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Topic: I say yes, you say no, OR People are Strange

Forum: Growing our Friendships After Treatment — For those who have finished treatment, but want to continue growing your cybersister friendships.

Posted on: Jan 4, 2011 09:53 AM, edited Jul 29, 2011 01:33 AM by bluedahlia

bluedahlia wrote:

Thought I'd add mrmojorisin in there somewhere.

Let's try this again. 

Life is made up of differences. Let's explore these differences, learn from them and accept them.

Now "Don't stop till you get enough"!  I love Michael Jackson too!

We don't always see things as they are, we see them as we are.
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Mar 31, 2012 10:29 AM, edited Mar 31, 2012 10:33 AM by 1Athena1

Happy and sad cancer news - what to think? Oh, well, our Bartender (capital B is deserved) has the solution for both, so let's enjoy the evening! Bren, may the five years be fifty....Mary, may it be low grade and easily operable.

Ok, so I get to be the spoiler of the "great weather" celebrations, and append the following NYT article speculating that global warming is behind the unexpected heat of March:

www.nytimes.com/2012/03/29/sci...

I loved the cold weather today and yesterday. The sort of sunless breeze makes me want to go biking outdoors.

ETA: Happy to read about Barbara's optimism!


Diagnosis: 3/2009, IDC, 3cm, Stage IIb, Grade 3, 3/8 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Mar 31, 2012 11:35 PM Wabbit wrote:

Anybody else up and drinking coffee this fine Saturday morning? 

We had storms yesterday evening and the wind took down a big branch of our Bradford Pear tree in the back yard.  It doesn't look bad from the house but hubby says it looks worse from the other side ... will have to wander back there and check it out today.  Those trees are very pretty but they do don't do well with wind after they get a certain amount of big.  Darn.

Athena ... hope your cool down lasts for awhile.  I don't do well with hot, humid weather either so as much as I'm enjoying this early spring I'm just hoping the summer won't be a scorcher.  The Farmers Almanac says we are getting a mild and dry summer.  Hope they are right.


Diagnosis: 3/2006, IDC, 3cm, Stage II, Grade 2, 0/4 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Mar 31, 2012 11:45 PM kira1234 wrote:

Bren congrats on making 5 years.

It'sbeen a busy week here. We are having a sprinkler system put in and lots of trees and scrubs. It's time to move on with life and do the things we've been putting off!

Sure hope the Farmers Almanac is right about the summer. I would hate to do all this work to have a hurricane come through this year.


Diagnosis: 6/1/2010, ILC, <1cm, Stage Ia, Grade 1, 0/1 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Apr 1, 2012 12:40 AM gracie1 wrote:

Congrats Bren. One year further away from hell. Yay!

Athena, it can never be hot enough for me. I normally have to survive -40 C winters. Not this year though...our winter was shockingly mild. Something weird going on.


Diagnosis: IDC, 3cm, Stage IV, Grade 3, 26/35 nodes, mets, ER+/PR+, HER2+
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Apr 1, 2012 02:07 AM Bren-2007 wrote:

Morning Everybody!

Had a great time last night!  The hour drive home wasn't too bad.  I'm just always afraid a deer will jump out in front of me.  In June we're going to go see Queen play with the Roanoke Symphony.  Yay!  I love Queen.  The lead singer is supposed to be really good.

Somebody send me some motivation to get my ass outside and mow.  The grass is so tall it looks like it's waving in the breeze.  There is just so much ... it gets overwhelming.

Athena .. I imagine you'll enjoy the weather today.  It's supposed to stay in the mid 70's.

Rabbit .. It rained here last night too.

Kira .. Sounds like you're really busy!

Hope everyone has a wonderful day,

Bren

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Apr 1, 2012 02:12 AM YramAL wrote:

Still raining here. I've been dealing with a psycho robin at my house. He's being going round and round my house and banging at the windows. Today is the second day, and there are hundreds of little beak and claw marks on my windows. He seems to go away when I close the shades, but I peeked out and he was sitting on my car, just watching and waiting........I feel like a prisoner in my own house. LOL

For the first Saturday in a long time, I don't have anything planned. I'm going to read, and I might not even take a shower. Horrors!

Mary 

Mary-Oncotype Score 11
Diagnosis: 12/7/2009, IDC, 1cm, Stage I, Grade 2, 0/4 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Apr 1, 2012 03:11 AM Ang7 wrote:

Bren~

If you go do the huge grocery shop for me I will come and mow for you...

The kids are asking why the fridge is bare?

Do not feel like fighting the Saturday crowds...

