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wintersocks
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Some of you might remember me I joined this site in 2012 when I got my stage iii cancer diagnosis, my own health has been ok. However, my son aged 22 was found Christmas 2019 having overdosed and was admitted to ICU expected to die. He survived and now he is in a rehabilitation hospital with a serious brain injury. I don't know how I have survived it and the COVID he picked up in hospital. I was just coming out of the cancer haze and now this. I feel broken again.
Dx
2/20/2012, IDC, 6cm+, Stage IIIA, Grade 2, 4/11 nodes, ER+/PR-, HER2-
Chemotherapy
3/23/2012 Doxil (doxorubicin), Taxotere (docetaxel)
Surgery
8/29/2012 Lymph node removal: Right, Underarm/Axillary; Mastectomy: Right
Hormonal Therapy
9/10/2012 Femara (letrozole)
Radiation Therapy
9/16/2012 Breast, Lymph nodes
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Jan 3, 2021 09:07PM
MinusTwo
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Oh wintersocks - I am so sorry to hear about your son. I'll keep both of you in my thoughts.
2/15/11 BMX-DCIS 2SNB clear-TEs; 9/15/11-410gummies; 3/20/13 recurrance-5.5cm,mets to lymphs, Stage IIIB IDC ER/PRneg,HER2+; TCH/Perjeta/Neulasta x6; ALND 9/24/13 1/18 nodes 4.5cm; AC chemo 10/30/13 x3; herceptin again; Rads Feb2014
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Jan 3, 2021 09:21PM
exbrnxgrl
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winter socks,
I wish I had adequate words to comfort you. It is unbearably difficult to see our children, even when they’re adults, suffer. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts
Bilateral mx 9/7/11 with one step ns reconstruction. As of 11/21/11, 2cm met to upper left femur
Dx
7/8/2011, IDC, Left, 4cm, Grade 1, 1/15 nodes, mets, ER+/PR+, HER2-
Surgery
9/7/2011 Lymph node removal: Left; Mastectomy: Left, Right; Reconstruction (left); Reconstruction (right)
Dx
11/2011, IDC, Left, 4cm, Stage IV, Grade 1, 1/15 nodes, mets, ER+/PR+, HER2-
Hormonal Therapy
11/21/2011 Arimidex (anastrozole)
Radiation Therapy
11/21/2011 Bone
Hormonal Therapy
6/19/2014 Femara (letrozole)
Hormonal Therapy
Aromasin (exemestane)
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Jan 3, 2021 09:41PM
MelissaDallas
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wintersocks, I am so very sorry. I can’t imagine how hard this must be for you
LCIS, extensive sclerosing adenosis, TAH/BSO & partial omentectomy for mucinous borderline ovarian tumor.
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Jan 3, 2021 10:08PM
Beesie
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wintersocks, I am so sorry. I'll keep you and your son in my thoughts.
“No power so effectually robs the mind of all its powers of acting and reasoning as fear.” Edmund Burke
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Jan 3, 2021 11:08PM
buttonsmachine
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wintersocks, there are no words, but I am sending love to you both.
Diagnosed at 32. Local recurrences one year later. Now dealing with MBC.
Dx
8/2016, IDC, Right, Stage IA, Grade 3, 0/2 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
Surgery
10/1/2016 Lumpectomy: Right; Lymph node removal: Sentinel
Chemotherapy
11/1/2016 Cytoxan (cyclophosphamide), Taxotere (docetaxel)
Radiation Therapy
2/1/2017 Whole-breast
Hormonal Therapy
4/1/2017 Tamoxifen pills (Nolvadex, Apo-Tamox, Tamofen, Tamone)
Dx
10/2017, IDC, Right, Grade 3, 2/12 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2-
Surgery
11/1/2017 Lymph node removal; Mastectomy: Right
Chemotherapy
12/1/2017 AC
Surgery
4/1/2018 Lymph node removal; Mastectomy: Right
Radiation Therapy
5/1/2018 External: Lymph nodes, Chest wall
Chemotherapy
7/1/2018 Xeloda (capecitabine)
Hormonal Therapy
7/30/2018 Zoladex (goserelin)
Hormonal Therapy
2/1/2019 Aromasin (exemestane)
Hormonal Therapy
9/30/2019 Faslodex (fulvestrant)
Dx
8/2020, IDC, Stage IV, metastasized to bone/liver/other, Grade 3, ER+/PR+, HER2-
Targeted Therapy
8/30/2020 Ibrance (palbociclib)
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Jan 4, 2021 01:33AM
Micmel
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sending strength and support across the miles.
Everyone has to dance, they just don’t know what song they will get.
Dx
1/22/2016, IDC, Left, 4cm, Stage IV, metastasized to bone, Grade 2, 13/35 nodes, ER+/PR-, HER2-
Chemotherapy
2/10/2016 AC
Surgery
6/21/2016 Lymph node removal: Left, Underarm/Axillary; Mastectomy: Left
Chemotherapy
7/20/2016 Abraxane (albumin-bound or nab-paclitaxel)
Targeted Therapy
11/7/2016 Ibrance (palbociclib)
Surgery
Chemotherapy
Chemotherapy
Hormonal Therapy
Arimidex (anastrozole)
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Jan 4, 2021 01:51PM
wintersocks
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Thank you everyone for your kind words. I hope you are all doing well
Dx
2/20/2012, IDC, 6cm+, Stage IIIA, Grade 2, 4/11 nodes, ER+/PR-, HER2-
Chemotherapy
3/23/2012 Doxil (doxorubicin), Taxotere (docetaxel)
Surgery
8/29/2012 Lymph node removal: Right, Underarm/Axillary; Mastectomy: Right
Hormonal Therapy
9/10/2012 Femara (letrozole)
Radiation Therapy
9/16/2012 Breast, Lymph nodes
edj3
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Jan 4, 2021 01:54PM
edj3
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I'm so incredibly sorry, words are inadequate.
Tried the tamoxifen, no thanks.
Dx
4/9/2019, IDC, Left, <1cm, Stage IA, Grade 2, 0/1 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2- (IHC)
Dx
5/6/2019, LCIS, Left, <1cm, 0/1 nodes
Surgery
5/6/2019 Lumpectomy; Lymph node removal: Sentinel
Radiation Therapy
6/2/2019 Whole-breast: Breast
Hormonal Therapy
9/23/2019 Tamoxifen pills (Nolvadex, Apo-Tamox, Tamofen, Tamone)
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Jan 4, 2021 02:36PM
SpecialK
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wintersocks - I have been thinking about you and your son daily across the pond since I read your post. I am so very sorry that this is your reality, know that positive thoughts are coming to you from me.
BMX w/ TE 11/1/10, ALND 12/6/10. 15 additional surgeries. TCHx6 2/17-6/2/11. Herceptin until 1/19/12. Femara 8/1/11, Arimidex 6/20/12, back to Femara 6/18/13-present.
Dx
9/27/2010, DCIS, Stage 0, Grade 3
Dx
9/27/2010, IDC, Right, 2cm, Stage IIB, Grade 3, 2/14 nodes, ER+/PR+, HER2+ (IHC)