Topic: Feeling I was scared into chemotherapy

Forum: Mental Health: Because Cancer Doesn't Just Affect Your Breasts — Meet and support others who are affected by these issues around anxiety, depression, and other emotional effects.

Posted on: May 11, 2021 10:13PM

Posted on: May 11, 2021 10:13PM

ahare73 wrote:

Ihave been diagnosed with invasive lobular cancer stage 1A grade 2 estrogen and progesterone positive HER2- and BRCA2 positive mutation. The oncotype of my tumor was 31 and I was told that I would not have to have chemotherapy and that radiation and hormone therapy would be the protocol of care for my diagnosis. Then the surgery took place in March and the oncotype number was accessed. Then they changed things and said I would have to have four rounds of the lowest dose of chemotherapy radioactive and hormone therapy. They took three lymph nodes sentinel all were benign. I am so angry that I went along with the chemo and have had three of the four rounds I have decided to not have the fourth round because I feel it is not helping me but hurting me. I am only 48 and this has been the worst experience of my life I have never had any health issues and feel I made the wrong choice and that I would ge in such a better place if I would of chose what I wanted to do in the first place which was radiation and hormone therapy dose anyone have my same similar situation or have any advice on the horrible situation I find myself in?

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Aug 26, 2021 03:49PM Cinderella57 wrote:

Chemo is my choice but doctor HIGHLY recommends. Just had cancer for the 4th time in my chest wall. Grade 3. Although I'm afraid, I know that if I do NOT do chemo and it comes back again, I will regret that I did not try to give myself my best chance. But I do know that it can come back despite chemo. It is our sad reality.

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Aug 26, 2021 03:52PM Cinderella57 wrote:

No advice on hair because I haven't been through chemo yet...starting soon but I just want to say we have your back. We understand your fear and it sounded like you needed to vent. Right now I could throw something through the wall I'm that scared and angry. We all need to vent when we just get so overwhelmed. Hugs.

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