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Diagnosis: 5/25/2009, IDC, 2cm, Stage IIa, Grade 2, 1/4 nodes, ER-/PR-, HER2+
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Apr 1, 2012 04:50 AM suzieq60 wrote:

I'm off to the markets today - can't wait. I hope my fish guy has more than last time. Also got to get bananas and avocados as the fruit shop didn't have any worth buying yesterday. I won't forget my fudge either. Steve's off to golf and I think I'll leave before him so I get there before all of the fish is gone.

Seeing it's cooler, the plan is to chop my hedge by about 2 feet in height - I've neglected it. Lucky it's not a big hedge just about 6 feet long. 

2nd diagnosis October 2010 - IDC 5.8mm node negative - missed on mammogram in October 2009
Diagnosis: 10/13/2009, ILC, 1cm, Stage I, Grade 3, 0/5 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2+
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Apr 1, 2012 05:18 AM, edited Apr 1, 2012 05:18 AM by Bren-2007

I'm HOT, DIRTY, SUNBURNED and TIRED!  Yep .. I mowed.  All of it, except the fields.  The worst part is the 100 yards along the road, as I have to use the pushmower on that.  And there's a little bank there too, so I have to push the mower sideways on the hill ... it's killing my bad arm/shoulder.  But that's what God invented pain pills for.

Other than that ... it's been a gorgeous day.

Ang .. Can't help you with the grocery shopping.  Tim had to stop on his way home today, cause he knew there would be no food in the house.  I can smell bacon cooking, so I guess we're having BLT's.

Susie .. Hope all went well chopping that hedge.  Our weedwacker is too big for me to operate, so I'm at Tim's mercy as to when it will ever get done.

Mary .. I had a bird like that last year.  The crazy thing was relentless about flying into the same window over and over.  I think it was a red cardinal.

Time for a shower and late lunch.

hugs,

Bren

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Apr 1, 2012 05:56 AM kira1234 wrote:

We had a pair of Cardinal's that thought our school was where they wanted to be. It was so funny they kept pecking at the window in the first grade pod for about a week. The kids really got a laugh out of them!  Can't understand what would be so appealing about a school filled with noisy kids!


Diagnosis: 6/1/2010, ILC, <1cm, Stage Ia, Grade 1, 0/1 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Apr 1, 2012 07:22 AM BarbaraA wrote:

Bren congrats on 5 years!!! How wonderful! Thanx for the thought Athena. Hoping all my pals are doing well.
Missing Blue.

Sometimes you're the bug and sometimes you're the windshield.
Diagnosis: 4/30/2010, IDC, 1cm, Stage Ib, Grade 2, 1/4 nodes, ER+/PR-, HER2-
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Apr 1, 2012 07:48 AM rosemary-b wrote:

Congrats Bren.

I got the good letter about my mammogram yesterday. It was only two days after the annual smashing. I think they fast track those with a history of bc.

My son took us to some of his old haunts in Grand Rapids. After walking ten blocks we got to the pastry shop, which had closed an hour earlier. Then on the way back to the car he suggested we stop at two other cute little shops both of which were also closed for the day. DH was muttering dark things. I did get some artisanal pasta from a cute little shop. We will have parsley and sweet onion ones tonight and spinach and artichoke ones another night.

Daisy is adorable.


Diagnosis: 2/25/2007, IDC, Stage I, 0/2 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2+
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Apr 1, 2012 07:55 AM suzieq60 wrote:

Came home form the markets with a loaded bag - got some great bananas really cheap. The fish was disappointing but he says he'll have a truck in another suburb on Good Friday so hopefully I'll be able to stock up. I did get some barramundi so I can make that beurre noisette and mash again. I did find some NZ fish at another stall - we can have that tonight. Stocked up on fudge - yumm.

I chopped the top of the hedge and then felt pooped so I'm resting - still need to tidy up the front of it - there's still room in our green bin, so after the current affair shows I'll head back out there. I might get my hedge trimmer out for the front bit as it's lighter foliage. I haven't planted the new gardenia magnifica I bought last week. We had a lovely one at the side of the house and it went all black and died - not sure if I should put the new one in the same place. It's just so nice to be able to go out in the garden - I was SO sick of the heat.

2nd diagnosis October 2010 - IDC 5.8mm node negative - missed on mammogram in October 2009
Diagnosis: 10/13/2009, ILC, 1cm, Stage I, Grade 3, 0/5 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2+
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Apr 1, 2012 09:55 AM Wabbit wrote:

Happy dance for Rosemary's 'good' letter! 

Went and looked closer at our damaged tree and another big limb is split and will probably go down the next time we get a good wind storm.  It's going to have to be cut down.  Drat ... it is really a pretty tree.  

  


Diagnosis: 3/2006, IDC, 3cm, Stage II, Grade 2, 0/4 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Apr 1, 2012 10:34 AM rosemary-b wrote:

WR

Darn it.


