Jan 24, 2020 01:58AM blah333 wrote:
well, it's not that complicated. Where there once used to be breasts, is now blank. She is likely robbed of sexual sensation in that area and may have some numbness as well. Sex is pretty much the same but with that area "gone." However, it can still feel nice to be touched there, similar to having a backrub (though don't linger there a ton, as if you are giving a back rub to the chest - just saying, sensationwise, it feels about the same to me in terms of pleasure)
. If I were you I would not ignore the area entirely, but lightly graze it and rub it as you move your hands around her body. Being nonchalant about it is good. I did not get recon either, to me it is just a blank area and nothing to make a big deal about (ie no reason to get disgusted or uncomfortable by it either. I'm sure you will do fine with that). Also maybe don't throw your breasts around and demand they receive attention. Lots of women flash their tits everywhere nowadays and for many months I'd occasionally have moments where it felt unfair that "everyone else" gets to keep theirs. It still feels unfair ut I'm not as bothered by it. I just feel like I'm from another planet and am getting used to the fact I don't get to experience life like most people here do.