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  • BethCon1
    BethCon1 Posts: 77

    Well, I'm married with 2 kids.My daughter will be turning 13 the end of the month (I'm terrified!) and my son just turned 8 on the 11th.My husband and I have been together since we were 19 and will be celebrating our 10th wedding anniversary with a vow renewal this September.

    Last year I was playing on a roller derby team and having the time of my life until I felt a hardness (I wouldn't even really call it a lump) on my right breast. I thought it was hormones since I was getting my period, so I waited and it still didn't go away. I went to the doctor who tried to pass it off (You're only 32 and no family history!) but because there was obviously something in my breast she sent me for a mammogram. I really thought it was nothing. Noone in my family has had breast cancer, I never met anyone with breast cancer,I was totally clueless. When I got the mammogram I could see the nasty thing in my breast, it looked like something from a science fiction movie. They kept wanting to take more pictures and then they wanted an ultrasound. Once they did the ultrasound they had doctor/radiologist/whoever look it over and she came into the room and took my hand. I saw her lip was quivering and I knew before the words even came out of her mouth. She told me that normally she would never tell someone this, because I still needed a biopsy to confirm, but in her professional opinion what I had was cancer and to get ahold of my doctor and make them set me up with a surgeon ASAP. I don't really remember leaving the office that day, I kind of remember a nurse half carrying me out the door.

    Anyway, they tried to send me to the same surgeon that removed my gallbladder earlier that year (his speacialty! not bc!) for a general consult (not a biopsy) a month later. My sister is a nurse and she was having none of that.She got ahold of someone who specialized in bc and they squeezed me in a week later. Even he tried to tell me no worries that it was probably just an injury from derby, that I was young and with no family history it was unlikely to be cancer and he wanted to do his own ultrasound. Once he did that his face changed and he did a biopsy right away. I got the call when I was at work on July 10th telling me I had cancer. I am stage 3 and I had more than 5 tumors in me, the main one being over 6 cm at the time of my mastectomy.

    Since then it's been a rollercoaster of emotion, pain, sickness, etc, just like everyone else. AC was the absolute worse for me, I thought I was going to die. Taxol was ok except for the terrible leg pain. Radiation sucked. I'm still on herceptin and so far my heart is coping with it, I get cardiac ultrasounds every 3 months. I just started tamoxifen which is gross. No more roller derby for me, so I'm still trying to figure out what to do with my self. I use humor and sarcasm to get through my feelings, sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't lol.

  • ashla
    ashla Posts: 1,566

    Huge Supreme Court decision today on patenting of genes! Yippee!

  • LizA17
    LizA17 Posts: 102

    Could anyone tell me why some of us are treated with Adriamycin and some aren't even though we have about the exact diagnosis? I understand the adriamycin combined with herceptin is a little more hard on the heart. Is it just each doctor's preference?

  • Hi everyone!

    Chachamom and ang7894, glad you both enjoyed the video. It is as current as a video can be, lots of interesting info.

    Pbrain and Camillegal, thanks, as always for making me have a huge belly laugh as you compare your likely progress once you begin taking your individual drugs. Humour helps us go forward, that's for sure!!

    BethCon1, welcome to this forum.  You have already endured so much, yet like all of us, you are still here and still focusing your energies on getting well for yourself and for your loved ones.  I began Tamoxifen on Feb., 14, 2013, so I understand how you feel about it being "yucky," yet I am 50 and you are only a baby, 32.  I focus on the fact that my tumour  cells, when tested, were 100% positive for estrogen and progesterone receptors, so for me not to take Tamoxifen would by quite wreckless.  That being said, the hot flashes, moodiness and just generally not feeling at all  like my old self (really, how could any of us expect to feel like our "old" selves, only five months out from ending chemo, surgery, radiation and still receiving Herceptin) sometimes leave me feeling blue; however, when my two sons, 16 and 14, come through the door at the end of each day, so excited to see their Mom, well, that makes it all worthwhile. DH has also been so patient and understanding.  We are here to support you, Beth Con1Innocent

  • camillegal
    camillegal Posts: 15,710

    Oh Beth u'r so young to me that horrendous, but it sounds like u weathered thru the eye of the storm now for the rest. U must have so many feelings about this, but please be patient so many do well when things settle down. But to have small kids has to have been so ruff on u and still is going thru all this. I'm so sorry. There will be more help on how to handle all of this and many more ladies tohelp--I just don't know that much--other wise I would- My theories are all based on my findings--certainly not official--but eeryone is very caring here too, so I'm sure that will help. 

  • ashla
    ashla Posts: 1,566

    Keep forgetting to post this. IMHO relaxing music is very helpful spiritually, psychologically and even physically from Dx through the healing process.

    It is only recently that I found a particularly peaceful, inexpensive and very accessible place to find respite.

    Download free Pandora radio on the Internet and type in Yoga. A constant stream of relaxing music.

    Lots of other music available as well.

    Quiet rain . Green , green grass and trees . Birds twittering. A cup of tea and peaceful sounds. of quiet music .

    Namaste

    .

