I had a right mx with TE two weeks ago today. Have developed a mild seroma so am in pressure bandages with foam, and in pain due to that (hopefully). I'm still taking pain meds.
I also don't feel like I can drive yet. I don't think I could handle turns or any sudden moves well with my right movement still limited. I might be able to drive a few blocks but I'd be nervous about going miles in traffic right now.
I have five upcoming doctors appointments in the next 7 days, and that probably isn't all. I feel bad that my husband has to take so much time off work to take me around - I'd love to drive msyself.
How long after single mastectomy did it take until you all felt confident to drive?
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whippetmom Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 1,338 |
Nov 4, 2009 04:29 pm
whippetmom wrote:
Do not drive as long as you are taking narcotic pain meds. Once you are down to taking Tylenol or another OTC pain reliever, you should be able to drive. Just use a nice fluffy pillow under the seat belt. For me, with a BLM, it was ten days. I knew you before I formed you in your mother’s womb. Jeremiah 1:5.
Diagnosis: 10/15/2008, IDC, 1cm, Stage I, Grade 2, 0/1 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2- |
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Sue-61 Joined: May 2009 Posts: 212 |
Nov 4, 2009 04:38 pm
Sue-61 wrote:
CoolBreeze, my doc said 2 wks for me. I was pretty much off heavy duty pain meds in the first wk but I had bilateral mastectomies and it was blizzard season in new england..........driving can be tricky. I live alone and HATED asking for rides, especially because my surgeon was one hour away. But found that anyone, children (who live out of State) fam and friends didn't mind driving me at all. I just owed them a few lunches and we were good. I felt great in one wk after double mastectomy, but I am a tough old bird and we are all different. You will know in your heart when you feel confident enough to get behind the wheel.......I do think you have to be more careful with the TEs.......My best , Sue Sue-61
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cbm Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 131 |
Nov 4, 2009 04:55 pm
cbm wrote:
Ann--I had a bilateral mx and drove to have drains removed about ten days later, but I had driven with the drains in for a few days before that. I think I only took the pain meds maybe once or twice after coming home from the hospital though. And, I had no reconstruction projects underway, which makes it easier. And no freeways; not much traffic here in August. It made me nervous that my husband had to drive me everywhere; I didn't like it but I also wasn't to the point where I wanted to ask friends. My sisters came to visit for a week and that helped a lot; I made them bring me stuff and drive me places. . .that was a highlight of the whole experience. Pillow under seat belt=really good idea. I don't think you should drive until you feel you are ready; it sounds to me like your husband is a pretty devoted fellow, and this is something he can do for you. I hope you feel better soon. Cathy |
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Joined: Oct 2008 Posts: 366 |
Nov 4, 2009 04:56 pm
Celtic_Spirit wrote:
I had a bilateral mastectomy. I began driving in about 10 days. Put a small pillow between your chest and the seat belt. That will help. Diagnosis: 2/8/2008, IDC, Stage IIIa, Grade 3, 9/30 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2- |
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Sue-61 Joined: May 2009 Posts: 212 |
Nov 4, 2009 05:30 pm
Sue-61 wrote:
CBM and Celtic Spirit, WOW, such good advice. No one told me about the pillows! See how much we learn and can teach here! Best to you all, Sue PS, I had to remove my own drains. My BS called to check on the drainage and it was minimal. I am a nurse. He said to come on down and he would take them out. I had no last minute ride. He told me to get a mirror and take out the sutures. I sat on the toilet seat for a very LONNNNNG time after removing them. I felt like the magician taking the scarves out of the hat......haha Sue-61
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CoolBreeze Joined: Aug 2009 Posts: 464 |
Nov 4, 2009 06:35 pm, edited Nov 4, 2009 06:36 PM
by CoolBreeze
CoolBreeze wrote:
Hmmm...seems like people are faster than me! I think it's the expander and the pressure on the expander causing me this discomfort. Maybe if that comes off tomorrow I'll feel more comfortable and take some of the pressure off my husband. Although, one is the onc and he wants to go to that one. Sue, you are brave! No WAY could I have removed my own drains! Ann's cancer blog. http://butdoctorihatepink.blogspot.com/
Diagnosis: 8/17/2009, IDC, 4cm, Grade 3, 0/3 nodes, ER+/PR-, HER2+ |
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Sue-61 Joined: May 2009 Posts: 212 |
Nov 4, 2009 06:40 pm
Sue-61 wrote:
hey cool breeze, not so brave as i thought! Let me put my head down between my knees........ok, now i feel better........ Never had the same stuff as you..............you are one strong lady! Sue-61
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DRT Joined: Sep 2009 Posts: 18 |
Nov 4, 2009 08:25 pm
DRT wrote:
Hi! I had BMX with immediate reconstruction. My daughter drove me to remove drains at 3 days (yea!) and after that, I didn't need any narcotics, only tylenol and ibuprofen, so I ventured out on careful short trips at about 5-6 days. Denise Diagnosis: 6/2005, LCIS |
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cocoapuff Joined: Sep 2009 Posts: 4 |
Nov 4, 2009 08:35 pm
cocoapuff wrote:
Everyone is different so go with your own feeling on it. My experience with major surgery in the past made me take this one slow and easy. I knew I could drive if I needed to as soon as I was off the pain meds. However, think about having to slam on the brakes or quickly avoid an obstacle especially if you have kids in your car. Take it at your own pace but don't rush it. I hope you heal quickly. Diagnosis: 6/29/2009, DCIS, 6cm+, Stage 0, Grade 3, 0/4 nodes, ER+/PR+ |
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CoolBreeze Joined: Aug 2009 Posts: 464 |
Nov 5, 2009 10:15 pm
CoolBreeze wrote:
I had a setback today - feel like I did the day after I got out of the hospital. Am barely moving. I can't imagine what happened, except yesterday I poured milk on my cereal using a gallon jug - but I used two hands. I took a casserole out off the oven, mostly with my right. I put a towel around my dog's hind end and lifted him up (he's 13 and can't do it on his own anymore) That was enough to send me back to day one. I have ALWAYS recovered quickly from everything - this is incredibly frustrating. I won't be lifting anything at all for a while. (Except maybe a beer.) And, I was thinking maybe I could drive short distances - now I can't get myself off the couch. Ann's cancer blog. http://butdoctorihatepink.blogspot.com/
Diagnosis: 8/17/2009, IDC, 4cm, Grade 3, 0/3 nodes, ER+/PR-, HER2+ |
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