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| Diagnosis: | Dx 3/20/2006, IDC, 3cm, Stage II, Grade 2, 0/4 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2- |
| Diagnosed: | March 20, 2006 |
| Type: | Invasive or Infiltrating Ductal Carcinoma |
| Recurrent? | No recurrence |
| Metastatic? | No |
| Stage: | Stage II |
| Lymph Nodes Removed: | 4 |
| Positive Lymph Nodes: | 0 |
| Tumor Size: | 3cm-3.9cm |
| Tumor Grade: | Grade 2 or medium grade |
| Hormone Receptor Status: | Tumor has both estrogen and progesterone receptors |
| HER2/neu Status: | Tumor does not have an excess of HER2/neu receptors or genes |
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Day to Day Matters + Healthy Recipes for Everyday Living, Created: 23 hours ago
Need some easy casserole ideas to deliver to a familyHow about a big pot of soup or chili instead of a casserole? You can get packages of soup mix at the grocery store (Bear Creek is one brand) that are really good and all you need to add is the meat. A big loaf of Vienna or French or garlic bread and maybe a cake for dessert and you're done. Happiness does not come from having what you want ... but from wanting what you have. Dx 3/20/2006, IDC, 3cm, Stage II, Grade 2, 0/4 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2- |
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Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer, Created: Nov 20, 2008 11:43 am
Friends had no time for me, but call me to help otherssamon ... I certainly can understand why you have hurt feelings over this ... and I don't think it's petty at all. Lots of good advice already given but is it possible that this was a failure of communication rather than a failure to care? The reason I ask is that you mention that this is your "Mom's group of friends" and that your Mom was helping you. Is it possible that maybe some offers of help were made through your Mom and that she was telling them that you two had everything under control? I think maybe you should mention this to her ... it's possible that she has hurt feelings too ... but it's also possible that checking on how you were doing and offering to help was done through her. Just a suggestion but it's not good to let stuff like this fester ... better to get it out in the open ... at least between you and your Mom. Happiness does not come from having what you want ... but from wanting what you have. Dx 3/20/2006, IDC, 3cm, Stage II, Grade 2, 0/4 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2- |
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Not Diagnosed but Concerned + Not Diagnosed but Worried, Created: Nov 16, 2008 08:09 am
Afraid to go to find outOnce we find such things and start wondering what it could be (and we always imagine the worst) we are miserable, nervous wrecks until we get some answers! So you need to get on the phone first thing tomorrow morning and make an appointment to get this checked out. It may well be nothing ... but you need to know so that you can either deal with whatever it is or be able to quit worrying about it. I well remember trying to get enough courage to make that call for an appointment. You just have to grab the phone and make yourself do it! ((((hugs)))) Happiness does not come from having what you want ... but from wanting what you have. Dx 3/20/2006, IDC, 3cm, Stage II, Grade 2, 0/4 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2- |
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Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer, Created: Nov 15, 2008 12:39 pm
Positive Obama threadijl ... the 'change' we wanted was from the horrible Bush & Co. policies and practices of the past 8 years ... and that is definitely happening!! The Clinton days certainly look pretty good from where I sit now ... so using those experienced people makes sense to me. I've always thought he is an intelligent man who is capable of doing whatever it takes to get this country back on the right track so this is no surprise to me. You'd have to talk to the 'other side' about their expectations. They seemed to think he was a socialist, marxist, etc. etc. who was going to bring in all his communist, terrorist, friends and do awful things. That wasn't us Happiness does not come from having what you want ... but from wanting what you have. Dx 3/20/2006, IDC, 3cm, Stage II, Grade 2, 0/4 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2- |
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Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer, Created: Nov 15, 2008 11:23 am
