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anneshirley

Mary_and_sophie

Member Since: January 11, 2008
Last Login: November 30, 2008
Location: United States
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Biography

Diagnosis

Diagnosis: Dx 6/10/2006, IDC, <1cm, Stage Ia, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER-/PR-, HER2+
Diagnosed: June 10, 2006
Type: Invasive or Infiltrating Ductal Carcinoma
Recurrent? No recurrence
Metastatic? No
Stage: Stage Ia
Lymph Nodes Removed: 3
Positive Lymph Nodes: 0
Tumor Size: Less than 1cm
Tumor Grade: Grade 2 or medium grade
Hormone Receptor Status: Tumor does not have estrogen or progesterone receptors
HER2/neu Status: Tumor has an excess of HER2/neu receptors or genes

Recent Posts by anneshirley

Posted in: Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer, Created: Oct 17, 2008 12:11 pm

***What about the undecided?!?! (Political topic)***

I just had a chance to read through Baby Buckley's endorsement of Obama.  Here's my latest conspiracy theory. His writing is full of retooled cliches and is not of the quality one usually finds in the National Review.  He also makes it clear that he is very much a conservative, and questions Obama's rhetoric and economic plans, so why this backhanded endorsement, and now?  I suspect that with his father gone, the National Review was planning to dump him--a great embarrassment!--so to cover his tracks he endorses Obama, then tells everyone he was asked to leave the magazine because of the endorsement.  I haven't read anything else of his but if the endorsement article is an example of his work, I doubt very much that he would have stayed on no matter who he endorsed. 
Anneshirley Picture of Mary & Sophie, my nieces
Dx 6/10/2006, IDC, <1cm, Stage Ia, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER-/PR-, HER2+
Posted in: Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer, Created: Oct 17, 2008 11:37 am

The Respectfully Republican Conversation

Speaking of Obama lies, the one that most annoyed me was when Obama said that to pay for his health care plan he would get rid of the 15% premium that goes to Medicare Advantage plans, which only helps the insurance companies.  That was absolutely not true, and I know first hand because I am one of the many who are benefited.  I would have spent another $20,000, at a minimum, in my first year with BC if I had joined ordinary Medicare and not one of the Advantage plans.  Instead, aside from my co-pays of $10 and $20, I paid only $750.00. Yet now I read that Obama's next ad will be directed to Medicare recipients telling them that McCain will be coming after their benefits.  Perhaps that's true--I don't know--but I know for sure Obama is coming after my benefits and the benefits of all those enrolled in an Advantage Plan. 

That may be fair, and I am willing to accept what's fair even if it doesn't benefit me, but nonetheless it's a lie. 

Anneshirley Picture of Mary & Sophie, my nieces
Dx 6/10/2006, IDC, <1cm, Stage Ia, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER-/PR-, HER2+
Posted in: Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer, Created: Oct 16, 2008 10:40 pm

The Respectfully Republican Conversation

ibc--thanks for info on EEOC.  As I was asking question I was remembering, vaguely, that you need the government's express permission to sue it.  That stinks, and I hope this information gets out.  I'd love to hear the response.  I will wait to see how many women he appoints, and to what positions. 

Shirley--glad you liked it but it belongs to Shokk; hopefully she won't charge me for using it.  And, yes, they really are gorgeous--wish you could all see it enlarged.  

Anneshirley Picture of Mary & Sophie, my nieces
Dx 6/10/2006, IDC, <1cm, Stage Ia, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER-/PR-, HER2+
Posted in: Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer, Created: Oct 16, 2008 10:16 pm

The Respectfully Republican Conversation

LuAnne--I vote in New York City and have never been asked for identification.  I give my name, they open it to the page where I am registered and I sign.  I believe this means that if the name is in the registration book they can vote.  So we must depend on the registrar that the names are correct.

