All Topics → Forum: Palliative Therapy/Hospice Care → Topic: My Beautiful Mother is with the Angels
Posted on: Jun 9, 2012 01:26 AM
mimi1030 wrote:
Hello there,
At 9:10am after a courageous 8 year battle with this horrible disease, my mom took her last breath and went home to God and her mom and to meet the sister she never got to meet. She went peacefully and when they took her body away, she had a smile on her face. She was at rest and she is free from this disease and suffering. There is a hole in my heart that will never leave. I love u my dear Mother, you will live in my heart forever. Until we meet again paradise your memory will live in my heart. I will miss you so much. :( xxxxxx
She waited for me to get there, as she laid in her bed, I wrapped my arms around her and said momma it's okay to let go, you fought well and you can rest in peace now. We will miss you with all our hearts but you have suffered enough be free, spread your wings and fly.
She closed her eyes yesterday and went to sleep and she finally passed this morning.
Thank you for all your support and welcome here, I will be here to watch over you all and hopefully to offer my help for those going through the same sad times.
Take care of yourselves and stay in touch..
Hugs Michelle
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Jun 9, 2012 01:31 AM glostagirl wrote:
So sorry for your loss. One can tell that you loved your mom and she loved you back. Peace be with you.
Jun 9, 2012 01:34 AM Letlet wrote:
Mimi, I am so sorry. Where she is, cancer can never touch her now. May she rest in peace.
Jun 9, 2012 01:43 AM Moderators wrote:
Michelle, you have the sympathies of all of us here at Breastcancer.org.
Jun 9, 2012 01:46 AM dltnhm wrote:
My condolences sweet Michelle. I am thankful that you were able to get there to be with her. May the LORD draw you close at this time. My heartfelt prayers are with you and your sisters, esp. your young teen sister.
Jun 9, 2012 01:49 AM camillegal wrote:
Michelle, I am so sorry for your loss of u'r beautiful Mother--she will watch over u and is free of her pain.
Jun 9, 2012 01:57 AM Specialk3190 wrote:
So sorry for your loss! When my son passed in 1997 someone sent me a card with a quote that said "When someone you love becomes a memory...that memory becomes a treasure." Those words still ring true for me today 15 years later. Your Mom is at peace with God and the Angels, and your challenge is to begin to pick up the pieces of your broken heart as you move forward on the path. You will never forget, nor would you want to. May God Bless you and your family, and my your Mother Rest Eternally In Peace.
Jun 9, 2012 02:23 AM deborye wrote:
((((Michelle)))
Death leaves a heart ache
No one can heal
Love leaves a memory
No one can steal.
I lost my Mom to BC 16 years ago May 31st, she was 64 years old. Fought for 6 years. I miss her dearly.
Jun 9, 2012 03:48 AM mimi1030 wrote:
Thank you everyone. As the night draws closer I feel so lost. I want to see her as she was before cancer ever came into our lives. I want to hold her hand again and kiss her face. Why, did this have to happen to her. I know there is a purpose to all things but she was all we had. It's going to be a long night for a very long time. I am so sad, and I don't know what to do with myself. :(
Jun 9, 2012 04:08 AM macatacmv wrote:
mimi, I'm so sorry for your loss! It will feel dark for a time, let yourself feel the sadness, let it wash over you, then when the light begins to show through (and it will, even though it doesn't feel like it right now) let yourself feel that, too. You don't need to "know" what to do, or why, just be! Let others love you. ((((((((((HUGS)))))))))
Nancy
Jun 9, 2012 06:35 AM Blessings2011 wrote:
Michelle - I'm so sorry to hear of your mom's passing....
My mom passed three years ago after suffering ten years with end-stage Parkinson's. I miss her every day, but I know she is dancing with the angels, and all those she loved who went before her. Her suffering is a thing of the past.
Reading your words, hearing the things you said to her, made it very clear to me that you were the best, loving daughter you could be.
You escorted your mom out of this life into the next. What a gift you gave her! And after all her suffering, she crossed over with a smile on her face!
I always think of that song - "I will rise when He calls my name; no more sorrow, no more pain..."
She will always be in your heart. You will always be in hers.
