Maria_C_

The only thing I can say is
don't stress with what has not happening already
neither is about to happen now.
Breathe in, breathe out and go with the flow,
you haven't met them in person yet... so...
Yes, we understand what can come to mind but,
each thing at its time; like others said,
I'm sure when time is right for you, you will know it
whether if that will be tomorrow, or in days, or months...
then is not an obligation that you open all "your book"
if you're just starting to met people ...
everyone has "secrets"
and some certainly are not to be shared with people
that we do not know or do not feel comfortable with.

Best of luck!!!
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Makes sense then.
I had those symptoms on my throat but
not so annoying as you describe,
they came months after Rads.,
but by then,
what bothered me most was the neck muscle
that would have a thing around
tingling, pulling and pricking
at times that would go up to my right ear;
Rads Doc. said it was rads effects
and it would go away, as to the throat feeling
she mentioned it's not very common to happen, but it happens.
After months can not be precise how long was that,
all disappeared.

But having scar tissue such as that,
that can be id so easily ... have no idea,
neither ever heard how that can be managed.
In the end, is always good just to know what is going on.
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I'm on Tamoxifen and
had that severely on my feet last year,
started on my feet and then came up my legs,
and around this time by then I went for
some couple of texts to see what was going on.
Nothing out of what could be expected, arthritis,
the thing got in a way that I could not stand up
in the morning.
The odd thing was that,
I been on sports long years back
and along the time was always very active
so in any point of my life this shown before,
I had detailed XR's that shown that suddenly
I have flat feet, yep, apparently chemo
messed with the joins in there to this point.

Those exercises mentioned by lam,
in the morning and now and then do help a lot,
plus as soon as I started some supplements
and things like magnesium
and vitamin D's it was a HUGE change.
A good shoe with a very good feet support
made a difference too.
Just for you to get the idea of how one can
recover back, last year around this month
I was holding myself on the walls some parts of the day
to manage to do things like
going to the kitchen, or get up from my desk,
I'm 39 and at certain parts of the day
I was feeling as if 93...
this year around January
I went back to my favorite thing mountain hiking,
and by now one year latter, I already lost the count
of how many miles I hiked so far
with not much problems then
what can be the normal, tired in the end.
I'm not saying that it is gone completely, there's days,
and after the kick we had with chemo,
plus then being on Tamox or AI's or of the kind,
guess it's asking too much
for things to get back being 100%,
but it can get FAR BETTER.

Hope that improves soon.

Sorry,
just taking the chance of droping some words to Binney.
Binney, the work you been doing in here been long,
as to LE risk and info and such,
though sometimes it doesn't show on the responses
the threads may have, your work and consern
about informing people through here, been outstanding.
Talking for myself and reading you back long back,
since all this started,
was that involvement you had and have,
that made it far easier for me,
I do not have LE,
but am at high risk for some "obvious reasons"
and because of my work, and my work is
not something one can give up from day to night;
If not for the all info you provided along the time
and I would be still looping around on what to do
to manage some couple of very important things
that did made the difference for me.
So, thank you for that!!

Hugs.

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It means that he needs an eye specialist.
Men!...

Good you both talked about it,
that's already something.
Take care.

Hugs.

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Sooooooooo cuuuuuuute!!!!
Sorry have to repeat her pic again!!



Great acquisition!
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Wallan we all change after BC
well... as it shows, no?
After what you went through around and about this crap
you probably may not be at your best at the moment
but your husband turned a great jerk!!
What is his excuse?

I can only agree with what everyone said above,
and after you cool down a bit around this
and digest this better,
if you think that you have to do something,
I can only add one thing, if so...
Do it on your terms and do it for yourself
not for him or thinking about him,
you first.

Flirting with an old girlfriend!!!!!!! ...
Nope, that's far beyond the unacceptable;
around here, it was me that went through BC, so
considering the delicate psychological and emotional state
that all this bring on us...
I decided that only me have the right to flirt whomever.
A comment such as that of an hot old girlfriend
and I'm sorry ... but I would have to ask
if he finds himself so sure that he is at the level
and has what it takes for a woman like that.
Sorry but I do not bite easily that thing
of man being with their emotions all upsidedown
during and after BC,
they even may and may even get just as we, but...
one thing is this and
that doesn't involve lack of respect.

Hugs.

Took this pics yesterday while crossing the river.
It was a beautiful day and very, very, very relaxing,
got so distracted ...
that almost forgot why I had to cross the river.



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Hugs.

Lisa,
What a cute little thing!!!!

Congratulations on the new acquisition.
And thanks for sharing.
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