her by her Mojo thread! Few ppl have as quick a wit or strong a shoulder.

Life has handed her a lot of ca-ca over the last few years, not the least of which is multiple mets. She has decided to forego any further chemo tx (she is the QUEEN of chemo--I don't think there is one she hasn't tried!) She is in palliative care & currently experiencing a pain management issue with her liver. She could use our prayers, good vibes, support & well wishes. If you care to post them on this thread we will be sure she gets to see them. I am praying that some answers are found to make her comfortable. I so enjoy hearing her LOL!!

Lord, please grant many more chuckles to Mena, our friend! 

Hugs--be well & stay strong 

Life is not about waiting for the storms to end, but learning to dance in the rain! Orig dx Nov '00 stg1 gr3 0/27 pos nodes er/pr+ her2- mets dx apr '04 eyes & bones new dx jan '07 lung
Dx ILC, 1cm, Stage IV, Grade 3, 0/27 nodes, mets, ER+/PR+, HER2-

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celia088
Joined: Jul 2005
Posts: 2,589
Aug 10, 2009 03:58 pm celia088 wrote:

Mena, i am sending you lots of hugs and good wishes and plenty of encouragement to get through this setback.  I miss you on the boards and chat. You are an amazing woman.

hugs, celia 

"May your heart always be joyful, May your song always be sung, May you stay forever young"........Bob Dylan
Sige
Kelowna, BC
Joined: Apr 2006
Posts: 2,356
Aug 10, 2009 03:59 pm Sige wrote:
Never, ever, tease a witch with PMS.
faithandfif…
Columbus, OH
Joined: Mar 2007
Posts: 6,650
Aug 10, 2009 08:29 pm faithandfifty wrote:

Mena...... just wanting you to know that as I come to 'know' you here, I send more on more messages of strength out to you.

You have meant so much to so many & it's WONDERFUL to know how much you have made a difference in the lives of these significant people.

Strength and courage.

Strength and courage.

Strength and courage.

xx00xx00xx00xx00xx00xx

Keep up with my travels at: www.rainbowswithinreach.blogspot.com
DFW
Joined: Aug 2005
Posts: 241
Aug 10, 2009 08:49 pm DFW wrote:

Mena,

We have known each other for several years and shared several phone calls. You have been so strong, couragous and an inspiration to me. Let me hold your hand my friend and draw strength from my admiration and love for you. Wish I was close enough to physically help you.

Love You my Friend

Doris

nosurrender…
NY
Joined: Dec 2004
Posts: 4,991
Aug 10, 2009 09:25 pm nosurrender wrote:

Mena, sending you lots of love and many prayers

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spar2
OK
Joined: Jan 2004
Posts: 6,036
Aug 10, 2009 10:16 pm spar2 wrote:

((((((((((((Mena))))))))))))))) sending hugs and prayers for perfect pain control.  Your a genius for starting the mojo thread.  It has helped so many.  God bless you and keep you.

All of my friends are right inside my heart
hollyann
Alpharetta, Ga
Joined: Nov 2007
Posts: 2,391
Aug 10, 2009 10:28 pm hollyann wrote:

mena, you mean so much to me...I truly thank you for the mojo thread...Without that i don't think I woudl have my mojo back!.......Sending you gentle hugs and well wishes...i will say a littel prayer for you...........God bless you sweetie.....

Hugs and love, Lucy also dx with DCIS grade 2 er/pr + her2 neg
Dx 1/15/2007, IDC, 1cm, Stage Ib, Grade 1, 0/6 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
lizws
OK
Joined: Jul 2005
Posts: 2,636
Aug 11, 2009 09:57 am lizws wrote:

Miss Mena,

I remember our days in chat so well.  You have always been and continue to be a strong woman and one hell of a fighter.  You are a true gem my friend. 

I pray you find the right pain relief and continue each day as you chose.

Love ya kiddo.

Liz

"Each day's a gift and not a given right".......Nickelback
Dx 7/18/2005, ILC, 2cm, Stage IIa, Grade 2, 1/4 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
Fitztwins
MI
Joined: Dec 2004
Posts: 7,731
Aug 11, 2009 11:25 am Fitztwins wrote:

We are all with her, in love and spirit.

