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I'm an 8 year breast cancer survivor, diagnosed at 33. I have a BRCA2 mutation. I founded FORCE: Facing Our Risk of Cancer Empowered: the only national nonprofit organization devoted to individuals affected by hereditary breast and ovarian cancer.

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Posted in: Not Diagnosed but Concerned + High Risk Women, Created: Jun 19, 2008 10:25 pm

Options?

Dear Daughter,

Please e-mail me at: suefriedman@facingourrisk.org and I would be happy to connect you with other women making these decisions.  Some women do decide on prophylactic surgery without genetic testing but it is important to at least get input from a genetics expert (ie-not just a breast surgeon--most are not experts in genetics).  As far as the issue of sparing vs. removing the nipple, it is also a personal choice.  There is emerging research that suggests that under certain circumstances keeping the nipple might be safe.  Other surgeons suggest saving the areola and removing the nipple.  There are many options out there.  I would be happy to direct you to resources on prophylactic mastectomy and also help you find a genetics expert in your area. 

Hugs and love,

Sue

Posted in: Not Diagnosed but Concerned + High Risk Women, Created: Jun 19, 2008 10:20 pm

what makes you high risk???

Dear Christine,

Your paternal 1/2-sister who had ovarian cancer can mean a "red-flag" for you. The best place to start is to consult with a board-certified genetic counselor.  I would be happy to help you find someone in your area.  Feel free to e-mail me at: suefriedman@facingourrisk.org.

Hugs and love,

Sue

Posted in: Not Diagnosed but Concerned + High Risk Women, Created: Jun 19, 2008 10:17 pm

BRCA test

P.S. For me genetic testing was the right decision.  But I saw a genetic counselor first.  Particularly if you have NOT had cancer, in general the test is most "informative" if someone in the family WITH cancer has the test first.  But I promise, a genetic counselor will explain all of that to you and help guide you on where to go from here.

Posted in: Not Diagnosed but Concerned + High Risk Women, Created: Jun 19, 2008 10:15 pm

BRCA test

Hi "I run" Hi "daughter" you both ask excellent questions.  The very best place to find out the most up-to-date information on genetics and breast cancer risk is from a board-certified expert in cancer genetics or an equally qualified health care provider.  Cancer genetics is a rapidly evolving field of health care and it's difficult for someone who isn't specialized in genetics to keep up!  Also, there are specific protocols for surveillance that are recommended for women who are high-risk including MRI for some women because it has been shown to find lesions in young, high-risk women better than mammograms alone.

I personally carry a BRCA mutation and do advocacy for the high-risk community.  I would be happy to help you find an expert in your area.  Feel free to e-mail me at: suefriedman@facingourrisk.org .

I also encourage you to check out the website for FORCE: Facing Our Risk of Cancer Empowered at: http://www.facingourrisk.org. The website is devoted to the issue of hereditary cancer, genetic counseling, and genetic testing.

I hope this is helpful.  Genetic testing is a personal choice but it is important to base the decision on the most up-to-date and accurate information out there.  A genetic counselor will not try to talk you into or out of genetic testing but will give you the information to make an informed decision that is right for you.

Hugs and love,

Sue

Posted in: Not Diagnosed but Concerned + High Risk Women, Created: Jun 17, 2008 03:35 pm

Prophylactic Mastectomy

Hi Christine,

You might also consider visiting FORCE: the website is devoted to hereditary breast and ovarian cancer and many of the women there have had to grapple with similar decisions.  The website is at:

http://www.facingourrisk.org

Although surgeons can be great for discussing cancer management, often I find that genetics experts are most up-to-date with risk and risk-reduction statistics and tips on discussing these issues with your support team.  Have you seen a board-certified genetics expert?  I would be happy to help you find someone in your area.

Hugs and love,

Sue

Posted in: Not Diagnosed but Concerned + High Risk Women, Created: Jun 16, 2008 10:15 pm

BRCA "Missense" Mutation Anyone?

Hi Jasper,

You might consider posting at FORCE (http://www.facingourrisk.org) there are threads about specific variants/mutations and you might find others with your variant.  Sorry about your inconclusive test results.  Make sure that you speak with a board-certified genetic counselor if you haven't already.

Hugs and love,

Sue

Posted in: Not Diagnosed but Concerned + High Risk Women, Created: Jun 15, 2008 11:54 pm

thought I was set, but now what??