Anneshirley Picture of Mary & Sophie, my nieces
Dx 6/10/2006, IDC, <1cm, Stage Ia, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER-/PR-, HER2+
Posted in: Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer, Created: Oct 16, 2008 10:10 pm

The Respectfully Republican Conversation

Suzfive--I think your post on senate staff salaries regarding Senators Obama and McCain is the most interesting post I've seen on any of these threads.  It's a bit late in the day to be getting this information though.  Is there any breakdown of staff by years of experience, job title, etc.? 

It seems to me that if this is true, and the implications are true, that he discriminates, then it's fodder for a lawsuit.  The anti-discrimination laws, I assume, are applicable to senate staffers.  I'd like to know more detail.  The devil they say is always in the details.

Grace--you know I love you, but I think Shirley has you on this one.  You were a huge Obama supporter way back when.  Remember how pissed I got when you suggested that people might not vote for Hillary because of the Vince Foster case. 

My disclaimer.  I am not in the least open and objective.  I have never voted for a Republican, not even for relatives, and I have no intention in my golden years of reversing myself.  I have loved a few, however.  Thanks to Shokk, I now know how Republicans came about.  Their mothers dropped them on their heads and shoved their brains to the right.  If you shake them enough they might find their way home.

Anneshirley Picture of Mary & Sophie, my nieces
Dx 6/10/2006, IDC, <1cm, Stage Ia, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER-/PR-, HER2+
Posted in: Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer, Created: Oct 16, 2008 09:29 pm

***What about the undecided?!?! (Political topic)***

I looked up Obama's record with the Harvard Law Review, particularly an article in Politico.  My reading confirmed what I had read earlier that he had not written any articles for the review--at least this is what he and his campaign advisers have spread about. (He does a lot of hiding of his past.)  However, it appears he did write a case review on the right of a fetus to sue its mother for negligence during pregnancy.  His position, the fetus does not have this right--based on case law, of course.

Interesting paragraph at the end of the article, as follows:

In the end, though, Obama's time on the Review mirrored other aspects of his life. Even in the staunchly liberal milieus in which he has spent his entire adult life, Obama has managed to lead without leaving a clear ideological stamp, and to respect — and even, at times, to embrace — opposing views. To his critics, that's a sign of a lack of core beliefs. To his admirers, it's the root of his appeal.

I thought the above a fair comment on my view of Obama--obviously one of his critics.  I hate it that he can never be pinned down to anything.  I want passion and commitment from those I respect, and the courage to go against the crowd when it's the right thing to do.  I don't find that in Obama but I hope he finds it in himself when he is president.  I almost posted yesterday in response to something I read on a post that he reminded me of the character that Peter Seller plays in "Being There."  He seems to be a mirror to his supporters.  They assign to him the virtues they themselves expect in a president.  But mirrors don't have virtues, they just reflect.  

Anyway, article is worth reading.  Enter  Barack Obama Harvard Law Review to find it. 

Anneshirley Picture of Mary & Sophie, my nieces
Dx 6/10/2006, IDC, <1cm, Stage Ia, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER-/PR-, HER2+
Posted in: Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer, Created: Oct 16, 2008 08:45 pm

Proposed Health Care Plans

I would advise you, when you're eligible for Medicare, to look at all the options.  A few years back under the Republicans, some new plans were introduced, mainly because the Republicans were attempting to push Medicare into the private sector, called Advantage plans.  Unlike regular Medicare where you find your own doctor (but then lots don't take Medicare patients) and pay co-pays, coinsurance, and deductibles, Advantage plans are a lot like HMO's.  Also to entice insurance companies, they are paid about 15% more than providers under original Medicare.  (As Obama announced last night he plans to get rid of this advantage, so I will be back to original Medicare where it's much more expensive and harder to find doctors.  I felt like smashing the TV last night when he said this doesn't help anyone and just gives money to the insurance companies--liar, liar, pants on fire.) Where I lucked out is that I am in New York City and so I have access to a large number of doctors, some on the Best Doctors list.  Also, I read the Advantage plans carefully and found one that worked very well for me.  I took one with a deductible but which also paid full cost on expensive scans.

