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  • lago
    lago Posts: 11,653

    Chrissei29 you need to click on your name link. scroll down on that page and you can edit the different sections. If you want to edit treatments you need to click on the "treatment" tab near the top.

    I was wondering about camillegal also today. I noticed she does post on other threads.

  • debiann
    debiann Posts: 447

    Geewhiz, my 26 year old daughter has suffered with ovarian cysts since her teens and it is terrible! I hope this is a one time event for your daughter.

    My daughter recently had another cyst rupture and now, in addition to being on birth control pills, they added an estrogen pill. The pharmacist was shocked someone so young was perscribed estrogen. With my estrogen positive cancer this doesn't sit well with me or her. She's looking for a new gyno. Anyone else have experience with this? 


  • Thanks Lago! 

    Chrissie

  • bren58
    bren58 Posts: 688

    Geewhiz & Debiann, my daughter was in college and out of state when she wound up in the emergency room with what she thought was appendicitis. Turned out to be a ruptured cyst. She was then diagnosed with PCOS - Poly Cystic Ovary Syndrome when she came home and went to her gyno. She has been on birth control pills ever since. I too am concerned about that because of BC, but it seems that birth control pills are the only thing that helps PCOS.

  • geewhiz
    geewhiz Posts: 671

    DebiAnn and Bren...that is scary. I cannot imagine having to put a 15 yr old on hormones.

  • Mommato3
    Mommato3 Posts: 468

    I saw my MO this morning before the THP infusion.  We discussed my problems with sleep (or lack thereof).  Up until about two weeks ago I only had problems the night before and day of chemo from the steroids.  The last two weeks I've been struggling all week with sleep.  I'm waking up multiple times, like 6-8, and can't fall back asleep.  She did suggest melatonin.  There are others options but they are prescriptions and can cause addiction.  We can explore that option if this doesn't work and I feel like I can't make it until the end.  This is my 7th infusion.  Only 5 more to go!!

  • Mommato3
    Mommato3 Posts: 468

    I would love to get some feedback from you ladies about my hormone treatment.  I'll be starting in either Dec or Jan.  I know most of you are post menopausal, but you understand the seriousness of being triple positive.  My DH doesn't have any idea what would be best so I'm looking for help.  I'll be having this conversation with my MO in 3 weeks.  I've really been struggling with this for a while.  I'm scared that I'll make the wrong decision and this crap will come back!  If you were me...

    Age 42.  Very healthy (except BC), diet is fairly good, exercise will be increased to the recommended time of 2 1/2 - 3 hrs per week, and weight has always been good (except now with steroid use).  I have been experiencing perimenopausal symptoms for the last 2-3 years.  Now we all know we can experience those for quite a while so I may not be really close to menopause.  This is the reason my gyn has kept me on birth control, to help with symptoms.  The rest of my stats are below.

    My options are:  Tamox, O/s with Tamox, or o/s with AI.  

    I'm really worried about the Tamox.  I know the SOFT/TEXT trials will be out in Dec but I may have to start prior.  I already know o/s plus AI has a slightly higher benefit (I believe 4%).  Here's my thinking...do the o/s for 2-3 yrs, then get my bone scan to see if there has been any damage.  If so, switch over to Tamox.  If not, continue for another 2-3 yrs then switch to Tamox for another 5 yrs.  I figured treatment for osteoporosis would be easier to treat than mets.  I can always stop the AI if QOL becomes bad or my bones/heart seem to be struggling.  Help please?  

  • Mommato3
    Mommato3 Posts: 468

    Debian, I don't have any experience that would help your daughter.  I would be concerned though with giving hormones to your daughter knowing your history.  Did you have genetic testing done?  I believe the majority of BC is not due to genetics (at least what they are saying now) but it does put her at a slightly higher risk because of you.  I was told my daughter should start screening 10 yrs before my diagnosed age.  Definitely get a second opinion.  That seems to be the best advice for all treatment.  

  • lago
    lago Posts: 11,653

    Mommato3 have you discussed suppressing the ovaries with meds like Luprin and taking an AI with your MO? A friend of mine is doing that and she has less SE on Anastrozole than I did. She was  49 when she started that and was not having any perimenopausal symptoms.

