Topic: Starting Chemo September 2021

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Sep 5, 2021 08:16PM NatureYogi wrote:

Hello Ladies, Stopping in to give you all hope and encouragement! I'm 10 weeks post chemo and 6 weeks post mastectomy and I'm feeling and doing well. Eyelashes and eyebrows come back quick, my hair coming in, still short, but it is there. I know you all can do this, it sucks, but visualize the chemo killing off the cancer. There were days I wanted to quit, but I kept going. Drink plenty of water and rest as needed, the body heals itself when you are sleeping.

AnnMarie318-You asked if surgery was a option for triple negative, I am triple negative and I had a mastectomy with lymph node removal and doing well. I am waiting for my radiation date and how many weeks I'll get.

You've got this! Sending healing thoughts your way......

Sep 6, 2021 07:00PM Spades2525 wrote:

Hello everyone! This is my first post. I was diagnosed with invasive lobular carcinoma at the end of June and it has been a total whirlwind since then. I've had a mastectomy and now I will be starting the AC - T treatment on September 17. I am surrounded by very supportive family and friends, but amazingly this journey still feels so incredibly lonely. I am doing my best to prepare for the start of treatment…creating a comfort bag, ordering a wig, staying active etc . I have decided to cut my hair before it starts to fall out… to give me some control over the process, but it will be highly emotional for me. I have long hair and always have … I am very attached to it. I have decided to donate my hair in hopes that it helps me to know that my hair will live on lol. I know it will also help to stay connected to a community of women working through all the same emotions! So thank you in advance

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Sep 9, 2021 05:37AM oldladyblue wrote:

Hi Hummingbird, thanks for the welcome. I was feeling lonely this morning, you are the first person to answer me by name despite other posts I made since I joined the site, and you did it over a week ago. Sorry I didn't notice. I guess I've been too busy feeling sorry for myself to see what's in front of me. I have to do a muga scan on Monday to see if my heart can take one kind of chemo being considered, I got scared when my Dr. told me that it can cause heart failure. I'm still scared. I've tried to live so healthily for decades: vitamins, good food, little drinking, no smoking, etc.

Hi to all other ladies on this thread. Sorry we are all in this "club", but I'm glad to have some company, and some details and recommendations of what is coming. No one around me offline seems to be any different, or is even talking to me of cancer.

JHam thanks for your first post, glad you had little nausea with your first chemo.

Mithz glad you will start treatment soon, I'm sorry your cancer is growing rapidly.

MeandJax, oh my second round of chemo. When you say "kick the nausea ahead of time", what do you mean? I hate the idea of nausea coming and would like to prevent it as much as possible. Is that Jax in your photo? So cute.

AnnMarie318 I feel the same as you, I don't want to do any of this treatment but am following everything my doctors recommend. I was diagnosed in June so this all seems in slo-mo to me.

4kids4dogs, I am getting genetic counseling next week by phone from the VA in Salt Lake UT. I had the oncotypeDX test and scored 28, medium high risk of recurrence. My mom, grandma and dad all died of cancers, though none had known breast cancer.

Hummingbird, how did your first chemo drip go? Hoping it went well. You haven't posted since the 3rd so I am wondering how you are.

DebbieM1958, your first treatment is today, I'm sure you're nervous. I hope it goes well.

K-Gobby, I didn't realize it was going to be 4 hours more or less for each chemo treatment. Sigh. Seems a long time to sit. Can you get up and move during the 4 hours or is it not possible to walk. My hips won't like sitting for 4 hours.

1982M, it took almost 3 weeks for my pathology, waiting was awful. Surgery was July 28th and I still don't have a worked out treatment plan.

Sep 9, 2021 07:22AM DebbieM1958 wrote:

Hi Oldladyblue - yes, Day 1 today!!! Super nervous but ready to get this treatment going so it will be done and over with at some point. I am told my my nurse that my first session of infusion with be 8 hours - ugh.. 4 meds (Taxotere, Carboplatin, Herceptin and Perjeta) and they want to observe between each one to make sure I respond well). My husband (my rock) can be there for a short while for the first session but no more visitors after that due to Covid. I am armed with books, tablet, notepads, snacks, drinks etc and hope the day goes by quickly. I plan to try and watch the US Open Tennis semi finals if the reception is OK. That should take care of a chunk of time. Future sessions they say will be 5 - 6 hours. They told me I can get up and walk around in the room with my IV pole, walk to the restroom etc. So I was glad about that. My knees would not want to sit for 8 hours straight.

