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  • blessings2011
    blessings2011 Posts: 1,801
    edited September 2012

    Rennasus - I was thinking the same thing! After my exchange, my fingers were so swollen, my wedding ring barely fit, yet my watch nearly fell off, it was so loose. My arms look the same, kind of bony and wrinkly after weight loss...Undecided

    The swelling is on my cancer side, where I "only" had an SNB (according to the medical staff who blew me off when I expressed concern about future LE). AND - it's only above my left breast, starting from where the top of the implant should be, to my collarbone.

    Does LE appear in distinct, separate body areas? I've heard the term "truncal LE" mentioned.

    I've taken pics all along to document my progress. On Wednesday, the PS will get my "Two Week Post Exchange Questions" email with some pics attached. If I don't feel that he's taking it very seriously, I have the cell phone number of the LE specialist at the hospital.

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~

    So your exchange is on Wednesday? How exciting! I can understand your trepidation, though, and your reluctance to get your hopes up....

    But truthfully, there really isn't a reason why this won't be the one that takes...the surgery that gives you the outcome you hoped for so long ago. I don't know why things happen in our lives. But I admire anyone who overcomes their fears, and celebrates the triumph of hope over experience.

    Renn, you are in my prayers for a successful exchange on Wednesday, a pain-free recovery, a great outcome, and complete healing in the days to come.

    p.s. Just read your blog - (for the first time, duh) and what do I see? A recipe for zucchini bread!!! I think I found the dish I will take to a baby shower on Friday!!! It looks yummy!!!!

  • ginger48
    ginger48 Posts: 1,437
    edited September 2012

    Renn- I understand your fear but I have a very strong feeling that you are going to do great...it is your time!



    Blessings- persist if you feel it is LE. I only had sentinel node removed also and have truncal and arm LE. It took months for me to convince my PS to give me a referral. Due to my weight she just saw it as fat. It can't hurt to get an evaluation done.

  • rennasus
    rennasus Posts: 642
    edited September 2012

    Tina, Blessings, Ginger: Thanks much for your comments and thoughts. I hope you are right! And Blessings, I agree with Ginger, maybe get a LE consult now/ I do not have LE but everyone says the earlier you treat it the better you will be. And if it turns out to just be normal post-surgery swelling, that will feel good to hear. Good on you for taking pics all along! That has been a saving grace to me on many an occasion with my healing. Enjoy the zucchini bread! Kiss

    Good luck to all going into exchange this week! 

  • loulou24
    loulou24 Posts: 42
    edited September 2012

    Rennasus : Good luck !!!!

  • LILBLUXOXO
    LILBLUXOXO Posts: 7
    edited September 2012

    Is there anyone here so far unhappy with their exchange? I had my exchange 8/23 and I'm still experiencing burning pains in the lower part and incision areas on both breasts. I have an area on one breasted that looks like the implant wants to poke through....visuallly and can also feel it. On my other breast on the upper portion I have wavy ripples all the way across, which if my arm is raised looks horrid! I thought silicone had less of a chance of doing that? Thinking maybe I'm ungrateful or vanity has gotten the best of me....all I know is that this exchange was suppose to be paving the way to some sort of normality and instead it looks like I still have a long way to go. Atleast my te's gave me some hope of well maybe this isn't going to turn out too bad......

    I never thought this was going to be a walk in the park, and wasn't expecting miracles....

  • tinat
    tinat Posts: 2,235
    edited September 2012
    LILBLUXOXO - Please check out the Implant Sizing 101 thread.  I think you'll find it most helpful!
  • Layla2525
    Layla2525 Posts: 465
    edited September 2012

    Blessings, You always make us laugh.  I followed you about a wk later on the exchange and yep true to form my cancer side is about an inch or half inch lower this morn and the other side looks like it is still swollen so I have these little pink squares from the biopsy that I wiped off with antibacterial wipes and kept in the freezer for spot treatments and also was given 2 baby sized pillows that are ice packs after my exchange but they plump up and dont conform to the body so will be using frozen veggies if I should still ice,will ask the PS 2moro.

    Blessg are you still pancake shaped? I am despite the slight drop. Guess fluff takes a few mths. impatiently waiting on that.

    I have been flat all my life and worn padded push up underwires and have worn those bras out and never had an underwire break on me ever! But I dunno that those would be comfortable on the implants and might coerce them into an odd shape. Cant waitto see the PS and ask questions but am sure she will poo poo it all and give me the  Blessings mantra "Step away from the mirror".

  • Rckinrobin
    Rckinrobin Posts: 28
    edited September 2012

    Good luck tomorrow, Rennasus!! Squishes have our name on them this week...here's to squishy comfort comin our way!!

  • blessings2011
    blessings2011 Posts: 1,801
    edited September 2012

    Layla - Righty is behaving nicely...swelling is going down, and it appears that she's dropping into place. Lefty, however, is being stubborn...still very high and very swollen.  I emailed my PS today to see if he was concerned about this, and his reply was that it was probably soft tissue swelling and fluid, and could take 2 - 3 months to resolve.

