Newly Diagnosed Post Biopsy 50 years old
Hello everyone!
I found this page on my own after I was given my biopsy results today. A nurse called and asked if I wanted results over the phone or come in. I opted for over the phone - but it seemed she could only share partial information: that the biopsy showed cancer in the fluid that was aspirated as well as the tissue sample taken last Wednesday (7/30). She mentioned a lumpectomy would be performed but my surgeon would be able to provide a full explanation from pathology report at my consult (soonest they could get me in is 8/21). It's been a roller coaster of emotions today, even though it seems like it is very early stages due to the small size of the lesion. I appreciate any words of comfort as I learn how to navigate this news - my family is wonderful and will be a big support but I want to hear from others like me. I went in thinking it would be a benign outcome since BC doesn't run in my family. I wasn't really prepared for this news. I am a Grandma of 2 adorable kiddos and right now, they are my best medicine when it comes to keeping me busy and mind grounded. Thank you, in advance… and for those who are getting ready to fight their own battles with this disease, I pray for successful treatments in the months to come.
Suzie
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@rockrma - Suzie, we are sorry that your recent diagnosis has brought you here but glad that you found us. A helpful place to begin is our Just Diagnosed? Start here thread. You’ll find clear information to help you understand pathology reports, consider treatment options, and navigate the stress that often comes with a breast cancer diagnosis.
We look forward to keeping in touch with you as you begin this journey. Use this community for support and encouragement. We're all here for you!
Sincerely,
The Mods
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Hi @rockrma -
Sorry you have had to join this club that none of us wants to be a part of, but glad you have found us.
Most people don't realize that the majority of bc is NOT genetic, so are pretty gob-smacked when they are dxd. We've all been there. I've been dxd twice and had genetic testing and they found nothing.
Waiting….waiting…waiting is SOOOO hard and honestly one of the worst things about this journey. Sorry they can't get you in to see the surgeon for a couple of weeks when all you really want is a plan. Most of us find a sense of calm once there is a plan in place and waiting for it is so hard. In the meantime, you could read some threads to educate yourself, but try not to freak yourself out. Since they are talking about lumpectomy, it sounds like it was found early and that is most important with this disease.
While you wait, try and focus on other things like your wonderful grandkids or taking walks and just generally being kind to yourself.
We're here for you. You WILL get through this.
Take Care.
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We have all experienced the roller coaster of emotions, especially when 1st diagnosed. Once I met with my doctors and had a plan I felt so much better. For me it was very helpful to know what my treatment plan was and what the next several months would look like.
Hang in there and try to keep busy and do things you enjoy over the next couple weeks until your appt.
This board is a great source of information and support. I found the answers to questions I had and realistic expectations of what to expect from people who have been through it.0