If I had had original Medicare my costs would have been at least $20,000 more in the first year, probably more and possibly less as some doctors won't charge more than what Medicare allows.  However, and here's the caveat, lots of states don't have the Advantage plans, and some states have only a few.  My good friend who moved from California to Colorado didn't have this option and she's had a horrible time finding doctors who take Medicare.  There are no such plans in Maine where I thought to switch my insurance--and what I have is not moveable, so when I had a biopsy in Maine this summer I paid, not my insurance.

Health care in this country stinks! 

Anneshirley Picture of Mary & Sophie, my nieces
Dx 6/10/2006, IDC, <1cm, Stage Ia, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER-/PR-, HER2+
Posted in: Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer, Created: Oct 16, 2008 08:23 pm

***What about the undecided?!?! (Political topic)***

I don't think they'll need me to look to for their politics.  Their mother taught for a number of years in an inner city high school and loved it.  After she married and moved far away from the area she resigned  and took a job in a very up-scale school, in one of the wealthier suburbs in New Jersey--parents are mainly investment bankers.  She absolutely hated it, and the students (unbareable snobs! her words), missed her former students terribly, quit and made the two hour trip (versus 15 minutes) every day back to the city school.  She's now staying at home for a bit until the girls are older.

Barack Obama can certainly write; don't assume all Harvard students can; they can't.  I worked with a number of them over the years, also edited their papers.  And writing good Law Journal articles is not easy although certainly different from fiction; however (and I will look this up), I believe I read somewhere that Obama never wrote any articles for the Review.  I will look that  up. 

It was up to Congress to use its checks and balances.  It didn't, particularly when it came to the war, which was Cheney's main preoccupation.

Don't hold your breath on peace in the Middle East.  Remember that one of my main arguments with Obama is his propensity to talk about bombing Pakistan.  And Joe Biden is rather famous within the Democratic Party as an interventionist, which is why some of us on the left, although we like him are not that happy to see him as veep.

Yes, we are in a minority but I don't understand why.  Most industrial countries have some type of socialist democratic government, some more social, others less, but all providing a greater safety net for its citizens than the U.S.

Anneshirley Picture of Mary & Sophie, my nieces
Dx 6/10/2006, IDC, <1cm, Stage Ia, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER-/PR-, HER2+
Posted in: Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer, Created: Oct 16, 2008 08:02 pm

The Respectfully Republican Conversation

Susie--yes it's very mean what's happening to Joe.    But you know the other side would do the same, which is again why I distrust all politicians.

Anneshirley Picture of Mary & Sophie, my nieces
Dx 6/10/2006, IDC, <1cm, Stage Ia, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER-/PR-, HER2+
Posted in: Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer, Created: Oct 16, 2008 07:58 pm

The Respectfully Republican Conversation

Rosemary, I believe that Gordon Libby is a friend of McCain's and that McCain gave him a funding party.  I hope that trying to terrorize the other political party counts.

Please someone comment on my two beautiful nieces.  Otherwise, why did I go to the trouble to put them up there? 

Anneshirley Picture of Mary & Sophie, my nieces
Dx 6/10/2006, IDC, <1cm, Stage Ia, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER-/PR-, HER2+
Posted in: Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer, Created: Oct 16, 2008 06:58 pm

***What about the undecided?!?! (Political topic)***

Grace--well I'm glad you were only musing on the education thing. 

I think the same of Obama's experience as we both do of Palin's.  He has an amazingly thin resume to be running for president, but Americans are a strange lot in my view in preferring style over substance.  Obama may have substance in the end--he certainly has style, but we won't know until he takes office, which is a gamble.  Fingers crossed.  I'm sure we'll all be talking on these threads after he takes office.  

