Sep 14, 2020 08:49PM SerenitySTAT wrote:
Managing life after a breast cancer diagnosis, including rediscovering intimacy, coping with fear of recurrence, reconnecting relationships, sharing hobbies and interests, and finding inspiration in daily life.
Posted on: Nov 16, 2016 10:20AM - edited Sep 12, 2017 07:09PM by SerenitySTAT
I finished active treatment less than a month ago, and wow, you just don't bounce right back up. Before all this started I have had sciatica for a couple of years, and it worsened during treatment. In trying to recover from both, I've been feeling frustrated. Now, I'm tired of the pain, fatigue, and frustration. Oh, and all these pills! I've been told I'm not happy unless I'm complaining about something (yes, my darling husband, though he hasn't said it since diagnosis).
I recently read this article below and pulled out some sections. It reminded me of when I was younger and said "It's the little things...". I'm going to try it and will post my thin slices of joy as I experience them. Please join me so I can experience your thin slices of joy.
Successfully reshaping your mindset, he argues, has less to do with hours of therapy and more to do with mental exercises, including one that helps you recognize "thin slices of joy."
Although they last two or three seconds, the moments add up, and the more you notice joy, the more you will experience joy, Tan argues. "Thin slices of joy occur in life everywhere… and once you start noticing it, something happens, you find it's always there. Joy becomes something you can count on." That's because you're familiarizing the mind with joy, he explains.
Tan's "thin slice" exercise contains a trigger, a routine, and a reward—the three parts necessary to build a habit. The trigger, he says, is the pleasant moment, the routine is the noticing of it, and the reward is the feeling of joy itself.
A small study by psychologists from Loyola University published last month in the journal Aging, for instance, showed that among adults over age 55, those who reported a better ability to savor life were more likely to report higher life satisfaction, regardless of ill health. For those less able to relish small events, poor health made all of life seem drearier.
Sep 12, 2017 Edited to add update on sciatica: Using postural alignment exercises and nerve flossing, my sciatic pain is gone. I have most of my mobility back, and I am no longer taking any pain medications! I have significantly less mental fatigue after I dropped my Lyrica dosage. Big joy! I need to continue the nerve flossing or else I feel the tightness returning, but that takes less than a minute of my time. It took months of slow progress with some setbacks, but I finally succeeded!
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Sep 14, 2020 08:49PM SerenitySTAT wrote:
Sep 14, 2020 09:16PM santabarbarian wrote:
I adore Hopper!
Sep 15, 2020 08:24PM SerenitySTAT wrote:
Have you read this article about him?
Sep 15, 2020 10:35PM santabarbarian wrote:
thanks for posting it!
Sep 16, 2020 02:55PM ScotBird wrote:
I adore Hopper too. There is a great exhibition with virtual tour at Foundation Beyeler the tour is great. Can’t seem to find a link but do search it
Sep 16, 2020 03:02PM ScotBird wrote:
The trailer for the Wim Wenders film at the exhibition looks great too. Wish we could allmeet up in Basel and watch it together then go out for a great lunch in the Swiss sunshine! X
Sep 16, 2020 09:23PM SerenitySTAT wrote:
Will look for that tour, and a meetup in Basel sounds so good right now!
There's a definite chill in the air. The orchid blooms have started to drop. This is the longest I've had an orchid in bloom. We'll see if I can manage to get them to bloom again. The aloes are doing well indoors.
Sep 19, 2020 03:34PM SerenitySTAT wrote:
Beautiful! Would love to see in person.
Sep 21, 2020 08:52PM SerenitySTAT wrote:
Worse than my pup!
Sep 22, 2020 03:28PM SerenitySTAT wrote:
He's an Immortal!
Sep 24, 2020 06:42PM ScotBird wrote:
Stayed up until 2.45am completing a work project. I wanted to get it done because after tomorrow I’m taking a few weeks off to recover from my hip replacement surgery, which I’m having done on Saturday morning. I’m really excited to be getting free of the pain that has been getting worse and worse for years. I’m really happy to have finished the work project too, I find it so satisfying and rewarding to complete a task!
22 hours ago SerenitySTAT wrote:
ScotBird - Good job completing that project! You can relax and recover from your surgery. Hope it goes smoothly and all your pain goes away.
Speaking of pain, my sciatica has been acting up. I'm trying to manage without meds but my MO did prescribe some to use as needed.
The weather has been beautiful here. Most of the plants are alive. I repurposed an empty ice cream tub as a pot for my aloe. Before the pandemic I would've driven to a store to buy another pot. At least I already have the pot to use when the aloe outgrows the tub.
Montreal seems to be in a second wave of the virus. I live away from the outbreak areas, but I don't want to venture out unless it's for my appointments.
Stay safe out there!