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  • haltsaluteatx
    haltsaluteatx Posts: 25
    edited September 2011

    June, waiting is torture huh? How about calling OB/GYN's office first thing in am and ask if there are any cancellations for the day. Perhaps she/he would call you tomorrow and discuss the results on the phone.  Good you keep your sense of humor regarding sex. Hope you are feeling better. 

  • Sherryc
    Sherryc Posts: 4,503
    edited September 2011

    June (((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

    claire check out drugs.com  you can put in tamox and then it will show you all the drugs that interact.  That way you can check out the allergy drugs you think you might want to take.

  • survivor11
    survivor11 Posts: 430
    edited September 2011

    Hey my Tammi ladies. Been away awhile, getting ready for exchange/port removal/ovary removal on Oct 3rd.

    Have read your posts and have a few things to chime in.

    First, poor June WTH. Don't believe them when they say that small cysts can't cause pain, I am an OR nurse and have brought women back to have exploratory laparoscopy because of abdominal pain and we have found small cysts we removed with the surgeon saying that this probably wasn't the cause of her pain, just to return later and say patient feels much better now. Could you possibly have endometriosis, that's another big cause of abdominal pain, Unfortuantly the only way to see it is to do a laparoscopy. Have they thought of doing an abdominal CT scan? God, girl hope your feeling much better really soon.

    Not sure who posted about Teva Tammy. I to get my Tammy from Teva I also ran the pharmacy at my old place of employment. FDS regulated that a medication have the exact same properties no matter the manufacturer, it shouldn't make any difference in SE if the drug came from Teva or not, hope that helps.

    Sex, this is were I am soooooooo lucky with Tammy. My sex drive has actually increased throughout this BC jouney and Tammy has done nouthing to my labideo. Could also have to do with the fact that my BF is super sexy.

    I hear ya about sinus trouble and allergies-time of year.

    Glad to hear from all of you. Want in on any drinking tonight. It's the weekend and super sexy BF is in Texas for a meeting this weekend-but watch out Sun night, Lol.

  • Sherryc
    Sherryc Posts: 4,503
    edited November 2013


    Dawn you crack me up. I thought I was the only one that has had an increase sex drive with tammy. So now I know I am not alone and DH is loving the heck out of it. Want's to know if I can stay on it forever.

  • survivor11
    survivor11 Posts: 430
    edited September 2011

    Heck yeah. My BF is like "didn't you say this my decrease your drive or something". I think I may be wearing him out. Tell him all the time that he's getting old when he can't keep up with a post-chemo girl, LOL.

  • jo1955
    jo1955 Posts: 7,545
    edited September 2011

    You ladies talking about your increased sex drive just crack me up.  I don't know where mine went to.  Seems when my hormone replacement pills were taken away my sex drive went with it.

  • tinkertude
    tinkertude Posts: 1,998
    edited September 2011

    Jo I think yours and mine are hiding out on some dessert island... Best kept secret!!! lol

  • jo1955
    jo1955 Posts: 7,545
    edited September 2011

    Tink - As far as I am concerned, it can stay on the deserted island.  LOL!

  • Sherryc
    Sherryc Posts: 4,503
    edited September 2011

    The increased sex drive is about the only good thing that has happened out of this bc crap we have to deal with.  DH is like couldn't this have been this way 10 years ago.  lol oh well there are nights I think he wants to run from me. Never thought that would happen. hehe

  • EmmaC
    EmmaC Posts: 125
    edited September 2011

    Hello Ladies!

    I started taking tamoxifen 2 weeks ago, my legs hurt so bad. Does advil help?

  • Chili
    Chili Posts: 34
    edited September 2011

    June, hope you get some relief from the pain really soon!!  i used to get cysts occasionally, but not quite as bad as what you are describing, ouch!    

    I also have recurrent issues with kidney stones, more and more in the past 6 years.. and have passed more than my fair share of stones, thankfully none large enough to get stuck, but still, it smarts!!!   I'm not convinced the pain that lasts for a month or more is necessarily all stone related.   However,  ever since she saw the kidney stones on the ultrasound , my family doc has dismissed all my complaints of pain on that side, as oh, well, you have kidney stones, of course you'll have pain.  She refuses to give me a referral to a urologist,  saying  that as it's just 1 cm big, ( at last check), they would not do anything.  If i'm in more pain than i can handle, go to emerg. gee thanks.    I don't bother bringing it up with her anymore.

     Anyway, I was wondering, did you see a urologist, or have you just been dealing with your family doctor?  When your having stone issues, does it last for a few days or weeks?  I wonder sometimes if it's back pain or kidney pain, or something else.    

