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Not Diagnosed but Concerned + Not Diagnosed but Worried, Created: Aug 29, 2008 11:13 pm
New symptom, can't call dr until Tuesday.There is no one to call. I called the number and all it says is they are all gone and will be back on Tuesday due to labor day. Thats the only number I was given. I don't have an oncologist, I am just now getting to where I found a doctor that is taking me serious and getting me help. I am going to see about going to the hospital, because the redness has spread and the sun burn-like pain is spreading. Its near my collar bone now. I am just really confused where this is coming from though. I will keep you all posted. Thanks. :) |
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Not Diagnosed but Concerned + Not Diagnosed but Worried, Created: Aug 29, 2008 08:39 pm
New symptom, can't call dr until Tuesday.I am not sure if this is related to whats going on with my breast, but since its in the same area and very strange I thought I would ask. So yesterday I was with my best friend at her house when I felt an extreme sunburn like pain in my right breast near where the tissue thickening is located. Naturally I looked to see what it was and I saw that my skin was red and in the middle of a reddish purple streak my skin had busted open. Of course I freaked and showed my friend. I went and washed it out with alcohol and figured it was some freak thing, but kept my eye on it. Well now my right breast is red in a big patch around the lump, its usually a pinky red color near the lump except right above it where its red, and more of the skin around the lump is trying to burst open. I am so freaked out. The local hospital can only handle things like the flu, x-rays for broken bones and thats about it, they do not have the staff or knowledge for anything like this, and the nearest hospital that would is about an hour away. If its worse before bed or in the morning I am going straight to the hospital. Has this ever happened to anyone? Was it serious? Thanks alot for any ideas in advance. Symptoms I had the day it happened: Swelling, 99.0 Fever, Dough-Like Skin. |
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Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Prayers and Spiritual Inspiration, Created: Aug 28, 2008 02:53 pm
Please say a prayer for my best friendGSG, My heart goes out to you, your friend, and her daughter. I could never imagine losing my best friend, been b/fs since fourth grade. I feel for her daughter, my grandparents raised my brother and I, he was diagnoised with cancer Nov. 30th and went home Dec. 13th, it had spread everywhere by the time they found it, so we have no clue where it started. It was hard to let go, but we did, my grandmother, aunt and myself along with hospice were holding his hands and talking to him when he went home. I hope Linda's daughter says good bye before Linda goes home, my mother and brother didn't get the chance, he passed away 5 minutes before they got to the house, and it still hurts them. My prayers are with all of you, I will have Gramsie, gmil, say a prayer to Mary on your behalf as well. Big hugs! Heather |
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Support & Community Connections + Lesbians with Breast Cancer, Created: Aug 28, 2008 02:35 pm
How can I find a new partner after Breast CancerThis Post was deleted by HeatherThompson. |
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Recovery, Renewal, & Hope + Prayers and Spiritual Inspiration, Created: Aug 27, 2008 10:53 pm
Prayers for a family friend..This Post was deleted by HeatherThompson. |
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Not Diagnosed but Concerned + Not Diagnosed but Worried, Created: Aug 27, 2008 10:44 pm
Was wondering...Shirlann, I asked him if he could just take a sample of the fluid and he changed the subject so I am going back to my ob/gyn and get him to do an mri with contrast and see if they will see if its a cyst by trying to aspirate it, that way if its not a cyst they will know and we can mark that off the list. :) |
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Not Diagnosed but Concerned + Not Diagnosed but Worried, Created: Aug 23, 2008 05:42 pm
Was wondering...I know that they need it under a microscope, thats why I was sent to get a biopsy, but rather than doing that he wants to wait and see if it changes, and if it doesn't he wants to remove all my ducts WITHOUT knowing whats causing the issues to begin with. I don't mind a biopsy, trust me I have had worse surgeries than that, but I DO mind him removing my ducts without even knowing if thats whats causing the problem. He said it will just get rid of the discharge, not the other issues. I don't mind discharge as long as there is nothing wrong, but thats not the only thing going on yet he wants just get rid of that without addressing the bigger picture. Thanks. :) |
