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Member Since: April 26, 2007
Last Login: September 15, 2008
Location: North Myrtle Beach, sc United States
Occupation: Restaurant Owner

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Friends and customers with BC. Best friend stage IV

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Posted in: Support & Community Connections + Walks, Runs and Other Fundraising Events, Created: Sep 15, 2008 02:49 pm

Calling all expert fundraisers...

I am no expert but I will tell you what worked for me. I raised my money quickly with the average donation of $75 dollars. 

At first I generated a computer letter but threw that out and did a hand written letter.  I had a picture of me walking on the letter, indicating my dedication to the training. I sent these to my close friends and started on my Christmas card list.  (I got my full amount before I finished my list.)  2-3 weeks letter I sent a post card or note to the same people letting them know how far I was walking with my training program. (Humor was written in to these notes) To the ones who donated I continued to send notes how my training was progressing.  After the walk I sent notes with my picture coming over the finish line.  These pictures and notes were on regular computer paper , and hand written.  I don't know if it matters, I just felt like asking for so much money, I needed to show my appreciation and dedication.

Jacqui
Posted in: Support & Community Connections + Walks, Runs and Other Fundraising Events, Created: Sep 14, 2008 01:19 am

Some Can't Afford To 'Walk For The Cure'

I walk in the Avon 2 day walk. The minimum requirement is $1800.  My first year I had friends who wanted to join me for a few miles of the walk. This is not allowed although I suppose some could sneak in and walk along. All cancer sufferers and survivors would appreciate the thoughts and care. As a matter of fact, I bet a lot more people would walk and show they care at these events. Unfortunately, this would do little to raise the millions raised by these events. These are fund raisers. They pay a staff to organize each event all year, advertise, set up websites, set up and work with the cities, buy insurance for the participants, volunteers, staff.  The expenses go on and on. The cities close down streets for hours to allow for the walks. Police, medical and fire services are provided. I was amazed at all that goes into these fundraisers, and thrilled at the money they indeed raise.  I am also impressed with the huge checks they give at the closing of the events to local clinics, health departments, researchers, etc. 

I was disappointed why my friends could not come along and walk part of the way with me, but 3 years later they still decline to walk with me as I train all year.

Please tell your daughters not to loose the desire to walk.  The money is less difficult to raise than you might think.  I wrote personal letters to friends,(Not computer generated letters, the old- timey hand written letters) to people from work, church, business, and anyone on my Christmas card list. I told them what I was doing, and the amount I needed to raise. I specifically asked for $25 or more.  I followed all these up with a postcard every 2-3 weeks letting them know how my training was coming along. I painted on my T-shirts what I was training for, and gave out notes to people I passed. I raised the money quickly and easily..(except for the training and mailing part, LOL) 

The amount is intimidating, but like all things a plan and tenacity often prevails. Any extra money I raised I gave to others who needed to raise more. Because these events do not let you accrue anything over the $1800 for future walks, I quit asking for donations once I reached my goal.  That in itself is a shame.

Anyway, I just wanted to respond because I too thought it ridiculous that my friends couldn't walk with me, until I realized the enormity of it all. Truth is, we can all get out and walk for free.  It is a great moral and emotional statement of support but it does very little to aid in the financial burdens of the disease. 

Jacqui
Posted in: Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer: Time to Circle the Wagons, Created: Sep 11, 2008 01:10 am

Community Afghan

Madison, Glad you liked your shawl..they are fun and funky..

Jacqui
Posted in: Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer: Time to Circle the Wagons, Created: Sep 11, 2008 01:08 am

Community Afghan

Hi All, 
I sure hope all are doing well and keeping their needles warm with cozy yarns.  I have been out of the country but Hanna and i came back to Myrtle Beach on the same day..  I have picked up my "square" needles again and will try to be more rounded. I started a sock contest with my sister and have been stuck on those the past month while traveling. She is definately winning the contest..I have made 5 socks and 2 toes..I hope we don't try to knit socks for any projects..No heels in squares..LOL
 
Jacqui
Posted in: Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer: Time to Circle the Wagons, Created: Jul 26, 2008 10:18 am

Community Afghan

HI All, 

My Knitting shop has a big box of donated yarns.  i noticed some sleins of black and have gotten them for the borders. Please tell me who to send them to.  I will also grab any other interesting skeins that will make lovely squares and can send those to anyone.  Just let me know.  jacqui 

Jacqui
Posted in: Support & Community Connections + Commemorating Loved Ones, Created: Jul 16, 2008 09:14 pm

*** WALL OF ANGELS ***

I feel great comfort knowing those sparkling eyes watch over me..I adore your legacy and look forward to your guidance.  jacqui

Jacqui
Posted in: Support & Community Connections + Lesbians with Breast Cancer, Created: Jul 16, 2008 08:54 pm

she just told me!!!!!!!