  • Mommato3
    Mommato3 Posts: 468

    Lago, that is the discussion I will be having in 3 weeks with her.  She had made a comment, back in july when it saw her, about Tomax either with or without o/s.  She mentioned the SOFT/TEXT trials coming out in Dec to see if o/s was beneficial or just Tamox would be sufficient.  My last MO seemed to be ok with o/s plus AI as long as I was.  I'm just don't think I truly trust Tamox (for my stats).

  • ang7894
    ang7894 Posts: 427


    My mammogram came out Normal  Smile 

    Hope everyone is doing good.

  • lago
    lago Posts: 11,653

    Mommato3 my MO really hates Tamoxifen. When I was thinking of quitting Anastrozole she said if I wouldn't try Exemestane, Tamoxifen was better than nothing. She pushed the point I was high risk for recurrence. I went into chemopause and was tested for 5 months to be sure I stayed in it but I was older than you and given my family history the timing was about right. I think if I personally had a choice between Tamoxifen and an AI with Luprin I would choose the later. The SE of tamoxifen ( blood clots possible (although low) uterine cancer) seem much more serious than the ones on AI and AI seem to work a little better. 

    But that is what I would choose given my diagnosis and medical history.

  • bren58
    bren58 Posts: 688

    yay ang!

  • specialk
    specialk Posts: 9,299

    ang - excellent!

    momma - I think your plan of o/s and AI is good, with monitoring of heart/bones.  My fear with Tamoxifen is its effectiveness if you don't metabolize it well.  Have you had much in the way of chemopause SE?  That might be a clue of how you will handle the o/s and AI combo.

    rozem - sorry about the infection, hoping the antibiotics control it and things normalize.

    chrissie - welcome!  Taxotere is the culprit with nail issues - hard to say how your nails will do - some of have had ongoing issues with that, others resolved once they stopped the chemo portion, still others had issues because Herceptin can cause, or continue, nail problems.

    geewhiz - I had cysts at a young age, and my DD has had them too.  They were asymptomatic for the most part for me, until I had a big one that ruptured - thought it was my appendix too.  They are a nuisance!

  • ang7894
    ang7894 Posts: 427


    Thank you ladies.

  • lago
    lago Posts: 11,653

    Ang so what are you going to do to celebrate!

  • Mommato3
    Mommato3 Posts: 468

    Lago & Special, I too am worried about the effectiveness of Tamox.  The serious S/E seem to be higher with it too.  My last period was July 21st.  I haven't really noticed any S/E from chemo pause.  I do get warm occasionally (for the last few years though).  Not bad sweating but definitely warm enough that I'll need to fan myself.  This is one of the symptoms I had been discussing with my gyn.  It's probably been more frequent over the last couple months.  Not bad enough though to disrupt my life.  My plan right now is o/s like Lupron with an AI.  I figure if for some reason the S/E from the o/s get way too bad, I can switch.  But, I won't know unless I try.  My mom had a full hysterectomy at age 25 due to twisted ovaries so I don't know when she would have gone into menopause.  

  • efcjax
    efcjax Posts: 74

    Geewiz, my daughter had a teratoma the size of basketball when she was 10!  It completely took her left ovary.  We had gone to the doctor several times but he hadn't physically examined her.  She was a little chubby so no one saw it.  Then she came to me one day and said "Mommy, when I lay down, my tummy has a weird curve to it."  I remember so clearly (almost 12 years ago now) her laying down on the kitchen floor and showing me.  Nearly fainted.  The next day, she was in the hospital having surgery.  I was a little worried she'd have trouble conceiving with only one ovary, but at 21, she's about to have her third.  Crazy, huh?  

    Mommato3, I was still having regular periods at 50 when I was diagnosed.  Haven't had one since February.  Still, my MO said because I wasn't post menopausal, I'd need to do Tamoxifen.  I end radiation in about 2 weeks, then they'll want me to start.  She told me that AIs are only for post menopausal women.  

