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  • wahine
    wahine Posts: 7,590
    edited January 2012

    Oh dear, the "airbag" joke was priceless, Bernie! Did not see that one coming, either. And love the AIRBAG dwink, Lowwi. Have not heard of those ingredients, but sounds yummy anyways. Wouldn't it be so funny if I typed out our DOTD's and asked the bartenders in Tunica to make some of those dwinks. Will be going there on Sun, so trying to get stuff done first.

    My dad still had probs with the bleeding yesterday, which his family dr noticed, and sent him to yet another specialist, so am hoping and praying they finally got it stopped. Hard enough to heal at 95, but gotta get the bleeding stopped first. He was also in a lot of pain, and discouraged at how 2012 has started out. THANK YOU, everyone, for all the prayers, thoughts, and concerned. Very much appreciated, snd hope the prayers con tinue!

    Yeah, good idea Lowwi, to celebrate and partay all week for our Scuby Luv! I am all for that. Can I puleez borrow a tender or some wenches to help with all the chit I have to do here? Started too many organizing projects, and am now in a big mess. Can use some help!!! Hoping all you loungettes have a good THIRST-DEY and will NOT be thirsty due to all the dwinks in the HTL. Karen, so glad things are looking up. NM, glad you will be thru with tx soon...yay! And Kymn, I agree...show that a$$hole that you are having fun too, and looking gawgeous!

    Cheers! Dwink up, Dears!

    Katrinka da ThirstDey Dwinka

  • wahine
    wahine Posts: 7,590
    edited January 2012

    Oh Kymnie, Hope I didn't bump you so hard your spilled your ThirstDey dwink. Well dear, "affairs" of the heart are hard to ignore. DO NOT chastise yourself for this...just wish you could get your heart out of it, and just enjoy the bootie calls. I tortured myself with an ex-bf and still had hookups with him, even though I was dating others....they knew about it and had to deal with it if they wanted to date me....lol. BUT when I finally realized in my heart it was over and he was SO wrong for me, then I didn't want to see him at ALL....that was very healing for me. Someday that will happen for you, as you KNOW he is so wrong for you. You are only human, and just went with the moment.....just do NOT let him control your heart anymore...or at least pretend he is not controlling your heart, until the day that he does not have control over you anymore. It is VERY hard he is living so close, not sure if I could handle that either. JUST HANG IN THERE!!!!! We all love you, and you are doing as good as possible. It will take time, but you keep trying, and keep seeing the therapist, and someday this will be just a memory, as you will be SO past him, and onto a happy life again. (((HUGS)))

  • nativemainer
    nativemainer Posts: 8,104
    edited January 2012

    I need to say oops, and apologize--

     

  • nativemainer
    nativemainer Posts: 8,104
    edited January 2012

    I was thinking if Kymn's situation when I wrote to Karen.  I was confused, can I blame it on arimidex brain?  or lupron brain?  or cancer brain? 

    Karen's DH is NOT a FAH.  Karen is not being manipulated by her DH.  

    NativeMainer is going to go hide her head in shame, now.  Can I take some Lemon Drops with me?

  • nativemainer
    nativemainer Posts: 8,104
    edited January 2012

    Or maybe I better take some Air Bags.  Or both.

  • Unknown
    edited January 2012

    Not even gonna TRY to catch up, it's been so long since I've been here! lol

    Kym-LIVE what Wahine had to say!  Such wisdom!  Can SO relate to what you're going through, feel free to PM me anytime and we'll talk more specifically.  Come to the lounge when it's getting tough, we are here for you.

    Scuby-SOOO excited for you!  Partying with the rest of the girls for ya!

    Is anyone else's house a disaster?? UGH!!  My mind is racing with things that need done, but the body is tierd and not willing.

    Had "a few" beers last night, got a little loose lipped and had a really honest conversation with my most amazing boyfriend, we actually shared some feelings about this whole BC hassle-changes our lives in so many different ways-it was good I think!  Anyone have a creative idea on how to show your love how much you appreciate their part in this?  Thank God for supportive partners and caregivers!!!

    I'VE BECOME SO VAIN SINCE BC!! What's that all about? LOL  No hair (especially the bangs) makes the lines in my forehead stand out like a sore thumb!  Botox during chemo?!  :)   Loosing my lashes now too, so tried some glamour false lashes yesterday.....OUCH, not comfy!!  Using enough shadow and blush to sink a battleship trying to draw attention to my face and away from my head.  Darned wig is SOOO uncomfortable.

    Whats this about the TEs not looking like breasts?!!! Somebody fill me in.

    Mrs. Vino-feel better and REST!!

    Hugs girls. 

