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Posted in: Connecting With Others Who Have a Similar Diagnosis + LCIS (Lobular Carcinoma In Situ), Created: Nov 27, 2008 05:46 pm

Questions for those who have considered prophylactic mastectomy

Hi Jean,

Hope you are having a wonderful Thanksgiving.  Also, just to let you know I have not regretted nor have I missed my breasts for 1 second.  I know they do not define who I am but God does.  We are and always will be His beautiful children.  I really had no pain having the two drains removed- I was just so excited to get them out. Cheers to long showers, and new perky ones.   Keep me posted on how you are doing.

Lois 

Posted in: Connecting With Others Who Have a Similar Diagnosis + LCIS (Lobular Carcinoma In Situ), Created: Nov 26, 2008 10:56 pm

Questions for those who have considered prophylactic mastectomy

Hi Sunflower,

Thank you for your prayers.  I had my prophylactic double mastectomy Nov. 18.  I couldn't believe they wanted me out of the hospitol 24 hrs. after surgery but I told them I was not leaving until my pain was under control.  Part of the problem stemmed from not knowing that I could push the pain pump button every 10 mins and then when it finally sunk in to do it and that I could- then I either couldn't reach it or I couldn't find it.  Good news was I left the 2nd day and finally had the pain under control with vicodin and an IV bag of motirn.  I've been good since I left the hospitol.  Got two drains out this morning and still have 2 more left in.  They should come out next week.  What an awesome God we have and boy have I sure been blessed by Him- even after reading everything on the internet and seeing numerous doctors who thought that maybe my idea of a prophylactic mastectomy was a little agressive but an option regarding my diagnosis of LCIS I still felt lead to have it done.  God had given me many confirmations to go ahead on my deicison but the question is always still on your mind but today I KNOW I made the right decision.  The surgeon said my whole pathology report was not in yet but I had made the right decision especially after they found some DCIS in the pathology too!  Thank you Lord for giving me the courage to stay on course- I have been blessed- no radiation- no chemo.  Of course, I do know the decision I made is not for everyone by any means.  The many women who are diagnosed with LCIS and never have any more problems are tremendously blesssed.  I love seeing their stories because it's nice to know there are other options and not everyone is the same.

So Sunflower- how are you doing? What phase are you in for reconstruction?  I may have my first expansion fill delayed a week since they also did the nipple sparing technique on me and they want to make sure the nipples will be ok first.  I'm excited and positive about the outcome and have definitely learned that God is in control- not me.

Have a great Thanksgiving-

Lois

Posted in: Connecting With Others Who Have a Similar Diagnosis + LCIS (Lobular Carcinoma In Situ), Created: Oct 22, 2008 06:46 pm

Questions for those who have considered prophylactic mastectomy

Jean & Carol,

Stay in touch so we can have a good support group.

Lois

Posted in: Connecting With Others Who Have a Similar Diagnosis + LCIS (Lobular Carcinoma In Situ), Created: Oct 22, 2008 01:47 am

Questions for those who have considered prophylactic mastectomy

Carol,

Your words are like a breath of fresh air.  Thanks for the positive input and the heads up on the on-Q irrigation.  I will definitely be asking about that!

Lois 

Posted in: Connecting With Others Who Have a Similar Diagnosis + LCIS (Lobular Carcinoma In Situ), Created: Oct 21, 2008 06:02 pm

Questions for those who have considered prophylactic mastectomy

Hi Jean,

I have my surgery scheduled for Nov. 18 and all I keep reading about is the pain everyone has.  Are there any good positive stories?  I plan to have reconstruction with implants so the expanders will be placed at mastectomy surgery- I think this will help psychologically. I'm more concerned about everyone's stories about pain.  I'm a little more matter of fact and can't wrap my head around there being a big psychological problem for myself anyway- may be from immediate family members having gone through cancer regimes of chemo. and radiation therapies. I feel like the blessed one not having to go through any of that. So if they can put me back together close to what I am right now I will be very happy not to mention the security of such a slim chance of breast cancer later. I try to keep looking at the positive side and move on.  Keep in touch and I'll let you know how I do as well. They want to try the nipple sparing with me so I'm all for that but I can't decide on whether to have the sentinel nodes removed.  What are you doing on that issue?

Lois

Posted in: Connecting With Others Who Have a Similar Diagnosis + LCIS (Lobular Carcinoma In Situ), Created: Oct 19, 2008 03:28 pm

Questions for those who have considered prophylactic mastectomy

Sunflower,

We will have to keep up with each other.  I have surgery for BPM Nov. 18.  I'll be praying for you.