This is Good!   Let's hope anyone with doubts, fears. or indifference realizes how far we have come.  Just Do It!  Get checked.  There is so much out here. Not knowing is the danger. Good luck to you and your sweetie. The people here are so incredible and will share their knowledge.  Unfortunately some can share experiences.  So  you are not alone. There are so many varibles, so much support.

Jacqui
Posted in: Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer: Time to Circle the Wagons, Created: Jul 7, 2008 12:17 am

Community Afghan

Yes Lori, use that yarn..I am so slack but have a personal rule..10 rows or 15 minutes a day for  our quilts.  Hey once you get started..it is too awesome to stop.If I miss a day

ooops

then I have to give my owed minutes.  Once I get started..it is too much fun to stop..

Once these wonderful ladies post pictures of the quilts they piece together from our efforts..

My heart sings.. My fingers are inspired again.. The hearts we touch, the comforting wraps we give is AWESOME..

As long as there is Need ..we have Needles..

How perfect..  Jacqui 

Jacqui
Posted in: Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer: Time to Circle the Wagons, Created: Jul 3, 2008 08:30 am

Community Afghan

LORI you can use the baby yarn for squares.  If it is real thin then use two strands.  I have done this for baby afghans and it gives a nice spongy feel, cushion like. 

Hope all are having a happy and good yarn!  

Jacqui
Posted in: Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer: Time to Circle the Wagons, Created: Jul 1, 2008 08:10 am

Community Afghan

WOW MADISON..2 AFGHANS..  WOOHOO!!

I mailed a package friday to you.  I keep my knitting in my car so if I get stuck waiting in a line or sitting at the bridge opened for a boat to pass through, I knit!  It really helps my impatient nature for waiting. It also gives me a chance to look at different types of yarn to see how they look and what gauge it yields. Thanks for all you work..

Jacqui
Posted in: Tests, Treatments & Side Effects + Help Me Get Through Treatment, Created: Jun 30, 2008 01:07 pm

Rolling veins

Sue, I am an ER nurse and wish I was there to help you with your veins.  Medications make veins weak but there are some veins better than others.  It has always annoyed me to see nurses go for hand veins and inner elbow veins.  The patient has to leave their arm straight, hand straight etc.

Some tips to give the person inserting an IV.

If one tourniquet works good, 2-4 work better.  This is often needed for larger arms or dark skin.

As for veins, if you follow the outside edge of your thumb, along the wrist where it bends, there is a nice big vein that allows you to bend your wrist even with an IV. The big great vein is along the under-outside edge of the wrist forearm.  If you sit with your elbow bent fist up toward chin and feel with your fingers (opposite hand) along this area over the forearm muscle, you should feel a nice vein. Again, it is protected by a stable bone so bending your arm is not a problem. Try to palpate these veins yourself and show them to your "sticker"..  Good Luck..Jaq

Jacqui
Posted in: Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer: Time to Circle the Wagons, Created: Jun 26, 2008 01:23 pm

Pinkstock 07 Pics

YIPPEE!!  I finally found the pictures from Pink Stock '07.  What a fun group.   The pictures are great but I am sure being there creating the moments was greater. I am still curious about the "wings" you talk about for 2008.  Is this for the Fairy God-mother?  How precious!!

Jacqui
Posted in: Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer: Time to Circle the Wagons, Created: Jun 17, 2008 08:06 am

Community Afghan

ANNIE I am so glad you got a hugahan. YIPPEE!
I have some square to send. Do I send them to you Madison? If not please direct me. Also i have something to send to the host of Pinkstock if she will PM me. I get confused who is hosting because you all seem so to get so excited about this event. i have read the post and it sounds like great fun. The idea it is in a cool place is so much more the excitement.
So I will wait to hear..Smiles.

