Topic: Stage II w/Lymph Node Involvement

May 5, 2014 02:56PM - edited May 5, 2014 02:59PM by magdalene51

Special K, and others, about the mets thing. All I did was answer a multiple choice question in the profile and it asked: "If your breast cancer is not recurring, is it metastatic?" I answered yes because that's what my pathology report says. Please forgive me for being such a STUPID NEWBIE that I don't know the difference between "mets" and "mets"! I already said this all once! And I can't indicate how many nodes out of how many removed because I haven't even seen a surgeon yet!

This is why I have to leave this forum. Every single stinking thing I write someone has to correct me! I came here for support and all I get is criticism. Y'all just need to check your superior and condescending attitudes at the door! Maybe you have enough survivors. You sure as heck don't need me.

Outta here.

May 5, 2014 09:15PM lonnie713 wrote:

Mag,

I don't think that was the intention.  Please don't feel criticized.  Everyone on this board is very helpful.  Hoping that you stay.  Good luck to you.

May 29, 2014 08:10PM Nocompromises2013 wrote:

hi Rosie 

I had 1/13 nodes and mine was 10mm. Who knows if it caught it all we hope so !!... That's why they give you chemo to try and mop up any rogue cells that might have slipped thru.  We just have to hope it did it's job well. I saw my BS this week and asked him if 10mm was big and laughed (nicely) and said they can be as big as a tennis ball !!!  Really the only thing we know for sure is the more lymph nodes affected ( usually 4 or more) then the more likely chance of any metastatic  occurance  down the line 

Also it's good to find out if the nodes came out easily with no extra capsular extension or were matted ( not a good thing). You mentioned clear node margins so sounds like at least it was all contained in the node 

I asked my onc about vasolymphatic invasion and she explained that the breast tissue slides they analyse after Mx are really only a snapshot. Of time. I couldn't work out why I had a node w/o vasolymphatic invasion and the snapshot in time makes sense to me. It was there but moved to the node - if that makes sense?? 

May 30, 2014 12:27AM Stenokim wrote:

Hi, all.  I had 1 of 12 nodes positive,  it was 3 mm.  My MO said that was tiny, if it's under 3 it's not even considered cancerous.  My KI 67 was a 3, which means slow growing.  My oncotype was a 14, 1 percent benefit from chemo, so I did not do chemo.  I had a mastectomy due to the size of my tumor versus the small size of my breast, no recon.  Four ROs reviewed my case for rads...of course they split, 2 said get rads, two said no.  I went with the no guys.  The only reason they considered rads was the one positive node.  My MO said I made the right decision on the rads.  I am on tamoxifen with no side effects except for no period since I started it, which no complaining here.  My one glitch was after I had made peace with my decisions and started the tamoxifen, two months out from surgery, my surgeon calls me out of the blue on a Friday afternoon to tell me I need to get chemo.  That threw me for a loop and frankly pissed me off.  My MO was out of town, they work together in the same office, and BS felt that due to my age at dx, 47, I should get chemo.  I was able to talk with my MO again the next week, who assured me I wasn't a candidate for chemo, as chemo goes after fast growing cells and mine were slow growing.  My MO said all BSs say everyone needs chemo.  I even contacted the "ask a doctor" at Johns Hopkins, a free online service for breast cancer patients, and they told me to listen to MO, not BS.   I was told I had an "old lady" cancer.  I was also told not to take that personally.  Ha. I had a lump for 28 years, was always told it was a fibrous cyst.  Finally had a routine mammo, a little late, I know, at age 47, but that's how I found mine.  Funny thing is, the only reason I went to doctor was I developed heartburn, which I had never had before, didn't know what it was, (possible heart attack), so thought I needed a 47,000 mile checkup. Ever since MX, I've not had heartburn again.  I had it for two straight months before DX.  Divine intervention, I believe.  Had I not had the heartburn, it may have been years before I ever went to doctor.  I was 41 at last check where doc said my lump was just a cyst, just as other three did since I found it at 18 yrs old.  Cancer must have grown under or into the lump I had.  I'm the only one in my family to ever have it.  We do have a family friend that is going to be 99 yrs old in December, and she had BC with lymph node involvement.  She fell down some stairs recently and didn't break a single bone.  Her doc said it was the years of tamoxifen that strengthened her bones that prevented any breaks.  I try to focus on those positive stories.  99 year old BC survivor!  Good luck to all of you gals, and I'll say a prayer for you all.  Kim

May 30, 2014 09:11PM Xrayalli wrote:

Great story, Kim! I think your decisions are right for you and your outlook and attitude are awesome!