Lois

Posted in: Connecting With Others Who Have a Similar Diagnosis + LCIS (Lobular Carcinoma In Situ), Created: Sep 22, 2008 01:19 am

Questions for those who have considered prophylactic mastectomy

Psalmist,

I can't tell you how nice it was to see your post.  Your story is exactly why I feel I am doing the PBM.  I have felt that way from the beginning of my diagnosis and research on LCIS.  Because of my diagnosis my mother in law inquired about a change in her left nipple after just having had a perfect mamogram and being told she didn't need to be seen for another year..  The physician did a breast MRI and ultrasound. Low and behold she did indeed have a shadow behind the nipple and the biopsy confirmed invasive lobular carcinoma.  She insisted the surgeon do a double mastectomy even when he told her that her insurance wouldn't pay for it.  Her pathology showed not only cancer in the already diagnosed side but she also had a tumor on the other side.  I'm not waiting and watching LCIS do anything!!!!!!! I am so done stick a fork in me I'm done.  It seems strange but I have felt this way since the beginning.  Waking up every day and knowing I only have a small percentage chance of getting breast cancer will be great. My mother died at 56 from breast cancer and I don't plan on repeating the story. Thanks again for your story and encouragement.  It is an individual decision but I'm in line with the PBM side for myself.

Lois

Posted in: Connecting With Others Who Have a Similar Diagnosis + LCIS (Lobular Carcinoma In Situ), Created: Sep 20, 2008 12:46 am

Questions for those who have considered prophylactic mastectomy

Jean- I'm glad I'm not the only thinking the was I do.  Thanks for your comments.

Chrisly1- Sorry your having to think about this too but it will great to have someone going through the same thing at the same time.  We can hopefully help each other through it.  After meeting with the surgeon and plastic surgeon they left me with two decisions I have to make before surgery- 1) do I want the sentinel nodes taken out at the time of surgery 2) do I want to try the nipple/skin sparing technique.  Right now I'm thinking yes take the sentinel nodes- I don't think they can go back and take those particular nodes after the surgery (I'll have to ask about that because if they don't take them and then find something in the pathology how do they decide which nodes and how many nodes they are going to go back and take to biopsy? I am also pretty sure I will have them try the nipple/skin sparing technique- if it doesn't work then we can go back and do it the other way.  Tram/flap would have been nice but I hear it is pretty painful and I didn't have enough fat to make them the same size they are now.  Also, I hear there is a technique that doesn't take any of the stomach muscle just the fat which doesn't leave your stomach muscles weaker with possibility of hernias.  Please let me know how you are doing and what your thinking.

Lois

Posted in: Connecting With Others Who Have a Similar Diagnosis + LCIS (Lobular Carcinoma In Situ), Created: Aug 21, 2008 12:11 am

Questions for those who have considered prophylactic mastectomy

Hi Crisly1,

I'm here if you need me.  I definitely support whatever decision you make and toally understand where you are in the decision making process.  Keep me posted on what you decide to do. I have my prophylactic bilateral mastectomy on Nov. 18 with immediate reconstruction with expanders.  I'm excited to get it done but wish it was behind me.

Lois

Posted in: Tests, Treatments & Side Effects + Breast Reconstruction, Created: Aug 4, 2008 06:38 pm

nipple/skin sparing reconstruction

Hi Noel & Phyllis,

I can't thank you enough for your input.  I think I will try the nipple sparing and have the sentinel nodes taken out.  If you think of anything else let me know.

Lois

Posted in: Tests, Treatments & Side Effects + Breast Reconstruction, Created: Aug 3, 2008 11:21 pm

nipple/skin sparing reconstruction

Phyllis & Nicole,

Thank you so much for your input  It has really helped me out.

Did you have any trouble with lymphedema since the nodes were taken out?

Lois

Posted in: Tests, Treatments & Side Effects + Breast Reconstruction, Created: Aug 3, 2008 01:09 pm

nipple/skin sparing reconstruction

Hi Nicole,

I'm facing the decision on whether to having nipple/skin sparing or not.  The surgeon wants to do it but the plastic surgeon said the scar tissue may pull the nipples is different ways.  I think I'm willing to take the chance.  They do want me to go into one of their research studies about the loss of feeling in the nipples. I wondered if there were people who actually got the feeling back- guess you're living proof of that.  What type of implant did you get? I'm doing some research on those.  I think I want the gel but I keep reading about gummy bear implants, silhouette implants and etc.  I also have to decide if I want them to take any sintinel nodes. 

Lois

Posted in: Tests, Treatments & Side Effects + Breast Reconstruction, Created: Aug 3, 2008 01:02 pm

how did you choose your type of reconstruction?

Kaye,

There is a reconstruction of just DIEP that only uses your own body fat and then there is the trans flap DIEP which uses your body fat and some of the stomach muscle.  I have seen just the with the body fat- it looks great and you don't have to worry about weakened stomach muscles.  I would choose this one if I had enough body fat but since I don't I will be going with the implants.  Of course there are lots of different implants which I am currently researching. Decisons decisions it can all be so confusing.

Lois

Posted in: Tests, Treatments & Side Effects + Breast Reconstruction, Created: Aug 2, 2008 11:43 pm

nipple/skin sparing reconstruction

Has anyone had reconstruction with the nipple sparing and skin sparing technique?  Also, has anyone had the silhouette implants for reconstruction?  What were your experiences with them?

