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Posted on: Nov 26, 2009 02:56PM - edited Nov 26, 2009 10:02PM by cookiegal

Posted on: Nov 26, 2009 02:56PM - edited Nov 26, 2009 10:02PM by cookiegal

cookiegal wrote:

Ok I am still flip flopping on my chemo decision with an oncotype of 22.

Anecdotally, from what I have read on the boards, even in advanced cases, it seems like treatment is leaning more towards hormonals and away from chemo in very ER+ patients.

My doc says the medications will cut my risk to around 10 percent, chemo gives me an additional 4.5...maybe more, maybe even less, with the margin of error it starts getting down to possibly as little as 2%.

But apart from those stats, for slower growing cancers, I wonder if chemo is an efficient weapon. 

Hope it's not a faux pas to post this here, but of course avoiding a distant reoccurance is at the heart of my decision. 

Any thoughts? I fully admit I am trying to justify a choice not to do the chemo. I am extremely worried about the side effects, I am going to speak with a counselor before I make my final decision.

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Nov 26, 2009 03:17PM Mommaof2 wrote:

I also had a oncotype of 22 and my medical oncoligist said he didn't know if there would be enough of a benefit from chemo to offset the SE's.  After much, much turmoil I have decided that I will go ahead and go through the chemo treatments.  I'm 46 and have a nine year old daughter and a five year old son.  As you can imagine having two young kids is what ultimately influenced my decision.  It is a terrible, terrible choice having to make but after meeting with another oncologist and going over the possible side effects, I'm certain it was the right choice for me.

Good luck in making your decision.

Dx 9/24/2009, IDC, <1cm, Stage I, Grade 2, 0/6 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Nov 26, 2009 05:16PM TriciaK wrote:

I tried so hard to find reasons and stats not to do chemo, but realized ultimatly we get one chance to keep this early stage and we need to throw what we can at it!!

So far I have'nt bee sorry.  I have many friends who were far earlier stage than I and also her2 negative who have'nt done so well and did recurr.

I'm sorry you have to make the decision but given the choice again, even early stage or dcis I would do all I could.  Chemo is no picnic of course but very do able and you have the peace of mind in knowing you did all you could to prevent a recurrance.

My best wishes to you as you decide, I recently had a serious mets scare over four years out and having got the all clear this week feel so pleased I did have chemo.

It may be arimidex keeping me okay, it could be chemo or herceptin...who knows?  Whatever it is I'm still NED and thankful:)

Tricia 

Tricia Dx 7/4/2005, IDC: Cribriform, Right, 2cm, Stage IIA, Grade 2, 3/9 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2+,
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Nov 28, 2009 02:14PM 07rescue wrote:

I decided to do the chemo because I had already been on the hormonal treatment for year for endometriosis (it's the same treatment) and found the side effects far worse than chemo side effects, so I knew I probably wouldn't be able to go through the hormonal treatment for years, as is recommended. It's turned out that I really cannot stand the hormonal treatment, so I needed to get whatever risk reduction I could from chemo, and am glad I did it.

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Nov 28, 2009 11:56PM cookiegal wrote:

07 you have a good point!!!

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Nov 29, 2009 01:27AM - edited Nov 29, 2009 01:55PM by aprilgirl1

Cookie - I agree with all of the previous posters.  I chose to do the chemo, with an oncotype of 23 due to my age of 44, my kids and my desire to throw all I can at this to keep it at an early stage.

I am very happy I did, and that it is behind me.  If in the future it turns out that it was not necessary, that is fine with me.  I know I did all I can today to beat this.  If I had chosen to not do chemo and it is determined in the future that it would have helped me, well that would be really hard for me.

Hope that makes sense!'

Of course, it is really up to you - we will be here whatever you decide!  

I'm curious what your oncologist recommended - if anything (mine really left it up to me until I said I am interested in chemo).  