Diagnosis: 2/25/2007, IDC, Stage I, 0/2 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2+
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Apr 1, 2012 10:50 AM 1Athena1 wrote:

Spring in DC is truly beautiful, yucky as the summer is. I marvelled at the revolution of color in the gorgeous courtyard of my building today. Every day a different color will emerge, then disappear, only to be replaced by something even more stunning.

Filed taxes - yey! (In a manner of speaking) I bet the Wabbit and Barbara --early birds that you both are-- filed theirs ages ago! I'm happy to have done it before April.


Diagnosis: 3/2009, IDC, 3cm, Stage IIb, Grade 3, 3/8 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Apr 1, 2012 11:34 AM suzieq60 wrote:

Good girl Athena - Steve hasn't done our from 2010/2011 yet - he's allowed to be late cos he's a tax agent.

Hedge all chopped - got my trimmer out and make a great racket :) Also chopped another bush at the front of the house - bin nearly full. I might have said it's a bit cooler here, but not in the middle of the day - I must be mad. Now sitting with a fan on me and a towel to wipe the dripping sweat - the joys of a sub tropical climate - sigh.

2nd diagnosis October 2010 - IDC 5.8mm node negative - missed on mammogram in October 2009
Diagnosis: 10/13/2009, ILC, 1cm, Stage I, Grade 3, 0/5 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2+
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Apr 1, 2012 11:52 PM kira1234 wrote:

susie158 is understand living in the sub tropics! It's not even 11 and already hot. DH is working in the yard again today getting some trees cut that were hurt in storms and have never really recovered. I guess fruit trees when hurt revert to their old trees before grafting. We haven't had any fruit from them in the last few years so down they go! Anyway he's cutting and I'm dragging to the wood pile!


Diagnosis: 6/1/2010, ILC, <1cm, Stage Ia, Grade 1, 0/1 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Apr 3, 2012 02:36 AM Enjoyful wrote:

I have huge mock oranges behind my house and they're in full bloom.  Just gorgeous.  Love to open the windows and get that smell throughout the house.

This has been a glorious spring so far, though I shudder to feel what summer brings in the DC area.  Ugh.

Mess with me and I'll go Wisconsin on your ass!
Diagnosis: 8/28/2009, IDC, <1cm, Stage IV, Grade 2, 1/1 nodes, ER+/PR-, HER2-
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Apr 3, 2012 02:46 AM, edited Apr 3, 2012 02:54 AM by 1Athena1

Dropping in for a nanosecond because I have been melting all day from looking at this adorability - by the way, the dye is non toxic and harmless to the chicks:

Drat - it won't print by itself. You'll havwe to read the article. I am very pro animal rights and chicks should not be purchased and discarded jusrt because they are sweet - but oh, how, how sweet they look here!

www.nytimes.com/2012/04/02/us/...



 


Diagnosis: 3/2009, IDC, 3cm, Stage IIb, Grade 3, 3/8 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Apr 3, 2012 02:53 AM Bren-2007 wrote:

Hi Everyone!

Hope you all had a great weekend.  I was a happy camper as I got in lots of work.  Just finished up and mowed the upper field.

Guess what!  Saw my first snake of the season today.  Reminded me of Allison teasing me about snakes on my paths.  I almost stepped on it!  I had the dogs with me and Tank did step on the snake.  Took my breath away for a second, but I realized it wasn't a copperhead so I wasn't too scared.

Getting ready to head to Lowes.  I have to get paint to repaint the bathroom.  Mr. Tim cleaned out the sink drain with a spiffy new snake-thingy, but he got black goop on the walls, floor and tub.  So now I have to paint the bathroom.  arghh.

Hope everyone is having a nice day,

Bren

PS .. Athena, I can't see your picture.

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Apr 3, 2012 03:01 AM Enjoyful wrote:

Awwwww look at those tiny fluffy adorable balls of fluffy adorableness!  I kind of can't stand to see it though, because I wonder 1) how did they dye them and did it hurt them? 2) what happens to the peeps in a few weeks? and 3) how food people treat chickens.  

That's it.  I'm eating only peas from now on.

Mess with me and I'll go Wisconsin on your ass!
Diagnosis: 8/28/2009, IDC, <1cm, Stage IV, Grade 2, 1/1 nodes, ER+/PR-, HER2-
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Apr 3, 2012 03:34 AM crazy4carrots wrote:

We used to find the odd baby bunny running around our backyard a few weeks after Easter.  We assumed that stupid parents would purchase them for their kids for (maybe) a day's worth of fun, and then probably throw them out the door when the bunnies pooped or started chewing through cords.  "Oh, don't worry, they'll survive".  Stupid, thoughtless, cruel people......

