Posted on: Oct 24, 2010 09:18PM
Posts 1 - 30 (53 total)
Oct 24, 2010 10:08PM CoolBreeze wrote:
Oct 25, 2010 02:36PM Beesie wrote:
AlohaGirl, I'm usually not at a loss for words (as anyone who reads my posts knows!) but I truly am now. Thank you so much. And thank you to sunnyhou, squidwitch42, CoolBreeze and ruthbru!
Oct 25, 2010 02:38PM BarbaraA wrote:
Here's my Hear, Hear!
Oct 25, 2010 02:58PM Claire_in_Seattle wrote:
Thanks for being the "voice of reason" Beesie!
Oct 25, 2010 10:08PM CAROLMARIE427 wrote:
Yes Beesie-thanks for being the voice for all we women with DCIS. I have always been amazed by your knowledge and have become so well informed of my disease because of you. You are the calm in the eye of the storm. Hugs-Carol
Oct 25, 2010 10:13PM jancie wrote:
i have aways been a huge fan of beesie! she would always answer my questions to where they made sense to me when my brain was so screwed up hearing the word cancer. what an impact beesie that you continue to make on the newbies and others and taking the time to answer our pm's. YOU ROCK
Oct 27, 2010 12:25PM meglove wrote:
Thanks!! Bessie is GREAT!
Oct 27, 2010 01:48PM crazy4carrots wrote:
We're so very lucky to have Beesie, an expert researcher, on this site. We can always depend on her posts to set us right. Thanks and hugs, Beesie!
Oct 27, 2010 01:51PM Drim wrote:
I cannot agree more. When I see that Beesie has responded to a question I get very excited as I know I'm about to learn something new. It is people like Beesie who make this site what it is!! Huge thanks and giant hugs!!!
Oct 27, 2010 03:16PM Suzybelle wrote:
Another Beesie fan here...she and Binney are my heroes. Never get mad, never take anything personally, always have their facts straight and deliver them in a loving, thoughtful manner.
One of these days I'm going to grow up and be just like them.
Oct 28, 2010 05:15PM Beesie wrote:
Barbara, gogaserbia, Beth, Claire, Carol, jancie, Katiekay, Bren, Linda, Drim, Madalyn, Suzybelle, thenewme and Sharon (and I hope I didn't miss anyone), thank you all so much!
As much as I love digging through the research (yup, I'm weird) and discovering new information, what's taught me the most are the other women on this board. Reading about what other women have gone through, reading about how others have made their decisions, reading about their concerns and issues, I've come to appreciate how different breast cancer can be for each of us. I can't tell you how much that helps me when I write a post in response to someone's concerns. I don't write just from my own experience but instead I try to incorporate what I've learned from everyone else.
So I thank everyone for their openness and for sharing their experiences; that's how we all learn more about breast cancer and how to get through this journey. I also want to share this recognition with all the other "old-timers" who continue to come to the board to offer advice and support. Being several years past the diagnosis and treatment period, I realize how differently I see things now versus how I saw things when my diagnosis was fresh and I was still going through treatment. I think that it is really important to have a few of us here who provide this longer-term perspective. So a big Thank You! to all the other old-timers. I would mention names but I'm afraid that I would leave someone out. You all know who you are though!
p.s. Suzybelle, the challenge is in sometimes having to separate what you write from how you are feeling! Sort of like a duck, calm above the water but paddling like crazy just below the surface. As long as you don't see what's below the surface, the illusion remains.
Oct 28, 2010 05:19PM DawnRenee wrote:
Bessie was the first lady to answer my cry for help. She was patient & kind & helped me understand my diagnoses more than any doctor cared to.
I am amazed how much all of the ladies have meant to me over the past 18 months. It's like family, the relationships we've created.
To you Bessie, I send undying gratitude. You are the most amazing woman & I am sure you have touched more lives than you will ever know.
Oct 29, 2010 04:57PM Jelson wrote:
great idea AlohaGirl!
Thanks for prodding me to donate to BCO by starting this thread in honor of Beesie who provides wise, thoughtful, kind, clear and informative responses to our questions.
Oct 29, 2010 06:56PM - edited Aug 20, 2013 06:03AM by leaf
I'll be very honest here - I think Bessie and I had some disagreement several years ago when I was first diagnosed or had my 2nd or 3rd biopsy, but I really can't remember what it was about anymore. I can remember being angry. That's all.
Thank GOODNESS I can't remember. I can't imagine what upset me now. I must have been in some really crazy place. Thank goodness she has been so helpful, and, I think she understood that I was in a place that didn't make sense.
So I'm a real Bessie fan now. I think she's one of the best writers around, and what really wipes me off my feet is how she knows what she doesn't know. Her heart is in exactly the right place. Her writing is so clear, kind, and helpful. I'm so glad she's around.
Oct 30, 2010 12:14AM molly52 wrote:
I have learned so much from you Beesie. Not having a science background "the research" is tough sledding for me. So I really appreciate the "low down" in English and also the knowledge that I can rely on your information. Thank you Beesie.
From another dx'd 2005 Torontonian IDC'er.
Jan 23, 2011 04:49PM weesa wrote:
Glad to see this revived. I never miss a Beesie post, even though the topic is often DCIS and not applicable to me, I just love the way she writes and thinks.
Also, a big fan of you, Otter.