Member Since: October 2, 2006
Last Login: October 5, 2008
Location: Long Beach, ca United States
Occupation: Food Scientist
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Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer, Created: Oct 5, 2008 02:00 pm
I WANT MY MOJO BACK!Helloooooo Wishiwere... Just checking in to see how you're doing with the Estrace or if youre still using it? I have a wonderful female gyno doc...she is very empathetic...her sister and mom have both had breast cancer. At my last year check up she recommened the Estrace & Vagifem (short time...tiny amounts) to repair my painful parts...I was so sore even the speculum was extremely painful. After a couple weeks I was a new girl!! My hubby & I tried intercourse but it was still 'uncomfortable' and I didn't feel comfortable with the 'risky' estrogen therapy and stopped. Ok...a year has passed ( a year of no intercourse)..i saw her again...again she recommends the Estrace & vagifem...says another patient only needs to apply it 2 x a month and is doing great. She reiterated that the tiny amounts we use don't get into the bloodstream yet does wonders on repairing the tissue. So...i'm trying it again. First 2 weeks...use both 3 to 5 x a week....then 2 x a week for a month...then 2 x a month for 3 months...we'll see. |
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Tests, Treatments & Side Effects + Hormonal Therapy - Before, During and After, Created: Oct 5, 2008 01:32 pm
AromasinArtsee, I'm wondering if we see less women posting about Aromasin here because they're not having problems with it. I've been on it since April 07. For about the first 6 months I had a lot of numbness in my hands & arms during the night..and my ankles felt like they wouldn't work right in the morning, very stiff. But after 6 months all that started disappearing. My ankles are still a little stiff in the a.m. but it goes away once I'm up and walking for a minute or so. Otherwise I'm fine |
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Tests, Treatments & Side Effects + Just Diagnosed, Created: Oct 5, 2008 01:06 pm
Have I made the wrong decision??Beesie...you're absolutely right about reconstruction not being an easy journey. I think people leave out the scary details because everyone needs to deal with there own situation as it arises. All along I wondered if having an 8 hour surgery for DIEP (and putting my self at risk) was worth a darn boob. I had a tough time after chemo in that I had a pulmonary embolism...had to give myself Lovenox injections (ouch) for 30 days...I had to wait 6 months for the reconstruction (typical after rads)...I had a heparin injection prior to DIEP surgery...scary too. Fortunately everyting went smoothly. And here I am...with a close imitation of my real boob and very happy with it. |
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Tests, Treatments & Side Effects + Just Diagnosed, Created: Oct 5, 2008 12:53 pm
Have I made the wrong decision??Hi Brenny, I had reconstruction after radiation and I have a beautiful "foob". It matches my real breast in weight, volume, shape..it even improved my cleavage for some reason. I had ILC stage 3 1 node positive...so I had the works...mastectomy, chemo, radiation, now on Aromasin and doing fine with that. At the time of my mastectomy I knew I would want reconstruction so my PS put in an expander (my breast surgeon said i could decide later if I wanted DIEP or implant). I lived with that dang tissue expander for a year...went thru chemo & rads with it. All along I thought..wow..if the way this thing feels is anything like an implant...i dont' want it...At times I wished I'd hadn't had the expander put in. I chose the DIEP because I read it would feel more natural than an implant. Having the expander put in...then DIEP yielded the most beautiful shape. I had a nipple graft from my good side and a tatoo'd areola. My gyno doc I just saw was blown away by how nice my fake boob looks. Anyway...how your skin fairs thru rads depends on your skin type I think. I'm brunette & tan easily. I think fair haired people have a tougher time. Good luck :) |
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Tests, Treatments & Side Effects + Breast Reconstruction, Created: Sep 27, 2008 11:40 pm
Why would my ps feel the need to write this?Wow...hey Sandy it's me Fran in Long Beach. We had the same surgeon. I have the most beautifully perfect foob & nipple. My gyno doc says it's the most perfect one she's ever seen. I never had a problem with him. He actually took extra precautions with me due to the fact that I'd had a pulmonary embolism after my last chemo treatment (9 mos prior to reconstruction surgery)...he took the time to work out a surgery plan with the cancer hemotologist I needed to see after the embolism. He treated me like a princess. |
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Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer, Created: Sep 8, 2008 02:18 am