Bren, I'm terrified of snakes!  I know it's a phobia, but I can't even stand to see photos of snakes. 

People call me a feminist whenever I express sentiments that differentiate me from a doormat or a prostitute -- Rebecca West
Diagnosis: 1/10/2008, ILC, 1cm, Stage I, Grade 3, 0/4 nodes, ER+/PR-, HER2-
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Apr 3, 2012 03:39 AM Enjoyful wrote:

Snakes don't bother me.  Stupid people do.

Scootaloo, Proudly Going Wisconsin on Everybody's Ass Since 2011 

Mess with me and I'll go Wisconsin on your ass!
Diagnosis: 8/28/2009, IDC, <1cm, Stage IV, Grade 2, 1/1 nodes, ER+/PR-, HER2-
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Apr 3, 2012 03:41 AM Ang7 wrote:

Yikes.  Why do I even bother to read the other threads?  I get jumped on for giving my opinion...

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Diagnosis: 5/25/2009, IDC, 2cm, Stage IIa, Grade 2, 1/4 nodes, ER-/PR-, HER2+
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Apr 3, 2012 03:47 AM Enjoyful wrote:

See above.

I'm getting that petition started.  Want to sign? 

Mess with me and I'll go Wisconsin on your ass!
Diagnosis: 8/28/2009, IDC, <1cm, Stage IV, Grade 2, 1/1 nodes, ER+/PR-, HER2-
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Apr 3, 2012 03:49 AM Ang7 wrote:

sign me up sister...

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Diagnosis: 5/25/2009, IDC, 2cm, Stage IIa, Grade 2, 1/4 nodes, ER-/PR-, HER2+
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Apr 3, 2012 04:00 AM RetiredLibby wrote:

I saw that, Ang and Scoot. I am constantly reminded of Ron White's saying when I go there. It also makes the case for Darwinism.

Here are some interesting facts from my own family. Not posting them anywhere else but here, but they are relevant elsewhere.

My sister, who died on Valentine's Day from metastatic breast cancer (ILC mets to the abdomen, to be specific), was dx in early 2009 with Stage IIIb breast cancer. The cancer contained IDC, ILC, DCIS and LCIS. 7 of 9 nodes were hot. She had an immediate mastectomy (emergency mx, as a matter of fact). She had 4 rounds of a/c and 4 rounds of taxol, and a course of radiation. Because of the chemo and rads, she attained NED. She immediately began taking arimidex and although it aggravated her pre-existing arthritis, she never considered stopping it.

She was closely monitored and remained NED until November 2011, when a supposed case of pneumonia (she was a smoker and found herself unable to quit) turned out to be pleural effusions -- and the discovered ILC mets to her abdominal wall, her omentum, and in sheets covering her intestines. She began Abraxane immediately the mets were confirmed, and they retreated a bit and became stable.

What ultimately killed here was a confluence of bad luck, poor health with pre-existing comorbidities, poor hygiene at the rehab facility (she contracted c-diff which led to the removal of her colon which led to kidney failure), and her tumor load. She would have done every dose of chemo again (she worked full-time throughout and she was not young -- she was 66 at Dx, 69 when she died) and more had it offered her more chances of survival. She was unimpressed with alt therapies and angry at snakeoil salespeople who peddled them to gravely ill people. Conventional medicine gave her 3 more years with her family, and had she not had such a bad confluence of events and conditions, she might have had more.

Those are the facts of my sister's dx, treatment and death with ILC mets.

L

1st dx 07/2007, DCIS Gr. 3, Stage 0, 1 cm; lumpectomy, reexcision, rads, tamox. 2nd dx 6/24/2011, DCIS 1.5 cm, Gr. 3, Stage 0; BMX w/ immed. DIEP 8/23/2011.
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Apr 3, 2012 04:49 AM suzieq60 wrote:

I had to resist chiming in - very tempted though. I hope she listens to her doctor not someone who is at probably a lot less risk and can afford to follow the snake oil salesmen.

Couldn't believe the attack on Scoot because of her signature - holy dooly - it's only Tuesday.

2nd diagnosis October 2010 - IDC 5.8mm node negative - missed on mammogram in October 2009
Diagnosis: 10/13/2009, ILC, 1cm, Stage I, Grade 3, 0/5 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2+
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Apr 3, 2012 04:55 AM Enjoyful wrote:

I guess "going Wisconsin" means really nasty things to some people. Like getting cheesed if you're lactose intolerant, or someone tipping a cow in your yard. What else could it mean? Any other creative ideas?

Mess with me and I'll go Wisconsin on your ass!
Diagnosis: 8/28/2009, IDC, <1cm, Stage IV, Grade 2, 1/1 nodes, ER+/PR-, HER2-

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