Re.Eyebrows - my daughter got me two things off Amazon - Eyebrow stencil stickers that you add with a brush. Both were less than $25. I will try them and see when the time comes. I am not too worried about the eyelashes but I think no eyebrows would bother me. Not very good with makeup so let's see if I end up looking like Collette Reardon on that SNL skit! Haha. I also got one of those baseball hat things with hair extensions from the sides for about $30 off Amazon. Not quite the same color as mine but it will work at a pinch.

Sep 9, 2021 09:58AM mindthief wrote:

DebbieM, good luck today! I'm dreading the loss of my eyebrows as well, but afraid all the options will make me look like a cartoon villain. Let us know how the stencils work.

Brooks_fountains, good luck to you too! I'll be one day behind you - starting AC-T tomorrow. Are you doing dose dense or standard spacing? I'm so sorry for what you went through with your mom. My biggest worry through this whole process is how it will affect my kids. I love what you said about sending compassion to yourself. I'm generally a person to stuff down my emotions and forge ahead, but I am trying hard to take a more honest and caring approach with myself now.

oldladyblue, I was also diagnosed at the end of June and had surgery in July, so I know what you mean about things moving in slo-mo. I hope the muga scan goes well and you get your plan in place soon.

Hummingbird, how are you feeling almost a week out?

1982, did you get your pathology report back yet? Hoping it was good news for you and you have a plan now.

Spades2525, JHam, Mithz, and anyone else I missed, welcome to the group!

I see my oncologist today for blood work and confirmation of my protocol. Fingers crossed nothing goes wrong at this point and we can start tomorrow as planned. I'm nervous but also ready to get on with things.

Sep 9, 2021 02:02PM Cactushouse wrote:

I had my first treatment on Tuesday and after the pre-meds was given the Herceptin, no side effects. Then the Taxol and again no side effects. I was more woozie from the dose of benadryl they did by drip. I woke up around 3:00 am with a slight headache and decided to use meditation to go back to sleep rather than taking any aspirin- enough drugs in body. Was able to go back to sleep till 6:00. Slight headache most of Wednesday morning, no nausea but I have a red rash on my checks and forehead. Still here on Thursday but not as pronounced. Nurse thought it was a reaction to the Taxol? I was wondering if anyone has experienced that reaction or was it from the infusion of Dexamethasone (steroid)? Would I expect this type of reaction each time? Thanks for all the support this sight brings.

Sep 9, 2021 07:28PM swimgal wrote:

Spades2525: Here are the links for the cold gloves and socks. The gloves are pretty much a one size fits all. I have a bigger hand and they were fine. I don't even use the thumb cutout area. I just put my whole hand in the middle. I wear a women's size 9 shoe and the socks fit good, but not much extra room, so maybe adjust the size of socks accordingly.

My Taxol infusion is an hour long and I will take my hands out of the gloves a couple times during that hour for maybe two or three minutes to give them a break. You'll feel if your hands are getting too cold. I don't seem to have to do that with the socks, but everyone is different.

Sending good wishes and positive thoughts as you begin your chemo treatment. One at a time. You've got this!

Please let me know if you have any other questions.

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Sep 9, 2021 09:37PM oldladyblue wrote:

Thank you ladies for your answering posts to me and advice to others. I do feel more hopeful, less scared and no longer as lonely knowing that you are out there posting and being helpful. I was feeling sort of lost in space or something in my head, caught in between real and unreal. I will find out on Wednesday what my future recommendations are for chemo, until then I will be reading and thinking of you brave fighters!

Sep 10, 2021 03:33AM oldladyblue wrote:

So happy to see the activity here and to read how you are all doing! I'm going to reread from the bottom up. Hugs to everyone.