Have I mentioned that this gray area really sucks????!!!

recurrence in lymph nodes (superclavicle/mediastinal)"You can do it like it's a great weight on you, or you can do it like it's part of the dance." Ram Dass Dx 11/7/2008, IDC, Left, 1cm, Stage IB, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2- Dx 11/13/2019, IDC, Left, Stage IV, metastasized to other, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Nov 29, 2009 11:13AM somanywomen wrote:

Hi cookiegal, I too am close to your oncotype, mine is 21 which has 14% rate of recurrence or 86% of non-recurrence...With chemo, it may drop a few percent for me...I have chose not to do the chemo and believe my Onco doctor was leaning that way also...I will do my 6 weeks rads starting Dec 2 followed by 5 years hormone treatment...I hope to make up the 2-3 % I would have gained by chemo by lifestyle change to as much organic foods and products I use on my body (shampoo, makeup, etc), I know it is a personal choice (seems I have had to make a lot of these choices lately), but for me going through the chemo with all the side effects was not one that I was comfortable with...I may regret this one day and then again if I had done the chemo I may have regreted that also....Some of our choices are just dam!ed if you do and dam!ed if you don't.....Good luck making your choice.....

“There must be some way out of here,” said the joker to the thief, “There’s too much confusion, I can’t get no relief."....All Along the Watchtower..Bob Dylan Dx 9/28/2009, IDC, 1cm, Stage I, Grade 2, 0/2 nodes, ER+/PR+
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Nov 29, 2009 11:25AM crusader1 wrote:

Hi

It's Francine from the NY gathering. I had chemo for an oncotype of 27. Yes a bit higher than yours. I too thought a lot about whether to have it or not. In the end I felt that doing as much as I could do  now was the right thing to do. Two of my doctors felt that it is better to do chemo when it is  a preventive than when it comes back. I was told to go for the chemo as I was young. Not really 62.

I do believe that this is a very personnal decision. If you feel that you can live with your decision and not have any regrets than go for it.

My chemo was definitely doable. Yes I lost my hair and luckily have no long term side effects. Chemo , probably the kind you would have is not the type that women had years ago and got so so sick from. You would probably have 4 TC's .(taxotere and cytoxin) .

Good luck in making your decision.

Hugs,

Francine

At the end of this tunnel will be sunshine! It is a sunny day! Dx 9/12/2008, ILC, 1cm, Stage I, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER+/PR-, HER2-
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Nov 29, 2009 05:40PM cookiegal wrote:

Thanks for all the input. Balloting remains open! Hanging chads count!

My hesitations are not so much the experience of chemo, but the risk of long term SE's.

I think my onc is kind of giving me a little time to work through those. I do have a few things in my family history and medical history that could make the risks a little higher.

My dad died of a blood clotting disorder after having chemo, and my mom has some nerve problems. There is also some stuff in my medical history that I would rather keep personal on here, but gives me concern about my tolerance of and risk for se's.

I am going to speak with a counselor at the cancer center of the 10th and meet with the Dr. again on the 15th.

As for the regrets factor, I feel like I am making a decision based on the best information I can get, and if I had a distant recurrance, I would still know I made my decision out of a desire to preserve my health.

(Easy to say that now I am sure, there is no way to really know how I would feel.)

I do think if I had the chemo, and had a recurrance anyway,  I would really regret my choice, especially if it also damaged my health.

I am willing to work towards a risk lowering lifestyle, I already like exercising,  and I would even be willing to do the phosphate trial, which might give me a point or two..

Anyhow thanks for all the advice, know that I consider every single bit of it .

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Nov 29, 2009 08:43PM aprilgirl1 wrote:

Cookie - you will make the best decision for you, and none of us are the same. 

It's good that you have appts with a counselor and meet with your oncologist on the 15th.

I am also working on that lowering risk lifestyle.  Unfortunately my sister introduced me to peppermint bark hagen dazs ice cream - looks like extra time on the treadmill for me!

Darn that gray area!  

recurrence in lymph nodes (superclavicle/mediastinal)"You can do it like it's a great weight on you, or you can do it like it's part of the dance." Ram Dass Dx 11/7/2008, IDC, Left, 1cm, Stage IB, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2- Dx 11/13/2019, IDC, Left, Stage IV, metastasized to other, ER+/PR+, HER2-
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Nov 29, 2009 09:56PM cookiegal wrote:

Yummy.....cookie gal must have yummy pepermint bark ice cream!!!!!!

Good in shake I bet!

Maybe for Christmas dessert!!!!

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