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Not Diagnosed but Concerned + Not Diagnosed but Worried, Created: Aug 22, 2008 10:47 am
Was wondering...Ivtwoqlt, Thank you. My doctor got a mammo done and they said I have a lot of nodes, and that they saw something. Well I went to the breast surgeon and he said that if it doesn't get better in 3 months they are going to remove my ducts, but I am not okay with that since he doesn't know what it is, he is just playing the guessing game, so I am back at square one. Lovely. |
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Not Diagnosed but Concerned + Not Diagnosed but Worried, Created: Aug 20, 2008 01:50 pm
Question...Beesie, Thanks. :) |
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Not Diagnosed but Concerned + Not Diagnosed but Worried, Created: Aug 20, 2008 01:45 pm
Was wondering...What exactly are Nodes? I know that sounds dumb but yea. |
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Not Diagnosed but Concerned + Not Diagnosed but Worried, Created: Aug 19, 2008 10:38 pm
Question...I keep reading/hearing that mammos can be hard to see things on younger people because our breast are more dense. My question is, can breast size make it worse? |
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Not Diagnosed but Concerned + Not Diagnosed but Worried, Created: Aug 19, 2008 03:50 pm
G.P was dismissiveI am 21 and it took me a year to finally get someone to check me out. I do agree that you should take someone with you, just know that taking a mother or friends doesn't always help. I took both my mother and my husband, both of which and be very intimidating, and I was still refused. Finally after moving away I went to my old obgyn and he found the knots, one in my right breast, the other in my underarm, without me telling him where they were. He also took a sample of the fluid leaking from my nipple and said it was abnormal and sent me straight over to get a mammo. The radiologist refused me saying I was too young, so I called my doctor and he had them do it anyways, I got a call and a letter saying that the mammo showed abnormalities and so I am off to see a breast surgeon Thursday for a biopsy. I am not telling you any of this to scare you, just to let you know it can be hard to get them to listen, but you are not alone and someone somewhere will listen and do something. You have to be determined, do not back down, if they start talking about your age tell them cancer knows no age or color and you demand a mammo. Talk to this doctor one more time, and go to another if he refuses you again. Keep going until someone does something. I know this may be hard as your medical care is different there, but keep trying hun. Ask around and see if anyone knows a good obgyn that will see you and listen to you regardless of your age. Its hard and it may take a while, but possibly saving your life is worth it. If you ever need to vent PM me and I will give you my email address. :) Best of luck! |
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Not Diagnosed but Concerned + Not Diagnosed but Worried, Created: Aug 18, 2008 02:00 am
Was wondering...Nicky Its is crazy, my husband said that he will sue their pants off if I do have breast cancer, especially the one that refused the mammo my doctor ordered after the discharge came back abnormal. Now we play the waiting game and hope and pray that the breast surgeon will take it serious and do a biopsy so we can get down to the bottom of this. A year is a long time to wait on something like this, and even though the appointment is on the 21st it seems like its going to take forever. I will keep you all posted. :) |
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Not Diagnosed but Concerned + Not Diagnosed but Worried, Created: Aug 17, 2008 03:32 am
Was wondering...Mary-Lou I checked out her page, her story was scary and uplifting at the same time. Thank you so much for posting it. :) |
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Not Diagnosed but Concerned + Not Diagnosed but Worried, Created: Aug 17, 2008 01:47 am