  • Mommato3
    Mommato3 Posts: 468

    Efcjax, you can take an AI premenopausal but you would need to suppress your ovaries with either Lupron or Zoladex to make you menopausal.  

  • lago
    lago Posts: 11,653

    efcjax I was 49 at diagnosis turned 50 two weeks PFC. My last period was 2 weeks before chemo started. It was a bit unorthodox to start me on AI but I'm glad my MO did. We both knew my cycles wouldn't come back.

    Mommato3 you know what you want to do. You have picked an option now move forward. Like you I was worreid about the effectiveness of Tamoxifen. They really don't know who isn't a good metabolizer of the drug. The test is not that reliable. 

  • rozem
    rozem Posts: 749

    momma. Same exact boat over here. I did do ova supp+tamox for about 1.5 years ( started after my periods returned one yr PFC)  i stopped in the summer to see if i was on menopause and lo and behold o just got a very short period. Im almost 46 and obviously no where near meno. Im going to call my onc and go back on the shots. Im waiting for SOFT/TEXT to be released but my onc is pushing for me to go on Femara. I probably will. I just had a bone density and all good. I wonder how long i can stay on these shots?  Years? 

    My onc is ok with Tamox but i think she feels the results will lean towards AI+ova suppression being the better combo but that the results probably wont be practice changing for all pre-menopausal women 

  • Mommato3
    Mommato3 Posts: 468

    Rozem, I'm not sure how long you stay on the shots.  I have read about some who were on them 5 yrs and others who were told by their MOs that they don't like more than 2-3 yrs.  So who knows.  You are now 3+ yrs out which is great.  My biggest concern is the first 2-3 yrs when recurrence is highest.  I assume I'll need a bone density scan to see where I'm at prior to starting.  Is your infection starting to heal?

  • camillegal
    camillegal Posts: 15,710

    Hi everyone, I've really been missing a lot, I'm sorry I can't really catch up--my computer was acting very PMSISH so I needed a couple of parts--Oh well

    I see there are some newbies that joined u will never be sorry u came here, there is so much comfort and knowledge u'll feel like u'r talking to a medical team and really feel better knowing others have or are going thru so many of the same things.

    My little job has been keeping me busy and u all know I can't type so it takes forever for me to do what another can do in no time/ I just saw my Onc and my bones are softer and electrolytes low and my thyroid has stopped again, but actually it's al good nothing severe. So I'm done for a couple of months with Drs. And my visit was usual, I was up at the front desk signing in and my pants fell down to my ankles and there were quite a few men and women there.  I did havde my trusty Depends on and I turned around and said welcome to my world, u got to share some of it. I pick up my pants and the worst part was I wasn't even embarrassed. And just sat down and picked up a magazine. And when I got into the office the nurses asked me if I was the one with my pants falling, cuz they figured it was me. I told them I'm rrunning out of routines when I come, after all I don't have a bunch of comedy writers in my home. They always seem to know these silly things. So for all the newbies I know nothing about cancer so I can't help u with any questions but I can make a fool of myself all the time.

    • I hope everyone who is going thru treatments are having them as gentle as possible, and u'r meds are kind to you and all the oldies but goodies are doing well My Joey is getting older but we still cuddle all the time and just talk about life, and he's learning (well that's the wrong word) to play the violin Oy Vey he sounds like a wounded anilmal pleading to let him die. it's awful, but we smile and say Atta boy.
    • Everyone take care and take u'r meds and pain meds to if u need them--Yes do Drugs.
  • linda505
    linda505 Posts: 395

    I really hate blood test results!!  They make me crazy and steal my happiness.  My liver enzymes were slightly improving until my bloodwork on 9/23 when they shoot up again and now all three are high  and not just a little high - like 4 - 5 times normal and now my platelets are low - they never went low during chemo - they are only a little low but still - it has been 4 months since my last chemo - why aren't these things returning to normal or at least not getting worse.  I didn't see my MO for my treatment on Tuesday so when I was given the blood results I asked the nurse about them and she said she has no idea but that the doctor signed off on them so he is not concerned.  UGHHH    Any ideas, suggestions ????

