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  • Obxflygirl1
    Obxflygirl1 Posts: 106
    edited February 2013

    Lipo to armpits..... My PS removed fat from armpit area during exchange by Lipo suction, And I love the look. You shouldn't have a problem with your PS doing that when the time comes. The last thing I said to my PS before rolling into surgery was.... Don't forget to Lipo and I want the new girls to be closer to the center. There was a wide space between the TE's....... Mission accomplished!

  • 2nd_time_around
    2nd_time_around Posts: 14,084
    edited February 2013

    Obxflygirl,



    Thanks for giving me the hope that all this pain, discomfort, and sleepless nights are worth it! So far, my PS and her staff have been thoroughly understanding, happy to answer questions, and make me as comfortable as possible. Was a bit disillusioned by my armpit roll but am learning I just need to be patient and take this one day at a time (and one day closer to exchange). Have only gotten great recommendations, so time to cool my jets.

  • sherry67
    sherry67 Posts: 370
    edited February 2013

    2Nd Time Around,

    I know all to well about the pain of the expanders ...I had mine since July 28th 2011...just had my exchange and the pain is gone except for a sm. amount of lymph edema to my radiated side but so far they look good..I'm no bigger than my expanders but much softer..still in the healing process ...patience is hard..because I had a lot of pain and tightness with the expanders ..good luck

  • mrenee68
    mrenee68 Posts: 48
    edited February 2013

    Hi everyone, just had my 1 month post exchange check up with my PS and unfortunately another surgery is in my near future. My IMF didn't hold and my implant is slipping down a bit. I also started PT and will be going for the next 4 weeks twice a week. Not sure if I have developed a frozen shoulder or not only time will tell. All in all I'm healing well and just hoping to get my shoulder working again before my next surgery.

    Hope everyone is healing well and moving forward!

  • hwhranch
    hwhranch Posts: 126
    edited February 2013

    Hey Cheryle E, I see you are in Fort Worth...I'm in Haslet, about 15 miles North of downtown.

  • cheryl_e
    cheryl_e Posts: 111
    edited February 2013

    Hwranch, I live right off of Heritage Trace near 35, so we are very close! I have great friends who live in Haslet off Bonds Ranch Road. When is your exchange surgery? We had our TE placement the same time. Mine is in three weeks from yesterday.

  • cheryl_e
    cheryl_e Posts: 111
    edited February 2013

    Also, who were/are your doctors, hwranch and what hospital?

  • Hopex3
    Hopex3 Posts: 142
    edited March 2013

    Onxflygirl...Good to hear your exchange was a success! And you had lipo too. I can't wait to have that little pouch taken care of. It drives me crazy! I won't be having my exchange until mid may. ugh! I'm already tired of these expanders. I don't know how some of you have them for a year. I guess you just get used to them. It's good to hear all your success stories!

  • CrystalAnn
    CrystalAnn Posts: 19
    edited March 2013

    Saw my PS for my two week exchange post-op. Steri strips on vertical incisions were taken off and incisions cleaned up. They look beautiful!! As my 18 year old daughter told me this morning, " you can barely see that you were cut there." I am in awe. The PS took poorly healed BMX incisions and made them pretty much unnoticeable. Thank you, thank you!!!

  • jill47
    jill47 Posts: 85
    edited March 2013

    mrenee:  I swear we need to start an "Exchange Trouble" thread like the TE's girls have. I'm so sorry you are headed back for surgery, what is your PS exactly going to do and when?

    I fortunately have positive report to post.  PS removed my incisions bandages yesterday and my incisions are 100% healed, all restrictions are removed!!  How did I celebrate? I laid on my belly for the first time in 7 months last night (less than a 1 min. though), felt very wierd and I'm going running after work today. PS is so pleased with how I look now that he actually grabbed the camera and took a bunch of photos (up to now only the nurses took pix!).  I don't see PS for 6 weeks, which is the longest gap in visits.  We'll discuss Phase 3; right nipple reduction and fat grafting for left breast (which is rippling on the outside b/c it's 50 less cc than righty), both done same time. Aiming for May.  Can anyone recommend a thread here for fat grafting?  Never had fat grafting before and want to know what I'm getting myself into. Jill

  • Carrol2
    Carrol2 Posts: 1,477
    edited March 2013

    Hope I had lipo at my exchange to the side under my armpits. It looks better but it's still fatty there. He said we could do more next time. He is also going to do some fat grafting to give me more upper pole. A part of my issue now is I gained a lot of weight , 30 pounds. So I have to get that off pronto.

  • Hopex3
    Hopex3 Posts: 142
    edited March 2013

    Thanks Carrol...I hear you on the weight! I too have 30 pounds that needs to go. I'm hoping by my exchange date in May, I can at least lose 5 pounds!