Wash away my troubles, wash away my pain, with the rain of shambala
Dx 12/12/2004, IDC, Stage IV, Grade 2, mets, ER+/PR+, HER2+
Sige
Kelowna, BC
Joined: Apr 2006
Posts: 2,356
Aug 11, 2009 12:10 pm Sige wrote:

HA HA!!!  Remember this Mena?????  You little hottie...

Never, ever, tease a witch with PMS.
hollyann
Alpharetta, Ga
Joined: Nov 2007
Posts: 2,391
Aug 11, 2009 06:24 pm hollyann wrote:

LOL Sige!.....I don't think I ever saw this pic!......

Mena miss you in chat and always........Prayers for you to regain strength to come back to us.....

Hugs and love, Lucy also dx with DCIS grade 2 er/pr + her2 neg
Dx 1/15/2007, IDC, 1cm, Stage Ib, Grade 1, 0/6 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
christine52…
ny
Joined: May 2006
Posts: 56
Aug 11, 2009 06:52 pm christine52 wrote:

Saint thank you for posting this.

Mena you will be in my prayers with much love

hoping the pain management is right on

Christine 

sakura73
Australia
Joined: Feb 2009
Posts: 265
Aug 11, 2009 09:21 pm sakura73 wrote:

Mena I am one of the many women who continue to benefit from the Mojo thread. Thank you for it. You are in my prayers and thoughts, especially for pain management and for continued grace.


Dx 1/22/2009, ILC, 2cm, Grade 2, 2/17 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
TheShopMama…
LaGrange, GA
Joined: Feb 2005
Posts: 1,243
Aug 12, 2009 04:40 pm TheShopMama wrote:

A message for Mena from Puppy: 

Mena... Your Puppy loves you so much.  Anytime you want to call her, her phone is open.  She has not been able to get on the computer, but she prays for you all the time and your hearts will always be togther.  JTTW.....

Laughter defies difficult moments their thievery of your joy.
Dx 12/16/2008, DCIS, 2cm, Stage IIa, Grade 3, ER-/PR-, HER2+
candie1971
NJ
Joined: Jun 2006
Posts: 3,999
Aug 12, 2009 04:43 pm candie1971 wrote:

God bless you Mena and I am praying for you!

Good friends are like stars....you don't always see them but you know they are always there.
Dx 5/26/2006, IDC, 2cm, Stage II, Grade 2, 0/1 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
sam52
United Kingdom
Joined: Oct 2003
Posts: 1,252
Aug 12, 2009 05:11 pm sam52 wrote:

Mena......Hugs and love from across the pond.

Hoping you get pain-relief sorted quickly.

Sam xx

dx Oct 2001 IDC 1.6cm, stage II, grade 3, 3/11 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
Sige
Kelowna, BC
Joined: Apr 2006
Posts: 2,356
Aug 12, 2009 05:12 pm Sige wrote:
Never, ever, tease a witch with PMS.
DFW
Joined: Aug 2005
Posts: 241
Aug 12, 2009 08:54 pm DFW wrote:

Nicki, Mena was also one ot the first ones I met. There are many that I rarely see in chat or the boards anymore such as silly missy moo, dillo, gnu, etc.

Doris

KLynn
Joined: Jan 2007
Posts: 1,389
Aug 12, 2009 09:14 pm KLynn wrote:

Hey Mena, 

You were one of the first ladies I talked to in the chat at night...I haven't been in there in over a year, and I miss talking to you...you are such a wonderful lady, and funny to boot....I hope they can get your pain under control, give you peace and give you relief...Gentle hugs sweet sister..Hugs KLynn..

How lucky I was to have known someone, that was so hard to say goodbye to....
Dx , Stage IV, 6/17 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2+
roseg
DC Area
Joined: Sep 2004
Posts: 8,487
Aug 12, 2009 09:17 pm roseg wrote:

Mena - I hope this finds you more comfortable!