    I do not take any pain relievers  - no aspirin, tylenol nothing.  I take calcium, magnesium and Vit D, armidex and herceptin - that is it.

  • geewhiz
    geewhiz Posts: 671

    efcjax ---HOLY COW!!! Your poor daughter! Thank goodness it is fine now! And Special, yours too! What the heck causes this stuff? I was talking to my daughter and she pointed out we eat and live pretty clean. I hope we are staring down a long road of cysts for her. it's one thing for me to have health issues - it's gut wrenching to see a child, anyone's child, going through tough times.

    YAY ANG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    And on tamox...my onc says that studies to date dont show much of a difference in the effectiveness of tamox vs AI's. He pointed out that they used different starting points and a few other things in the study, but I dont really remember - I see him in a few weeks so I can ask again. I don't have huge side effects, other than its perhaps the cause of my knee not healing from meniscus surgery last year, but I cant be sure if its that or the fact that I headed towards 50 and play lots of tennis which is terrible for knees. And the hot flashes are constant...I just got used to them I suppose.

  • rozem
    rozem Posts: 749

    my infection is getting better. It didnt look as angry this AM :)

    Momma. Its a very very tough decision made even more difficult by how different each MOs opinion is on the matter. Try the shots and tamox first. At least the menopause is reversible. This will get you to the study results then you can make a more informed decision on switching to an AI. The issue is do we keep taking the shots so we can eventually turn the ovaries back on or is the estrogen always going to be our enemy in which case do we just remove them.  Ugh!!!!!  

    Just FYI i have never felt better or had as much energy as the few wks prior to me getting a period   It really saddens me that i have to get rid of the estrogen so early but you do what you gotta do 

  • lago
    lago Posts: 11,653

    Cami as usual you bring laughter. So glad to hear from you. Flashing depends is what the crowd will remember. Trust me they will not remember your face. So next time someone tells you that story just say "Yeah I remember that I was there too." You don't have to fess up it was you. Ironically American Dad had the episode where he shit in the pool. His coworkers as a prank work depends the next day.

  • Mommato3
    Mommato3 Posts: 468

    I love to read Camis posts.  They always make me smile.

    Linda, my liver numbers have stayed in the normal range so far so I can't give info with your chemo tx.  But my MIL had pancreatic cancer.  Her liver numbers got real high, went down, back up, down, up, for a while.  She has had plenty of scans (Cat/pet/MRI) and there wasn't any cancer.  Her MO just said the chemo she was on was tough on her liver.  It might just take some time for everything to even out.

    Geewhiz, it's good to see someone so far out that has taken Tamox.  I believe the trials showed a 4% difference between Tamox and AI.  It's not a big difference but for me it just might be.

    Rozem, I agree it's hard when different MOs have different ideas.  Getting the shots is a definite regardless of whether it's with Tamox or an AI.  I don't think I want my ovaries turned back on.  I'm 90% ER/PR positive so estrogen isn't my friend.  I figure since they are now recommending 10 yrs of Tamox that they are concerned about the estrogen we are producing.  Are you saying that if I do the shots and an AI that the menopause won't be reversed if I stop?  I assumed it was the same as shots + Tamox.  The shots are what is pushing me into menopause.  

    So I went and bought the melatonin yesterday.  My MO had initially prescribed 5mg but cancelled it because she said I'd still be tired the next day.  She said to take 1-2 mgs.  I took 2 mg last night and I still didn't sleep ALL night.  Is it because the steroids counteracted the melatonin?  Would I need to take more the night before and of my tx?  Maybe 2 mg will work tonight?  5 more to go!

  • linda505
    linda505 Posts: 395

    Mommato - I couldn't sleep with the steroids either - my MO told me I could take benedryl - that helped - ask about taking that at night at least during the steroid days.

  • Mommato3
    Mommato3 Posts: 468

    Benadryl doesn't make me sleepy.  I get it with my infusions.  I'm sleepy for about 10 mins and then I'm fine.  I've never been able to take NyQuil or Tylenol PM to help me sleep either.  I'm starting to think I'll be sleepless for the next 5 weeks. Sad