  • Pbrain
    Pbrain Posts: 773

    Liz, adriamycin is hard on the heart muscle (as opposed to vessels or valves) but only in some people.  It can cause permanent heart damage in a small percentage of women.  I opted out of it when my MO originally proposed it because my maternal grandmother died of heart failure, which is a disease of the heart muscle.  They don't give adriamycin and herceptin at the same time because both can be hard on the heart muscle. 

    Also, someone on here said that the adriamycin protocol is more common in certain US geographic regions.

    My MO then proposed taxotere and carboplatin with herceptin, which seems to be very common.  I had one round of that and ended up in the hospital for a week.  I was a sick puppy.  So he moved me to weekly taxol with herceptin which I tolerated and finished the 12-week regimine.  I don't think that is a real common approach, but I was getting radiation and hormone blockade, so I think he felt ok with it.  Lago has mentioned that the weekly treatment with Taxol isn't common because the oncologists aren't making as much money on me as the 3 week patients.  I do see that being there every week, I used up a lot more resources than most bi- or tri-weekly patients.

    There are some on this board who have done the 4 weeks of FEC and then 12 weekly taxols.  I think that approach is more common in later stage cancers?

    Hey everybody, where is Lee A?

  • ChickaD
    ChickaD Posts: 971

    Welcome Beth.....these woman are AWESOME on this board....



    Round #2 of chemo this week went ok but the se's are kicking in today...back to sleep soon....lost my hair in the shower today...sexy...lol ugh



    Chickiepooped

  • Trisha-Anne
    Trisha-Anne Posts: 1,661

    Hello all

    I don't post on here too often, but read a lot :-)

    Down here in Australia it is common for women who are +++ to get FEC and then either three weekly Taxotere or weekly Taxol.  Taxotere or Taxol seems to vary a bit from state to state.  It's not as common to get AC here.  I think the FEC-T combination is also pretty common in the UK

    I also had a pretty severe reaction to the Taxotere, but ended up only doing two of the three cycles and then stopped - I think it would have killed me if I'd gone on :-)  My onc was fairly happy for me to stop - he said I'd get more protection from the Herceptin.  Here in Australia you can only get Herceptin if you do chemo - and as it's completely paid for by our government, pretty much everyone does the chemo too.

    Trish

  • camillegal
    camillegal Posts: 15,710

    Oh ChickaD sorry about the Se's maybe they won't last as long.???

    Wow how u gals know what u got and how long just ravishes my mind--I know one chemo--only because I laughed at the name but I do remember other things about chemo and how long it took--weekly. LOL

    Ashla our comcast TV has clical music on it which I love to listen to (and if anyone's around me they love it too,cuz I don't sing) and over the years I have done that usually with a cool cloth over my head and eyes and just relax and do some meditating, but I've done this for years--but it's just my routine nothing in books but it is very unwinding and restful. So I agree with u;r HO--but remember who is agreeing with u.

  • moonflwr912
    moonflwr912 Posts: 5,945

    Welcome Beth, and Angie,not sure if I said that to you before! LOL. Cami, does your med center have a website for patients? If so, sometimes you can go to your history, or past appts and there is a list of meds given, even chemo and doses. Thats how I kept track. They just changed my site up a bit, now I have to learn it over again, but.I see the info is still there. Liz. There are a lot of reasons as to what the chemo is that they give. Some.of it seems to depend where they trained. Kind of random! LOL. They had to adjust my tch because I ended up in the hospital (hello Pbrain) LOL

    TO ALL ON THIS BOARD, MUCH LOVE!

  • ashla
    ashla Posts: 1,566

    Camille,

    I so agree with you about the music. I wish I had done more of it while in active treatment. The cool cloth would have been wonderful too!

  • camillegal
    camillegal Posts: 15,710

    Moon I do have a website for the hospital, bur I admit I tried it once and It didn't work for me--beside all my work was done at another hospital anyway. So....

    Ashla that's so cute, cuz as u know I always say I'm not good for medical but I'm good for relaxing and stress-freeing my mind--some people call it lazy OK, but I call it mental freedom--that's what has helped me more than anything and I do things on my own, LOL

  • shore1
    shore1 Posts: 591

    Ashla & Cami, Wish there was a "like" button on here! Totally agree with you on the music & have Pandora playing at work all day - Yoga and Spa channels - so relaxing.

  • lago
    lago Posts: 11,653

    BethCon it eventually does get better. I think it was about 2.5 years from diagnosis that I stopped feeling like a cancer patient granted by that point you'll probably resent being on Tamoxifen. I know I want off the Anastrozole (I call estrogen sucking drug or ESD). I hate these doctors that dismiss women because they are so young and have no history. No history only means you are at higher risk. It doesn't mean you are low risk. I too had no history. My lump was never felt either although I did have a dense area. I think those of us with dense tissue, it's not unusually not to feel the lump no matter how large it is. Mine was 6.5cm with the non invasive part.

