Topic: Member of the "6 Month Watchful Waiting Club", Unite!

Jun 2, 2011 03:56PM SarahsMom wrote:

Hi Barb,  thanks for the post.Every doctor I've talked to is against MRIs because my left breast would light up like a Christmas tree.  I really want one to see what is going on in the dense areas, but I guess then I would know too much, like about all of the benign stuff. It's a tough decision. 

My 6 month check is supposed to be in June but there is so much going on and I feel like....why ruin the summer?! I don't know. Every time I pick up the phone to make the appt I hang up. Probably too late now and June is booked anyhow. Maybe tomorrow...

I agree. One of these visits I think the rug will get pulled out from under me. 

Jun 3, 2011 11:19AM shelle3 wrote:

I always liked being in clubs...until now. 

My first 6 month follow up is June 21st.  All this testing, waiting, worrying, rinse and repeat just sucks.

Shelle

Jun 3, 2011 07:42PM rehm046 wrote:

I have belonged to this club for the last 6 years.  Two things:  mdoak, I'm not sure I would wait until the 20'th to find out what the symptoms you are experiencing mean.  I am not, in any way, trying to frighten you, but they sound like symptoms a close friend of mine had (who is alive and well to talk about it 15 years later) but it was a pretty aggressive situation.

Secondly, I really got tired of the routine: MRI's annually, alternating with mammos and ultrasounds, excisionos on an as needed basis (3 in six years)  needle biopsies, including a stereotactic biopsy-which, frankly, I found barbaric.

So, after getting a second opinion, I've decided to quit the club-sorry ladies.  I'm opting for a PBMX and will be having the surgery-with reconstruction-June 14'th.  I've gone back and forth on this decision for 5 years.  After the last (nearly botched-they almost biopsied the wrong site) I decided enough!  Luckily for me, my new BS was supportive-she does about 15 PBMX's a year and the PS is wonderful.

Does that mean I don't still have days when I say-the watchful approach wasn't that bad?  NO. But I think I lost weeks of my life everytime they found "something" and I had to wait for the biopsy, the surgery, the MRI.  I can't do it anymore.

I would NOT have made this decision 6 years ago, or even 4 years ago-it's a rather drastic decision to make-and not for everyone, but I feel like it's the right decision for me.  Just thought I's share-as I have been a member of this club for a long time.   Pat

Jun 4, 2011 12:28PM 22lifeisgood wrote:

Glad you made your appointment carpediem19!! I am on 3 month watches with my (hot) breast surgeon and at the end of July go for my annual mammo/us to see if anything has changed. Still have the breast/armpit discomfort (although not as bad, or maybe I am just used to it after 2 1/2 years?)

mdoak - how wierd! I had small pinkish blotches show up the other day  - 3 of them - showed up out of nowhere but mine were gone the next day. Didn't itch or anything just there. Of course I have sensations in this bad breast of mine, but I can never decipher if it's a new sensation or just a continuation of everything else! I will say when I saw those blotches I about $#it my pants thats for sure! 

Glad the spots are gone - my breast never got hot or felt warm just those 3 little blotches that went away within 24 hours.......... strange. 

With being on these watches I think I am just exhausted with being "hyper" aware of everything. Anyone else feel that way? I just want to live my life without fear. Being diagnosed with skin cancer in February didn't help my paranoia any either. :( 

Well, here's to us gals in the watch and see club! It's a great day for sunshine, laughter and an adult beverage or two! 

Jun 5, 2011 05:01AM Megadotz wrote:

Hi, not sure you're going to want to hear from me.

 I was on a six month diagnostic mammo/us  schedule  following density for three years (bi-rads 3 probably benign - checking stability)  The next one was a hit, barely stage 2 (micro invasion of 1 node) IDC.  I drew a different radiologist in the practice, who kept saying there was nothing there last time.  

The watchful waiting paid off  for me.  Outside of the density issue, I was considered pretty low risk for BC.  Little family history of any cancer - 1 grandfather and 1 cousin.

One thing that has concerned me in this thread is folks having to wait for  a diagnostic mammo result -- where I go the radiologist reads the scan while you're there and then discusses the findings with you.  It takes longer with biopsies -- but that needs pathology.

I guess what I'm trying to say is that it's frustrating and anxiety-making, but I'm glad I went through with it.  

Hang in there or take  other actions, please don't just ignore it.

Peace.

 Meg

Jun 5, 2011 11:49AM SarahsMom wrote:

Hi Anne, thanks for posting your info and welcome to our thread of watchful waiters!

Megadotz, thank you so much for your post. Was your IDC caught on mammo or ultrasound? 

I am so glad you posted here, it is frustrating going through this process every 6 months but your post shows why it is a "necessary evil."  So glad your cancer was caught so early, that is good news as it sounded really aggresssive. 

Jun 5, 2011 03:22PM Megadotz wrote:

Hi Carpediem,

It showed up on the mammogram and was confirmed on ultrasound.  They had been doing both over the three years.  when the found the IDC on the right side, there were also places of interest on the left side -- that ended up being a cyst and "benign breast tissue with stromal sclerosis" -- the cyst was aspirated with clear yellow fluid.   Thee was a six month followup ultra sound on the left (between chemo and radiation on the right) and it was clear, a mammogram was done to confirm.

 I was lucky, it  had just started to spread -- besides the node there was both vascular and lymph invasion.   Things seem to be clear now, but I know I have to be on my toes to keep aware of what's going on.

