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  • Lilah
    Lilah Posts: 2,631
    edited April 2010

    Glad you're feeling better KristenPink.

  • FACECRAFTER
    FACECRAFTER Posts: 433
    edited April 2010

    Here is how I feel about radiated skin.

    It depends on the amount of damage the radiation has done and the amount of stretching you want the skin to do AFTERWARD.. Also if you have had a full mastectomy (which I did).
    If there is damage internally, to the muscle, and the scar tissue, and the surgeon has to cut out everything but the skin,,,  the skin will not hold the implant by itself if it is a large (500 or more), implant.  The pressure of the implant pushing on the skin is too much. 

    I think using an alloderm sling, would not have helped, the skin was too compromised and even though it looked fine,  It was not.

    Now, if you are fully expanded first, then you have a better chance, especially with alloderm or another fake skin product.  In my case, although the skin LOOKED  fine, it started getting blisters and weeping.  There was no way I was going to worry about it even if it did heal in the end and turn out fine..

    It could fail months down the road..

    I really did not want a LatDorsi flap.  I didn't want any other part of my body cut to make my breasts.  In hindsight, I should have told the doc, if he has to cut out that much 'stuff' from the pocket, to go ahead and do the LD flap...So I'll get it done on Friday, two and a half weeks later.  I would have preferred one step...

    Unfortunately, it is not a lesson I'll use the future...but perhaps those of you with radiated skin, who had a full mastectomy, who are not expanded fully ahead of time, can at least give the doc the 'out' during surgery, if he feels it is necessary....that is how I feel about it.  It is not the end of the world if you have to go back, but if you can avoid it, why not?

    JUDY

  • hood1980
    hood1980 Posts: 168
    edited April 2010

    I was able to post some pictures on Timtams site of my recent exchange from anatomical saline implants to round silicone. 

  • Alicia
    Alicia Posts: 17
    edited April 2010

    I never had problems with my exchange or implants until I had surgery post radiation (nipple recon). The infection that developed has been impossible to get rid of. I ended up having two surgeries to replace the implant and will probably lose it permanently. I think if you have exchange surgery with an implant and develop an infection, you can't have the lat flap right away. You have to remove the implant, cure the infection and wait for it to heal. So you could be in for more than just one extra surgery if it doesn't work out. I may be missing something, so maybe someone else wants to add to this. Also, I admit with the problems I've had with recon, I'm totally risk averse. 

  • Estepp
    Estepp Posts: 2,966
    edited April 2010

    Yes,, Alicia you are right.. when you add nipple reconstruction to radiated skin after exchange.. you are adding a HUGE risk.

    JUDY... I was SO SO hoping you were going to talk about this. Ladies... JUDY is right on and I did not want to put words into her mouth..knowing/hoping she would speak about this, as it is SO fresh for her.

    I will continue to study and investigate about Reconstruction and Radiation. This I vow. I will only post the most resent studies.

    Love,

    Laura

    Kiitycat( not using your name :) vegas girl)...

    I pray for your surgery and the END of your journey! You DO NOT have to gain weight. After Chemo shut my ovaries down, down, down... I did gain about 10 pds ( I was not able to work out during chemo.. just did not work for me)... but If you can get ONE HOUR a day of cardio when you recover... YOU ARE GONNA look like the hot momma I saw in vegas...

    SWEET SWEET LILAH.. whom I look forward to meeting in OCT..... You are not nutty right now any more than the rest of us. Those of us dealing with all this stuff... you had chemo too.. GIRL... you had it hard and NOW they are changing the surgery routine. This is hard... hard... hard...

    I had chemo... surgery... rads.... surgery.... more surgery.... BLECK... you are the same... ( minus rads)... the more we do to fight this Blasted  disease.. the harder it is..

    WE ALL HURT and are nuts a lot...

    there are ladies here to make a choice to have mast... WITHOUT even having cancer.. YET... but they know they probably will get it.. can you imagine?? WOW...

    This is an amazing crazy painful... JOURNEY and we share it together.. THANK GOD!

    Love you all!