I WANT MY MOJO BACK!Wishiwere....thanks for the note....so......are you able to have intercourse? Maybe I will go back and try the estrace...i have the entire prescription that i barely tried. It's weird to not have that part of sex. Back then when i tried the estrace...it seemed to "heal" but I was too freaked out to keep using it. My situation is I dont have "dryness"...just the thinning of the lining...so even if i'm aroused...it's too painful for intercourse...very frustrating. But have you ever tried olive oil...? I'm wondering if the fat is like a coating that prevents pain. It's just weird...do we absorb the olive oil...i don't know how we could..but what happens to it afterwards...weird. |
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Tests, Treatments & Side Effects + Hormonal Therapy - Before, During and After, Created: Sep 7, 2008 03:24 am
ANYONE ON AROMASIN IN 2008 ?HI Evie...i've been on Aromasin since April 07. At first...during the night i had a lot of numbness in my hands and arms. And when waking...to walk on my ankles was really weird...first 10 steps were stiff...to this day..my ankles are still like that....but my hands and arms no longer fall asleep and get numb. Those are my only side effects. Well...possibly my wrist...but that is come and go...painful. Right now...no pain. I'm ok with it all. The benefit of this drug is worth the risk. take care. fran |
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Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer, Created: Sep 7, 2008 03:03 am
I WANT MY MOJO BACK!Gals...here i am...two years post diagnosis...and no intercourse...can you believe it....2 years....it's too painful...i have that vaginal atrophy...what's that come from..being thrown into menopause from the chemo????? My gyno doc recommended vaginal estrogen suppositories...i seriously questioned that....she said.."i have a sister that's had breast cancer...i know".AND..your young and beautiful..so why not." ...so i tried them for about 2 weeks...then got too freaked out..i thought...i'd rather live 30 more years without intercourse than 10 with. What do you think? have you found any pain-relieving remedies than enable intercourse? fran |
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Tests, Treatments & Side Effects + Breast Reconstruction, Created: Mar 12, 2008 03:15 am
DIEPhi marejo, i had my diep sept 10...no complications at all. I was a high risk because i'd had a pulmonary embolism right after my chemo ended...my doc treated me with heparin (which i was freaking out about..but he'd consulted my hemotologist about all risks & everything)..anyway..my new diep boob is beautifully shaped, matches my other one exactly in volume, size, shape. i'm happy. |
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Tests, Treatments & Side Effects + Breast Reconstruction, Created: Feb 23, 2008 11:34 pm
Question about Nipple Reconstructiongals, thank you for your comments. Those are good questions. I'm not scheduled till mar 18th...so there's still time to find out all this. |
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Tests, Treatments & Side Effects + Breast Reconstruction, Created: Feb 22, 2008 12:51 am
tissue expanders are pain in the butt!gals, i had an expander put in at time of mastectomy..then went thru chemo and rads..i avoided fills during chemo days when my white count was lowest. I never got an infeciton. I had that miserable expander in for a year before my DIEP surgery!!! I love my DIEP boob....or foob...or whatever it is! My doc says you get the best cosmetic result in DIEP when you start with an expander. |
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Tests, Treatments & Side Effects + Breast Reconstruction, Created: Feb 22, 2008 12:36 am
Question about Nipple Reconstructiongals....what is a foob??? f-ake b-oob??? Ok...i'm having my nip done mid-march on my uni-foob. My PS says i have enuf protuberance (projection) on my remaining nip..where he can snip a chunk off and graft it to the other side. Then we tatoo the areola. Anyone else had this done? He says not everyone can do it like that ...depends on the size of headlight. Mine have always been out there. Be nice to get a reduction. |
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Tests, Treatments & Side Effects + Breast Reconstruction, Created: Jan 23, 2008 12:32 am
Bad News after ReconstructionLaura, so sorry to hear about the "atypical" results. Hopefully it is something a lumpectomy can take care of if needed. I know what you mean about getting back to normal tho. I think my "normal" is staying prepared to deal with anything (cancers) coming back...but otherwise enjoying everyone and everything life's got to offer. :) Be hopeful. fran |
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Tests, Treatments & Side Effects + Breast Reconstruction, Created: Jan 11, 2008 07:23 pm
lipo on DIEP & scar tissue?HI gals, My PS created my new boob a little too full on top and did lipo on it about 3 months after diep surgery. All is looking great...but i noticed there is a hardened area where the lipo suction was done. Anyone have that? Did it go away? I see him next week for nipple & dog ear removal on one side. thx fran |