With respect to VP selection, the VP really has a very small role in government.  It was Clinton who expanded the role, and Cheney who took it to the outer limits, but he couldn't have done that without Bush's agreement. In my mind it really doesn't matter if the president likes the veep. Tough if he doesn't. Just send him or her to a few weddings and funerals, as in the past.  What counts is that the people view the veep as their selection.  We know Biden because he's been around for a while and also because he ran for the nomination, but Obama was seriously considering Kaine and, from what I understand, would have preferred him.  And I think that would have been as unfair to us as it is unfair that McCain selected Palin.  (It's not over yet and he could win under certain circumstances, and then where are we?) We shouldn't have a VP forced down our throats.  I doubt I'll change the DNC or RNC views on the subject but if I could, I would.

Most students at Harvard undergrad and grad schools get A's, a few B's, so there really isn't a top 5%.   I  believe Obama got on the Law Review through a writing sample.  I'd have to check but I believe that's how the selections are made. The purpose of school is to prepare us for life and our life's work, so what matters to me is how one conducts oneself beyond school.  I suspect that's why the founders have a firm age requirement for president.

Anneshirley Picture of Mary & Sophie, my nieces

Dx 6/10/2006, IDC, <1cm, Stage Ia, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER-/PR-, HER2+
Posted in: Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer, Created: Oct 16, 2008 04:19 pm

The Respectfully Republican Conversation

Pat,

You said, Lots of people in a variety of settings have expressed their concerns about Palin and no one seems to question if they have a bias against women just because they express that concern. 

That's not true, at least with respect to me. I wrote a number of posts wondering if women on the Obama thread had a bias against Palin and by extension, against women in general, but that was only when they used sexist terms to denigrate her, or questioned her role as a mother, wife, etc.

I understand that you don't like Al Sharpton--he's not to everyone's taste, but there is no possibility that Obama would ever use him as an adviser.  Obama is far too politically astute.  Remember this is a man who voted "present" 130 times when he was in the Illinois legislature.  He does not take stands that are unpopular.  To my regret anyway.

Anneshirley Picture of Mary & Sophie, my nieces
Dx 6/10/2006, IDC, <1cm, Stage Ia, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER-/PR-, HER2+
Posted in: Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer, Created: Oct 16, 2008 03:08 pm

The Respectfully Republican Conversation

Pat--I believe Felicia has answered the post you addressed to me.   I agree with her post, but I  want to add that I don't believe Sharpton need apologize for anything he said in the past--I don't know everything he's said, obviously.  This mania for forcing people to apologize has gotten out of hand. I usually wind up disliking the people who apologize at the media's bidding. "Have the courage of your convictions" is my usual thought. Those who are passionate about right and wrong often say things in heat that might have been toned down, but it's the sentiment behind the words that I hear. We have had many, many racial problems in New York, as pointed out earlier, that needed someone to get our blood boiling and Sharpton has been that person.  I'm glad we have him.  Tawana Brawley lied, and he believed her.  I did too, at first. 

And speaking of state troopers.  My husband, a Latino, had his own experience with bigoted state troopers in New Jersey.  I remember shouting at them, both with Irish last names, that they made me ashamed to be Irish. There is a problem between the police and minorities, and we won't fix it until we stop denying it.

Anneshirley
Dx 6/10/2006, IDC, <1cm, Stage Ia, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER-/PR-, HER2+
Posted in: Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer, Created: Oct 16, 2008 02:26 pm

The Respectfully Republican Conversation

LuAnn--I am not voting for McCain and I don't believe either health plan will get implemented in the next four years but you keep focusing on that as though Obama's plan is offering something to people like you (without your husband's insurance), and he's not.  You really must read outside the Democratic talking points to know what each candidate is actually offering.  I just posted a website on the Health Care thread that gives a comprehensive review of each plan. The conclusion is that neither candidate gives sufficient detail to make any reasonable judgment on which is better for which person.  It's true.   They are deliberately kept vague so that the candidates have wiggle room.  In neither case, though, will either be implemented.  Perhaps Obama, who will be our next president, will make some changes to insurance regulations, the main one being the requirement that pre-existing and high-risk diseases be covered at the same premium cost as those in the low-risk category.  If he even does that, I will feel something got accomplished.  