  • Kristinka
    Kristinka Posts: 223
    edited April 2010

    Lilah, I was even nuttier than you.  I even asked the PS for an earlier date for the exchange, but when he agreedand his assistant called me with the new date I started freaking out.  I was very nervous during the weeks leading up to the exchange, so I think your reaction is pretty normal.  Like Julie, I'm very happy for you - you are one week closer to being healed.

    Kristen, so glad you are feeling better!

    Judy, best wishes on Friday...

  • Hannahbearsmom
    Hannahbearsmom Posts: 266
    edited April 2010

    Lilah:  Only four more weeks to Yippee Squishy! It really can be nerve-wracking but you will come through this--just think, no more TESmile!!!

    Kittycat:   I think it's so individual as to your body's response to the hyster/ooph and weight gain--just like with chemo and with menopause. It was pretty presumptive and ridiculous to imply that you would automatically gain weight. As Julie said, a lot of women over 50 have had hyster/ooph and they are not all overweight! Now that you have decided on a date I think you will be at peace with your decision. Are you having it done laparoscopically?

    TCK  

  • AStorm
    AStorm Posts: 1,393
    edited April 2010

    I was really nervous about the exchange even though I hated the TEs and pressed to schedule the procedure.Before the exchange, I felt like anything was possible but once I had a date, I realized that whatever happened I would be living with the results for a long time. And then my PS made a comment about the implants being a lot like the TEs and I FREAKED! Thankfully many of my bc sisters talked me down from that ledge...  and now I have nice squishy foobs even if they are rippled, a little crunchy and assymetrical they are way better than the TEs.

  • Annabella58
    Annabella58 Posts: 916
    edited April 2010

    Hello dears, just checkin in to say hi!

    If it helps anyone, I had a lat flap, prev. radiated skin from a lumpectomy 10 years ago,  and I had such issues with the skin healing.  I had necrosis set it, and my wonderful PS stuck a patch he took from my C section (and neatened up that scar  too :) ) and now you can hardly tell a thing.

    I will be getting a nipple on Barbie at some point, so I'll be very interested to hear what Laura find out...my PS isn't concerned in the slightest.  But as I understand it, you really want to wait quite awhile before you attempt to do it.  I have been done for 2 1/2 years now, so need to haul the other gal up and then attempt a match. 

    Hi Laura!  Love your avatar!  Mine is my hubby witht our cat who has one sick old crush on him:)

    love you all ladies

    annie

  • Annabella58
    Annabella58 Posts: 916
    edited April 2010

    oh and Kittycat:  I've lost weight since the hyst/ooph and am in way better shape than before :)

    If I eat crap, or have drinks, I will put on weight, but that's middle age :0!!  I am on Arimidex also.

    you'll be just fine.  I don't think it's a given at all, other than perhaps some ladies have given up on weight control. :).  some gain, some don't, but in general, at 54, it's been a big non issue for me.

    Take care xoxo

  • kittycat
    kittycat Posts: 1,155
    edited April 2010

    THANKS EVERYONE FOR THE KIND WORDS!!!!  I pretty much watch what I eat, but I'm a snacker.  I'll just cut down on that.  I've already started walking and eating better.  I'm going to try an lose 5-10 lbs before I have the surgery.  I'm drinking a LOT of water!  I might be better off because I'll be more self concious! 

    I love the punching in the stomach comment Jenni.  The girl at work is nice, but doesn't have a filter between her head and her mouth! LOL!!! 

    For those of you who have had a OOPH, what did you take to help with the surgical menopause side effects?  My gyn onco mentioned that he was going to have me on a drug trial to prevent osteoporosis.  Someone mentioned some herbal supplements.  I'm not one to take drugs, but will if I need to!  :)

  • ronqt1
    ronqt1 Posts: 565
    edited April 2010

    MYKIDSMOM: Good morning. I don't know if you saw my request to please add me to July, 2010 list for fat grafting and nips.

    Thank you so much.

    Have a great day.

  • Texas357
    Texas357 Posts: 332
    edited April 2010

    Good luck tomorrow Judy, and thanks for the comments.