Jacqui
Posted in: Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer: Time to Circle the Wagons, Created: Jun 12, 2008 01:09 pm

Community Afghan

Hi Madison, Hope you find your package..YIKES
I spoke with my friend Ruth the Grand mother of Ryan, the soldier at Walter Reed. He received his Hugaghan and adores it. His mother Dawn will send a note to you soon I hope. She is a nurse and lives in Upstate New York. Her son Ryan is in DC at Walter Reed. She travels weekly to see him so I know time is a precious commodity. But the good news is Ryan has his hugs from us.

Jacqui
Posted in: Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer: Time to Circle the Wagons, Created: Jun 8, 2008 09:52 am

Community Afghan

Each afghan pictured makes my heart soar, and seeing the joy it brings is even more exhilarating! iris you and bear looks so happy! I am so proud to be a part of this project.
Madison I have not heard from my friend yet whose Grandson is in Walter reed. the family lives in upstate NY and travel back and forth is surely time consuming. I am sure to hear from her soon.
I am also knitting some neat shawls I would like to send to someone who is sitting in cold AC while receiving treatment. They are small and light and easy to take along. They are cute because they are made from yarn stash which includes all sorts of textures and colors. Anyone looking for another fun way too use your stash, let me know and I will share this idea.
Madison I promise I have squares to send but they looked big so I washed and blocked them. One had a loose yarn tie in the work that somehow I do not remember?? My yarn lady said they can tie a ball of yarn 4 times for sale?? I need to sew this in now. But my squares are bordered and ready. Smiles and hugs to all.

Jacqui
Posted in: Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer: Time to Circle the Wagons, Created: May 31, 2008 09:31 am

Community Afghan

WOW, the last 2 hugaghans are beautiful. I am so glad you love yours OZZIE. Thanks for the tip on the varigated yarn that makes into the argyle type pattern. We don't have RedHeart sold here but i will pick it up when I travel. I did find a yarn that makes a pattern. It is fun too. But i want to find the plaid one. i will call my friend and see if Ryan at Walter reed got his package. Madison if you hear, please let me know. if i hear, I will come and share that news too.

Jacqui
Posted in: Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer: Time to Circle the Wagons, Created: May 19, 2008 09:00 am

Community Afghan

What a beautiful hugaghan LIZ! It always amazes me how colorful and innovative the squares are. Will someone tell me what the yarn is that makes the argyle type plaid? It is so pretty and looks fun to use.
I am knitting some squares but slowly because work is busy..
LIZ good price on the auctioned afghan. I know you were thrilled. Hope lots of money was raised for the event.

Jacqui
Posted in: Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer: Time to Circle the Wagons, Created: May 4, 2008 04:41 pm

Community Afghan

Another beautiful Hugahan Madison. I think I even saw one of my squares but I forget what i have made.
I love the SHAWLS TOO. I have made a couple for friends. One I made with some odd yarns and ribbons. It reminded me of Sunflower fields. Sometimes I need the diversion of something else to knit so I like shawls. Some are quick and easy, just my speed. So if you know anyone that a shawl would be good for, I can send some of those too. With summer, sometimes just a hug over the shoulders may feel good in AC.
Let me know. Hopefully have some more squares this week.
Smiles..

Jacqui
Posted in: Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer: Time to Circle the Wagons, Created: May 3, 2008 09:11 am

Community Afghan

The latest afghan is beautiful! I love the colors and placement also.I am interested in the argyle type yarns. hope someone can tell me what they are. I love working with the textured and odd type yarns, have you noticed Madison? LOL
I think it is lovely you have made an afghan for your Air Force friend, Madison. She needs the special hugs now and hopefully she got lots of sweet hugs on her date.
I have a few squares ready but should make some more. I got busy working in the yard and just working. Now I have poison Ivy so will avoid anything that looks like a plant for a while. So last night I picked up my needles and made a fun fuzzy and knotty square.

Jacqui
Posted in: Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer: Time to Circle the Wagons, Created: Apr 22, 2008 09:27 pm

Community Afghan

Liz the afghan is beautiful!! I know it will be treasured by the highest bidder.
I like knitting with the bumpy and shaggy yarns, It is toughr to crochet with them.
But they are so fun..I love the textures.

Jacqui

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