DebbieM1958, thank you so much for the nice post to me. Glad your treatment went well and easily. I hope your side effects will be minimal. I asked my nurse navigator about medical CBD/THC drops as nothing seems to be helping me sleep. She said to wait to ask my hemo/onc doctor on Tuesday. It's legal here, just I haven't used any drugs at all for decades except for Novacaine for teeth work and muscle relaxers for my back after my car accident. I'm 64 years old but don't look it or feel it. Getting some flack from my friends for not using the "alternative" clinic near me for treatment...

cactushouse, I am up, as usual, since I have insomnia, after 4 hrs sleep, and came here for moral support and re-reading. It's amazing what I am forgetting these days due to my over the top worries and lack of sleep. What helps you to sleep?

spades2525, and mindthief , your posts helped me as I see our timelines are similar, I was feeling it was terribly slow moving forward and I wondered if this was "normal" cancer treatment progress. mindthief, good luck with your treatment today.

Sep 10, 2021 11:26AM oddboood wrote:

Hello everyone! I'm also in the September 2021 Chemo club. I started on Sept 8 with Carboplatin, Taxol and Keytruda. They gave me a ton of Benadryl with the infusion, so I ended up sleeping through the whole thing. No major side effects yet - just some occasional stomach cramping and a funny taste in my mouth. I'll be doing the Carbo/Taxol weekly for 24 weeks, with the Keytruda every 45 days. Then at week 12, they are going to add in AC. Trying to take it all one day at a time, because if I think too far forward, it freaks me out. Seems like mindfullness is definitely the way to go when you have cancer. And I'm still getting used to the idea that all this is actually happening.

My oncologist told me that cold capping won't work with my regimen, so I've cut my hair short in preparation. Funny - the hair, eyebrow, eyelash thing is emotionally much harder than I would have thought.

Love and hugs to all of you!

Sep 10, 2021 11:42AM Butterfly47 wrote:

Hello! I am new to the group! I am Thankful its here and I am not happy that I need it. I am not much of a social media/blogger but thanks to the web I have access to other people like you to share what could be an isolating experience.

I was diagnosed with IDC/Triple positive in my left breast (3.3 ci) stage 1B. No lump or pain just a routine mammogram on Aug 18. All of my tests (MRI, Bone scan, CT scan and ultra sound) found no other cancer lurking anywhere else. I leave in Charlotte and the Levine Cancer Ins. has been on it! I have met all 3 of my oncologist, my 2 nurse navigators are awesome. I will start with 6 rounds of chemo every 3 weeks (Taxotere,Herceptin,Pertuzumab,Paraplatin). Port goes in 9/16, chemo day is 9/22. After chemo a lumpectomy, lymph node biopsy, then radiation, hormonal therapy and then every 3 weeks for a year of Herceptin,Pertuzumab. So.......

Its a lot!!!! I have 4 kids (28 yr old son (lives local), 21 yr old son college local, 18 yr old son troubled just moved yesterday to Atlanta to live with my sister and her boyfriend and a 12 year old daughter that we adopted from Ukraine 3 yrs ago this Aug. Of course I worry about her the most watching me be sick and so forth. I am a believer (Christian) and pray continually. When I toured the chemo area I felt so bad for the the little old people receiving treatment and I hope I feel well enough to maybe help in some way.....not to sound angelic or anything but just see the need.

I have been brave, I have had lots of self pity and I have been very sad, I have been VERY angry and cussed more then I think I ever have in my life including my potty mouth days as a teen. :(

I am not going to do the cold cap seems like one more thing and scarves are pretty, comfortable and cool. I plan on going to a boutique that can do eyebrows and lashes. I'll ask them about what's best eyebrow wigs or tattoo.

I already fight chronic fatigue and digestive issues so I am preparing for the worst and hoping for the best. My son is getting married next year and I am hosting a catered engagement party 16 days after first chemo treatment. Fingers crossed prayer said!!!!

I don't know why but the port freaks me out a little. That's it! Thank you ladies for listening and sharing!!! Blessings to all!!

Sep 10, 2021 11:54AM Cactushouse wrote:

Hello Oldladyblue- My sleep is not going well. I try to be in bed by 10:30, usually wake up at 3:00. I use relaxation, meditation to try to get my self back to sleep. Some times it works, other times I doze back off for half hour or so and then am wide awake. I am hoping as this journey goes along, it becomes less stressful, hopefully allowing for some better sleep. I agree coming here and just reading and being part of group that can identify what you are going through means a lot.

Sep 10, 2021 03:38PM DebbieM1958 wrote:

That looks super fun! I'm sure it will come in handy at some point - and how sweet of your friend. I love 10 years post Breast Cancer, that's pretty awesome!