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  • NoMoreHL
    NoMoreHL Posts: 92
    edited October 2011

    Faulkh, where did you have your surgery - a local hospital or in Philadelphia? I had mine at U of Penn> I have found a couple of other ladies here, where our paths have been crossing quite a bit in the last few months! Small world, so I was just curious if you were one of them.

  • LMichele
    LMichele Posts: 88
    edited October 2011

    I have my 2 week follow up visit with PS tomorrow, I called to make sure they were prepared to discuss nipple options with me. however I am leaning 3D tatts I took the plunge & PM'd Viinie Myers just now!! I am sick of surgeries. the recovery part. I do actually feel like the day itself is strangely.......... What. I don't know. Being the center of attention, getting anesthesia, pain meds and lots of sleep and a wee bit of pampering.... I guess I can say that cause it's all turned out ok. Had quite a few surgeries tho and don't want anymore right now!

  • Carrol2
    Carrol2 Posts: 1,477
    edited October 2011

    Estepp my surgeon is Mathew Hlavacek. He has a practice in Lee's Summit called Facial Spectrum. I got him from Truman hospital because i did not have healthy insurance so I had to go where they take medicaid. I had to wait in recovery for 4 ours because they did not have a room for me. They first put me in a room with a woman who was talking incessantly to her guests, on the phone, and to herself. So they then moved me to a private room which was nice.

    I can shower if i want to but Doc said the hot water may hurt. So I think i will wait. I will see them after the drains come out. I kind peek down the top but I can't tell anything,

  • tinat
    tinat Posts: 2,235
    edited October 2011

    Yay Carrol!  So happy your day finally arrived and things went well!  A banana split on the way home?  Sounds perfect!!!

  • fluffqueen01
    fluffqueen01 Posts: 1,801
    edited October 2011

    I need some help. My exchange is November 4. This is my second set of expanders. I think my foobs look great with one exception. On the left side, under my armpit there is a little pad of skin or fat.



    I asked my PS if it was fixable and he said he could lipo it, but it would extend the healing time and be really sore. Since I had a pseudomona infection, I don't want to invite trouble, but on the other hand, I've come this far, I feel like I should go for it.



    Has anyone addressed this or had it done? How painful was it? Ive got 9 days to decide,

  • fluffqueen01
    fluffqueen01 Posts: 1,801
    edited October 2011

    Ginger-i would kill for a massage. How did you lay on your stomache. Or did you.

  • tinat
    tinat Posts: 2,235
    edited October 2011

    fluffqueen01 - I didn't have a massage with my TEs, but I scheduled one (then something came up and I had to cancel).  I spoke with one of the therapists who said they would do a "pregnancy massage" on me (lying on my side) if I wasn't comfortable on my stomach or in the upright chair, which still puts pressure on the chest.  She said they do lots of massages that way. 

  • fluffqueen01
    fluffqueen01 Posts: 1,801
    edited October 2011

    Thats a great idea, i was going to call the hospital's womens department to see what they recommended. Thanks for the tip!

  • momoftwo526
    momoftwo526 Posts: 105
    edited October 2011

    Carol:

    Congratulations on your exchange!  Can't wait to hear how you are doing as things settle in.  Good Luck to everyone which exchange surgeries coming up.

    Phyllis

  • ginger48
    ginger48 Posts: 1,437
    edited October 2011

    Fluffqueen- my massage therapist has this wedge that goes on the table top and has two holes cut out where they breasts go. It was  amazingly comfortable and I have not been able to lie on my stomach at all with these expanders. I have been having lots of problems with muscle spasms that are traveling from my neck and shoulders all the way to my hips and massage has really helped me get through this time. I have been going once a week for 5 weeks now. PS wrote a prescription; we will see if insurance pays up. Either way; it has been a godsend. Yesterday's massage was purely relaxation. She did not want to work hard on any of the knots of muscles so close to surgery.

    After reading on several threads the similar problems people are having; I am going to ask for PT referral and see if that will help as well.

    First step is to get rid of these expanders. 6 hours to go...

  • Unknown
    edited October 2011

    Angelique



    No I had a consult at u of p but didn't like the physician. I had my exchange surgery at BrynMawr. There are a lot of us that seem to be local to the Philadelphia area as of late.



    Carol glad to hear you are doing well. The beating of the shower did sting a little at first so just turned my back but got to tell you the shower felt wonders and I think the warmth of the shower water relaxed the pec muscles a little which really helped



    Wishing those exchanging today and tomorrow best of luck and continued healing for all



    Liz

  • Unknown
    edited October 2011

    fluffqueen, I'm having my exchange tomorrow, and my PS also suggested a little bit of lipo around my underarm area.  I'm going to have it done, so I will let you know how it goes.  He did say it would be a bit more painful, but I'm willing to do it anyway.   If you don't hear from me on here, feel free to PM me as I know you're time is short for making a decision.  I don't expect I'll be on here tomorrow-?maybe-hopefully, but certainly over the weekend.   pat

  • ginger48
    ginger48 Posts: 1,437
    edited October 2011

    Hi Pat- I am back home from exchange! It went well despite the Boston traffic making me 20 minutes late and fearing that they would send me home with a new date as the paperwork had  threatened. But apparently everyone had the same issue with traffic and backed up surgeries so I did not get into surgery till 1:15.