Dear Tweeker,

Deep breaths my dear!  I'm so sorry that you are dealing with this.  This still can be benign but I'm glad that you are being proactive about it.  I second the recommendation of speaking with a genetic counselor.  Do you have one? Has your health care team done an MRI?  MRI is a bit more sensitive in distinguishing cancer from benign lesions.  MRI is also considered standard-of-care for BRCA carriers.  I also have a BRCA 2 mutation by the way.  Please feel free to e-mail me at: suefriedman@facingourrisk.org if you'd like to chat.

Also you might want to check out the website for FORCE: Facing Our Risk of Cancer Empowered at: http://www.facingourrisk.org which is a website devoted to hereditary breast and ovarian cancer, and women with BRCA mutations.

Hope this is helpful.

Hugs and love,

Sue

Posted in: Connecting With Others Who Have a Similar Diagnosis + Second or Third Breast Cancer, Created: Apr 19, 2008 04:07 am

ok... I'm ready for some input

Hi MMC,

I'm so sorry about your recurrence.  I had a lymph node recurrence but my circumstances were different.  I was wondering if you had BRCA testing.  I have seen others who were BRCA1 and had similar situations to yours.  There is emerging evidence that BRCA1 cancers may respond better to platinum chemotherapy than taxols.  Not many oncologists treat BRCA cancers differently but there is evidence that there may be good reason for them to do so.  I know of two women who had your situation (both BRCA 1 positive) and they are doing great!

Feel free to e-mail me at: sueanddan@att.net  if you'd like to chat or be connected to them.

Hugs and love,

Sue

Posted in: Not Diagnosed but Concerned + Waiting for Test Results, Created: Apr 19, 2008 04:01 am

Scared

Dear Jule,

DEEEEEEEP breaths my dear!  I know that this is scary but you are not alone.  It is good that your doctor is taking this seriously but it doesn't have to be cancer.  I'm so sorry about your sister, I'm sure that makes this even scarier.  I was diagnosed at 33 and I'm an 11-year survivor.  If you would like to chat and need more support feel free to e-mail me at:

sueanddan@att.net

Hang in there honey and keep us posted.

Hugs and love,

Sue

Posted in: Not Diagnosed but Concerned + High Risk Women, Created: Apr 19, 2008 03:57 am

My mom has breast cancer. How do I get tested?

Hi Cyndi,

Where does your mom live?  Ductal carcinoma is the most common type of breast cancer and it *can be* hereditary.  Regardless of whether or not you and your mom decide to pursue genetic testing, it is a good idea to meet with a genetic counselor, they are experts in hereditary cancer.  They will not try to talk you into or out of genetic testing but make sure that you have the most up-to-date information in order to make an informed decision about testing. They will also make sure if you do decide to proceed with testing that the correct test/s are ordered and will be able to appropriately interpret the test results. Board-certified genetic counselor take a "nondirective" approach, which means they won't tell you what to do but will help you decide what makes the most sense for you. 

Feel free to e-mail me at:  sueanddan@att.net  if you'd like help finding a board-certified genetics expert in your area.

Warm regards,

Sue

Posted in: Not Diagnosed but Concerned + High Risk Women, Created: Apr 19, 2008 03:49 am

New to the Neighborhood

Hi Anne,

There is an organization specifically for women at high risk for hereditary cancer.  The organization is Facing Our Risk of Cancer Empowered (FORCE) at http://www.facingourrisk.org .  There are resources specific to your questions.

My recommendation (in addition to visiting FORCE) is to consult with a board-certified genetic counselor.  They are the experts in cancer risk and will discuss your family history with you and then help you decide whether or not to have genetic testing.

If you e-mail me at: sueanddan@att.net  I'd be happy to help you find a genetic counselor in your area.

Warmest regards,

Sue

Posted in: Not Diagnosed but Concerned + High Risk Women, Created: Apr 19, 2008 03:44 am

Why Can't we get tested annonymously for genetics?

Hi Wish,

Depending on your circumstances there are still places where you get tested anonymously but not every place will.  The issue is if you truly want anonymous testing you would have to pay out-of-pocket.  Having said that, if you are the first in your family to have testing it can be expensive.  If you have already had cancer, the risk of discrimination on top of a cancer diagnosis from a genetic test is pretty small.  In addition, in some states even if your insurance company pays for testing they may not be allowed access to your results.  This varies from state to state.