All the best,

Meg 

Jun 6, 2011 01:29PM barb3246 wrote:

I was not happy with the breast clinic I have been going to for many years, so I am now being followed by specialists at Brigham and Women's in Boston. Well I just got the results of my latest MRI (5th one in 3 years), and it was a BIRADS 3, probably benign, but they are recommending short interval followup , so yet another MRI in 3 months :-( The radiologist noted that I have many "bilateral foci of enhancment". They tried to compare this latest MRI with my previous one (from the other institution) and apparently the MRI quality was very poor so they could not get a good comparison, thus the repeated MRI in 3 months.

I am just so sick of all these tests and the stress that goes with it. I literally sat at my desk at work all day today with a headache, a knot in my stomach and so stressed out that I jumped every time the phone rang and couldn't eat or concentrate. I really don't know how I can continue to put myself thru this every 3 - 6 months for the rest of my life - its just too depressing to think about. I was really hoping for once to get a clean MRI and be told to just come back in a year. Sorry for the whining, but I just needed to vent to people who understand.

Jun 6, 2011 06:38PM rehm046 wrote:

mdoak,  I think we all have to do what feels right-I tend to trust my gut-so if nothings changed, then I'm sure waiting two more weeks won't matter.

Meg,  Initially, after my excisions (so for the first two years) they would read my mammos right way-which was great.  After that, because I'd had a "clean" year they wouldn't do it anymore and said "LCIS is not cancer, so you will have to wait for your report like everyone else".  Believe me, I know all about that debate-is LCIS precancerous or not.  I ddin't much care-I wanted to know what they had seen.  It was some of these kind of interactions that,at first led me to believe I was overreacting, and finally led me to think I needed to do something more aggressive.  For me the preventative watching which made all the sense in the world six years ago, just began to take to much of a toll on me.  (sorry, I'm having trouble here with bold and italics-so please don't read anything into it).

 The most important thing is that we are all comfortable with our health care providers-be it a BS , a PS or an oncologist and that we feel comfortable with making treatment decisions with them,  (and you know what, I'm happy this statement is bolded!).  pat

Jun 7, 2011 06:54AM mdoak wrote:

evebarry, call! If you skip this mammo and something is found next time, you will be kicking yourself. If you're not comfortable with your doctors, shop around. I have wonderful radiologists at a dedicated breast clinic and am very happy there. I even went to an NCI high-risk clinic and did not like them nearly as much. Good docs are our there. Maybe call for this mammo and then make it your mission in the next few months to find a clinic you are more comfortable with. Good luck!

Jun 7, 2011 08:50AM Hindsfeet wrote:

awb, of course tamoxifin and rads were recommended. At first I decided against it due to $$$ ... After researching it and further looking into the side effects of tamoxifen and rads, I felt more comfortable with my decision not to do cancer treatment. I fully realize that I'm high risk for another recurrence. There are risk factors no matter what you choose. So...I chose for now the six month watchful approach along with trying to find why my body broke in the first place. My treatment for now is totally holistic.

And yes, I do need to go for a mammo or something. Just don't want to do it anymore. I'm having a hard time motivating myself to make the call.

Jun 7, 2011 03:30PM suzieq60 wrote:

Hi Girls - I'll join you on the 6 month watchful waiting program - alternate mammo/MRI. My first dx was Oct 09 (ILC) - a year later after chemo/herceptin and rads they found another one in the other breast (IDC) along with 2 spots of ADH. My bs wanted to do BMX but I refused as it seemed the new one had been there the year before and missed - totally different pathology and lower grade - and I do want to give the Arimidex a chance to do it's thing. The bs (bless her heart) did 2 lumpectomies on the same day and removed the ADH along with the cancer. I'm past due for my 6 month check up now, but have refused as we are going overseas to the UK and Paris in August and we don't want anything to stop us (my DH is a bowel cancer with mets survivor). The bs was very understanding as I have been through so much in the last 18 months, I just couldn't cope with it all again so soon. As soon as we get back at the end of September, I'll be off to do the checks - not sure if MRI or mammo and ultrasound - we'll see.

The breast clinic I go to now, don't let you go home until they have evaluated the mammo and US. I thought that was great but it's not nice to actually experience it. Especially not when you get called in again and again on the same day and have to sit there watching others go home all clear.

Anyway, thanks for starting this thread - great idea!!!

Sue

Jun 7, 2011 04:46PM michelleg1122 wrote:

maria5890,

thank you so much for the link, I am going to go check it out.  I wish mine was not painful ( my husband says it is my excuse so he can't touch them, I only wish lol lol).  When I was first dx my surgeon had said to leave it alone as well. I wonder now with the changes that just happend if he will say something different. Going to schedule my appt tomorrow.  I am probably overreacting but I was adopted so I do not have any family history.  Thanks again!

Jun 8, 2011 09:20PM SarahsMom wrote:

Valerie, sounds like a great decision!!  I am getting tired of this myself.  Good for you - taking control and opting out!! :-)   So glad it went well for you. You are an inspiration to all of us on the board - a good reminder that we own our bodies and we are the best caretakers and decision makers!!

Jun 9, 2011 12:13PM vmudrow wrote:

shelle3 - I agree if a biopsy is needed it is best to get it all done at the same time - it means less time for worry.  It's weird because I seem to worry about lots of things that my husband doesn't even think about - maybe it's a guy thing - less worry.  I've told him I worry so much because I have to do his worrying for him because he never worries.  It would be nice.  Anyway - shopping gets my mind off things for awhile as does cleaning (weird).  Good luck - let us know how it goes.  Hugs, Valerie