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Tests, Treatments & Side Effects + Breast Reconstruction, Created: Oct 23, 2007 06:59 pm
Help - tomorrow is the day!M. You can do it! I was worried too right before...but now I'm 7 weeks out and feeling pretty!! Mine was uni-lateral and my doc did a wonderful job of matching my other boob...and the flat stomach is so much fun. I had gained 20 lbs. just so i could have enuf fat...now i've lost 9 and walking for exercise and everything. good luck, stay tough fran |
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Tests, Treatments & Side Effects + Hormonal Therapy - Before, During and After, Created: Oct 16, 2007 11:49 pm
Hot flash relief?Ladies, anyone heard of Peridin-C for relief of hot flashes? Its a vitamin c supplement...made by Beutlich Pharmaceuticals. Contains ascorbic acid, citrus bioflavonoids (hesperidin and rutin??) and vit c phytonutrients from grape seed extract and several berries. 6 tablets a day for 30 days relieved 53% of women of hot flashes...other 35% had reduced number of hot flashes. Anyone trying this? Or talk to your doctor about it??? |
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Tests, Treatments & Side Effects + Hormonal Therapy - Before, During and After, Created: Oct 16, 2007 11:44 pm
Hot flash relief?Ladies, i saw an ad in "Coping with Cancer" magazine for a product called Peridin-C...a vitamin C supplement, has citrus bioflavonoids ( hesperidin and rutin??) ascorbic acid and vit C phytonutrients, i.e. grape seed extract, berries (blue,black, rasp, strawb). They claim after 30 days of 6 tablets a day, 53% of the women were relieved of hot flashes, & symptoms reduced in 35% of the other. Anyone heard of this or trying it? Or have you checked with your doc about it? thanks fran |
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Tests, Treatments & Side Effects + Breast Reconstruction, Created: Oct 2, 2007 12:34 am
incision pain and hot flashesgals, this is so weird and i'm sick of it....all the while i had my expander in...whenever i'd have a hot flash...all the scar tissue in my expanded area would hurt...now that i've had diep...my abdominal incision gets extrememly painful with each hot flash...has anyone every had this?? do you know why it happens...any way to alleviate it?? i can't believe i'm the only one who's experienced this..i've never seen anyone talk of it. thanks franny |
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Tests, Treatments & Side Effects + Hormonal Therapy - Before, During and After, Created: Oct 2, 2007 12:27 am
Tamoxifen and Factor V LeidenHI my friend, If the factor V leiden is the same thing i've heard about, then you (and your oncologist) should be very concerned about dvt's & pe's while on Tamoxifen. I had a dvt and pe in january after my last chemo treatment, My onco doc referred me to a hemotologist (blood coagulist) at USC Norris Cancer Center (Dr. Howard Liebman). He ran all sorts of test (looking for Factor V Leiden also)... found i was positive for lupus anticoagulant (another story)....but he quoted lots of stats to me about future risk of dvt's if I'd had other factors like Factor V...and thrombin and prothrombin disorders etc.) A doc like that can help you and your oncologist determine your risks. I am on an AI (aromasin) because of the risk of blood clots w/ tamox. But if you need to stay on tamox versus the AI, your'e doc might suggest coumadin along with the tamox. good luck...stay vigil for any symptoms of dvt or pe...like leg pain, or shortness of breath, chest pain with coughing, sneezing, or laughing. I should be dead actually...i walked around with PE for 10 days before ending up in the ER with an oxygen sat % of 70. take care franny |
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Tests, Treatments & Side Effects + Breast Reconstruction, Created: Oct 2, 2007 12:06 am
A Few More DIEP Questions, PleaseAbby, i'm 20 days post op uni diep. My doc really pulled my stomach tight...like a drum...so i'm just now starting to stand up straight...but my sister & i stopped at the med supply on the way home from the hospital and i got a walker and a toilet commode which really helped (insurance paid for most of it). Also...my other sister (an RN) brought me a couple hospital gowns (the type that has a little pocket in front you can put drains in)...that was the most comfortable thing to wear...nothing touching my abdo incision, also..i had to keep the anti-embolism stockings on for a while since i was a blood clot risk. I cooked a couple casseroles & froze them in little containers before i went to the hospital. Cooking a meal is impossible in the 'bent-over' position...so if a friend asks "what can they do to help??" say 'bring food pllllease' good luck with your surgery :).....remember it gets easier every day! |
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