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Ang We are all praying for you. Please please call someone. We all really care for you.
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lAng u'd better be reading all of these messages. How can u possibly want to do this--u are an intelligent woman that knows everything wil be all right, U'r mind knows this. But emotionally u'r struggling and u know u need help. There is no answerif u do this, u don't want to hurt u'r DD or u'r fmiy no matter what the problems are. Problems can be solved but what u wnt to do solves nothing and hurt everybody, incuding us. Call u'r Dr. and tell them what u want to do and listen to them, they'll tell u WHAT to do--u need help Ang and u'r making a horrible mistake, And u'd better andswer us now.
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I have sent Ang my phone number. I'll let you all know if I hear from her. I also contacted the county sheriff where she lives. Given the info we have, they cannot do a well-check at her home.
Ang, please contact one of us. We have done all we can do. The sheriff said this was probably attention-seeking behavior... I don't think so, I think you are hurting terribly. We are so glad you have reached out to us, but none of us can truly reach back to you unless you reach back personally. We all pray that you are healthy and well.
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Ang
We are so concerned you're having these feelings. PLEASE, please seek immediate, professional assistance. You may call 911 (or, if not in the United States, the comparable emergency number in your country) or visit a hospital emergency room, or call the National Suicide Prevention Hotline at 800-273-TALK (800-273-8255).
As you can tell from the posts on the thread, so many members are concerned for you.
--(((Big Hugs)))
Your Mods
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6cats--Thank u for calling the sherriff, but I don't like their answer.
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Ang, we are all worried about you. That dark place you are in has a window and a door. But YOU have to take the step to open it. You have the strength to open one path you can open another. Just call somebody. Or dont. Just sit and let your mind blank. With the light of day peeking in that window perhaps you will want to reach for more light. We are waiting for you to call.
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camillegal -- I don't like the sheriff's answer either, but we've done what we can, the mods have posted appropriate numbers, and now it truly is up to Ang. I attempted suicide when I was much younger, I am thankful that I realized it was those who loved me who would probably find me... and I wasn't willing to put them through that -- I was told it was a cry for help and I always resented that. I was totally serious until I had the image of my younger brother trying to wake me. The phone was by the bed and by the time the emergency vehicles came, I could barely crawl. No, I was serious, but I was graced to realize that what I was doing wasn't fair to anyone around me.
I pray all is well...
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6cats I'm so sorry--when I hear anyone thinks like that to me it is so sad and I just empathize with that feeling. I'm so glad u failed --if that's what u want to call it---but u do get out of it and I pray Ang will do the right thing. That was so wonderful for u to call, I didn't even think like that--I hope she's reading our responses--Chit this is awful
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6cats I too am glad you are still here. That really dark place is something a lot of us have been to. I dont think that sheriff is thinking. We can feel Ang's pain. Thats why we are all trying so hard to reach out. We have done all we can. We are all still sending thoughts prayers and light to Ang. Hugs to all. Much love
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Moon I know, but she's not answering us at all.
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Cami, I know we have done all we can. She will make her decision. But I am still praying. And I hope Ang will reach out to someone so we know she is alright.
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Ang , I pray youre ok and called someone and got help !
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Ang,
I hope you're ok. I've just got off the flight to Dublin, and the first thing I did was log on to see if there was any news from you. Please let us know? We're all so worried about you0 -
Moon I do know that but not hearing from her is frightening.
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Yes it is. But there is NOTHING any of us can do that we havent already tried. Keep praying and forgive yourself for not being able to do more. Specialk said it well. That is a permanent solution to a temporary problem but we cannot do anything more. We all have to take a deep breath hope for the best and go on living with our own problems and JOYS.
Ang if you are reading, please take that step into life for the joy that is sometimes there. Today in my world the sun is shining so brightly even though its only 59 degrees! LOL
joy and pain = life. Sometimes pain is on top BUT joy ALWAYS follows. And yes, sometimes it takes a long time for it to appear but it does come. A lot of times in small ways like sunshine after a rainy cold day. Sometimes like a smile from a friend. But it DOES COME! MUCH LOVE, LIGHT AND PRAYERS.0 -
Ang-praying for you. Please call someone.