  • ronqt1
    ronqt1 Posts: 565
    edited April 2010

    Good morning again. Any Northern NJ people on this site walking in the Susan G. Komen Walk Race For the Cure 0n April 25 in Branchbrook Park, Bloomfield/Newark, NJ. I will be there and hope to meet some fellow Breastcancer.org gals.

    Love to all.

  • cleo100
    cleo100 Posts: 75
    edited April 2010

    KristinPink, hi. I'm new to this post as i am about ready to consider the exchange. I noticed you are from syracuse and I live quite close to you. Would you tell me who did your surgery and who your plastic surgeon is? Thanks!  Cleo

  • Adnerb
    Adnerb Posts: 727
    edited April 2010

    Ronna:  I think it's better if you pm Mykidsmom about your exchange date.  I'm happy for you that you already have one!

    Brenda 

  • Lilah
    Lilah Posts: 2,631
    edited April 2010

    Thanks Laura, Kristen and TCK -- always reassuring I'm not the only one with irrational feelings!  I feel better today :)  I am glad it's going to be a week earlier because the other alternative (since she is no longer able to do surgery on the 18th for some unspecified reason) was end of June and THAT would have just caused me to lose my mind (with 6 more weeks of waiting).

    All in all, I have managed to totally reschedule my life (of course I had scheduled a bunch of stuff the week before surgery)... and now am back to a more moderate panic (the irrational OMG what if I hate it, what if she does a bad job even though so far she's done a splendid job blues :)

  • cs7777
    cs7777 Posts: 303
    edited April 2010

    Regarding the discussion on "late" infections, like after simple nipple procedures, esp on radiated skin:  I wanted to comment that I've seen a fair amount of info about how dental health & hygeine, and lack thereof, can be a factor in systemic diseases and infections in other parts of the body.  Even the act of brushing your teeth (even if your mouth is reasonably healthy) can apparently release enough oral bacteria into the bloodstream that, if your immune system doesn't clear it quickly, can take up residence elsewhere, e.g., cause an infection.  Not surprisingly, bacterial infections start most easily in existing wounds and poorly vascularized tissues, both of which reconstruction patients, esp ones w/irradiated skin, have in abundance.  So the theory would go that if you had actual infections in your mouth - periodontal disease, inflamed gums, absesses - those could raise your risk of infections elsewhere significantly.  Along these lines, I'm aware of 2 BC/reconstr pts whose chronic infections ceased after taking care of needed dental work.  Just anecdotes, but still.  Anyway, I put this out there for anyone interested to consider for yourself, in case it resonates with you. For interested folks, here are some references:

    an interesting article from 2000 in a well-respected medical journal that summarizes known oral-systemic infection connections:  http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC88948/

    data on links between periodontal disease and heart disease (not proven causal, but proven statistically associated):  http://www.perio.org/consumer/mbc.heart.htm 

    As a caution, I'll note that these ideas do not appear to be well accepted in medical practice despite some good data, so if you ask your docs about the connection of your dental issues to your BC reconstr infections be prepared to be dismissed or even laughed at.  It may be another area like nutrition that you may have to go after on your own if you think it applies to you.

    CS

  • KristenPink
    KristenPink Posts: 79
    edited April 2010

    Cleo:  I will private message you.

    Kristen

  • val61
    val61 Posts: 969
    edited April 2010

    Hey, ladies!  Okay.....just opened my mail, which included my packet for the Komen Race next weekend.  When I saw my pink "survivor" shirt and bib, I just started crying........still going to do it, but I guess I'll definitely need some waterproof mascara.....

    Judy - Hugs and prayers for you tomorrow, sweetie!!

    Lilah - Thanks for the sweet words about my dh....he's a keeper.....at least most days!  And you are COMPLETELY normal to be freaking out about the date change - I'd be doing the same thing.  I was a mess before that surgery....maybe not quite so much as before the bmx, but a mess nevertheless....wish I owned stock in TUMS as many as I popped.  In fact, today when I realized that my next - AND HOPEFULLY THE LAST - surgery is in only 4 weeks, I started having those same "tummy pains".....yuck.....but I'm excited that we'll be "surgery sisters" that week! 