Was wondering...Thank you for getting back to me so fast. I was very worried when I posted my questions since other people have treated me like I am so hypochondriac thats just looking for attention. I honestly would rather that be the case. I agree on finding doctors that will listen. I think I have and gyn now that will, its just the specialist that I am worried about. I have already been turned down for a mammo that my doctor ordered because the so called dr felt that I was too young and that it was probably nothing without even knowing my symptoms or feeling my breast for anything abnormal. I feel like everyone is watching me to see if I contradict myself. Everyone is always questioning me and saying things like "I find that hard to believe", "Are you sure that its not in your head" , things of that nature. My GP has ran test on me, she had ran all kinds of test to see what it was other than seeing if I have bc, all of which came back normal. My gyn took a smear of the fluid and it came back abnormal so he sent me for the mammo that I was refused. I had this same problem with people and doctors when I was 15 with my ovary as well. I was told that maybe I was constipated, everyone deals with cramps so I have to deal with it like everyone else, that its normal to have a period go over two weeks at my age,(I would have a two month cycle stop for a week then start a two month cycle again) stuff like that. That went on for months until I almost bled to death, thats when I was sent to my current gyn and he found that I had a grapefruit sized tumor growing inside of my ovary. Two weeks after my 16th birthday my ovary was removed. Its been such a pain, and the only ones that do not treat me like a spazz are my Nana, hubby, best friend, and doctor. I know that it is good to have them be supportive and I am very thankful for them, but it just hurts to have people treat me so awful. I can tell you right now that I am not some horrible person that pretends to have things go wrong in her body for attention because I believe that if you do that it can and usually will happen as punishment. I know that sounds weird but I have always felt that way even as a child. If I seem a little rude or anything, I am very sorry as that is not how I want you to think of me, I am not a mean person, I just feel like I need to defend myself on this issue because so many are treating me like a loon instead of someone that needs medical care and friends that understand how scary the possibility of breast cancer is. So I am so sorry if I seem defensive, maybe once I feel safe, not that either of you have made me feel attacked or questioned at all, I will be my usual warm and bubbly self. :) Also, sorry for the venting, I just feel stressed right now.Thanks for listening and for your advice. Edited to add all of which came back normal. |
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Not Diagnosed but Concerned + Not Diagnosed but Worried, Created: Aug 17, 2008 12:21 am
Was wondering...I am new here, this actually my first post so if this is in the wrong section sorry. Also, this may be a little long. So sorry. This is questions for people who had these symptoms.What symptoms did you have and what was your diagnosis? What was your treatment if any? Did you find anything to relieve the maddening itch? Anything else helpful would be greatly appreciated. I have had trouble with my right breast/underarm for about a year and have tried to get doctors to check it, but they say I am too young, I'm 21, even though breast cancer runs in my family, and send me on my way. My symptoms started out with my breast and underarm swelling and feeling tender, having fever and the most annoying itch around where I later found thick tissue. Then I started leaking clear fluid that soon turned brown, then bloody. Around the time the fluid turned brownish red I found a area in my breast that was thick and sore,so I kept checking it ever so often and never once did it go away. Also, when I would put my arm down it felt like there was a ball in my armpit and it was sore so I kept an eye on that as well. Other things I find strange is when I would get a heat like rash (no bumps, just a red patch near the thick tissue) and purple-red freckle sized bruises all on my breast especially near my nipple. I also noticed that when I lay down and gently press my skin the dent slowly rises back like dough ( the other breast bounces right back) and my pores are enlarged compaired to my other breast. I went to several doctors and without checking me they would give me antibiotics and send me home, there was never any change with the symptoms other than when it would get worse or a new one would appear when I took the antibiotics. I am so worried because when my grandmother told the ladies in her church meeting about what was going on two of them started crying and said thats what happened to them when they had breast cancer. I have had lots of female trouble so I do not take this lightly at all because the problems I already had were not "supposed" to happen to someone my age. I know I probably sound like some spazz that looks up the symptoms for attention, but my husband, mother, grandmother, and best friend have all seen the visible symptoms, and I keep up with my temp which is almost always a low grade fever without me being sick. Can someone please talk to me just so I don't feel so alone or something. I feel so alone and worried. Thanks. |
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