    LizA17 Adriamycin has been around a long time and is a bit more effective.The Taxanes are newer. Both are valid treatments and both have thier own set of special SE. A friend of mine treated at my center had terrible neuropathy with taxotere. Her onc took her off that and did Adriamycin instead. She was only hormone positive.

    Pbrain I didn't put it quite that way Wink It is more time consuming to give Taxol weekly. Can you imagine if every breast cancer patient was treated weekly. I think all of our costs would go up because of the need for more chairs, nurses and doctors!

    ----------------

    Sorry not so active. Just busy with work trying to recruit for the ACS: Making Strides Against Breast Cancer event in Chicago. Just letting you gals know I'm still here.

  • bren58
    bren58 Posts: 688

    DH saw this bit of news yesterday about Myriad Genetics losing their patent rights for BRCA testing. Great news, and hopefully more labs will get in on the testing and the price will come own.

    http://abcnews.go.com/Politics/supreme-court-strikes-brca-gene-patent/story?id=19392299#.UbsWRutD3Hc

  • camillegal
    camillegal Posts: 15,710

    It's about time too.

    Where is eerybody? this is usually popping crazy--Either everyone is so busy or what???

  • tonlee
    tonlee Posts: 1,590

    Hi Ladies!  Just stopping in to make sure you're all still kickin' ;)

    So busy with my new nonprofit, but hoping to hit a moderate stride by mid-summer..instead of this non-stop hectic 16 hour day kinda pace!

    Loving it though.

    Hope you all are doing well!  Miss you.

  • specialk
    specialk Posts: 9,299

    tonlee - hi!  Glad to "see" you and also that you are out there getting it done!  Miss you too!

  • Shasha10
    Shasha10 Posts: 212

    Hi Bethcon1

    This is a great resource for info and support. Feel free to vent anytime. I must thank everyone again. I couldn't of survived the past 5 months of surgery and chemo without their input and support. I didn't post a lot but felt connected when I needed it.

    Ask any question. Best of luck.



    I'm off to visit my mom in Florida and tell her about my bc. I think that now I'm over chemo it will be easier for me. Good luck everyone





  • moonflwr912
    moonflwr912 Posts: 5,945

    Tonlee! Good to hear from you. I hope it gets better for you fast. Shasha, good luck on your trip. This board was a great support for me and still is. Much love to all.

  • cypher
    cypher Posts: 447

    cami, I knwo what you mean.  I've been busy so haven't checked it for awhile and I didn't have that much to read tocatch up!

    Beth - ugh!  That sounds harrowing.  Thank goodness you found that lump when you did.

    I have a really dumb tamox question.  I had a hysterectomy for fibroids, but still have my ovaries, so I wouldn't have a period whether I was in chemopause or not.  I'm on tamox.  Again, I can't tell if I'm getting my period ... is it bad if I did?  For various reasons I think I might be ovulating....

    otherwise - hi everyone!

  • lago
    lago Posts: 11,653

    cypher  you may be ovulating. My mom had a hysterectomy but they left one ovary. She went through menopause at 51… she got some hot flashes. Is ovulating bad? Ask your onc about this but this is exactly why you are on Tamoxifen and not on an AI

  • mckatherine
    mckatherine Posts: 180

    Beth - I'm 37 and have two young boys (5&7). No family history, BRCA negative. I found my lump but nothing showed up on my mammogram (other than calcifications on the magnified view). MRI showed 12 or so tumors.



    Heather - I had neoadjuvant chemo. I knew I was having a mastectomy either way, though. Originally, I was going to do a study so neoadjuvant was the only option. They wanted to track if the drugs were working! Ended up not being able to do the study, but stayed with chemo first before surgery. I understand your nervousness about the nodes - I've had the same thought - we won't know for sure if other nodes were involved or not. My MRI / PET showed only one involved node prior to chemo. My pre-op MRI was clear. I've read a lot about SNB false negative rates after neoadjuvant chemo, but can't find as much about ALND. Since I was node positive, they have to do ALND.

  • ashla
    ashla Posts: 1,566

    Good news.. "Osteoporosis Drug Stops Growth of Breast Cancer Cells, Even in Resistant Tumors, Study Suggests"

    http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2013/06/130615152341.htm

  • ashla
    ashla Posts: 1,566

    More good news...

    "We believe we have discovered why cancer spreads, say Scientists"

    http://www.dnaindia.com/health/1849054/report-we-believe-we-have-discovered-why-cancer-spreads-say-scientists

  • PatinMN
    PatinMN Posts: 784

    ashla - awesome links, especially the osteoporosis drug info since it would seem to be available very soon!  Thank you for keeping us informed.

  • lago
    lago Posts: 11,653

    Ashla thanks for the linkies

  • GrandmaV
    GrandmaV Posts: 1,045

    Ashla, Thanks.

  • marlene18
    marlene18 Posts: 48

    Good links Ashla, thanks. I have not heard of Pandora radio before but I just downloaded the app to my phone.

    I have my last rads appointment tomorrow and I'm alot more excited to be done than I expected. I think it's just that it's been such a time-suck for me more than anything - pretty much a 2-hour roundtrip ordeal every day. Let me get back to my life already...! :)