  • mamatwinz
    mamatwinz Posts: 193
    edited March 2013

    congrats jill..so exciting..can't wait to post once my exchange is done..just hanging around with my ol' TEs for now.. !

    Mrenee..sorry about need for further surgery..i guess good it was noted early for correction??!?  hang in there!  what is going on with shoulder..is this since exchange or issues before??  pain or probs with range of motion..or both??  PT can be painful for that as they stretch you, but can do wonders to help get you feeling better...thinking of you!!! :)

  • JennL
    JennL Posts: 17
    edited March 2013

    Hi Mrenee68, I had the same thing happen to me.  I had surgery Dec. 14th and within a week the left side (cancer side) dropped down.  PS said it was still in pocket but that the pocket had stretched.  I had my revision Feb. 22nd, he pulled it back into place and put about a dozen permanent stitches into the ribs and hopefully it will hold.  I go to see him on Tuesday (11 days post op) to get this awful tape off and hopefully everything will look good and I pray the right side stays put because I don't want to do this againSmile  What type of implants do you have?  Did he say how he is going to fix it?  The revision surgery isn't that painful, I didn't need pain meds.  Good luck!!!

  • CMartin
    CMartin Posts: 237
    edited March 2013

    Six months out from exchange and during massage found a small lump at the bottom where the chest muscle lifts. How do you keep from running to the doctor every time you find something different?

  • shellshine
    shellshine Posts: 930
    edited March 2013

    Cindy - you should call your doctor's office and ask for advice. It doesn't matter how often you contact them, that's their job, and you deserve to be well taken care of. 

  • sweetandspecial
    sweetandspecial Posts: 1,669
    edited March 2013

    OK.....Had a call from my BS office (she also does a lot of general surgery stuff) that it's time to schedule 'The PROCEDURE' ! (Colonoscopy)YellYellYellYell

    Egads!  I know I need to do it (I'm almost 52) but man oh man I couldn't help having immediate worry about what might be found and when I went home for lunch I got right online and started googling colo-rectal cancer symptoms, causes, risk factors (the only one I have is the BC thing), etc, etc, etc.  

    Tell me to STOP!  Deep breath, deep breath, deep breath.  This wouldn't have freaked me out six months ago but I've had butterflies in my stomach every time I think about it.

    Self-talk: "OK, you're a tad overweight but not too much, you work out, you run, you eat right (mostly), no family history (wasn't for BC either), you don't have any stomach, digestive or poopie problems. QUIT WORRYING!" 

    Whew....that feels better, thanks for letting me worry 'out loud'....lol

    Luv y'all

  • kestrelgurl
    kestrelgurl Posts: 116
    edited March 2013

    Cheryl & hwranch,

    I can't tell you how many times I rode my bike on Bonds Ranch Rd when I was living in DFW! Fun times!

  • tinat
    tinat Posts: 2,235
    edited March 2013

    Cindy - I've spent a lot of my post-exchange time having lumps checked out.  I asked my PS whom I should contact if I find something new and he said to call him first.  Scar tissue around stitches, etc. are the usual culprit, but I am happy that my docs don't want to assume.  A simple ultrasound usually answers the question.  Always best to check it out! 

    Best wishes!

  • tinat
    tinat Posts: 2,235
    edited March 2013

    sweetandspecial - After all we've been through, what's a little colonoscopy? :)  Really, the prep is the most unpleasant part, the exam itself is over before you (don't) know it as they use conscious sedation.  And, you can play the "what if / worst case scenario" game.  What if they do find something?  Chances are significantly in your favor that if you're not having symptoms it would be something like a polyp that you'll be thrilled to find before it becomes something worse.  It's not the most fun day you'll ever have, but you'll feel so good when it's done and over with!

    You can do this!

  • blessings2011
    blessings2011 Posts: 1,801
    edited March 2013

    Cindy - the day after I saw my MO (and she did a thorough physical exam) I found a significant hard lump above Righty's incision. I was totally freaked out and emailed her. 

    She emailed me back and said it was probably the filling port on my implant. Well, DUH! I guess I forgot about that part of having saline implants...I emailed the PS and he said the same thing, but to come in and let him examine me to be sure. Yep! It was the port!

    Call your doc! It's probably nothing significant, but Shellshine is right... it's their JOB to make sure you are taken care of. And wouldn't you like to just have the peace of mind? Wishing you only good results!

    sweetandspecial - Oooooh noooo! I ignored my PCPs instructions to go get a colonoscopy for so long, Kaiser finally sent me a fecal occult blood kit in the mail, so I could do it myself at home. I wonder how long that will keep them from bugging me again?

  • CMartin
    CMartin Posts: 237
    edited March 2013

    Thanks ladies!