Positive Obama threadAnne ... I think Hillary would make an excellent SOS ... but I'm not at all sure she will be interested? Amy ... and everybody else too ... I think you will enjoy reading this http://margaretandhelen.wordpress.com/2008/11/11/the-view-needs-glasses/ If you have time go back and read the older entries too ... this woman is amazing ... and very entertaining too! I'm tired of hearing about how we have to protect 'traditional' marriage? Marriage, as based on Biblical teaching, has not existed in this country for a long, long time ... thankfully! You know, where a woman is given or sold as property from her father to a husband ... has no rights ... not allowed to take part in anything other than family life ... must submit totally to her husband's authority and obey him unconditionally ... divorce not allowed ... etc. Some of the people I hear going on about the 'sanctity' of marriage have been divorced and remarried several times ... one of them is on marriage #6. I'm pretty sure the Bible says that if you remarry after divorce you are committing the sin of adultery ... yet nobody seems to be getting all hot and bothered about stopping divorces to protect 'marriage' ... only interested in stopping gay people from getting the same rights they have. This straight woman thinks maybe we should all do 'civil unions' and those who really want to preserve 'traditional' marriage can go to their church for an additional ceremony to put themselves under the old, traditional roles and rules. Somehow I don't think they would have too many take them up on that. Just getting tired of folks picking and choosing what religious stuff to ignore and what to try to force on others ... based on no more than what works for them. Happiness does not come from having what you want ... but from wanting what you have. Dx 3/20/2006, IDC, 3cm, Stage II, Grade 2, 0/4 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2- |
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Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer, Created: Nov 15, 2008 08:52 am
Positive Obama threadRocktobermom ... valid comment about the news media ... they have become 'gossip rags' in my opinion. All of us - on both sides - should practice the old "Don't believe anything you hear - and only half of what you see" mantra. FOX and MSNBC reported that story on Nov 5 - after the election - attributed to "her McCain campaign aides". A guy named Martin Eisenstadt then came forward and said he was the source - turned out he was fake. The $150K on clothes came out of that same story and turned out to be true so I guess we still don't know if he was the original 'source' or whether they actually got the original info from somebody else? All of that kind of stuff is just 'gossip' ... and unfortunately they are going to continue to feed us such tripe as long as it gets them good ratings. The only good thing in this case is that they did hold it until after the election. I'm no Palin fan but I do think the McCain campaign did her no favors by not letting her take questions from the press or do appearances on venues like Meet the Press. If she is more intelligent and knowledgeable than she seemed that would have been the way to prove it. Instead, we saw nothing out of her except her scripted, cheerleading rallies and, combined with the gaffes with Katie Couric, it gave the appearance that she is an airhead who they didn't trust to do more serious interviews.
Happiness does not come from having what you want ... but from wanting what you have. Dx 3/20/2006, IDC, 3cm, Stage II, Grade 2, 0/4 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2- |
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Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer, Created: Nov 14, 2008 09:29 am
Positive Obama threadCan't make up my mind about the bailout for the auto companies. I did hear that it was to come out of the original $700 billion package so might be better than just giving more to the banks ... who are using it to buy other banks and give themselves bonus payments Did it never occur to all these companies that moving their manufactoring jobs to Mexico, etc. might not be a sustainable idea. Too many well paying jobs gone = people don't have the money to buy their stuff. No customers ... no sales ... no profits to worry about paying 'lower' taxes on. Wonder when Obama will start announcing his cabinet selections? Lots of media speculation but I think they are just making wild guesses to fill air time. Glad that we will finally get the 'foxes out of the hen houses' and get some people in the EPA, FDA, Labor Department, etc. who will do what they are supposed to instead of just carrying water for the corporations they are supposed to be watching! Tired of seeing Palin everywhere but it's kind of like driving past a wreck ... you just gotta look and see exactly how bad it is this time Happiness does not come from having what you want ... but from wanting what you have. Dx 3/20/2006, IDC, 3cm, Stage II, Grade 2, 0/4 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2- |
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Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer, Created: Nov 12, 2008 03:01 pm
