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Sep 2, 2020 12:21AM
hi, I’ve been reading a lot of threads on here and it’s very helpful. I’m 44, 3 kiddos and separated from husband. Some real challenges have been needing support with kids or appointments and been very limited in options due to Covid. No local family and many friends are out being social though we have widespread cases.
My husband took me to my mr I assisted biopsy yesterday as I choice sedation, however I get zero emotional support and care on any level. I’m really trying to reduce stress But having him take me and basically ignore me, not ask how it went, how I am ect is all a little soul crushing. A little history, I left him in March after years of being ignored often for weeks and months at a time - refusing to speak to me, talk, communicate. After a lot of thinking, I do believe he is some type of subtle clever narcissistic Who takes pleasure in hurting me.
Brings me back to my surgery, which still not sure what or when or where - getting Second opinion 4 hours drive away. Family cannot come Due to Covid. Friends have busy lives, kids, work ect. Which basically means I will need him to help me.
Anyone else gone through cancer treatment with a narcissistic ex?
8/6/2020, IDC, Left, 1cm, Stage IA, Grade 1, 0/2 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2- (FISH)
8/21/2020 Tamoxifen pills (Nolvadex, Apo-Tamox, Tamofen, Tamone)
9/18/2020 Lumpectomy: Left
9/23/2020, DCIS, Left, 2cm, Stage 0, Grade 1