If you e-mail me at: sueanddan@att.net I'd be happy to direct you to resources near you.

Regarding discrimination, check out the page on the FORCE website at:

http://www.facingourrisk.org/finding_health_care/genetic_info_and_discrimination.html

Warm regards,

Sue

Posted in: Not Diagnosed but Concerned + High Risk Women, Created: Apr 13, 2008 05:15 pm

My mom has breast cancer. How do I get tested?

Hi Cindiaba,

Unfortunately oncologists and breast surgeons aren't necessarily the experts in genetics.  My strong recommendation is for you and your mom to find a board-certified genetic counselor.  They are experts in cancer genetics and hereditary disease.

Most cancer is not genetic.  Your mom's diagnosis in her 40s increases the chance it is genetic but doesn't mean it is.  But there really is no specific "genetic" type of breast cancer so unless her oncologist did genetic testing (and your mom would know) I don't think you should take that as the last word. 

I have a BRCA 2 mutation and do advocacy for the BRCA community.  I'd be happy to help you find a genetics expert in your area.  Feel free to e-mail me at: sueanddan@att.net

Also I strongly recommend checking out the FORCE website.  FORCE is devoted to hereditary breast and ovarian cancer.  You can view it at:

http://www.facingourrisk.org

Hugs and love,

Sue

Posted in: Support & Community Connections + High Risk of Recurrence or Second Breast Cancer, Created: Apr 4, 2008 11:19 pm

BRCA 1 AND BRCA 2 mutations, I have both? Anyone else?

Dear Stacy,

We have had several women with both mutations on the FORCE website.  You might also post there (http://www.facingourrisk.org) .  The website is devoted to people with hereditary breast or ovarian cancer or a BRCA mutation.

I have a BRCA 2 mutation myself.

Hugs and love,

Sue

Posted in: Not Diagnosed but Concerned + High Risk Women, Created: Apr 4, 2008 11:02 pm

new to this and brca2 pos

Hi Kerry,

I'm so sorry about your results.  I carry a BRCA 2 mutation.  Please also check out the website for FORCE at: http://www.facingourrisk.org which is devoted to hereditary breast and ovarian cancer.  Many of the women there have had to make decisions about what to do about their test results.

Regarding decision-making, in a few short weeks (May 16-17) FORCE is holding the only national annual conference specifically for women affected by hereditary breast and ovarian cancer.  You can learn more at: http://www.facingourrisk.org/conference.

Please know that you are not alone.  If you'd like to chat feel free to e-mail me at: sueanddan@att.net.

By the way, I did have cancer and I'm an 11 year survivor.  Many of the women on FORCE have had cancer but many are high-risk by virtue of their family history or genetic status.

Hugs and love,

Sue

Posted in: Not Diagnosed but Concerned + High Risk Women, Created: Apr 4, 2008 10:57 pm

Questions for those who have considered bilateral mastectomy

Dear Lucky,

You might also consider posting your question on the message boards on FORCE (http://www.facingourrisk.org ) as many of the women there have contemplated or had prophylactic mastectomy and some because of an LCIS diagnosis.

I had bilateral mastectomy; one side for cancer, one side  prophylactically.  I would also recommend really when researching your reconstruction options that you read the Breast Reconstruction Guidebook by Kathy Steligo (http://www.breastrecon.com ) it's a great resource.

Hugs and love,

Sue

Posted in: Not Diagnosed but Concerned + High Risk Women, Created: Jan 4, 2008 05:46 pm

Can positive BRCA testing affect future insurance coverage?

Dear Roadrunner,

Actually this is a somewhat complicated question and unfortunately the answer is not straightforward.  Actually some of the above answers don't tell the entire story.  FORCE: Facing Our Risk of Cancer Empowered (http://www.facingourrisk.org/) in collaboration with the National Society of Genetic Counselors produced a brochure about Genetic Information, Privacy, and Discrimination which you can view on line or order for free at:  http://www.facingourrisk.org/publications/brochures.html

I want to start by emphasizing that there have not been any documented cases of genetic discrimination in health insurance based on a BRCA test.  Also, these is a federal law called HIPAA that offers some protection against discrimination but HIPAA does have loop-holes which is why FORCE and other nonprofit organizations belong to the Coalition for Genetic Fairness to try to pass comprehensive federal laws against genetic discrimination. In addition most (but not all) states have further laws which protect against genetic discrimination.  But the laws vary by state.  This is one of the reasons why it is good to consult with a genetic expert in your area because most know the state laws and whether or not they have loopholes.

