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Posted on: Oct 24, 2010 09:18PM

AlohaGirl wrote:

Thank you!  Your posts are so informative and helpful, I have really appreciated them over the last year and a half!

Dx 2/18/2009, DCIS, Stage 0, Grade 3, 0/0 nodes
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Oct 24, 2010 10:04PM sunnyhou wrote:

how wonderful!

I would agree!!

Dx 7/20/09 DCIS,Stage 0,age 38, 3cm, negative nodes, aerola sparing, skin sparing dbl mastectomy Dx 7/20/2009, DCIS, 3cm, Stage 0, Grade 3, 0/2 nodes
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Oct 24, 2010 10:07PM squidwitch42 wrote:

oh, that's really great! I could not agree more.

Dx 10/2/2009, IDC, 4cm, Stage IIA, Grade 3, 0/7 nodes, ER-/PR-, HER2-
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Oct 24, 2010 10:08PM CoolBreeze wrote:

Hear hear!!!

Ann's cancer blog: www.butdoctorihatepink.com .....multicentric/multifocal IDC/ILC+DCIS/LCIS/ADH Official dx? "Your breast was a mess." ~UniMastectomy/Chemo/Herceptin/Tamoxifen/Recon Almost Done! Oh wait. mets to liver 5/21/11 Now Stage IV Dx 8/17/2009, IDC, 4cm, Stage IIA, Grade 3, 0/3 nodes, ER+/PR-, HER2+
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Oct 24, 2010 10:09PM ruthbru wrote:

Wonderful tribute, and very much deserved.

"Invisible threads are the strongest ties." Friedrich Nietzsche Dx 2/2007, Stage IIA, Grade 3, 0/11 nodes, ER+/PR-, HER2-
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Oct 25, 2010 02:36PM Beesie wrote:

AlohaGirl, I'm usually not at a loss for words (as anyone who reads my posts knows!) but I truly am now.  Thank you so much.  And thank you to sunnyhou, squidwitch42, CoolBreeze and ruthbru!

Dx 9/15/2005 Right, 7cm+, DCIS-Mi, Stage IA, Gr 3, 0/3 nodes, ER+/PR- ** Dx 01/16/2019 Left, 8mm, IDC, Stage IA, Gr 2, 0/3 nodes, ER+/PR-, HER2- (FISH) ** Surgery 11/30/2005 MX Right, 03/06/2019 MX Left ** Hormonal Therapy 05/2019 Letrozole
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Oct 25, 2010 02:38PM BarbaraA wrote:

Here's my Hear, Hear!

Sometimes you're the bug and sometimes you're the windshield. Dx 4/30/2010, IDC, 1cm, Stage IB, Grade 2, 1/4 nodes, ER+/PR-, HER2- Hormonal Therapy 11/24/2014 Femara (letrozole) Dx 11/25/2014, IDC, Stage IV, metastasized to bone, ER+
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Oct 25, 2010 02:39PM gogaserbia wrote:

Kiss and hugs for BEESIE!

Dx 5/25/2010, DCIS, 2cm, Stage 0, Grade 3, 0/20 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2+
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Oct 25, 2010 02:56PM pickle wrote:

Aloha Girl: That is such an amazingly thoughtful thing to do. Cheers to Beesie for providing valuable information and for always being so gracious in helping others.

Hugs

Beth P

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Oct 25, 2010 02:58PM Claire_in_Seattle wrote:

Thanks for being the "voice of reason" Beesie!

Completed all treatment (AC +T, lumpectomy, radiation and 5 years of AIs - anastrazole). Now celebrating every single day for the wonderful life I have been granted. Dx 8/2009, IDC, Left, 2cm, Stage IIB, Grade 3, 1/21 nodes, ER+/PR-, HER2- (FISH)
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Oct 25, 2010 10:08PM CAROLMARIE427 wrote:

Yes Beesie-thanks for being the voice for all we women with DCIS.  I have always been amazed by your knowledge and have become so well informed of my disease because of you.  You are the calm in the eye of the storm.  Hugs-Carol 

Dx 7/31/2008, DCIS, 1cm, Stage 0, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2+
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Oct 25, 2010 10:13PM jancie wrote:

i have aways been a huge fan of beesie!  she would always answer my questions to where they made sense to me when my brain was so screwed up hearing the word cancer.  what an impact beesie that you continue to make on the newbies and others and taking the time to answer our pm's.    YOU ROCK

Never Alone - My TaTa Sisters are always with me! Dx 12/30/2008, IDC, 4cm, Stage IIB, Grade 1, 0/5 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Oct 27, 2010 11:50AM KATIEKAY wrote:

Could'nt agree more. She's Great

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Oct 27, 2010 12:25PM meglove wrote:

Thanks!! Bessie is GREAT!

