pamsue

hello fellow kindred spirits.

I am writing on behalf of my best friend, my sister. she was dx with her+ bc in 2000 with no node involvement, she then had almost 6 years cancer free, then got it in her subclavical lymph and now had lesion(s) removed near brain. NO ONE has said that she is going to die, but she is convinced that we her family know and aren't telling her. Her neurosurgeon said that he treated a woman worse off and she is still here almost 7 years later and that if he thought it was too late he would tell her to go home and enjoy her time. HELP!! can you all suggest a place she can go to meet/chat with ladies who are in the same boat who are surviving? the net can be a nasty place as she can only find stories of people not lasting, and I know that is not so.