Positive Obama threadblaest ... I've seen a few of your posts on the other thread and none of them were personal attacks just information and opinions. Still ... they consider anything that does not agree with them to be an 'attack' on their thread and have made it clear that they don't welcome it. This is not a political board ... it's a breast cancer support board and this is really not the place for a real, lively political debate. I can't be the only one here who has had to walk away from the keyboard and sit on my hands after reading some stuff that I consider to be absolutely ridiculous. But ... that is why there are two separate threads. No minds are going to be changed anyway so why bother to even try? I just hate to see this turn into a 'spitting contest' about who can post where, especially since we don't really want all their Rush and Hannity stuff over here either. Since your opinions seem more inline with ours why don't you just stay over here? I can recommend a good site if you really enjoy and want to do some actual political debating ... send me a PM and I'll give you the link. traceyz ... I agree ... isn't it nice to have hope again!!! Gotta disagree though about the 'doing the Bush thing again' to appreciate what we have now ... no way, no how, please not again in my lifetime!! Happiness does not come from having what you want ... but from wanting what you have. Dx 3/20/2006, IDC, 3cm, Stage II, Grade 2, 0/4 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2- |
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Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer, Created: Nov 9, 2008 10:06 am
Positive Obama threadI just heard one of those 'little things' yesterday that made me realize that there is much more to this election than I, as a white woman, can ever really understand. My daughter's best friend's husband is black ... they took in a stray cat this week and he wants to name it America because he is so pumped about Obama being President! Then you see people like Oprah and Will Smith ... who are very successful and respected ... crying tears of joy. I wanted Obama to win because I believe he is the best man to get us out of the mess we are in but the emotional and symbolic aspect to this is much greater than I had ever imagined it would be ... and that is a very good thing! The Republicans are simply afraid that Obama will treat them like Bush treated the Democrats. He came in with a squeaker that he won only through the Supreme Court and acted like he had a mandate ... bipartisan meant agree with whatever we say or we're going to do it anyway ... for the first 6 years that is how they operated. Obama has come in with a real mandate and also has the Congress and they think he will do the same to them. Then there is the fear factor ... they have been told to be very afraid of this socialist, communist, marxist, terrorist, Muslim, etc. etc. etc. who is coming to take away all their money, and guns and whatever else they can think of I'm very happy with his choice for COS ... seems the guy is a very rough and tumble, ready for a good fight type who can not be expected to put up with a lot of crap from anybody. Yeah ... the worry in my household was that Obama was too much of an idealist and would be treated like Jimmy Carter was ... walked all over by everybody. It seems that he does know how to pay hardball and I see that as a very good thing. The opposition will try to destroy him ... so bring on the 'thug' if needed as far as I'm concerned. Happiness does not come from having what you want ... but from wanting what you have. Dx 3/20/2006, IDC, 3cm, Stage II, Grade 2, 0/4 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2- |
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Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer, Created: Nov 5, 2008 01:15 pm
Positive Obama threadLittle-G ... just read your post after I posted mine and couldn't agree more. That sea of faces in Grant Park last night was awesome! All races, men and women, young and old, all mixed in together and standing side by side celebrating ... it was beautiful to see ... a sign of what we can do if we stick together. Happiness does not come from having what you want ... but from wanting what you have. Dx 3/20/2006, IDC, 3cm, Stage II, Grade 2, 0/4 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2- |
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Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer, Created: Nov 5, 2008 01:10 pm
Positive Obama threadWOW ... isn't it a beautiful day today ... the world looks better to me already! I have hope again that we will be able to climb out of the hole the last 8 years have put us in. Best thing of all is that the margin of victory was so big that we don't have to relive the horror of recounts, etc. again. Even Indiana went blue. I've enjoyed all the 'conversations' here - thanks for the thread Amy. I've still got all fingers and toes crossed that Prop 8 will go your way too! Now I have to go take care of my project for the day ... give my white furball cat a bath. If you never hear from me again you will know what happened.