    I would really like a second opinion  to make sure that is all that's going on and perhaps some advice on how to prevent further stones.. i already drink a ton of water.   Been in varying degrees of pain for the past 3 - 4 weeks,  and i'm thinking about asking my MO if she might give me a referral, not sure if she will, but i can ask,  right?   I'm wondering if part of this pain in lower right quadrent (around ovaries i guess) is cysts or something tammi related ,  it seemed to be there before the latest bout of stone pain.,, sometimes not so much, sometimes more

    . I see my MO on Tues and i'm trying to figure out how to best present my case.  

     sorry, this is not necessairly tammi related, but  really would like to know what your kidney stone pain is like, maybe if it's similar to mine. that will help convince me that's all it is.. (  when i feel it rip down the side quickly, it's obvious,  other times, not so sure..  

  • Chili
    Chili Posts: 34
    edited September 2011

    oops, i must have still been a  page behind when  i wrote my post, i guess you do have urologist... so that question is already answered..

     sorry you are getting the run around june! that sucks!  hope they figure it out soon and give you some relief!!

  • Sherryc
    Sherryc Posts: 4,503
    edited September 2011

    JUne and Chili--Panmars from the other tamox thread had an ooph recently because tammi was causing her ovaries to be overproductive cause lots of cyst.  You might want to find that thread or search for her.

  • tinkertude
    tinkertude Posts: 1,998
    edited September 2011

    Ok ladies i really need to vent.. I know  i posted on dumbest things site too but you ladies are my pals and I have to vent here too

    .. My DD best friend is a sweet girl ( they are 16) her mother I am finding out is NUTS.. Apparently she think I am faking have BC for pity money and so my DD will get good grades seriously???????? First off I dont need pity I am strong and will push forward 2nd Money?????? really because I would glad love someone to come and pay my deductables and such. As a matter of fact there was a fundraiser at the kids school in March for 3 famalies stricken with cancer, I DID NOT put our name in to receive but rather was in a position at the time to donate so we did. As far as the grades ugh my DD does just fine on her own her teachers dont know me or our situation I am just blown away that someone would actualy think that of another person. I kow I need to considere the source, but it is infuriating to me that people can be so unkind. I almost want to lift my short and say wanna see the scars but wouldnt give herthe time of day at this point

    Thanks for listening to me vent 

  • bcisnofun
    bcisnofun Posts: 117
    edited September 2011

    tinkertude, she is a crazy person!  I'd stay far away from her and my guess is that anyone who listens to her realizes she's crazy. 

    june - any chance it could be interstitial cystitis?  I think that feels like a UTI, but isn't. 

    jealous of all you increased sex drive girls.  not feeling overly sexy these days.  Bald and numb boobs will do that to you!  You go girls!

  • survivor11
    survivor11 Posts: 430
    edited September 2011

    tinkertude-were you apart of the bonfire not too long back that we were throwing things into. Your crazya_s women could act as the igniter for a new one or you know what? I think we probably all need someone to punch in the face-not that I'm actually talking violence, just figuratively, so here goes-PUNCH PUNCH PUNCH CRAZY A_S. Cool, feels better. Seriously I know it has to be making you madashell, but take this women for what you is-a nut job.

    bcisnofun-personally my increased sex drive probably has to do with the fact that I'm in love (real adult in love) for the first time in my life and if I didn't mention it, he's super sexy and makes me feel the same, foobs, no hair, chemo and all. Apparantly Tammi isn't nearly as strong as love, neither is BC, but we all knew that.

  • jo1955
    jo1955 Posts: 7,545
    edited September 2011

    Tink - Seriously?  That woman is absolutely crazy.  She is one of those that just does not get it and never will until it is unfortunately her turn.  I would not wish this disease on anyone but.......

    You need to go to the bonfire with me so I can help you throw her in.  I noticed the flames are getting kinda low and could use some fuel.

    My advice - stay away from her as much as you can. 

  • Sandeeonherown
    Sandeeonherown Posts: 1,781
    edited September 2011

    This is a fall of firsts..just quit my job ...kind of spontaneously yesterday....was going in for a corporate meeting....had a bad feeling about it as my boss was hedging and would not tell me what we were going to discuss and I thought" you know what....this is a stress I DO NOT need in my life"....if I am going in for a meeting, I deserve to know what we are going to meet about...you don't treat your principal staff like that...seriously....so I went in without any papers and said ; This is going to be a quick meeting. I have he goals and plans fo rthe year for my department but you need to know that I am no longer going to be running the department. I am done".....kind of feels liberating....scary too....so now to decide..buy a small house in the valley or not.....and which of the 5 AI's should I ask about on october 4th....god....

  • Sherryc
    Sherryc Posts: 4,503
    edited September 2011

    Tink my advice is stay away from her she is nuts.  I think she needs to go into Jo's bonfire.

    bcisnofun-as far as the sex drive. DH and I are getting ready to celebrate 24 years of marriage and he is still the sexy guy I married 24 years ago.  He has been my rock and think that has made him even more attractive than before. Guess I am still crazy inlove.

  • survivor11
    survivor11 Posts: 430
    edited September 2011

    Good for you Sandee. I can imagine how scared that must have made you for a moment or two, but I am a firm believer that will no risk there is no reward..."The saddest words known by mouth or by pen, are the words of ..What might have been." Good luck on your exciting new journey.