May you feel God's peace and comfort in the days to come, and may warm sweet memories soon fill the hurting places in your heart.
Jun 9, 2012 07:39 PM Nancynow wrote:
(((Michelle))), I am so sorry. I'm saying prayers that your Mom rests in peace with God.
Thank God you were at her side for her last moments and you were able to see her, tell her it's OK to go. Take the beautiful moments of your times together with you through your life. The beautiful moments are what matter most. If I could, I'd reach throught the computer here to give you a gentle hug.
Please spend time with your sister or fiance, be with people so you won't feel so alone.
My best friend lost her Mom years ago. She was expecting to have her for much longer in life. She tells me that she feels her Mom watching over her, especially during tough times. If it is comforting for you, I hope you feel the same way.
Michelle, you have my contact info....please reach out if you need to. I am here for you.
Love, Nancy
Jun 9, 2012 07:43 PM Marple wrote:
Michelle, my deepest sympathy. I'm so sorry.
Jun 9, 2012 11:07 PM kayfh wrote:
Michelle, I am sorry for your loss. Kay
Jun 10, 2012 01:59 PM mthomp2020 wrote:
I'm so sorry you lost your dear mother, Michelle. I'm glad you were able to be there with her, and that her passing was peaceful. {{{{{{{{{{Michelle}}}}}}}}}}
Jun 10, 2012 02:19 PM ruthbru wrote:
I am so sorry for your loss. I too was with my mother as she breathed her last. It was a hard yet profound experience. I still miss her, and that was many years ago now. If your mom was like mine (and I'll bet she was), she will expect you to be sad, but also will want you to move forward as time goes on; have new experiences, do interesting and challenging things, and to really appreciate and enjoy life. My best wishes to you and your family. Ruth
Jun 10, 2012 11:48 PM Leah_S wrote:
Michele, my deepest condolences on your painful loss. May G-d send you comfort.
Leah
Jun 11, 2012 01:30 AM sweetbean wrote:
I'm so sorry for your loss - she sounds like a beautiful person. I know that you will miss her very much, but that you will see her again. May God keep you close during this difficult time.
Jun 11, 2012 02:49 PM, edited Jun 11, 2012 02:50 PM by greenacres
I am so sorry for the loss of your dear mother. My she rest in peace and may God comfort you during this most difficult time.
Jun 11, 2012 03:00 PM gracie1 wrote:
I am so sorry Michelle.
Jun 15, 2012 01:26 AM sincitydealer wrote:
Michelle, I hope it's some comfort to know your Mom is out of pain, and hopefully in a better place. I'm glad you made it to her side before she left this life. My heart breaks for you and your family.
Peggy
Jun 15, 2012 01:27 AM 1Athena1 wrote:
So sorry, Michelle....
Jun 15, 2012 01:41 AM FilterLady wrote:
Michelle....I'm sorry for the loss of your sweet Momma. My Momma passed away on 12/31/06 from lung cancer and I do know how you feel.
I'm not going to tell you that it will get better with time....that's not true (at least for me). I miss her as much today as I did the day she died. I've learned to cope with it better.
I think she's my special angel and I know that she has been with me every step of the way on the breast cancer journey.
I'm praying for you to have sweet memories to fill the void you feel now. Take time to think of those happy times and know that she is smiling from heaven and waiting to see you again.
God bless you and your family,
LaDonna
Jun 22, 2012 08:10 PM vivirasselena wrote:
I am so sorry for your loss. Cancer just takes away too many loved ones, and leaves too much pain in it's place.
I hope you will allow yourself time to grieve as you need to.
Again, I am so very, very sorry for your loss.
michele
Jun 29, 2012 07:38 PM thatsvanity wrote:
Hi Michelle,
I'm so sad when I read your words of grief and all the difficult wrenching emotions that come with grief. I'm grieving too. I hope you are having a good day today.
Love Amy
Aug 25, 2012 04:54 AM justjudie wrote:
Dear Michelle,
I am so sorry for your loss of your mom. You obviously loved her very much and there is a big hole in your life now. I think of my mother just about every day even though she has been gone 29 years. My deepest sympathy.