Take care -

Rose
livesstrong…
NJ
Joined: Sep 2006
Posts: 2,400
Aug 13, 2009 08:23 am livesstrong wrote:

Mena -

not sure if you will remember me - we met a few years ago with some other Jersey girls at a restaurant in Edison.  Remember you had a hard time finding the place and I talked you thru it over the phone?

I was in the middle of my journey then and you gave me such hope that day.

I just wanted to thank you and pray you have better days ahead.

Valerie

Someday I'll wish upon a star and wake up where the clouds are far behind me.
hollyann
Alpharetta, Ga
Joined: Nov 2007
Posts: 2,391
Aug 13, 2009 08:28 am hollyann wrote:

Mena thinking of you today, sweet sister......Praying for your comfort and strength today....I miss you in chat and here ont he boards.....I don't know about the other ladies here but I still need your help with my mojo....You always have the answers I need ....Great nig hugs to you, sister........
Can someone please PM me her address so I can send her a card?.........thank you.......

Hugs and love, Lucy also dx with DCIS grade 2 er/pr + her2 neg
Dx 1/15/2007, IDC, 1cm, Stage Ib, Grade 1, 0/6 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
lizws
OK
Joined: Jul 2005
Posts: 2,636
Aug 13, 2009 10:00 am lizws wrote:

Hey Miss M.......you will always be a special lady in my life.  You helped me so much.  Sending lots of prayers that your pain is under control and you are having some relief.  Lots of hugs sweetie. 

"Each day's a gift and not a given right".......Nickelback
Dx 7/18/2005, ILC, 2cm, Stage IIa, Grade 2, 1/4 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
dreamwriter…
Toronto , ON
Joined: Feb 2008
Posts: 1,587
Aug 13, 2009 11:50 am dreamwriter wrote:

I will be sending positive thoughts.  I dont think we have interacted much.  But whenever I do - it is always uplifting.

So right back atcha.

Laugh until it really IS funny.
Dx 12/20/2005, 6cm+, Stage IV, Grade 3, 18/18 nodes, mets, ER+/PR+, HER2-
shokk
Joined: Jun 2006
Posts: 1,843
Aug 13, 2009 01:03 pm shokk wrote:

There is a friend to many name Mena

She started a thread called mojo because she wasn't getting any

She started a trend

that was hard to not offend

but needed not to defend

so many she doesn't even know

are so grateful for her lack of mojo

we thank you our Dear Mena

for speaking about the lack of well you know

breast cancer takes our breast, our desires, our womanhood

but as hard as it tries it cannot take our sisterhood

love Shokk

I am a real smart ass in the best kind of way
hollyann
Alpharetta, Ga
Joined: Nov 2007
Posts: 2,391
Aug 13, 2009 02:59 pm hollyann wrote:

shokk what a beautiful poem.......it suits our dear Mena to a T........

Hugs and love, Lucy also dx with DCIS grade 2 er/pr + her2 neg
Dx 1/15/2007, IDC, 1cm, Stage Ib, Grade 1, 0/6 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
Sige
Kelowna, BC
Joined: Apr 2006
Posts: 2,356
Aug 13, 2009 06:16 pm Sige wrote:
Never, ever, tease a witch with PMS.
lizws
OK
Joined: Jul 2005
Posts: 2,636
Aug 13, 2009 07:06 pm lizws wrote:

Divine Miss M........Thinking of you and sending you lots of hugs and prayers.

Love ya

"Each day's a gift and not a given right".......Nickelback
Dx 7/18/2005, ILC, 2cm, Stage IIa, Grade 2, 1/4 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
Naniam
Joined: Sep 2005
Posts: 1,461
Aug 13, 2009 07:06 pm Naniam wrote:

Mena,  hope you are more comfortable.  Hope all the well wishes brings a smile to your face.

 Hugs !

lizws
OK
Joined: Jul 2005
Posts: 2,636
Aug 14, 2009 07:56 am lizws wrote:

Mena,

Continuing to send lots of hugs and prayers to you.

 Love ya......

"Each day's a gift and not a given right".......Nickelback
Dx 7/18/2005, ILC, 2cm, Stage IIa, Grade 2, 1/4 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-

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