You again associate John McCain with his age, and then jump from there to "old" ideas. I may be the oldest woman posting on these threads, but I am also the most progressive in my ideas for policy change.  I am, you should note, the only Nader supporter in the crowd. Women, 60 and older, are the heart of the Democratic Party and, as a number of recent studies have shown, older women are far less likely to move to conservative positions as they age. Yet, look at the way Hillary was treated when she was running.  I can just imagine what would happen to a woman of 72 if she ran!  I honestly think you have to rethink some of your ideas about age.  You did so about race, so you're well on your way.

Anneshirley
Dx 6/10/2006, IDC, <1cm, Stage Ia, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER-/PR-, HER2+
Posted in: Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer, Created: Oct 16, 2008 02:06 pm

The Respectfully Republican Conversation

I find it somewhat ironic when people talk of McCain's age and the likelihood that he'll die in office.  John Kennedy was our youngest elected president (Teddy Roosevelt was the youngest to take office), and he had Addison's disease.  JFK's chance of dying in office was probably greater than that of all our other presidents (and I don't mean from a gun shot wound).  When he was quite young he was told that because of his disease he would not live to an old age. 

I think Sarah Palin was a bad pick by McCain, but not because of his age. None of us know what our future holds and we should always assume that the VP can become president no matter what the age of the president.  Obama could have a brain aneurysm and die tomorrow, and so could McCain. 


Anneshirley
Dx 6/10/2006, IDC, <1cm, Stage Ia, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER-/PR-, HER2+
Posted in: Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer, Created: Oct 16, 2008 01:45 pm

Proposed Health Care Plans

Here's a link to an excellent article on both candidates' health care plans if you prefer knowing the facts to listening to the candidates' spin.  The conclusion is that both plans are not detailed enough to make any realistic predictions as to cost of either plan or numbers of uninsured that will now have coverage, or what anyone will wind up paying.  As the article states, both candidates distort the other's plan.  I really do dislike politicians.  Didn't their mothers tell them the Cherry Tree story!

http://www.newsweek.com/id/163909 

Anneshirley
Dx 6/10/2006, IDC, <1cm, Stage Ia, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER-/PR-, HER2+
Posted in: Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer, Created: Oct 16, 2008 01:27 pm

***What about the undecided?!?! (Political topic)***

Tina--I couldn't stand Bill Buckley.  His brother James was not so bad though but also nothing to write home about.  One of my best memories of Buckley was when he invited Germaine Greer to his program and she completely knocked him off his game.  I supposed some women would be offended by what she did, but I loved it.  When he was condescending she'd flirt and he would start sputtering, which he did a lot, like Chris Matthews, and as soon as he would adjust to her method of debate, she would return to his and undermine one of his arguments with an incisive one of hers.  I wish I could get a copy of that show, as I enjoyed it immensely.

Anneshirley
Dx 6/10/2006, IDC, <1cm, Stage Ia, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER-/PR-, HER2+
Posted in: Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer, Created: Oct 16, 2008 01:08 pm

The Respectfully Republican Conversation

LuAnn--I don't believe he said at any point that Sarah Palin had an autistic child; rather he said she knows the problems of autism.  I was surprised as well but assumed--I gave him the benefit of the doubt--that Palin has worked with, or has expressed an interest in autism.  She said at the Convention that she would work with special needs' children, not those with Downs syndrome, and autism is the current poster child disease for special needs children, mainly I believe because of the huge increase in reports of autism.  Many people believe that autism may be caused by problems with the environment--plastics, etc.  I haven't read of any alarming increases in Downs' Syndrome, and Palin fell into the risk category of having a Downs child because of her age. The "my fellow prisoners" was a natural slip, no worse than the Democrat in Florida who introduced Joe Biden as John McCain, and I can pick out similar slips by Obama and Biden.  Remember that Obama talked about 57 states and  Biden about FDR going on the radio in, I believe, 1929!  Actually, of all the gaffs I've heard this year, I thought Biden's was the worst, and the funniest.

