My oncologist told me that the biggest risk for recurrence is in the first two years. I forgot to ask him though..is this the first two years after diagnosis or the first two years after end of treatment (can cancer come back even during chemo)?? I want to know if I can breathe a little easier this coming October, or next April (when I had my last chemo) lol TIA!
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shiny Joined: Apr 2008 Posts: 97 |
Apr 24, 2008 06:19 am
shiny wrote:
Hi Kim, Sorry I don't have def answer for you, but thought I'd post anyhow. Just in case it helps a bit while you wait for others to post. I always try to remember that statistics are just that;info based on numbers, treatments, averages, out of date sometimes due to newer treatments etc. Sure there seems to be a higher risk in the first couple of years, but this may well not end up applying to your specific case, therefore you might as well enjoy your life and not taxe yourself, stress wise with the what ifs? Lets face it, we could all get hit by a bus tomorrow. I am not trying to discount your worry, it's quite natural. Sometimes it just helps maybe to remember that we are all meant to know when we are born, but no one gets to know when their time is up, so the fact we have cancer doesn't change that. I just feel really grateful that I am here, now. Perhaps because I have lost lots of friends from other causes, I just know that even at 40, am so much luckyer then they were, and I best not forget it. I really hope you have a great day. Be good to yourself and enjoy all the good things around you. take care. Sorry I didn't know the answer to your specific question. Hope you breath a bit easier, today.hug. Dx 5/2007, IDC, 2cm, Stage IIIb, Grade 3, 1/16 nodes, ER-/PR-, HER2- |
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Madalyn Joined: Jul 2007 Posts: 403 |
Apr 24, 2008 09:56 am
Madalyn wrote:
I've wondered the same thing. I had chemo before surgery so have decided to use my surgery date as my 'anniversary' since that's when the cancer was actually removed. I vote that you can use whatever date you want to ... or celebrate on both dates even Happiness does not come from having what you want ... but from wanting what you have.
Dx 3/20/2006, IDC, 3cm, Stage II, Grade 2, 0/4 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2- |
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VBG Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 180 |
Apr 24, 2008 10:05 am, edited Apr 24, 2008 10:06 AM
by VBG
VBG wrote:
Well evidently I was one of those that got a recurrence and mine was within 18 months of my original surgery. I also use surgery dates since this is the mark when the cancer was removed if in fact they got clean margins. original dx idc/ilc 7/06 second dx ilc 1/08 Valerie Dx 5/21/2006, ILC, 1cm, Stage I, Grade 1, 0/2 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2- |
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jpann39 Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 2592 |
Apr 24, 2008 10:16 am
jpann39 wrote:
I asked that same question directly to my team of doctors(4)....They all said the same thing, mind you I asked each of them indivdually and they all same the same thing...for me I should use the date of my lumpectomy since that is when the cancer was removed and those tests all showed NED.... So for me, my two year mark is Nov 15, 2008.... 'Life may not be the party we hoped for...but while we're here we might as well dance!!!!"
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Timtam Joined: Jul 2005 Posts: 1357 |
Apr 24, 2008 10:28 am, edited Apr 24, 2008 10:37 AM
by Timtam
Timtam wrote:
I asked my onc the same thing. From what he has experienced, he said he'd say that the biggest risk for recurrence is in the first two years after dx and the second biggest risk is in the first two years after you're done with the hormone therapy if you're ER/PR+ which usually takes five years after surgery. I had to believe him as my mom just lost a friend who was 6.5 years post surgery and she had been done with Tamoxifen 1.5 years back. |
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jpann39 Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 2592 |
Apr 24, 2008 10:32 am
jpann39 wrote:
Dang, I didnt know about the 2 yr plan after 5 yrs of hormonals...I have a 6 month follow up in May so I will put this on my list of ??'s to ask... Are there any other questions I should be asking to do with hormonals? thanks Jule 'Life may not be the party we hoped for...but while we're here we might as well dance!!!!"