Jun 1, 2014 10:09AM SpecialK wrote:

Viking - are you referring to extracapsular extension?

Jun 2, 2014 12:07PM Jennie93 wrote:

Viking - I had the extracapsular extension thing on two of my nodes - the MO said it was like the cancer filled up the node and then "overflowed" a bit.  Although it was one solid clump and easy to remove intact. (Sounds like you were wondering if some of it may have broken off and escaped during surgery?)   It does mean a slightly higher risk so it meant that chemo was a must for me.  "To mop up any stray cells that may have gotten into your bloodstream."  None of the docs seemed too concerned about it, though.  

Jun 2, 2014 05:05PM mmtagirl wrote:

Vikingqueen, I am in the SWOG RxPonder trial.  I got the chemo arm.  You will get a few more doctor appointments , blood draws, meetings with a clinical trial nurse.  I also have to track my SEs and meds for the trial.  I don't mind the extra work, I appreciate the extra appointments I will have in the coming years because it provides me with some additionL reassurance.  Good luck to you.

Jun 2, 2014 09:55PM Stenokim wrote:

bc101, I had the same idea with the rads. I was told you can only have it done once to the chest wall, so I didn't want to waste my one chance if it was all clean, which they thought it was. Good margins and all, plus I had a mastectomy vs lumpectomy. Your BC sounds similar to mine. Mine was pretty big, 2.9 cm, but like I said, it took years to get that big.  I knew it was growing but thought it was just a cyst growing.  My docs think I had it for a couple years, the cancer part.  Who knows.  Your KI 67 was super low, that's awesome.  Do you mind me asking your age?  I'm 48.  Kim

Jun 4, 2014 10:51PM Stenokim wrote:

BC, I think you're right about your cat. I've heard several stories of pets "finding or sensing" cancer.  And then add the dream to it...that gives me chills. Your picture reminds me of God and heaven. I love it!

Jun 7, 2014 02:48PM simplelife4real wrote:

bc, sorry to hear about the frozen shoulder.  Those are no fun, but they heal.  I had one about 4 years ago and I'm completely over it now.  I still do my PT exercises from time to time just to keep things limber.  I'm in a September 2013 chemo group and several of the ladies there have found similar raised spots that have been tested.  So far, so good for all of them.  Fat necrosis seems to be fairly common even some time out based on the number of ladies that have had to deal with it in that group.  I'll be in your pocket on Monday for your test.  Hope it is "unremarkable" and you have a wonderful day with NED.

Hugs,  Kay

Jun 7, 2014 07:26PM Sereena wrote:

I am 3 years out from treatment and now have noticed a small hard pea sized lump close to the area of my ALND. Is it possible that there are still lymph nodes in that area.  Really concerned and have my routine MO visit coming up in 3 weeks.

Jun 8, 2014 10:28AM bc101 wrote:

Thanks Ann!

I fell too, but was able to catch myself with my good arm. My doc said who really knows what caused it. Just have to deal with it now. They want me to take high doses of NSAIDs but my stomach is giving me problems. Also don't want to do cortisone. 

I'm hoping it's nice on Monday so I can at least put the top down on my bug and enjoy some rays!

Jun 10, 2014 12:31PM bc101 wrote:

Hi hope,

Yep, that was me, too! I almost started crying when they were doing the US. The scheduling was mixed up and by the time I was finally seen I was pretty stressed. Haven't heard from the doc yet. The radiologist said it didn't look like anything worrisome, although I'd still like to know what it is. Radiologist said it was just tissue, but the doc on Friday said it looked like fluid. I went online and read his notes and he wrote that he thought it could be the TE's leaking?? I put in a call to my PS's office to see if they have any ideas...

Jun 11, 2014 12:38AM hopefortomorrow wrote:

No! You shouldn't feel embarrassed! How could you have known? Breasts are fatty tissue anyways! Lol. Mine was fluid. So glad it is nothing majorly serious!