  • karen1956
    karen1956 Posts: 4,678
    edited January 2012

    NM....no apologizes (sp) necessary......you are a wonderful support.....and I for one appreciate all your posts.....blame your confusion on anything you want....BC, anesthesia brain, lupron brain, cancer brain or just too many wonderful loungettes to keep straight!!!!  I went back and read what you wrote and when I put Kymn's name in place of mine, I could see the love you have for her and all of us.....you just want to make sure we are all safe.....HUGS and love.....Karen

  • Scuba_duchess
    Scuba_duchess Posts: 435
    edited January 2012

    Lots to catch upon! Happy Thirsty-Day!



    Kymn, hugs. Keep hanging in and coming back. Please don't beat yourself up. Think Kathy has a lot of wisdom to share.



    Karen, glad things are better, cheers to good news!



    DorK, yay you! Sp glad things are looking good. Think your good doc is another angel in heaven looking over us all. Wonder if he likes Miller Lite? Hmmmmm.



    NM, awesome to see you, glad you got the package, give Sadie a scratch on her butt from me! Glad you clarified your post, thought I had cancer brain.



    Busy at my second to last day at work for a bit! Thanks for the partay, though I am going virtual drinking this week! Had a major toothache yesterday, was soooo freaked it would screw up exchange on Monday. Dentist fit me in at 7:30, never so happy to hear it was an irritated gum, not
    my teeth! Lori, yeah, my PS is a big PT fan for recovery from the LAT surgery. Will go back to see PT 10 days after surgery to begin the final phase! Nothin left but nips, will be using the color printer at work for some interesting printouts, we can print on 11x17 inch paper, that would be a big a$$ fan, lol Mrs_Vino!

    Oh well, enough farting around, luv to all! Scuby
  • wahine
    wahine Posts: 7,590
    edited January 2012

    Yeah NM, we ALL get the loungettes funcused from time-to-time...and we all know your heart is in the right place.So glad you said "oops" and not the "s" word...lol. You know dat de "s" woid is not allowed heah. Your posts are ALWAYS so awesome, don't know how you keep what each of us are doing, in your mind. Keep posting your great posts....we all love em!

    Whew....glad you all think I gave Kymn some "wisdom"....as I almost deleted that post thinking maybe it was too personal. Hmmmm....maybe I can be the "wise one" instead of the "oldest one". LOL. See Kymn, we ALL have your back!!! Vent whenever you want to, we all understand.

    Tiedye, Some gals hate their TE's as they are hard like turtle shells, and don't look right. I was lucky as mine looked very normal, in fact I liked the way they looked vs my implants! So I guess it is a very individual thing, nothing to worry about, as you don't have them in tooooo long. That hair loss sucks.....so funny about wearing so much eye makeup! I am sure you look good...remember Lowwi always says we are our worst critics, and she is right.

    Scuby, SO glad it was not a problem with a tooth. You are all set for your TE exch!! YAY!!! Ya know we will all be there, so be sure to get a BIG room...lol. Actually since we get so teeny tiny, we can fit aywhere. Hope da Beans is making sure the tenders are stocking the UFO and BUS with likker. ChEARS!

    Hugs,

    kathy

  • undercoverebel
    undercoverebel Posts: 574
    edited January 2012

    Hi girls-need a drink!. DH is driving me crazy,he's sick so you know what that means-the end of the world. Every 5 minutes he wants something. I didn't ask the nurses for help this much after I came out of my BMX surgery! You know it's bad when you start imagining smothering them w/the pillow instead of fluffing it for them. WAHINE-So sorry about your dad. Mine is 90 and in the hospital every time he gets a cold. Seems hard to resist anything at that age. Hope he gets better soon. NM-Love that pic of the lady on the bench,needed a laugh today. See you girls later-if DH ever goes to sleep. Maybe i'll spike his tea w/JD. CHEERS!

  • Kymn
    Kymn Posts: 887
    edited January 2012

    lmao Kathy when I said nice visit I meant...nice visit...only.....NO BOOTIE CALL lol I wouldnt do that again unless I knew we were working things out honest I havent been touched in 4 months :(

  • wahine
    wahine Posts: 7,590
    edited January 2012

    LOL Kymn....I had you having lots of fun! Apologize for the misunderstanding....when you said he didn't return to his home, I thought you meant he stayed there. My gawd I gotta quit reading between the lines!!! Forgive me??? Here is a BIG Queen-size dwink for you ma dear....my way of apologizing...

    Oops and here is anudder queen-sized dwink for Shannon, so she can deal with her DH being sick and needy.....Here ya go Shannon....

    And it is almost Happy Hour here...been working in the attic all day....no more critters, thank god. Anyone wanna jump in da pool and swim up to da bar wif me???  *kersplash*.....Ooooohhh Mr. Big looks so.....ummmmm....*big* in his swim trunks....and he is bartending at the swim up bar today.....yippee!!!!!