Happiness does not come from having what you want ... but from wanting what you have. Dx 3/20/2006, IDC, 3cm, Stage II, Grade 2, 0/4 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2- |
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Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer, Created: Nov 3, 2008 09:39 am
Presidential PollObama Happiness does not come from having what you want ... but from wanting what you have. Dx 3/20/2006, IDC, 3cm, Stage II, Grade 2, 0/4 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2- |
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Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer, Created: Nov 1, 2008 11:18 pm
Positive Obama threadHere is a video of the 'rhymes with witch' lady http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_NGAYR7RHfQ Note how dressed up she is and all the make-up ... me thinks this lady wanted to get on TV and get her 15 minutes of fame. Some people are just plain crazy! Happiness does not come from having what you want ... but from wanting what you have. Dx 3/20/2006, IDC, 3cm, Stage II, Grade 2, 0/4 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2- |
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Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer, Created: Nov 1, 2008 01:30 pm
What will you do with your extra time?I probably should spend more time on housework and other such fun chores ... I'm sure I can come up with something better than that though Happiness does not come from having what you want ... but from wanting what you have. Dx 3/20/2006, IDC, 3cm, Stage II, Grade 2, 0/4 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2- |
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Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer, Created: Oct 31, 2008 04:47 pm
The Respectfully Republican ConversationPolitical emails are not your friend ... it's no wonder you all are so scared if you believe half this stuff. Please go to http://www.snopes.com/politics/obama/taxes.asp to read the facts about the above email. Happiness does not come from having what you want ... but from wanting what you have. Dx 3/20/2006, IDC, 3cm, Stage II, Grade 2, 0/4 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2- |
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Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer, Created: Oct 31, 2008 10:03 am
The Respectfully Republican ConversationSince S190 the Federal Housing Enterprise Regulatory Reform Act of 2005 keeps coming up, I did some research. The bill was initiated by Senators Hagel, Dole and Sununu on 1-26-05. It was passed out of Committee on 7-28-05 on a straight party line vote of 11 to 9. McCain signed on as a co-sponsor on 5-26-06. The Republicans had a 55 Rep /44 Dem /1 Ind majority in the Senate at the time but they never submitted the bill to the full Senate for consideration. More info here if anybody cares - http://www.govtrack.us/congress/bill.xpd?bill=s109-190 The above research brought to you due to my desperation to find any excuse to avoid cleaning the house Happiness does not come from having what you want ... but from wanting what you have. Dx 3/20/2006, IDC, 3cm, Stage II, Grade 2, 0/4 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2- |
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Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer, Created: Oct 31, 2008 01:12 am
Positive Obama threadjunie ... if won't cause any problem if you leave a blank on your ballot ... I do it all the time. Peeked in at Obama's speech Wednesday night and was very impressed. He has run an excellently planned, organized and executed campaign ... that's the kind of competence I want in my President! Happiness does not come from having what you want ... but from wanting what you have. Dx 3/20/2006, IDC, 3cm, Stage II, Grade 2, 0/4 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2- |
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Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer, Created: Oct 29, 2008 09:49 am
Positive Obama threadExcellent letter to the editor in a Missouri paper ... http://www.sedaliademocrat.com/articles/republicans_12344___article.html/life_choose.html?orderby=TimeStampDescending&showRecommendedOnly=0&oncommentsPage=8#slComments Happiness does not come from having what you want ... but from wanting what you have. Dx 3/20/2006, IDC, 3cm, Stage II, Grade 2, 0/4 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2- |
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Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer, Created: Oct 28, 2008 10:55 am
Positive Obama threadHi junie ... love your song! You might try checking the website for your local paper for voting place information. I know on ours you can type in your address and get the information. The lack of knowledge McCain has shown on numerous issues really doesn't surprise me. He wants to use the experience factor in his benefit but I think the truth is that he has been in a totally safe Senate seat for over 20 years and he has gotten reelected with minimal effort on his part because he is the incumbent and has money and connections. This campaign demands more and he can't do it ... so we get lots of 'blah, blah, blah' and attacks on the other guy. Happiness does not come from having what you want ... but from wanting what you have. Dx 3/20/2006, IDC, 3cm, Stage II, Grade 2, 0/4 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2- |
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Tests, Treatments & Side Effects + Just Diagnosed, Created: Oct 28, 2008 10:39 am
Just been told my mum has weeks to liveI am so sorry that you all are being faced with this. If there is any doubt about the potential that her condition could be treated you can always get a second opinion. I can understand your anger that she let this go on for so long but that can't be changed now ... I'm guessing it was fear that prevented her from acting ... and I hope you can push that aside for now and concentrate on loving her and helping her through this. The medical personnel should be able to give you a referral to a hospice group who can provide a multitude of services to help you and your mother cope with all this. (((Hugs))) to you kazzyann ... I sure wish there were some magic words that could make this easier on you all ... Happiness does not come from having what you want ... but from wanting what you have. Dx 3/20/2006, IDC, 3cm, Stage II, Grade 2, 0/4 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2- |
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