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Timtam Joined: Jul 2005 Posts: 1357 |
Apr 24, 2008 11:03 am
Timtam wrote:
I guess my onc believes two things. Whether you're ER/PR+ or not, the first two years after treatment can be risky because there's nothing in our bodies that would stop cancer from growing. And you could be ignorant of any changes that might be early symptoms of recurrence/mets if you're many years out from treatment. My mom's friend I mentioned had been experiencing some pain in her back for quite a while but didn't choose to meet with her onc. Instead, she only met with the surgeon at a totally different hospital and didn't even tell him about this disease. If she had, her bone mets could have been detected much earlier, at least before it spread to her brain. So my onc probably wanted me to keep in mind that this sneaky disease can be back at any time and that we shouldn't belittle any signs that our bodies are giving us. |
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Sassa Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 325 |
Apr 24, 2008 11:05 am
Sassa wrote:
I had a mastectomy, then chemo and one year of herceptin. In my case, the clock started when I finished chemo (the AC, not the herceptin). So I am now a little over a year out from chemo and finished my herceptin 2 months ago. Dx 12/6/2006, IDC, 1cm, Stage I, Grade 3, 0/9 nodes, ER-/PR-, HER2+ |
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KP1970 Joined: Oct 2006 Posts: 109 |
Apr 24, 2008 11:50 am
KP1970 wrote:
I was diagnosed on Halloween (of all days) lol and I keep thinking of this day as my "anniversary", but really..maybe I should count April 18 as my "anniversary" (my last chemo)?? Or the surgery date, as some of you do. I guess I'll see what my oncologist says at my next check up. Thanks ladies! Kim
Dx 10/31/2006, IDC, 2cm, Stage IIb, Grade 3, 1/20 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2- |
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portypup Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 20 |
Apr 24, 2008 12:56 pm
portypup wrote:
my doctor says the last day of treatment. I was diagnosed May 07. My treatment ended Dec 07. My doctor says I am NED since Dec 07. So... even though it's coming up on my 1 year anniversary for being diagnosed it's only been 4 plus months since I can actual start counting. Dx 5/8/2007, IDC, 3cm, Stage IIb, Grade 3, 2/16 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2- |
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ravdeb Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 5904 |
Apr 24, 2008 02:15 pm
ravdeb wrote:
we go by the date of diagnosis... IDC, 2cm, ER/PR Neg, Her2 neg, Grade 3, Node neg
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LizM Joined: Sep 2005 Posts: 1647 |
Apr 25, 2008 01:07 pm
LizM wrote:
The most logical date to me is the date of my surgery when the cancer was taken out of my body and I was transformed from a breast cancer victim to a breast cancer survivor. Everything else, chemo, rads and hormone therapy is adjuvant therapy or prevention to keep it from coming back. It will be 3 years on Oct 21st 2008. |
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Isabella4 Joined: Mar 2005 Posts: 1520 |
Apr 25, 2008 05:04 pm
Isabella4 wrote:
I go by the date of my surgery,both my onc and my surgeon told me this was the marker, so....almost 5 years for me coming up soon. I am continuing Arimidex longer than 5 years though, I asked my rad onc could I do this, being er+, and she agreed to let me . So, another question, will the two years after I stop Arimidex be critical for me??? Sounds as if it will. Isabella. Dx 5/14/2003, IDC, 1cm, Stage I, Grade 1, 0/26 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2- |
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TenderIsOur
Joined: May 2007 Posts: 3022 |
Apr 25, 2008 05:33 pm, edited Apr 25, 2008 06:03 PM
by TenderIsOurMight
TenderIsOurMight wrote:
It cannot be emphasized too strongly that treatment of each patient is a highly individualized matter. (FDA-approved labeling for warfarin (Coumadin) NDA 9-218/5-105)
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janet11 Joined: Jul 2006 Posts: 450 |
May 7, 2008 04:14 pm
janet11 wrote:
My onc and surgeon go by the surgery date, so so do I. Aug 2008 will be 2 years for me. Dx 7/21/2006, IDC, 1cm, Stage I, Grade 3, 0/4 nodes, ER-/PR-, HER2+ |
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