    SAY WHAT???? Surprised

    He does not think it is Lymphedema. Unfortunately, he also extended my restrictions for another two weeks, just to be on the safe side. Fortunately, I see my MO tomorrow morning and will ask her opinion, since she always does an exam.

  • fragrantroses
    fragrantroses Posts: 69
    edited September 2012

    About the patient controlled Tissue Expansion....

    http://www.airxpanders.com/ 

    I don't get how the CO2 gets INTO the expander.  How can it pump it in without some kind of outside gas supply?  hmmmmm

    I like the shape of these tissue expanders.  It looks like it was create a better projection for the implant to settle .  Instead of round all the way around, it would have "emphasis on the lower pole"'  So maybe inplants would fall in and fill it faster?  Looks good.

  • Carrol2
    Carrol2 Posts: 1,477
    edited September 2012

    wow that looks awesome. I guess it's like canned air. I wish they had implants in that shape.

  • vicky3blum
    vicky3blum Posts: 19
    edited September 2012

    I got my exchange finally  .  the right breast., the one in which they originally found cancer is totally pain free.  the otheer one, the one that exploded a couple of months ago burns alot.  my ps put me in a surgical bra that i have to wear 24/7 for a month, except for when i am showering [not for five days] which is when i will put on a clean one.  i,m thinking that i have so many restrictions because of the mound blow up or is that standzrd practice for some p.s's?

  • Dragonfly2012
    Dragonfly2012 Posts: 45
    edited September 2012

    I'm not sure if they have saline expanders in an anatomical shape - at least I haven't seen pictures of any - but they do have short height TEs that are kind of crescent shaped. These expand the lower pole more than the upper pole. This is what I had and do they ever make you look weird! I didn't find out until just before my exchange that I had 350 cc expanders filled to 630 cc - I am so glad I didn't know, or I would have walked around in constant fear that they would explode. But even though my lower pole was expanded significantly more than my upper pole, I'm still having to wait for the whole drop and fluff thing to happen with these round silicone implants.

  • Dragonfly2012
    Dragonfly2012 Posts: 45
    edited September 2012

    vicky3blum: Those restrictions sound pretty standard to me. Restrictions vary from PS to PS, but many of us seem to have been told to wear a highly supportive or surgical bra 24/7, to not lift anything over 10 lbs (5 lbs for some), and to not raise our arms above our head for the first month.

  • fragrantroses
    fragrantroses Posts: 69
    edited September 2012

    I wasn't permitted to go raise my arms at all the first week.  The second he let me stretch them out shoulder height.  It was three weeks before I could raise them to my head.  I paid $10 for my stylist to wash and style my hair.  TOTALLY worth it.  lol  I grew up washing my hair in the sink.  My sisters would have known how to do it.  My husband has not a clue.  lol  But the sister who lives near me is about 8 inches shorter than me.  And it's important to have someone TALLER than you wash your hair in a sink or they will smash you trying to reach the top of your head.  BTDT.

  • blessings2011
    blessings2011 Posts: 1,801
    edited September 2012
    fragrantroses - After my BMX, I let my DH try to wash my hair in the kitchen sink. He almost drowned me. I decided that clean hair was way overrated, and I waited til I could do it in the shower. Laughing
  • JamieB86
    JamieB86 Posts: 183
    edited September 2012

    My mom or sister came over everyday to wash my hair in the sink for a week.  I'm am so grateful for my supportive family.  I think my DH would have drown me.

  • CMartin
    CMartin Posts: 237
    edited September 2012

    Blessings...ever the one to make me laugh!  At least you got someone at the ps office to answer you.  We are crossing our fingers for no lymphdema!

  • Mooleen
    Mooleen Posts: 63
    edited September 2012

    Two weeks post exchange and today I had the stitches removed. I am happy with the size of my foob. My final size was 500cc. It fits perfectly in a C cup bra. My next Appt is 10/17 at which time we will decide what size implant to use in the right breast. That surgery is scheduled for 11/13. Until then I am walking around lopsided, because my right breast currently has a 420cc implant and with my breast tissue is a DD. I can't wait to be done with this process.

  • Layla2525
    Layla2525 Posts: 465
    edited September 2012

    Blessings,same here, I went to PS today and I said the one had scooted down about an inch and fluffed maybe 1/4 in more than the other one which is minding its own business and not moved a millimeter. They showed me the massage today so I could torture myself. Now I know what the pain pills are for!

    I also got some brown tape from the PS. I am supposed to put the brown tape on the incisions and leave it for the wkend. When the SS wkend comes,I shower and leave it off for 24hrs and put the oil of my choice on,scar cream or Vit E the PS recommends. Odd,dunno whats up with the tape or why they didnt use dissolving stitches like first bmx. I got steri strips and stitches cut off today. Mostly numb after this 2nd operation so didnt really feel much but the massage hurts my collar bone but gotta do it or risk cap cont and that would mean another op/surg. She says I can go back to work Mon if I feel up to it and if all heals she will let me go in the pool and ocean on my vacay. Wow! Is that safe? It will only be 4wk out,30 days. Anyone else get the mysterious brown tape? Anyone else released to go in the water after only 4 wks? And then she told me to be sure and take my Protandim!?? and its off to see the wizard on the yellow brick road aka the MO and the brick roads they built downtown here are not all yellow but hope to get my prescrpt for Femara,have been on her sample and no side effects! OMG! So happy after the Arimity horror!!