Invasive mucinous + DCIS 3*2.8*2.5cm gr 2, dx 08/07/10 (38 ys), BMX 10/18/10, 0/1, ER+/Pr+, HER2+ DD AC 4 Tx first on Dec 9th then DD Taxol 4 Tx finished on 03/17/11. Herceptin finished in 02/12. Tamoxifen started on 04/15/11. Total hys 12/03/12.
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Oct 27, 2010 12:43PM Bren-2007 wrote:

I love Beesie .. been reading her great posts for years!

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Oct 27, 2010 01:48PM crazy4carrots wrote:

We're so very lucky to have Beesie, an expert researcher, on this site. We can always depend on her posts to set us right. Thanks and hugs, Beesie!

The demagogue preaches doctrine he knows to be untrue to men he knows to be idiots. Dx 1/10/2008, ILC, 1cm, Stage I, Grade 3, 0/4 nodes, ER+/PR-, HER2-
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Oct 27, 2010 01:51PM Drim wrote:

I cannot agree more. When I see that Beesie has responded to a question I get very excited as I know I'm about to learn something new. It is people like Beesie who make this site what it is!! Huge thanks and giant hugs!!!

Dx 1/27/2010, IDC, 1cm, Stage I, Grade 1, 0/1 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2+
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Oct 27, 2010 03:16PM Suzybelle wrote:

Another Beesie fan here...she and Binney are my heroes.  Never get mad, never take anything personally, always have their facts straight and deliver them in a loving, thoughtful manner. 

 One of these days I'm going to grow up and be just like them.

Dx 1/27/2010, ILC, <1cm, Stage I, Grade 2, 0/10 nodes, ER+/PR+
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Oct 28, 2010 10:38AM thenewme wrote:

Yep, Beesie's the BEST! 

Always very thoughtful, gracious, and full of amazing information to share!  

Thanks a million, Beesie!

Dx 11/2008, IDC, 5cm, Stage IIB, Grade 3, 0/9 nodes, ER-/PR-, HER2-
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Oct 28, 2010 10:44AM Marple wrote:

Sending my thanks too.

Dx 2006, IDC, Stage IIB, Grade 2, 1/14 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Oct 28, 2010 03:56PM jancie wrote:

suzybelle - you crack me up!

Never Alone - My TaTa Sisters are always with me! Dx 12/30/2008, IDC, 4cm, Stage IIB, Grade 1, 0/5 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Oct 28, 2010 04:42PM Suzybelle wrote:

I'm serious!!!  I do the opposite of all that stuff I listed - I get mad, take it personally, make stuff up, and I'm hateful.  Tongue out

 Seriously love Beesie and my hero Binney, though. 

Dx 1/27/2010, ILC, <1cm, Stage I, Grade 2, 0/10 nodes, ER+/PR+
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Oct 28, 2010 05:15PM Beesie wrote:

Barbara, gogaserbia, Beth, Claire, Carol, jancie, Katiekay, Bren, Linda, Drim, Madalyn, Suzybelle, thenewme and Sharon  (and I hope I didn't miss anyone), thank you all so much!

As much as I love digging through the research (yup, I'm weird) and discovering new information, what's taught me the most are the other women on this board. Reading about what other women have gone through, reading about how others have made their decisions, reading about their concerns and issues, I've come to appreciate how different breast cancer can be for each of us. I can't tell you how much that helps me when I write a post in response to someone's concerns. I don't write just from my own experience but instead I try to incorporate what I've learned from everyone else.

So I thank everyone for their openness and for sharing their experiences; that's how we all learn more about breast cancer and how to get through this journey.  I also want to share this recognition with all the other "old-timers" who continue to come to the board to offer advice and support.  Being several years past the diagnosis and treatment period, I realize how differently I see things now versus how I saw things when my diagnosis was fresh and I was still going through treatment.  I think that it is really important to have a few of us here who provide this longer-term perspective.  So a big Thank You! to all the other old-timers.  I would mention names but I'm afraid that I would leave someone out. You all know who you are though!

p.s. Suzybelle, the challenge is in sometimes having to separate what you write from how you are feeling!  Sort of like a duck, calm above the water but paddling like crazy just below the surface.  As long as you don't see what's below the surface, the illusion remains. Wink

