Sep 3, 2019 10:43AM illimae wrote:
Hopefully he’s just being casual about it to put you at ease by implying that you’ll recover quickly and be fine, so no worries overshadow everything.
But, there can still be issues and he must step up. Honestly, the day after surgery I felt good enough to do things around the house but needed my husband to carry, reach, open things for me. He might also need to help with the drains, if you have them, the drain is in an awkward position to “milk” on your own and sometimes tissue from inside your body gets stuck and you’ve got to work it out, I’m easily grossed out, so this was my hubs job, lol.
You won’t be doing everything right away, I really hope he helps, ask point blank, if necessary. If he doesn’t step up, then he’s a selfish jerk. This is a common finding when the women of the house get sick unfortunately. Good luck 🙂