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  • elainetherese
    elainetherese Member Posts: 1,635

    Congrats, boxofrockstar! What a beautiful baby, and I've always liked the name "Zachary"! Looks so healthy, too. 

  • Blownaway
    Blownaway Member Posts: 662

    JennKay - Its been over six weeks since my last TCH infusion and just this week the nails of my two ring fingers (each hand) started hurting< overnight but several days apart, as though I had smashed them with a hammer. If you recall, I'm the one who had such bad foot syndrome.  Luckily, the feet are well, but very sensitive, I have to be careful to wear comfortable flats all the time.

  • Blownaway
    Blownaway Member Posts: 662

    boxofrockst - Wow! he's got more hair than most of us!!!! What a strong, healthy baby boy! I'll bet you are so proud!

  • puffin2014
    puffin2014 Member Posts: 979

    boxofrockstar: Congrats on having a beautiful healthy baby, and yes, he definitely has more hair than I do!

  • dancingdiva
    dancingdiva Member Posts: 317

    boxofrocks,congratulations!!!!!! Welcome Zachary to our world!!!!! He is just gorgeous...I miss babies.

    8lbs!! Chemo did not stop this guy from growing! 

  • dancingdiva
    dancingdiva Member Posts: 317

    AJ, are u having expanders put it at time of BMX?

  • slappy-squirrel
    slappy-squirrel Member Posts: 199

    beautiful baby! Congratulations! 

    Shirley

  • slappy-squirrel
    slappy-squirrel Member Posts: 199

    Had my pit tit ectomy today. (Stole the term pit tits from Mags). Sore, but not too bad. I'm hoping after I heal that I will be truly flat. I had enough skin and fat left under  my arms after my double mastectomy to make a new set. Shirley

  • elainetherese
    elainetherese Member Posts: 1,635

    Slappy-Squirrel -- hope your recovery goes well -- I'm wearing your hat right now!

  • nancy2581
    nancy2581 Member Posts: 408

    Shirley glad that is over for you.  Hope recovery goes smoothly and quickly.

    Nancy

  • CoyoteNV
    CoyoteNV Member Posts: 286
    ...rockstar- I'm so glad all went well with Zachary's birth. It's a special time for all of us who have been on this trip with you. Congratulations!
  • CoyoteNV
    CoyoteNV Member Posts: 286
    Lots going on again. Most all of it is pretty much moving forward in the process. The neuropathy isn't so great, however. I have to say that I felt terrible today. Big N and Big D at the same time. Odd how laying still on the cool tile floor actually helps.
    Whine. Fortunately, this sort of se isn't life threatening, just miserable.
  • CoyoteNV
    CoyoteNV Member Posts: 286
    Lots going on again. Most all of it is pretty much moving forward in the process. The neuropathy isn't so great, however. I have to say that I felt terrible today. Big N and Big D at the same time. Odd how laying still on the cool tile floor actually helps.
    Whine. Fortunately, this sort of se isn't life threatening, just miserable.
  • Congratulations Boxofrockstar! Zachary is a cutie!  So glad you are feeling better and he is here and healthy.  

    Shirley I hope you have a speedy recovery.  I know what you mean about extra skin!  Just take it easy and don't try to do too much too soon.  

  • knmtwins
    knmtwins Member Posts: 438

    OK - extra skin - does everyone get this???  I remember my mother being very upset with her surgeon about a pucker of skin he left under her armpit.  She said her hand sewing skills were better than his.  He said, you will appreciate it in the years to come, as it will become incorporated and you won't have pulling that women who don't have it get.  Well, it did go away in the years to come.  She was a radical Mx with no reconstruction, as it was the 70's.

  • knmtwins
    knmtwins Member Posts: 438

    Who had BMx (or even Mx) prior to chemo and what do those of us having them in December need to do to prepare?  A friend who is a PT responded to my email with, "I'd likely focus on shoulder girdle and core strengthening and stretching pecs. Planks and pushups if done with good form are a quick easy way to work on shoulder girdle and core (as moms multitasking is usually best and most time efficient). You may be able to google pectoralis stretch....as long as you don't have shoulder instability i would probably recommend clasping your hands behind your head with elbows out to the side and either have Mike gently apply overpressure to your arms or you can actively bring elbows back (easier to demonstrate in person than describe)" 

    So that to prep body (like with my fatigue I'll be able to do anything ... who knows)  

    Now what secrets did you guys have BESIDES a recliner, we don't have one...  I've heard pillow for under arm that has SNB, pillow for seat belt, slippery pj bottoms to get out of bed easier, NON childproof tops for all meds...  what else???

  • RainDew
    RainDew Member Posts: 228

    congrats boxofrockstar!!

    He is gorgeous. So happy for you guys 

    :-))))

  • puffin2014
    puffin2014 Member Posts: 979

    Coyote: hope you're feeling better soon. {{hugs}}

  • elainetherese
    elainetherese Member Posts: 1,635

    Coyote -- whine away! Chemo's over for you, and this is just its last gasp. Hope you feel better soon! 

