Topic: Any 40-ish survivors?

May 29, 2012 04:21 PM Eema wrote:

Well, PCP through a curve at me.  I have hypercalcimia--high calcium, which is almost always caused by a parathyroid tumor.  Or breast cancer.  I had a blood test and we go from there...

I'm going to bed.

May 29, 2012 11:46 PM momx3 wrote:

Thank Betsy. I'm not sure what I was except node pos.

OMG!!! Almost 12, time for BED!!! I've been working on my "new at home" job and was trying to fix my wireles printer.. Printer done, having doc sizing issues. LEARNING time :D

 Nite ALL... PS<

WHACK!!!!!!

May 30, 2012 11:12 AM sagina wrote:

I've had several good things happen to me since my dx, and Debbie I needed that reminder today.  I go for tumor marker results today, my stomach is turning I must admit, probably cause I have to get on a scale!

A good thing ~ I have really started to take pictures. Didn't know how much I would enjoy that - and I met these awesome, wonderful, online friends - who knew you could have internet friends that are so good to you? 

May 30, 2012 11:23 AM JulieLynn wrote:

Debbie - Great idea!  For me, besides finding great new friends, not just online but in chemo too, one of the best things is cutting back on work permanently.  I was working 60+ hours a week and saying for years I was going to cut back but was always worried out how it would effect us financially.  I finally did it - I'm loving slowing down and actually enjoying things instead of always worrying about how much work was piling up!  Yes, I've had to cut way back on my shopping and our eating out but we're doing fine with the transition and it's definitely been worth it!!  :)  OH, and probably the most important thing....I've been able to spend a lot more time with my mom!

May 30, 2012 12:15 PM, edited May 30, 2012 12:15 PM by momx3

I just figured out what  a MAXI was.  I can't copy & paste (that stinks) BUT go to    www.nomorerack.com/events/view/186

They have them on sale. It's actually a really cool website!!!

May 30, 2012 06:55 PM bgirl wrote:

I always had a good realtionship with my daughters, but I have formed a very close bond with my youngest the last 8 months.  It is really nice as she will be heading off to university in Sept.

May 30, 2012 09:25 PM blueyez wrote:

Hey all!  Been a little while again. Just put my house on the market.  I love this house, but I think its time for a change.  Wish me luck ladies!  

Good luck today ProfBee on the new nipples! (lol! only here!)

Great idea Debbie! I have learned to let go of the not so important things.  I am definitely a Type A personality and I've learned that all the little things don't really matter.  I spend more time enjoying my kids ( I have 2, son 11 and daughter 10).  Also, talking about pictures, I really hate to have mine taken, but have definitely made an effort to be front in center when pics are taken, just in case. 

I had the Oncotype DX and had good numbers and didn't need chemo.  The test checks the dna of the cancer and your genes and grades it number wise in likelihood for reoccurrence.  Thankfully my numbers were good and no chemo, but I was Stage 1 with no node involvement, so I was very lucky on that end.  Unfortunately I did have Stage 1 in both breast, so opted for a double mastectomy with reconstruction.  I definitely worry sometimes that maybe I should've just done the chemo just to be safe, but was told it only decreased chance of reoccurrence by 2% for me or some ridiculously small amount so I decided I was ok with it and what will be will be.  Trying to live a clean healthy life and am hoping for the best.

Sheribell good for you!!  I too have been working continually since I was in my teens (babysitting since 12) so I completely understand the need for a break.  I had just gotten laid off (not great but blessing in disguise) prior to my diagnosis but went back to work this February and am loving it!

Good luck Gina! (((((Sending all my best and warmest thoughts your way with a cyber hug!))))

((((Eema, big hugs too you too!  Praying for you!)))

Have a great night everyone!!

love and hugs,

tracy

May 30, 2012 10:46 PM Kelleyod wrote:

Hello ladies . . . . May I join you here? 43 at diagnosis and currently 44 . . . . Three fun kids - 3, 7, and 13 . . They are inspiring and Amazing me daily! Just had hysterectomy 3 weeks ago with stage 2 of reconstruction - was supposed to be nipples however the left foob really needed some help sooooo it was a revision and nipples will wait until August. Couple weeks into arimedex .... Woo hoo!

I love the inclusive feel of your forum and the support you lend each other!

Eema - lots of prayers coming your way! Take the disability and get feeling better!

Hope you all are enjoying your Wednesday!

KelleyD

May 31, 2012 07:48 AM kmur wrote:

Hi girls. Had to pop on to say hope proofb is doing well after surgery. Also Gina hope your tests were good and you too Eema. Thinking of you as well Chistine

welcome Kelley. This is the best group of ladies you will ever find. Look forward to getting to know you

lots of good things since dx. You girls...no more sweating small stuff,really enjoy my family and laughing...much more laid back now.

Speaking of which. We are still in Florida. It is 7am and the tide is in the sun is shining the birds are happy. I have been trying to catch a doggone red fish with no luck so far dh caught a really big one.

Anyway. Thinking of you girls. I would try to touch each subject but I am on cell phone. See you soon girls. Hugs to all

May 31, 2012 08:54 AM profbee wrote:

Aw, Kim.  You're too sweet.  Yeah, the nip surgery was nothing.  I don't even need a tylenol.  I'm wrapped up and have to do the silly plastic wrap thing before I shower...which I HATE.  Get this, I get there, and the paperwork said I'm getting a totally different surgery.  They were like, one nipple, a lift, and a port removal....I was like...NOPE...2 nips, please!  Man, did my doc seem like someone was going to get into trouble over that one. 

I can't really see them since they're wrapped up in these cup things.  So silly.  And now I have another wacky velcro bra.  (There must be someplace to donate these things!  

Thanks for all the good wishes.  I'm taking today off (well, as off as one can take when you have a 5-year-old!)

 Love,

C

May 31, 2012 11:50 AM momx3 wrote:

I wish we had a "like" button!!!!!

SO<    "Like" on Tracy!!!

Jun 1, 2012 07:30 AM blueyez wrote:

 Kelleyod sorry you have to join us but welcome!! Totally agree, I have pictures from a cruise we went on last year and I often think, geez I probably wouldn't be smiling if I knew what was coming!  Time goes by so quickly (thankfully) and it definitely gets easier. 

Thanks Momx3, LIKE right back at you ;)

Up early today trying to get things done before the kids are up and moving.  Looks like its gonna be a great day out there!

Have a great Friday everyone!!

love and hugs,

tracy

Jun 1, 2012 06:50 PM bdavis wrote:

I am watching the news and they just did a segment on TDM1, an antibody drug... anybody on it or hear of it?? They say its great for Her2+ and kills the cancer but doesn't attack the body.

Jun 1, 2012 07:46 PM bdavis wrote:

I think its for the HER2+... right?? My friend sent me an article about this a couple of weeks ago, but I am Her2 - so I forgot.

Jun 2, 2012 07:50 AM blueyez wrote:

Betsy, yes I believe it's for HER+.

Getting ready to have another fundraiser for my Relay for Life.  Big yard sale this weekend at my friend Theresa's house.  Hopefully the rain will be gone in the morning and we'll get through before it makes another appearance.  Trying to get to $5,000 in our fundraising efforts, wish me luck!

Have a great weekend ladies! 

love and hugs,

tracy