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Ang, I understand your feelings. I have been there. I'm glad I didn't kill myself.
Please know that it will get better. If you don't have anyone who can be with you, please consider 51-50ing yourself. A 51-50 is a psychiatric hold in which you stay in a mental health facility for 3 day. You are given support, understanding and a safe place. I have taken a friend in for her 51-50 because she was worried she would harm herself. She was so glad she did it
You may need a med adjustment.
I care about you and want you to feel better and out of this pain.
There is always hope.
Lizzie
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Does anyone know which tests find microscopic cells better?
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Ang....please don't do this to yourslef. Life is so precious!!!! Please!!!!! Please!!!!! Reply back to us. I pray to god every night for me to live a long life to be with my young kids. I pray for you right now.
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i just got on here. Ang, if you are reading this, just please remember that even if youre daughter is mad @ you, that WILL change, and just imagine how horrible she would feel if something happened to you. Take one pill if you must,for anxiety, or go ahead and have that cold beer, give yourself permission to cry. if you think you are all alone, we do care... we are your sisters in spirit and i hope you will continue to post here. something that might make you feel better, too is a site called postsecret. where people have been on that edge like you, and maybe you wont feel so all alone. just be brave, maybe go up to one of your neighbors doors, knock, and tell them you dont want to be alone right now. you may have a good listener, and might make a new friend. please. we do understand those dark thoughts, perhaps better than anyone, and all the knowledge you have garnered from this situation, has primed YOU to be of invaluable service, to the next frightened woman. would you contact one of us?
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Ang I hope you got some sleep. Please check in. Please.
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Hello ladies I'M here. I wound up taking 3 lorazapam pills and was chugging beer when I waited a little bit longer I was just going to do my 4th pill and my mom came and stopped me and yelled at me most of the day. She would not let me go to sleep. I had a friend call my husbands shop. I have literally cried from Friday to today my eyes are so swelled and my head hurts real bad but I am ok. Thank you all for your prayers and concerns, much love to all of you.
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This is such a sad situation we have no idea what's going on and we're just waiting for some good news from Ang.
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oh, ang. thankyou. so happy you are here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!much love to you.! how old are you? i am 53, i think! well, that is good that you cried, it can sometimes just really help, i swear! i still remember the longest cry i ever had after this one extremely good woman " gave me permission", i guess i thought it wasnt ok to, long before this diagnosis. just know, all you have to do is five minutes at a time. some days are just like that. i am sure youre family loves you, incredibly so, even if they dont exactly seem to know how to convey that. and they are probablly just as freaked out about you having bc, as you are. please just give yourself time. it is really all we have to give ourselves, that and kindness and compassion in equal measure that you would give a beloved friend. please continue checking in with us and let us know how you feel. rant & rave, if you must- we none of us are perfect at bein human, but i am sure your life has a purpose.
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Kath when did u hear from Ang. a PM???
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you have already done all the hard bits, treatment wise, and you have the "good kind" of cannotcer, at a very early stage, and just that in itself is worth rejoicing over. the daughter thing will change, over time, and you will have plenty!
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hi camille. no pm, i just had finished posting here and went to le thread n came back , n i saw her post! and yours! you know, there is a prayer i say, when i think of it or feel it, or rember to! it goes like this: Please thankyou please thank you plese thank you
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love
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Ang we are all here for you. Just take it one step at a time. It's ok to cry get it out of your system. Thinking about you and wishing you the best.
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Ang, so happy that you checked in and that you have family checking in on you. Please do call someone anyway and get some help. We have been to hell and back, and difficult family situations make it that much more challenging. In the meantime, we all felt very helpless here, not knowing if you were okay. I am sure I am not the only one checking in here to see how you are. Many hugs and prayers being sent your way.
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