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Posted on: Feb 7, 2018 06:39PM - edited Feb 7, 2018 06:40PM by Saadishak

Saadishak wrote:

hi all,

My wife she is 29 years, she got breast cancer stage 2 , we are new in usa and we came from syria and you know how is the situation in syria

When my wife got the cancer i want crazy and i lost 50 l.b of my weight i love my wife soo much

After she done the Chemotherapy she start asked mr to divorce her but of course i canot

She kick me out from home and she asked me to not go to hospital but i went and help her

Now she doesn't want me to talk with her and to not send her any love text really i want help I don't have any one in this country to help me

And i love my wife sooooo much i am crying each day for what i have to do pls help me

I am in N.J

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Feb 7, 2018 06:54PM Georgia1 wrote:

I'm very sorry. Sometimes U.S. hospitals have social workers who can help breast cancer patients and their families. you might try that. Breast cancer can be very emotionally difficult for women.

Currently taking a break from Tamoxifen due to tinnitus. Dx 9/3/2017, ILC/IDC, Right, <1cm, Stage IA, Grade 2, 0/1 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2- Dx 10/10/2017, LCIS, Right, 0/1 nodes Surgery 10/10/2017 Lumpectomy; Lymph node removal: Right, Sentinel Radiation Therapy 11/27/2017 Whole-breast: Breast Hormonal Therapy 1/2/2018 Tamoxifen pills (Nolvadex, Apo-Tamox, Tamofen, Tamone)
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Feb 7, 2018 07:19PM Icietla wrote:

Welcome, Saadishak. I am so sorry about all you and your wife have been going through.

Sometimes the Chemotherapy medicines cause temporary personality or mood/disposition changes.

I agee that you should speak with a Social Worker at the Hospital treating your wife.

Prayers for you both.

Dx 2/12/2016, ILC, Right, 2cm, Stage IIA, Grade 1, 0/13 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2- Surgery 2/19/2016 Lymph node removal: Right, Sentinel, Underarm/Axillary; Mastectomy: Right; Prophylactic mastectomy: Left Hormonal Therapy 4/1/2016 Femara (letrozole) Surgery 4/25/2016 Prophylactic ovary removal
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Feb 8, 2018 11:27AM Momine wrote:

Saadishak, ahlan! has she not told you why she wants a divorce? One of my girlfriends did the same to her husband of 35 years. She reconsidered later and they are fine. It is a very difficult time psychologically. I agree that you should see if there is someone at the hospital who can help, like a social worker.

Dx 6/1/2011, ILC, 5cm, Stage IIIB, Grade 2, 7/23 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2- Chemotherapy 6/20/2011 Cytoxan (cyclophosphamide), Ellence (epirubicin), Fluorouracil (5-fluorouracil, 5-FU, Adrucil), Taxotere (docetaxel) Surgery 9/13/2011 Mastectomy: Left, Right Radiation Therapy 1/9/2012 Surgery 3/8/2012 Prophylactic ovary removal Hormonal Therapy 4/1/2012 Femara (letrozole)
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Feb 8, 2018 11:36AM Saadishak wrote:

sometimes she told me that i am not supporting her sometimes that i am looking to get married sometimes that i give her the negative power and some times she is blaming me that i cause her the cancer , i want to the hospital and no one help me in this.

now i take an apartment alone , i can wait her for 3 years but i canot divorce her really i love her so much and belive or not now i saw her the most beautiful women in world 

i know never ever breast can make a women 


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Feb 8, 2018 12:01PM Saadishak wrote:

sometimes she told me that i am not supporting her sometimes that i am looking to get married sometimes that i give her the negative power and some times she is blaming me that i cause her the cancer , i want to the hospital and no one help me in this.

now i take an apartment alone , i can wait her for 3 years but i canot divorce her really i love her so much and belive or not now i saw her the most beautiful women in world 

i know never ever breast can make a women 


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