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Jul 29, 2021 01:00PM
Rosiesmum
wrote:
Hello
I’ve had both breasts removed. One had 4 loci old ILC, the other 2 loci of IDC and both had DCIS. Recovery has been difficult. My spouse stayed with me, paid the bills, did the chores…but treated me like garbage. I have been diagnosed with PTSD as a result of cancer, and I know that his denying me sex since diagnosed, accusing me of being unfaithful- when I couldn’t even drive - and generally terrorizing me by screaming in my face as I go up the stairs for bed, waking me to yell at me, making me cry and yelling that I’m being manipulative… I’m too weak to leave. He’s in therapy and I se some improvement. But SO MUCH DAMAGE HAS BEEN DONE. I had a very successful career and was at the top of my game when cancer hit. Now I can barely function. Please tell me how you have been able to get through something like this. Thank you
Dx
3/18/2013, DCIS, Right, 1cm, Stage 0, Grade 1, 0/1 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
Dx
3/23/2013, IDC, Right, 1cm, Stage IB, Grade 3, 0/1 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
Surgery
9/1/2015 Lymph node removal: Sentinel, Underarm/Axillary; Mastectomy: Left, Right; Prophylactic mastectomy: Left, Right; Reconstruction (left): DIEP flap; Reconstruction (right): DIEP flap, Tissue expander placement
Dx
9/3/2015, ILC, Left, 1cm, Stage IA, Grade 1, ER+/PR+, HER2-
Hormonal Therapy
Tamoxifen pills (Nolvadex, Apo-Tamox, Tamofen, Tamone)
Radiation Therapy
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