Dx 9/15/2005 Right, 7cm+, DCIS-Mi, Stage IA, Gr 3, 0/3 nodes, ER+/PR- ** Dx 01/16/2019 Left, 8mm, IDC, Stage IA, Gr 2, 0/3 nodes, ER+/PR-, HER2- (FISH) ** Surgery 11/30/2005 MX Right, 03/06/2019 MX Left ** Hormonal Therapy 05/2019 Letrozole
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Oct 28, 2010 05:18PM don23 wrote:

I couldn't agree more. Beesie was the first person to answer my first post. She was very informative and I looked forward to her wisdom. Thanks Beesie!

Dx 4/10/2009, IDC, 1cm, Stage I, Grade 2, 0/2 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Oct 28, 2010 05:19PM DawnRenee wrote:

Bessie was the first lady to answer my cry for help. She was patient & kind & helped me understand my diagnoses more than any doctor cared to.

I am amazed how much all of the ladies have meant to me over the past 18 months. It's like family, the relationships we've created.

To you Bessie, I send undying gratitude. You are the most amazing woman & I am sure you have touched more lives than you will ever know.

Dx 5/2009, IDC, 1cm, Stage I, Grade 3, 0/3 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Oct 29, 2010 04:57PM Jelson wrote:

great idea AlohaGirl!

Thanks for prodding me to donate to BCO by starting this thread in honor of Beesie who provides wise, thoughtful, kind, clear and informative responses to our questions.

Julie E

Dx 4/17/2009, DCIS, <1cm, Stage 0, Grade 3, 0/0 nodes, ER+/PR+
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Oct 29, 2010 06:56PM - edited Aug 20, 2013 06:03AM by leaf

I'll be very honest here - I think Bessie and I had some disagreement several years ago when I was first diagnosed or had my 2nd or 3rd biopsy, but I really can't remember what it was about anymore. I can remember being angry.  That's all.

Thank GOODNESS I can't remember. I can't imagine what upset me now.  I must have been in some really crazy place.  Thank goodness she has been so helpful, and, I think she understood that I was in a place that didn't make sense.

So I'm a real Bessie fan now. Smile  I think she's one of the best writers around, and what really wipes me off my feet is how she knows what she doesn't know. Her heart is in exactly the right place. Her writing is so clear, kind, and helpful.  I'm so glad she's around.  

Classic LCIS.If knowledge can create problems, it is not through ignorance that we can solve them- Isaac Asimov Dx 12/8/2005, LCIS, ER+/PR- Surgery 1/24/2006 Lumpectomy: Left Hormonal Therapy 7/15/2006 Tamoxifen pills (Nolvadex, Apo-Tamox, Tamofen, Tamone)
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Oct 30, 2010 12:14AM molly52 wrote:

Yeah Beesie!!!!

I have learned so much from you Beesie.  Not having a science background "the research" is tough sledding for me.  So I really appreciate the "low down" in English and also the knowledge that I can rely on your information.  Thank you Beesie. 

From another dx'd 2005 Torontonian IDC'er.

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Oct 30, 2010 12:31AM Laurie08 wrote:

I agree, thank you Beesie.  You are amazing.

Bilateral Mastectomy on 6/30/10 Exchange surgery 1/10/11 Dx 4/22/2010, DCIS, 1cm, Stage 0, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER+/PR+
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Jan 23, 2011 04:37PM otter wrote:

(bumping this pro-Beesie post so it's at the top, instead of the SPAM posts)

Dx 2008, IDC, Stage IA, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER+/PR-, HER2-
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Jan 23, 2011 04:49PM weesa wrote:

Glad to see this revived. I never miss a Beesie post, even though the topic is often DCIS and not applicable to me, I just love the way she writes and thinks.

Also, a big fan of you, Otter.

Sometimes I wonder if I am an old soul temporarily trapped in a breast cancer body. Dx 11/22/2002, IDC, 6cm+, Stage IIIA, Grade 2, 5/25 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2- Chemotherapy 1/20/2003 Adriamycin (doxorubicin), Cytoxan (cyclophosphamide), Taxotere (docetaxel) Radiation Therapy 6/14/2003 Breast, Lymph nodes Hormonal Therapy 8/23/2003 Femara (letrozole) Surgery Lumpectomy: Right; Lymph node removal: Right, Sentinel, Underarm/Axillary; Mastectomy: Right; Reconstruction (right): Latissimus dorsi flap

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