    Hope Mags is OK, and Chaos Rains is still hanging in there.

  • verukany
    verukany Member Posts: 55

    knmtwins- i don't have a recliner either, but DH went out and got me a foam wedge pillow from a surgical supply store and it made a huge difference for me with sleeping and resting and even just getting out of bed.  The slippery pj bottoms  worked against me- i had to fight to stay upright and not slide out of bed so I gave those up pretty quickly.

  • boxofrockstar
    boxofrockstar Member Posts: 54

    Thanks so much, everyone! He's pretty great Smile And yeah, he and I are pretty much rocking the same hairdo, except his feels much nicer. 

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    I really appreciate all the support I've received here throughout this whole crazy ordeal. Hope everyone is feeling well, if not right now, then very soon!

  • CoyoteNV
    CoyoteNV Member Posts: 286


    Just a quick note about the reclining thing. We put a wedge under the head of the mattress on top of the box spring. I used a body pillow under my knees. I was dealing with a BMX, expanders, and gallbladder surgery. It worked well. Sometimes I used even more pillows tucked here and there.   Flat doesn't work.

  • ladyb1234
    ladyb1234 Member Posts: 1,239

    Did anyone experience tingling in feet with AC. I finished my last AC almost 2.5 weeks ago but seems like my feet are starting to tingle? Not sure what to do. I will reach out to my MO on Monday, but I am surprised it has started so late? Concerned as I start Taxol next week for 12 weeks.

  • boxofrockstar
    boxofrockstar Member Posts: 54

    I have had it in my feet, and now, one month out, I'm having it in my face!

  • elainetherese
    elainetherese Member Posts: 1,635

    I did AC, but have no tingling. I do have achiness in my bones, but that's a common SE of Taxol (only six more infusions to go!).

    Meanwhile, my hair seems to be getting sparser, and my eyebrows are almost gone (though I pencil them in). I had heard that your hair could begin growing back during Taxol, but I'm also getting Perjeta. I'm wondering if the Perjeta is just exacerbating my hairlessness. Any Taxol ladies start to see hair growth?

  • RainDew
    RainDew Member Posts: 228

    hi Elaine Therese, 

    I can't exactly answer your q, but I am now 4 weeks after my last TC, and all my eyebrows have fallen out SINCE!

    Eyelashes too... Made it thru chemo with half, now they've disappeared. I am wondering how long it takes them to come back? I miss them!!

  • kebab
    kebab Member Posts: 98

    I have had hair growth (though sparse) while I've been on Taxol. It's not growing back on my legs (or any of the other areas I last shaved back in July!), but it's about a quarter inch long on the top of my head. My kids tease me that if it keeps growing just on the top of my head, I'll be able to stop wearing scarves and just go around with a fabulous mohawk 'do. :)  Eyelashes and eyebrows hung in for a while but they're almost completely gone now.

  • elainetherese
    elainetherese Member Posts: 1,635

    kebab -- wow! a quarter of an inch! You're way ahead of me. Yeah, my eyelashes are gone, too. I wear fakes on the days I teach -- I have a problem making the two sides match, but I don't think that people really notice because I wear glasses. My sons with autism are still kind-of confused by my wig/cancer hats/baldness, but there's no way to explain cancer to kids who are that non-verbal. My daughter was assigned "The Fault in Our Stars" in her English class. She can't believe she has to read cancer lit while her mom is sick. "My life is depressing enough," she whines.

    BTW, I hope you're doing well enough to continue your treatment; if I remember correctly, you've had a few delays along the way.

  • nancy2581
    nancy2581 Member Posts: 408

    Elaine I watched that movie recently.  It was good.  At first I wasn't sure I wanted to watch a movie about cancer but is more focused on two people falling in love.  It is sad in the end but I liked it.  Hopefully your daughter will be ok with it.

    Oh and I barely have any eyebrows or eyelashes now.  Boo

  • kebab
    kebab Member Posts: 98

    Thanks Elaine. It looks like I'm well enough to begin cycle 5 this week after a week's delay. They tell me that after the 4th cycle on this protocol it takes longer and longer to get back to normal. We'll see how much longer I can manage it.

    I had to read the book this fall. My daughter picked it up from the library and read it, so I felt I needed to read it too. I sobbed through most of it, just thinking about how she must have felt reading it. It opened up the door to lots of good conversations for us though, so even though it was difficult, it was a good thing. I'm not sure I could watch the movie though. Too close to home for me.

    As for hair growth/eyebrows/eyelashes, I know everyone is different but I can tell you that when I did ACT chemo, I finished in September and went to a Christmas party in December hat-free (because I had enough hair grown back) AND wearing mascara for the first time. I was so excited! It was the highlight of my evening... I remember it vividly.  :)  So, that was about 2-1/2 months post finishing Taxol for me.