Lois

Posted in: Connecting With Others Who Have a Similar Diagnosis + LCIS (Lobular Carcinoma In Situ), Created: Aug 1, 2008 10:20 pm

Questions for those who have considered prophylactic mastectomy

Hi Anne,

I had couple of places with ADH along with papilomatosis (sp?) removed in a lumpectomy.  The pathology from that showed the LCIS.  I also have numerous microcalcifications in both breasts.  I'm just not waiting for the 2nd act.  I shutter to think what would have happened if I had waited the full year to do the next mammogram.   The only thing the mammograms found were microcalcifications.  It seems obvious to me that in my case I would need too close of monitoring for my liking along with them saying that if it becomes cancer they usually catch it early.  How about we not catch it at all because it isn't there.  Sorry to be so crass but I have watched four of my immediate family members be diagnosed with cancer and undergo radiation, chemotherapy and then two of them dying anyway.  I'm not really mad or anything I just feel blessed to be able to make a choice before I don't have one.

Lois

Posted in: Connecting With Others Who Have a Similar Diagnosis + LCIS (Lobular Carcinoma In Situ), Created: Jul 31, 2008 11:51 pm

Questions for those who have considered prophylactic mastectomy

Hi Everyone,

I went to MD Anderson last week and met with genetics counselor, their psychiatrist, oncologist surgeon and one of their plastic surgeons.  I'm scheduled for PBM mid November.  I will probably do the nipple and skin sparing PBM with immediate start of implant reconstruction. I'm not looking forward to it but I feel really great about my decision.  No offense to men but I'm glad I have really wonderful female doctors.  I'm starting to feel safe again having made the decision to do PBM after the rug was pulled out from under me back in Jan. 08.  Since my mother died from breast cancer when she was 56 I felt like yearly mammograms were all encompassing.  After having a good mammogram and being told I wasn't needed back for another year I decided to just do a breast MRI (after a younger sister was diagnosed with ovarian cancer) 5 mos after the July mammogram.  All those years I thought I was safe only to find out by a chance MRI that I had four different cells that could lead to four different kinds of breast cancer- what a SHOCK.  Make no mistake I have blessed by the grace of God that they are all still contained and I only have to do PBM.  I thank God I do not have to do that and radiation and chemotherapy.  Sorry I went on and on.

Hope- you go girl! Maybe your husband can help decide how big you go when you do reconstruction haha!

Lois

Posted in: Connecting With Others Who Have a Similar Diagnosis + LCIS (Lobular Carcinoma In Situ), Created: Jul 10, 2008 09:57 pm

Questions for those who have considered prophylactic mastectomy

Hi Anne,

Thanks for being able to read between the lines of my question.  I have been deliberating for a while as to whether to have a bilateral prophylactic mastectomy or take the evista and wait and watch.  I must admit after having already watched 4 immediate family members go through cancer I'm about 95% sure I will go ahead with the prophylactic bilateral mastectomy.  BUT just a couple of questions- Did you ever have any side affects from the tamoxifen? and did you ever have to have other biopsies or lumpectomies?  I realize we all have to make our own decisions based on our own knowledge and heart.  Thanks for being there and God bless.

Lois

Posted in: Connecting With Others Who Have a Similar Diagnosis + LCIS (Lobular Carcinoma In Situ), Created: Jul 9, 2008 01:40 am

Questions for those who have considered prophylactic mastectomy

Hi Anne,

My ins. company paid for BRCA testing (came out negative) and breast MRI which lead to a lumpectomy showing two areas of atypical intraductal hyperplasia, papillomatosis and LCIS.  Interstingly enough I had just had a mammogram 5 mos. prior to the breast MRI and it showed absolutely nothing!!!!!!!!  I actually recieved a letter from the breast clinic saying I didn't need to return for another year.  The Dr. and I only decided to do the BRCA testing and breast MRI because I had a mother that died of breast cancer at the age of 56 and a younger sister being diagnosed with ovarian cancer last year. Even though it is scary to find out I'd rather find out things early and be preventive minded hince I am 95% sure I will do the prophylactic bilateral mastectomy by the end of the year with reconstructive surgery.  If finding out I have a mutant gene helps other family members and science technology I'm all for it.

What have you done with the LCIS?

Lois

Posted in: Connecting With Others Who Have a Similar Diagnosis + LCIS (Lobular Carcinoma In Situ), Created: Jul 7, 2008 11:48 pm

Questions for those who have considered prophylactic mastectomy

welcome to the website psalmist- Please continue to share your experiences with us as you go through your surgery and recovery.  I'm really close to bilateral mastectomy and reconstruction myself but probably not until Aug.  I'll know after my appts. at MD Anderson on July 22 and 23.

Chrsily1- thanks for the heads up on CDH1.  I see a genetics counselor on July 22 and have already talked to oncologist surgeon about the pten mutant gene test.

Peaches,lucky32 and leaf- what are y'all up to?

Lois

Posted in: Connecting With Others Who Have a Similar Diagnosis + LCIS (Lobular Carcinoma In Situ), Created: Jun 11, 2008 06:19 pm

Questions for those who have considered prophylactic mastectomy

Lucky,

What did your plastic surgeon say?

Lois

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