    KristinP - Yippee for no more cough!!  

    Welcome, ACole, from a fellow Texan! I can't add anything about the rads issue, but you've received advice from some real experts already.  I can, however, speak to the "foreign feeling" you're worried about with the implants.  I'm very active, too (pilates, teach aerobics) and was a sub-AA cup before bc - now a DD.  I will admit it did take a bit to get used to accommodating the implants when working out, and I truly did feel like I wasn't "myself" for a few months, but now they really feel "normal" to me.  A lot will depend on how your skin responds, too.  Good luck!

  • Katey
    Katey Posts: 496
    edited April 2010

    CS, good info.  I have always been told to take amoxicillin before dental cleanings because of the implant!  The protocol is to use what the American Heart Association suggests (which has changed over the years).  I had asked my new PS, and he said only if it's pretty serious dental work. The hygenist told me cleaning is the worst for bacteria so definitely premedicate.

    Val, Ronna and everyone else doing the Komen Race!  Good for you!  Val! It is emotional, bring tissues (but you don't need to stuff them in your bra;) I did one of the very first ones in NYC!  I didn't know anyone else my age with BC so was convinced I could win the race in my age group!  LOL, 5k is a long run! and no I didn't win. The next few years I walked! Anyone running?

    Pbebow  and Judy - tomorrow is your day, the best results to you.

    Jenweg -  good thoughts for you tomorrow.  Hope the cold has gone.  Keep in touch with us!

     Hello to everyone else!Smile

  • my560sel
    my560sel Posts: 399
    edited April 2010

    Judy: Sorry to hear that you're going to have to have another surgery. I guess it's what's best in the end for you - fewer issues down the road. I'm praying for you and that your PS does a fabulous job so you can finally put this step behind you. Sending white light and prayers your way on Friday...

    Kittycat; I had a hysterectomy at age 40 - actually on my birthday, what a gift that was! I didn't gain any weight afterwards and I think your co-worker should have just said nothing rather than get you worried. Everybody is different and if you're watching what you eat and doing a bit of exercise everything should remain the same. Best of luck with your surgery,

    Hoping for great results to all those having surgery tomorrow.

    Terri

  • ronqt1
    ronqt1 Posts: 565
    edited April 2010

    Val61 -  I am walking the 25th. I just received notice about receiving shirt and bib today.

    Good luck to you.

    I raised almost $1,000.00 for this lousy disease.

    Hugs,

  • Psalm121
    Psalm121 Posts: 179
    edited April 2010

    Good Evening EC Ladies!

    May I join in and share with you, please? Today is 7 months since my right breast mastectomy and I celebrated by getting my EXCHANGE surgery!!  And I say YEEEEEE  HAAAAAAW (HillBilly STYLE, y'all!!!!)

    You are a lovely group of ladies and I had quite a bit of catching up to do (as a lurker!) before posting.....Wishing you the best Judy and KittyCat and anyone else with upcoming surgeries and consultations, etc.

    I had nipple-sparing, I've only peeked from the top of my surg-bra down, so far....but the feel of it (very light touch, yes!) is WONDERFUL!   Natrelle style 68 MP, Saline 600 ccs....may be doing lift on the opposite breast a couple months down the road after implant settles and will hopefully have a better opportunity for symmetrical outcome that way!

    Ladies, thank you so much for your forthright teaching and guidance....given very freely and absorbed greedily by all of us newbies!!  My DH will be home soon & saying "Have you been on that computer the whole time we've been gone?" Ha!!  Then come bedtime he'll rub my back or my feet or my head and say "You know what this is, don't you....FOREPLAY!"  Gotta love these husbands!

  • cnemeth
    cnemeth Posts: 136
    edited April 2010

    Everytime I miss a few days and have to catch up and see all of the new names I am deeply saddened by the number of women that have to deal with BC. 

    You are all AMAZING women and so incredibly strong and resilient!!!!!  I cannot wait to meet all of you that are going to Vegas as it feels like we have been friends for years.

    Peg ~ Was just wondering about you this morning.  We have to get together again.  These nipples are amazing and it isn't like I can just share them with anyone . . . . . Ha!

