Sep 12, 2021 03:08PM goldensrbest wrote:

MT - 32 years ago at age 34 I was dx w/stage 2 cancer. I had very high estrogen/progesterone receptors. During chemo, I continued to have periods. Following my 6 months of treatment I had my ovaries removed which put me into instant menopause. I was also on tamoxifen, a hormone blocker for 5 years. I understand entirely how your wife feels. I would encourage her to talk about using certain antidepressants which can help w/mood and hot flashes. Gabapentine has also been shown to be effective in managing hot flashes. She needs to seek help from either her oncologist or primary care provider. Working with a therapist and/or support group can be very helpful. I’m not going to lie, despite being on an antidepressant, I had tamoxifen rage. I didn’t realize it at the time, but in retrospect, I could be a witchy wife and mother. There is no easy way around your wife’s problems but kudos to you for wanting to understand them and help her. I’m sure other forum members will add their insights. Kelsey is very lucky to have you for a husband!