  • BernieEllen
    BernieEllen Posts: 2,285
    edited January 2012
    Two cuties were comparing notes concerning their latest boyfriends.

    The first said, "He took me to his condo in Ocean City and showed me all these expensive jewels. There was an emerald-cut diamond of at least five carats, a tennis bracelet of six carats, and even a wrist watch with eleven carats."

    "Impressive." said the second young thing.

    "Well... yes." the first agreed. "But the downside was that with all those carats, he expected me to behave like a rabbit."

  • nativemainer
    nativemainer Posts: 8,104
    edited January 2012

    Too funny, Bernie!  Thanks for the laugh, I needed one.

    I got home a while ago after going all the way in to the office (25 miles) for a meeting that was rescheduled to next week.  Two days ago.  Again.  I. Am. Upset. I get a note on my evaluation that I haven't attended 100%of the staff and mandatory meetings in the last year, but no mention that at least once a month I go in for a meeting that has been cancelled, the time was changed, or was rescheduled to another day altogether.  I spent an hour in the office cleaning up some details and fighting not to cry.  I so wanted to have this day to stay home and catch up on some housework and think about what to do when the Med Onc cuts me loose in October.  Not to mention babying a very sore right a$$ cheek from the big fat needlefull of thick lupron. I've got a bump the size of a tennis ball in there.  Ok, so it' more like the size of a marble, but it still hurts.  

    OK, if the Onc is going to stop the arimidex in October, why do I need a bone density test this year?  

    Ok, gonna stop ranting and go crawl into a hammock and get drunk now.  I am so sick of this bc crap, and work crap and life in general crap right now. . . .

  • Kymn
    Kymn Posts: 887
    edited January 2012

    I am climbing into the hammock next to you NM....I am tired of all this life crap too

  • nativemainer
    nativemainer Posts: 8,104
    edited January 2012

    Good!  Let's see who can get drunkest, fastest!

  • wahine
    wahine Posts: 7,590
    edited January 2012

    Pants, Jock, Hunk......get NM and Kymn dwinks ASAP and keep em comin! AND you all can also give them nice massages and pamper them so much they *might* forget the $hit that has gone on. You girlz deserve to be pampered!!!

  • wahine
    wahine Posts: 7,590
    edited January 2012

    (You did notice I kept Mr. Big for us at the swim up bar, didn't cha?)

  • MemaSue56
    MemaSue56 Posts: 2,061
    edited January 2012

    Kymm - I'm so bad...I promised I'd meet ya in the HTL, well, shoot....I took Baxter fer a haircut, they sed be 90 mins, well me bar is a block away...den I went to get Baxi, took him home n went BACK to de bar...ooo so bad I am.  Still here now doh...bout to git me a nudder dwink.  DH not home yet, so don hafta start din yet.  Ya IN?

    Fitz - Sorry to u too....n lemme tell ya...ain't no skanks in HTL...never...so quit w/it K...muah!  Got a stool all warmed up fer ya tonite, com'on in!

    Dork - SOOOO glad u healing...gots lots to look forward to dis year.  Glad I knos u goils to give me advice n sheet.

    Goldie - Yea, no surg yet.  My BC so bad n TP, n mets too, so they hit me with the big guns right away.  But I'm OK...every day a new adventure...n more dwinks, n more laughs.

    NM - got room on dat hammock fer me?...dat the best place to b after a day u had.  U can rant round me n e day gurl.  Dont work kno how to call ya or email or text ya bout changes in mtg sch's....sheesh...da noive!  Let's dwink.

    BRB, glass is empty

  • MemaSue56
    MemaSue56 Posts: 2,061
    edited January 2012

    I'm back....gotta hit the likker stor tamary...gittin short on eberting.  Brandy all gone...so me n Jose is tossing em back.  DH home....$hit...later loungettes...MUAH!

  • dara_diverse
    dara_diverse Posts: 5,005
    edited January 2012

    Hi Goils,

     I will join NM, Kymn and Sue on de hammocks and help you goils toss de life crapola into de fire me started.  Me sese Katrinka still admiring the *bigness*, stop starring Kathy, Mr Big is getting a complex as it *looks* like his bigness is sha-rinking in de water. Here is a dwink for ya, just how you like it. Come on out and grab a hammock.

    NM, sorry you had to do  all that for nothing, she-at, dat sucks. I will dwink with you. And what a sweet apology to Karen and how sweet of her to jump in and accept it. Ya know, both their names do start with K and have the letter N too. Anyway, if it happens again, please do blame Stella, she does not mind. lmao at the pic of "waiting for de perfect man". Loved your post and pics todey. Tanks for de feel good words to all.