  • shellshine
    shellshine Posts: 930
    edited March 2013

    Okay everyone, listen up: you go get your colonoscopies if you're due. They don't hurt, they are not embarrasing because you are heavily sedated. It is a screening test, like a mammogram, and if they find a polyp they take it out and send it to pathology. If it is a tubular adenoma (the kind that if you leave in too long can sometimes turn into colon cancer) then that means you  caught it before it caused any trouble.

    I had a 7mm tubular adenoma and I wasn't the least teeniest bit afraid, just glad I had it done. I am not going to tell you, oh heck, I guess I will, that I helped put together a colorectal screening program for the HMO I worked for, and I was the nurse practitioner running it for the first year, so you better listen to me and NOT BE SCARED!! 

  • summerm
    summerm Posts: 6
    edited March 2013

    Met with my PS for the first time since the Allergan 410s were FDA approved. He showed me the implant and we talked a bit more about them. He said I'm the ideal candidate for them.



    I scheduled my exchange surgery for April 10. I had originally said I wanted to go with implant volume of about 300cc because i disnt want to go very big, but the FF 410 only comes in 290 or 335.



    I had him fill me to 335 yesterday before I actually got to see the demo he had which was a 375. After seeing the 375, it didn't look very big at all so after thinking about it and talking to my PS and husband, I scheduled one last fill appointment for next Friday to put in the last 40cc.



    This I one of the hardest decisions I've eve had to make. One comment the nurse made yesterday helped me put things into perspective. She said 30cc is only 1oz (the size of the little medicine cups you use to give kids their medicine). That visual really helped because it made me more comfortable about going up 40cc. 40cc really isn't very much at all.



    Looking forward to just having this part over with, and then I have to decide when to have the oophorectomy. I'm only 34, but my gyn-oncologist thinks the sooner the better. Just not sure I want to start menopause in mid thirties.

  • RunnerMom
    RunnerMom Posts: 17
    edited March 2013

    summerm, I did the hyst/ooph a couple months after my year of chemotherapy.  I was 31.  While being shoved into full-blown menopause is no fun, I felt the surgery was the best decision for me in terms of 1) gyn risk and 2) getting rid of estrogen that was helping to feed my cancer.  

    I am now 3 years post-hyst/ooph and while there have been challenges (extremely dry skin-and everything else, hot flashes, mood swings), it hasn't been anything I couldn't handle.  My onco put me on a low-dose antidepressant to help with the hot flashes and whatever else and while it doesn't get rid of them completely, it really does help.  

    Best of luck to you with your exchange and upcoming surgeries/decisions.  I am 2-weeks post-exchange to Sientra teardrop shaped "gummies"...so far, LOVE THEM.  ((((hugs))))

  • hwhranch
    hwhranch Posts: 126
    edited March 2013

    Cheryle, the breast surgeon I used was Dr Clifford at Baylor Grapevine, he was just fantastic. He did the first mastectomy and lymph node removal in August 2011. He did the second mastectomy November 2012 with Dr Heistein, my plastic surgeon. My exchange was scheduled for March 22, but they called me last week with an opening for March 1st (yesterday) and I took it!! I am at home, do have some stiffness and slight pain but not bad. I have the Mentor Memory Gel implants. #350-4004BC Smooth round high profile on the left where I also have a lat flap, filled to 400cc. The right side has a MemoryGel #350-5480BC, smooth round ultra high profile, filled to 480cc.



    You are literally across the street, lol. Where did you have all your work done?

  • cheryl_e
    cheryl_e Posts: 111
    edited March 2013

    Hwranch, sooo glad all went well and that you are already posting!! Disregard my pm. I messaged you before I read this. Yes, I am just down the street from you. Dr. Heistein is also doing my exchange! Dr. Brian did my BMX, and he did my TE placement and fills. I love him! Message me if you need anything, and I hope we can meet for coffee or something soon!

  • hwhranch
    hwhranch Posts: 126
    edited March 2013

    My celebration has always been a piece of cheesecake, lol. I left you my phone number in the PM, lol. I read that first!!





    I'm trying to be really good so I will heal up quickly. Get to shower tonight, can take off the ace bandage but have to replace the gauze and leave on the sports bra they sent me home in. Will see Dr. Heistein Wednesday.

  • Estepp
    Estepp Posts: 2,966
    edited March 2013

    Hey ladies. ..I pop in every so often...to see if anyone needs a referral for a PS in Kansas or Missouri. ...PM me if you need help . :) Laura.

  • cheryl_e
    cheryl_e Posts: 111
    edited March 2013

    Hwranch, cheesecake sounds wonderful. Please tell Dr. Heistein hello for me on Wed! A friend I work with has her exchange with him Wed morning. :)