    Juliempw ~ Got a new bandaging technique at the PS on Tuesday and I really like it.  Not too bulky and protects your clothes from the Neosporin.  Barely shows through my clothes.  Will take some pictures tonight and post them tomorrow.

    Thinking of all of your with upcoming surgeries and the associated anxiety/fear/stress, etc.  For me it is like flying, I am fine until the plane starts to taxi and then I am wanting to call everyone I know to remind them how much I love them.  Fine with the surgery until the anesthesiologist heads toward my IV.

    My prayers are with you all every day!!!!!  Colleen

  • Estepp
    Estepp Posts: 2,966
    edited April 2010

    JUDY... I am praying for you to have LITTLE TO NO PAIN.... and that this is it for you sweet friend. I am still mourning for you ( you are ok with this... and I am still pissed that you have to do this) There needs to be better education done for women and rads and implant.. so we too, can have the implants only IF we choose this. I KNOW alloderm has saved many implant only girls if done in the right order... BUT... our skin. that is the issue. grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

    Anyway Judy, my heart is with you tomorrow. Know this.

    ANNIE... little stinker... how ya been? :) I am just fine lady. FYI... nips and rads skin... risky. Nips and rads girl who had flap surgery.. NO BIG DEAL. The issue lies only with ladies who had rads and implants ONLY. If you had a flap done... nips of any kind should do just fine. :) It is the rads skin that can give fits... not flap skin. Hoping you get to matching ones SOON... VAVAVOOM!

    Colleen.. it always makes me sad to see so many new sisters here...:( Actually... this is 50% the reason I stay on BCO even though I am finished with my 2 yr long treatments.... for them)

    Ladies.... Have a great weekend!

  • bcincolorado
    bcincolorado Posts: 4,831
    edited April 2010

    Katey:  Thanks for the input about dental work!  I would never had thought about taking antibiotics first! You learn something new every day!

    I had my PS "eval" today to decide on implant and schedule exchange.  I was glad that I am getting the Allergan "gummy" implant and he doesn't think my other side will look too bad if we don't do a "lift" on it.  That made me happy. 

    Then we scheduled for June 21st and I got into work and realized it is my boss' birthday and she won't be in and I have to be!  Of course when I called to re-schedule the doc and nurse were in surgery and will have to call me back tomorrow. 

    My boss thinks I should schedule for a Friday if I possibly can so I can have the weekend to recover and not off work more than 1 day!  How long were you off for those of you who work in an office?

  • Estepp
    Estepp Posts: 2,966
    edited April 2010

    Yes.. Dental work.

    I have been to the dentist twice since implants and both times my dentist gave me anti-biotics first. ACTUALLY, he does this for ALL his implant ladies... BC or Augmented.

  • bcincolorado
    bcincolorado Posts: 4,831
    edited April 2010

    Estepp:  I have been so bad and cancelled my last cleaning because of all the appointments with bc diagnosis and surgery and everything.  The thought of sitting in the chair was too much to deal with everyone else poking me and prodding me and testing me and drawing on me.  I am on extra-cleaning schedule anyway because of my "thick saliva" that my hygenist says I have and it causes more mouth issues.  For me stress always rears itself in my mouth.  When my husband was so extremely ill before his transplant I developed ANUG (trench-mouth!) even though I brushed constantly and floss regularly!  Guess when life settles down I need to get that scheduled again.

  • Psalm121
    Psalm121 Posts: 179
    edited April 2010

    bcincolorado:

    You reminded me that I meant to thank the smart lady who advised antibiotics prior to exchange....thanks to you dear lady, I got that covered today!  I also have mitral valve prolapse and should have already thought of it but hadn't and your advice was so well-timed!  My dentist always calls in antibiotic pre-meds for me as well.  Don't remember who posted the advice but thank you, thank you!

    bc----have you tried Biotene mouthwash? It's alcohol-free & taste helps with chemo-mouth issues so tolerating food is therefore easier.  I had noticed thick saliva, too...happy to say it has resolved now that I'm 3 months post-chemo.  Hope this helps....you have helped me on another thread and I do appreciate you so much!