Currently it is not illegal for insurance companies to ask if you have had genetic testing.  And although it is illegal for GROUP insurance companies to discriminate against an individual with a genetic predisposition to disease, it is not illegal for them to discriminate against the entire group (although in most cases that wouldn't be in their best interest).  Again it's complicated and let me restate that there has not been a documented case of discrimination based on BRCA testing.

If you have already had cancer, then you already have a pre-existing condition that likely would eclipse any potential discrimination based on a BRCA test.  If you haven't had cancer, that's a different thing entirely. Either way I recommend speaking with a genetics expert (and make sure they are qualified and well-educated in cancer genetics, not just oncology).  For those who want to understand this more, I'd be happy to refer you to further resources including where to find a genetics expert and where you can find your state laws on genetic discrimination.

One other thing, unlike health insurance, in the area of life insurance there are very few protections (some states have some laws that are protective) against insurance discrimination.  Some health care providers will recommend that people get their life insurance in place prior to having genetic testing.

One other thing, I personally think it's critical to weigh the very real risk of cancer against the hypothetical risk of insurance discrimination before deciding not to have genetic testing.  If paying out of pocket is an option, that's great, but if it's not, I'd hate for someone to forego genetic testing purely due to the fear of genetic discrimination.  Especially someone with a strong family history: the insurance companies already use family history as part of their input in underwriting people.

Please please talk with a genetics expert to get the latest and most up-to-date information on this. 

Feel free to e-mail me at:  sueanddan@att.net if you'd like to chat more or if you still have questions.

Warm regards,

Sue

Posted in: Not Diagnosed but Concerned + Waiting for Test Results, Created: Jan 1, 2008 05:30 pm

Not sure what my next step is

Hi Kellie,

Where do you live?

I think you should be persistent til you have an answer.  Perhaps they can do an MRI or a ductogram.  Let me know your city and state and I might be able to recommend a place for you to get a definitive opinion.

Warm regards,

Sue

Posted in: Not Diagnosed but Concerned + High Risk Women, Created: Jan 1, 2008 05:22 pm

National Conference for BRCA and Hereditary Cancer

Dear Friends,
I'm pleased and excited to announce that on-line registration is now available for the 2008 Joining FORCEs Conference! FORCE is an organization devoted to those with BRCA mutations or hereditary cancer risk. Our 2007 conference had over 350 attendees from around the world, who attended to hear the latest information about hereditary breast and ovarian cancer from world-reknowned experts.

For 2008, our conference will be held May 16-17 (Friday/Saturday) in Tampa Florida. The conference sessions are geared towards topics of interest to our community. This is a one-of-a-kind opportunity to make friends, get support, network, and listen to the top experts speak about hereditary cancer. Space is limited so register early. People who register before March 1, will receive a $30 discount.

Here is a link to the agenda page/registration:

http://guest.cvent.com/EVENTS/Info/Agenda.aspx?e=580d224b-fe7c-44b4-ad21-ad7822da7277 

Hope to see you in Tampa!
Warm regards,
Sue

Posted in: Not Diagnosed but Concerned + High Risk Women, Created: Dec 24, 2007 09:19 am

Family history risk question

Dear MT Girl,

Your point is an excellent one and one that health care providers who are not experts in genetics often miss.  It is critical to press for a referral with a genetics expert who will look at your entire family history, including your "family structure" which researchers have now found to be important in determining risk (ie-if you don't have a lot of women in your family, then you may not see a large family history).  Other considerations include your own diagnosis (ie-age, type of cancer, etc).  It is frustrating as an advocate for the high-risk and BRCA community how few doctors will refer women to experts in genetics.  Genetic counselors and medical geneticists are specialists in hereditary disease and genetics (which is a rapidly changing area of information and hard for non-experts to keep up). 

I would be happy to help you find a genetics expert in your area.  Please feel free to e-mail me at:

sueanddan@att.net

Just on a personal note, I was the first in my family with breast cancer, and the third with cancer period (my aunt had lung cancer and my paternal grandmother had "kidney cancer" which we now think was ovarian cancer).  Turns out that I had the gene mutation--BRCA2.  Please insist on a referral to a genetics expert and pursue this.  They will definitely be able to tell you if your family history is indicative of a hereditary mutation.

Warmest regards,

Sue 

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