    What are we dwinking, mese forgot but dese dwinks is good. 

    Kymn, nice to see you honey.  Hang in dere, yese will de fine. You doing good, ya know dat, eh? Hey, did you sese what de fans of Philly hockey did to me NY team fan/cop/veteran? Me hopes your people are better dan dat, yikes.

    Scuby, wese is here in your honor. Ya see, dis parTAY is for yese. Not mese, but YESE. Dat means all of yese but you de star. Make sense? A widdle?

    Well, me needs to see who else mese sees here. Mese going to find Memasue, she went to de ladies room and not coming out, me tink she berry berry dwunk. .brb too. 

  • undercoverebel
    undercoverebel Posts: 574
    edited January 2012

    Wahine-thanks for the drink. But I confess I started the par tay before that. I went out and bought that Jack Daniels with the honey in it. So i've been drinking in and out of the lounge. Now DH's food demands are a lot less annoying. I'm skipping to the fridge every 5 mins. And I have another secret-I hung a sign on the HTL door today. It says "Bathing suits optional for the tenders." Ok,ok,actually it says it's mandatory they leave their suits at the door. But don't tell the others,we don't want a stampede.

  • dara_diverse
    dara_diverse Posts: 5,005
    edited January 2012

    Unde', mese coming to your house to pick you up for de parTAY. Can you get me a long straw to dwink from?

    Oh, lookie ober dere, it is Pants. He is scared to take off his bathing suit cuz he knows that de Shannon bwough scissors. Oh mese, oh mise, me in a hot flash!! 

  • wahine
    wahine Posts: 7,590
    edited January 2012

    LOL, deese Shannon and deese Dorkster are in fine form tonight!!! BTW, your sign is a good addition to the HTL, unde!

  • undercoverebel
    undercoverebel Posts: 574
    edited January 2012

    Dork,I got straws and scissors,let's go! Oh,that Pants is a feisty one,he's running from me. But Stella is here...now she's tripping him. Good work Stella,now everybody hold Pants down. Wahine-You start cutting-very carefully. Hmmm,who's next?

  • dara_diverse
    dara_diverse Posts: 5,005
    edited January 2012

    Okey, mese been twying to figure out how to post de pics and I now remember what my poysonal IT lady, named Chrissy B, seds to dues. Walaa, here is a picture of my DD and my grand fur baby, Lana. Yippee, me tinks me posted a poysonal photo.

    And me tinks de Lana looks a weeee bit like de MemaSue avatar.

    Mese will dwink to dat. Oh my, me now sees Pants taking off his bathing suit....Kathy, close your eyes, you will be imbarrassed cuz he bigger den big. Oh mese bad. Well, weally, it is de Stella. She dwank all of de Shannon big bottle. One slurp and she dwank de whole ting.

    Pants, can you get me a big bottle to give to de Shannon for hir house? Well no, her house is not dwunk, it is wese!!

    ~hiccup!!

  • MemaSue56
    MemaSue56 Posts: 2,061
    edited January 2012

    LOL - Dork...u DD n Lana soooo coot....weely weely coot...n she do yook wike Baxter...Lana da is not DD.  tanks fer postin...me n Jose been dwinkin too much....me did fell out...er git lost n d goils room fer a bit...Pants - look out fer that Undy...n Stella too...o deary me....they gonna snip u rite outta dem sex, sex, sex, sexy trunks...me got de stutter goin on er...ugh

  • MemaSue56
    MemaSue56 Posts: 2,061
    edited January 2012

    Scuby - Hooray for 'down to de wire'...tatoo 'd nips...ok den...when my time comes, me b lookin to u n Vino for pics on how to do mine....same me some pics...O tay den?

    NM - i sees 2 u 2, I means 2 a u, ugh...Mr. Big got w/Jose n I jes cudn't resist 1 more now i see 2 of eberting.

    WaWa - I gonna steal Mr. Big to help me to chapel, slur a preyer 2 fer u n ur daddy...mauh.

    Bernie - lub da yokes...keep em comin! 

    Goldie - where u b

  • undercoverebel
    undercoverebel Posts: 574
    edited January 2012

    Dork-your DD looks a lot like you. Thank you for replacing my bottle. That darn Stella,well chasing and undressing Pants is thirsty work. Memasue-you can help us with the next one. Oh look,they're all hiding behind the bar.Stella,come back and help us. Oh no,she's so drunk she's no help at all now. Bad girl.

  • karen1956
    karen1956 Posts: 4,678
    edited January 2012

    DorK....your DD is beautiful....and grandfurby is a cutie......

    NM...sorry that you had to waste your time to go to a meeting that was cancelled and you weren't told...that just stinks!!!

    just watched Big Bang Theory...it was one of the better ones...now to walk the dogs....Hugs, Karen