As we get older, our thought processes change, but this happens throughout our lives--it's a continuum.   There's no break point at which we're one way and immediately after that point, we're another.  I can't bring words up as quickly as I could when I was 40, but I still do better than most people, whatever age.  Words are my business.  I don't think I'm senile because it takes me a second or two longer to find the name of a character in literature that ten or twenty years ago was immediate.  The slips that McCain makes are no different than the slips we make all the time.  In my view, I think you're convinced that he's old, and thus slipping into senility, and when you listen to McCain and he makes a mistake, that only proves what you already believe. I'm not saying this in a critical way--lots of people think this way, just trying to point out that when people believe a certain way they tend to look for validation of those beliefs.

You wrote earlier of the racism you experienced when you lived in Pennsylvania.  Think of those people with whom you were raised.  No doubt they would validate their belief that African Americans commit more crime if they saw an African American on TV being arrested.  Yet, if they saw a white American being arrested, it would never enter their minds that white Americans commit more crime. I think this is what you're doing with John McCain.  Sure he could be having problems but what you cite isn't evidence of such a problem. 

Anneshirley
Dx 6/10/2006, IDC, <1cm, Stage Ia, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER-/PR-, HER2+
Posted in: Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer, Created: Oct 16, 2008 12:32 pm

The Respectfully Republican Conversation

Shirley--you may have hit on the answer.  I didn't think of the IRA as stock holdings.  Yes, it would be something of a penalty if one had to sell stock to fulfill the distribution requirements, and stocks were artificially down at the time.  But other than that, I can think of no other reason for both candidates to have made this proposal.  My IRA money is basically in cash, as I never buy stocks. And if I leave money in it's because I don't need it.

Has anyone else wondered where all this money is coming from, for both candidates, if all the tax revenues are gone?  

Anneshirley
Dx 6/10/2006, IDC, <1cm, Stage Ia, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER-/PR-, HER2+
Posted in: Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Moving Beyond Cancer, Created: Oct 16, 2008 12:05 pm

***What about the undecided?!?! (Political topic)***

I've already moved on to the next phase. The Democrats will win solid majorities in both houses and Obama will win the White House.  But what the Democrats inherit is so damaged that I fear there is nothing they can do to rectify our problems in four years.  Americans find it difficult to wait for gratification so they'll expect to see all the country's problems resolved in four years, and they'll hold Obama to all the promises he's made, including cutting the deficit, cutting taxes, cutting energy costs, changing the health care system, improving education, and so forth.  They voted in a Republican even when Bill Clinton left the economy in great shape, so for sure they'll vote in a Republican in four years when the economy hasn't improved to any great extent.  I predict Romney will run again in four years and probably this time he'll be the nominee.  (Please God, let Sarah Palin go back to Alaska.)  The one solid achievement I hope Obama makes is at least two appointments to the Supreme Court--both activist judges.  I love activist judges, and if I read the code correctly last night in the debate, that's what Obama is promising. 

I must comment on something I read on another thread. Senators don't answer to presidents. (It's often the other way round as just one holdout in the president's party can often block the president's agenda.)  Each of the  branches are separate with none of them answering to the other.  There's a reason our government was designed this way, to keep power out of the hands of one, or a few individuals. Until Dick Cheney came along, it seems to have worked fairly well. Let's hope the Democrats, with a constitutional lawyer as president, will once again honor the intentions of the Constitution. 

Anneshirley
Dx 6/10/2006, IDC, <1cm, Stage Ia, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER-/PR-, HER2+

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