    I am a bit sore (really from the fat grafting areas more that the actual incisions/implants). They took a little from my hips and a little from upper chest close to armpit. That is what is bothering me the most but just kind of achey.Took pain killer to tolerate the drive home and I was fine. NO DRAINS! which made me so happy. I had a lot of energy initially but am really tired  now. My voice is gone and throat is a bit sore from the  breathing tube.

    My husband and I took a look before we left the hospital with the nurse and they look pretty good. Mentor smooth round high profile gel 600cc. Will take a better look tomorrow.Compression bra 24/7 till we go back to see her. No shower for 3 days  sponge bath is ok and  we go back to PS on Monday.

    No ice cream sundae for me as it was snowing out the whole ride home but I did have applesauce and gluten free pretzels at the hospital and am about to have some risotto that my husband made yesterday. Was a bit nauseous upon awakening but they gave me something and it resolved very quickly.

    All in all it was not bad at all and I know you are going to do great! Check in when you can.

  • Unknown
    edited October 2011

    Ginger48



    Congrats on your exchange. Sounds like you did great. Now get some rest and let that wonderful husband pamper you (really risotto, my husband can only handle boxed Mac and cheese). So happy for you.



    Liz



    PS. Is it really snowing in Boston. I am not ready for winter yet, it is only raining in Philly. Please Lord I cant go through another bad snowy winter

  • Unknown
    edited October 2011

    Ginger,  So happy to hear how it went for you-this snow is unreal....My surgery is scheduled for 12;30 tomorrow-right here in town-so no worries. My PS said I would be more sore from the liposuction they are doing around my breasts that the actual exhchange-so I think we're in the same boat.  I'm going to do my best to "sleep in" tomorrow, (LOL) befroe the surgery-don't think that will happen, and then see how it goes from there.

      Glad to hear you are feeling as well as can be expected and on you way back to CT.

      Let's compare notes over the next few days.  I'm hoping for a pain free, easy recovery for both of us so that we can enourage others!   pat

  • Delilahbear
    Delilahbear Posts: 206
    edited October 2011

    fluffqueen01 - regarding the "fat pads" under the armpits - my PS was going to do lipo, but at the last minute decided to surgically remove the scar tissue and the excess fat. He found 2 lipomas in the right one which would not have lipoed very easily so it was fortuitous that he did the excissions. No real discomfort. I sort of wish he had taken more, but when I raise my arms there is no excess so I guess that he took enough otherwise they would have been too tight. Left one actually spit 2 stitches 2 months after the excissions and they are right where my bra sits so it has been not as easy to heal, but doesn't hurt.

  • Carrol2
    Carrol2 Posts: 1,477
    edited October 2011

    fluffqueen i had a little lipo on my prophy side to make them even because there was a lot more tissue on that side. That side does hurt more than the other. My docotr did say we ould do lipo when i get my nipples done on my sides.

  • Estepp
    Estepp Posts: 2,966
    edited October 2011

    Carol.. good greif  sister......... I wish I would have caught you early.. I do know of some that take Medicaid here I believe......... BUT.......... it sounds like you did AOK anyway... YAY!  Heal fast sister!

  • lab44
    lab44 Posts: 24
    edited October 2011

    Had my exchange this past Monday. Some discomfort but overall it's been an easy recovery. I have to keep reminding myself not to do too much. I have noticed that I tire easily - guess my body telling me to go rest.

    Hardest part for me is not picking up my kids when they reach their hands up to me or hearing them call for me because they want me to put them to bed (they don't understand that I can't lift them to put them in their cribs). At least they can sit on my lap or are comforted when I kneel down and put my arms around them.

    So far, happy with the way my implants look but I know it will change a bit over the next couple of months and it's really nice not to have boulders on me anymore...squishy is very nice :-)

  • Unknown
    edited October 2011

    Lab44



    Somehow I missed your exchange. I think you were the day after me. Sounds like you are doing well I sure hope so. While we are only a day apart for surgery lightyears in terms of kids while your sporting 21 month old twins my oldest just celebrated his 21st birthday. I can't imagine how you are coping with not picking them up. I do hope you recover quickly for I am sure they are confused. Cuddling wih mom is just as good so enjoy but do try to rest and take care of yourself as you heal. Best wishes to you and your little ones. They grow so fast cherish them now for it is going to feel like only tomorrow and they will be off to college.