  • schipmom
    schipmom Posts: 100
    edited September 2011
    Tink:  Holy smokes!!  BC is not something that anyone would want to fake.  Goodness gracious..this woman is obviously off her rocker.  Try to stay away from her.  Some people...grrrrrrrrrr!!!!Yell
  • bcisnofun
    bcisnofun Posts: 117
    edited September 2011

    sandee - wow, big step.  Congratulations and good luck.

    dawn and sherry - I'm totally with you.  I love my husband more than anything.  I came out of a 10 year marriage with an alcoholic and swore I'd never get married again.  Of course fell in love 6 seconds later and we've been madly in love ever since.  12 years together, 10 years married so far.  One of my biggest fears of this disease is dying and him getting remarried - stupid, I know.  Sex life has always been good.  Lack of it has nothing to do with my feelings for him and everything to do with me feeling very unsexy being bald, numb, mippleless.  But all of these things will come to an end soon.  Well except the numb and I can live with that as long as I get to live with it :)

    tinkertude - how did you learn what she had said?  It really is insane!

  • June2268
    June2268 Posts: 926
    edited September 2011

    OMG Tink let me at her, I mean really let me get out my frustrations at the lack of,,,.....As Jo said and she said it so well.  i hope she never has to go through what we go through on a daily basis.  What a freakin jealous whacked out BITCH!!!!

    Okay, so again I am doing my own evaluations as no one else can seem to help or think it is serious enough to fit me in sooner than later.  I have an appt with a Nrse on Friday at my urologist office (the only one I could get and believe me I called everywhere)  I also have a OBGYN appt on Monday at 10:30.  Remember how in the beginning I thought it was yeast and treated myself and even got a pill.  Well yesterday I started another over the counter course as I was literally grabbing the toilet in pain when I urinated.  So I did a self eval and took a mirror and looked down there and inside the walls looked to me like cottage cheese.....If I am in this much pain due to a freakin  yeast and yeast only and not one person can take a look at me I am gonna scream.  So I sent hubby to the store and I did Monistat yesterday and another one last night and the edge is off.....Is all this pain a Yeast that will not go away with anything????

  • Paula66
    Paula66 Posts: 1,572
    edited September 2011

    Tink that woman is crazy.  Like you said, do you want me to lift my shirt up. To have your breasts removed isnt something that is elective. You just cant walk into the doctors office and say hey I dont like these go ahead and remove them and put different ones in.  Its not like you went and had a boob job.  You had cancer!   This is something that cant be faked.  Your daughter works hard for her grades and she deserves them. Sounds like she is jealous because the attention is not be focused on her.  Go throw her in the bonfire!

    Sandee I wish you the best.  It takes alot of courage to do what you did.  Good Luck!

  • June2268
    June2268 Posts: 926
    edited September 2011

    Sandee you are one strong strong girl to do what you did, I bet you feel GREAT and a little scared as well.  I think you should go ahead and buy that small house and please know we will all be there with you to help you celebrate and move in!!!

  • survivor11
    survivor11 Posts: 430
    edited September 2011

    bcisnofun-I know the I feel unsexy thing, but with my BF being soooooo supportive and as I mentioned super sexy, I realized that was just my feelings about myself and my feelings for him was way stronger, so I found some really sexy bras, kept them on and sex life waaaaay good.

    June-you could have a yeast infection with vaginitis. If so, you can cure the yeast without curing the vaginitis and then the vaginitis causes another yeast infection. OB/GYN should be able to tell you for sure.

  • Sherryc
    Sherryc Posts: 4,503
    edited September 2011

    Sandee good for you, you are so right that we do not need that kind of stress.  Good luck on the house decision and the AL decision

  • June2268
    June2268 Posts: 926
    edited September 2011

    Okay ladies today is a happy happy day for me.  Last nite I passed a stone that must have been stuck for 16 long  freakin days....I felt it pop out as I almost jumped off the toilet.  I have had so many  stones as I said before as I have a Kidney disease that produces them.  But this crotch pain that I had for a LONG 16 days was just as bad as being keeled over in a fetal position for 2 long days which I haven't had in 6 years.  I pass them regularly like every 2-3 months and for the most part I do experience some pain, but heck this had to have been the worst for me......I was heading in that direction in the beginning as the pressure and pain felt like it usually does when it is in my bladder.  But it typically passes within 3 days.  So nothing like trying to diagnose myself and trying everything in the book to ease the pain.....So needless to say I am so pumped today as I am pain free......YAY!!!! My husband is so excited too as it is out 12 year anniversary today and it has been almost 3 weeks since we have had sex.....

  • jo1955
    jo1955 Posts: 7,545
    edited September 2011

    June - So glad you passed that stone and are pain free.  Now you can enjoy your anniversary and give hubby some "afternoon delight."  LOL!

                           

  • peg119
    peg119 Posts: 190
    edited September 2011

    Glad to hear you are felling better June.  Hope it continues.  Enjoy your anniversary.