  • Sherryc
    Sherryc Posts: 4,503
    edited September 2012

    Blessing lets hope for no LE.

    Layla I have not heard of the brown tape.  I had the same internal dissolvable stiches again.  Last week at my post op they removed the part of the stiches on the ends.  Everything had already closed except the ends and the PS said when those closed I could swim or soak in the tub.  One side is closed the other maybe a day or two.  My exchange was 2 weeks ago Tuesday and I can't wait to take a bubble bath and soak in the tub with a glass of wine.  So I would think a month out you will be fine to swim as long as everything is closed.

    As for the hair washing.  I stood in the shower and had DH wash my hair.  I just stayed in the house and did not worry with fixing my hair.  For exchange even though I had the don't lift over your head restriction my range of motion felt fine and I was able to fix my hair.

  • ckolendar
    ckolendar Posts: 9
    edited September 2012

    Layla2525, I had the brown tape after they removed steristrips from original BMX and TE placement. PS said it helps to decrease scarring....I don't know if it helped, but it didn't hurt!

    Congrats on the exchange. I live vicariously through all of you waiting for my exchange which will not happen until April or May 2013. These TE's are killer heavy. Will not miss them at all!

  • Layla2525
    Layla2525 Posts: 465
    edited September 2012

    Sherryc,not taking any chances,just using my brown tape which I did not have after the bmx which didnt matter cause whats the point of making the scar better when its only gonna be cut again? Just following all the instructions so went to get the shampoo and cut today and feels so much better. I tried it once myself with shampooing but dont think I got my hair really clean or got all the shampoo out.

    Yep I hear you cause I told my fiance to watch out for the crazy woman once the PS releases me from restriction on alcohol! Two wks b4 and 2 wks after,thats a mth with no wine to go with my spaghetti-Os or my steak (if I choose to eat one,dunno when the last time was that I ate one,think was last yr took my son's girlfd to Longhorn Steak the night b4 she left,He left to go back to univ in Paris,she wanted to stay with me but I am not in any shape to be her maid,cook,personal stylist,never had daughters but nevertheless they said she had a hard life,dont think spoiling her rotten is gonna help her with that! Then she kept begging me for a puppy and she doesnt even put her own plate away after dinner! sorry guess I tend to rant and rave)

  • Rckinrobin
    Rckinrobin Posts: 28
    edited September 2012

    I had the exchange this morning, and I am already home and feeling really good. Feels good already to have the turtle shells gone! Surgery was really easy this time, and though I was nervous about going home the same day, I was ready and did not feel rushed at all. Took a week off, so now I will start my HGTV house hunters marathon, lol. :)



  • blessings2011
    blessings2011 Posts: 1,801
    edited September 2012

    Yay, RckinRobin! Congratulations on crossing over to the Squishie Side!!!!

  • Sherryc
    Sherryc Posts: 4,503
    edited September 2012

    woohoo congrats robin

  • Hikergal
    Hikergal Posts: 22
    edited September 2012

    I am new to this board.  I had my last fill last week and am going for exchange in October.  I am very sick of these TE's, mine seem to stick so far out to my sides that my clothes look weird and I feel like I can't put my arms down.  I know they are sewn in place but I worry the implants will do the same thing.  For those of you who have already had the exchange, do they really feel more like real boobs? 

  • Rckinrobin
    Rckinrobin Posts: 28
    edited September 2012

    Dory: I shall call him Squishy and he shall be mine and he shall be my Squishy. Come on, Squishy Come on, little Squishy. My favorite movie....now I can really identify, lol!



    My left food has 535ccs and my right has 480ccs. Is that pretty normal to have that amount of difference? They are mentor cohesive gels. No bandages, just my front closure sports bra with the gauze just sitting in between.





  • Rckinrobin
    Rckinrobin Posts: 28
    edited September 2012

    Hiker gal, just saw your post. I just had my exchange today, but can already tell a huge difference! They are not sticking out any under my arms, and when I push on them, they actually give instead of feeling like steel. It is much better immediately, so hang in there!

  • rennasus
    rennasus Posts: 642
    edited September 2012

    I finally had my exchange yesterday! I am happy it is over, though I am not yet feeling the "squishie" relief you all talk about! Because my left TE was in for 19 months, PS did a lot of pocket work on that side, including slight lift of IMF. My right side, which had so many problems with delayed healing, got Alloderm on top of the implant to ensure good circulation. I don't have much pain on that side (for the first time!) but lefty, oh, lefty feels like it did after BMX. Ouchers. And I have a drain on each side. I ended up with Natrelle Style 20, 500cc in lefty and 450ccs in righty. I am curious how this will pan out visually, since my right (cancer) side had more tissue taken from it so seemed like it would need to be bigger than lefty but PS was limited by my skin integrity on the right side. So I'll have to see. I concur with Rckinrobin above, they don't stick out into my armpits as much as before!