    Liz

  • jyg
    jyg Posts: 60
    edited October 2011

    Ginger48 - Welcome to squishee land! Great to hear all went well. Take things slowly 'cause it is too easy to overdo after getting the TE's removed.



    lab44 - At 4 weeks out I'm suddenly feeling almost back to normal, if you ignore the occasional tightness. Also, yesterday was my first 8 hours straight on my feet. I was exhausted at the end of the day. Lost a lot of stamina over the last 5 months but eagerly anticipating getting stronger than before!

  • NoMoreHL
    NoMoreHL Posts: 92
    edited October 2011

    jyg: E-day surgery sister, I am experiencing tightness on my right side. GOing to PT on Monday, hoping to resolve. ALso, everyone talks about things being squishy, but mine are pretty tight -- not TE tight -- but not "squishy" either. I try to massage several times a day, but sometimes I feel like that makes them tighten up more. Otherwise, swelling has gone down, bruises have cleared, things are beginning to settle - not nearly enough, but I guess I need to give it a little more time. 

    Glad you are feeling more back to normal these days. Continued healing. 

  • tinat
    tinat Posts: 2,235
    edited October 2011

    Congrats to all the recent exchangees.  Take it easy - it's so easy to overdo it accidentally.

    HL - it's been over two months for me and I'd say I'm finally soft all over.  It sort of softened up in patches for me and it took a while so be patient!  Sorry you're feeling tightness Undecided.

  • ginger48
    ginger48 Posts: 1,437
    edited October 2011

    Pat- i will be thinking of you at 12:30 and sending positive energy your way. Can't wait to hear from you!

    Carroll- my pain is mostly from the lipo/fat grafting also. 

    I do get tired really quickly and can see how easy it would be to overdo it. forcing myself to lay low.

  • CML0310
    CML0310 Posts: 32
    edited October 2011

    Checking in for the first time in a while!  Glad to see everyone is doing well.  Monday will be 2 weeks for my exchange.  No issues to speak of other than I think I have a little extra numbness under my left side- maybe Im imaginign it?  Which was fortunate that I wasnt laid up because my dad passed away wednesday 2 days post surgery.  I am maxed out on crisis and ready for 2011 to come to an end.  I go back next week for the PS to make sure the swelling is going down- to be honest Im not sure I really even had any.  One question I have is bras?  What have your PS been telling you?  Mine said wait 6 weeks before buying anything but in the meantime wear whatever is comfortable...

  • ginger48
    ginger48 Posts: 1,437
    edited October 2011

    CML0310- so sorry to hear about your dad. I am only one day post exchange and have not been given any bra instructions other than to wear the compression bra 24/7. someone else may have more info. Take care!

  • tlc40
    tlc40 Posts: 69
    edited October 2011

    HeftyLefty- I too am experiencing tightness & hard spots in one side only(the side with pocket work done)....went back to ps just to address this & ps said it's just swelling in places & with time it will soften like the other side.....which is softer, but still not what I would call squishy. And I know, all I hear about are "oh, how squishy" & was worried I was not feeling it. Though as you said nowhere near the hard, pokey TE's but still definitely not squishy.

    He gave me exercises to do to speed it along....hands on hips, elbows out & then bring elbows as close together in center while still keeping hands on hips, hold & repeat over & over. You'll see it stretches the pecs & he says massages the implants from the inside which is better then any outside massage(according to him).



    Tina- glad to hear you are finally soft all over.....I called mine hard spots & haven't heard any others complaining of this....so it eases my worries to know others have had it & it has gone away.

  • tlc40
    tlc40 Posts: 69
    edited October 2011

    I've learned on here all plastic surgeons have such a difference of opinions about bras....it's confusing! My first 2 weeks in surgical compression bras 24/7. Week 3, 4, & 5 any non- underwire bra 24/7. Now week 6 I am allowed properly fitting underwires, but still 24/7. And I am wearing that Velcro strap above breasts to encourage the drop & fluff.



    I just read somewhere on here that someones ps said no bra at all really early on...I think it was the first week or two.....I am so jealous! I feel like that I've been bound for weeks!!!

  • CML0310
    CML0310 Posts: 32
    edited October 2011

    tlc and ginger thanks.  I had the surgical bra for the first 48 hours then I could shower and wear whatever including just a cami.  he did say wear a good sports bra for the gym which I did I was back in the gym 5 days post surgery and running even.  I am just looking forward to buying nice bras again Its a shame how many I am throwing in the trash from the pre surgery but I can use the retail therapy-5 more weeks and I can splurge... 

  • jyg
    jyg Posts: 60
    edited October 2011

    HeftyLefty - So glad to hear from you! Sorry you are feeling some tightening. My plastic surgeon had the foresight to offer an off-label use for Botox and injected 50 U into each pec muscle. I had a lot of discomfort with my TE's - not with each expansion, those were easy, but throughout the entire post BMX period. I do experience some tightness and certainly have to wear a bra almost 24/7 for comfort. What I find interesting is the swelling that my chest can show after exercise! I know this is normal only 4 weeks out, but wow...

    Best wishes with PT. Let me know how it goes, please. I've been tempted to try it but not certain if there are any PT's with expertise here.