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Posted on: Apr 15, 2018 09:31AM - edited Apr 27, 2018 03:15AM by Jscresteds

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Apr 15, 2018 02:08PM vampeyes wrote:

Hi Jen,

First of all {HUGS}, I am sorry that you are going through this. I haven't had a similar experience with a cheating husband, but I did look at his phone once and he lost it on me - haven't touched it since! Apparently phones are private - who knew I didn't think it would be an issue, but that's another story. I am going to ask you one question - ARE YOU HAPPY? Life is too short to not be happy. There is lots of support around you, lots of fun groups you can join. Go enjoy life, the one thing cancer taught me.


Diagnosed at 41. Oncotype 21 Dx 9/20/2017, IDC, Left, 1cm, Grade 2, 0/3 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2- (FISH) Surgery 10/18/2017 Lumpectomy: Left Surgery 11/15/2017 Lumpectomy: Left Radiation Therapy 1/29/2018 Whole-breast: Breast Hormonal Therapy 3/1/2018 Tamoxifen pills (Nolvadex, Apo-Tamox, Tamofen, Tamone)
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Apr 15, 2018 03:36PM Lula73 wrote:

agree with vamp eyes above. I know you mentioned he has cheated before, but a topless girl search on YouTube isn’t another cheating incidence. It could be a sign he’s thinking about it, but it could also be just the male libido. I’d sit down and discuss it with him civilly and see what he has to say.

-Lula Dx 1/2017, DCIS/IDC, Right, 1cm, Stage IA, Grade 1, 0/2 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2- Surgery 2/13/2017 Lymph node removal: Sentinel; Mastectomy: Left, Right; Prophylactic ovary removal; Reconstruction (left): DIEP flap; Reconstruction (right): DIEP flap Hormonal Therapy 3/2/2017 Tamoxifen pills (Nolvadex, Apo-Tamox, Tamofen, Tamone) Surgery 11/1/2017 Prophylactic ovary removal Hormonal Therapy 1/2/2018 Femara (letrozole)
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Apr 15, 2018 04:24PM klvans wrote:

I understand that past cheating incidents make this a more sensitive issue for you but in general a guy looking at topless women is normal and harmless, just my opinion. It's your real life overall relationship with him that matters.

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